A brief YouTube short monologue arguing that many men harm their own outcomes in divorce by offering material concessions and attempting to ‘buy’ reconciliation, which the speaker claims leads to severe negative consequences, including elevated suicide rates among divorced men.
Most men get screwed over not because their ex screwed them over, but because they themselves screwed them over. Be honest with me, men. How many of you are saying, I will give her the house, I will give her the cars? Because maybe, just maybe, you'll never say this out loud, but you're thinking it in your heart of hearts. Maybe if I do all these things, she'll see how good I am. She'll come back. She'll change her mind. Maybe. Maybe if I start showing up this way now, maybe if I give her everything now, she will recognize the change. Change that is happening in me. Let me tell you something, men. This level of manipulation is not going to get you the result that you want. It's going to screw you. It's going to screw you badly. This is why divorced men are leading suicide rates.
