Behavior is information, not the problem
3 Jun 2026 · 0 min

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Every behavior you see in yourself or others is information, not a problem. It points to skills you need to develop, how to approach them, and how you're currently caring for yourself.

Every behavior you see in yourself or others is information, not a problem. It points to skills you need to develop, how to approach them, and how you're currently caring for yourself.
All behavior, everything that we see, we notice, we are experiencing is simply information that points us in the direction of, huh, what skills do we need to build? How am I approaching them? How am I taking care of myself right now?

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