A short YouTube Shorts motivational monologue by Francisco Javier Ortega (uploaded Nov 7, 2023). The speaker challenges viewers stuck after a breakup/divorce to stop blaming their ex, uses a mirror/reflection-on-phone metaphor to show the source of being "stuck," and urges personal responsibility and immediate decision to "get unstuck."
Let me ask you this question. Who's got you stuck? Who's got you stuck right now? No, it's not your ex. I want you to stare at this phone right now. You see that reflection? That's who's got you stuck. Nobody can keep you stuck. You decide when you get unstuck. And it happens in a moment. But you have to decide. The reason why you're stuck in depression is not because your ex left. The reason why you're stuck in self doubt and self pity. It's not because. Because your ex left. You're allowing that to happen. The biggest power move you can make is saying, no, it's nobody else. It is me. Because now you put the power in your hands to get yourself unstuck. Get unstuck today.
