
Your college graduate's laziness is actually fear and indecision, not lack of motivation. Parents should model change themselves instead of pressuring their child. A 90-minute workshop on August 5 at 7 PM Eastern helps parents draft a living agreement to guide conversations.
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If you have a college grad at home right now, then this video is for you. Now, from the outside, it may look like your college grad is lazy, but let me assure you, that is not the case. And when you make that realization, that changes everything you do moving forward. So let me paint the picture. You knock on their door, it's 2 PM, maybe 3 PM, and they're still not up. You wake them up, they finally come downstairs, and you start having that conversation about, hey, have you applied for anything lately? What have you been moving forward on? And what happens? They go silent. But let me explain what's really happening to them in that moment. They're thinking of so many options and there's no way to sort through all of that. And every choice feels like the wrong one and it feels permanent. And what they fear most? Disappointing you. Now that's not laziness, that's fear. And when you put pressure on them, it's no wonder that it backfires. The moment you can see that clearly, everything changes because you stop pushing. You can start doing the one thing that opens them up. You going first. And when you show them that you're willing to change before you're asking anything of them, it makes all the difference. And that's what we can build on together. Wednesday, August 5th at 7:00 PM Eastern. It's a 90-minute live workshop, parents only. You'll walk out with the first draft of a living agreement that you can present to them and start the conversation. Now, this is only available for 25 people. So click the link below and I'll see you then.
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