אולי אנחנו בכלל לא מתאימים? ד״ר גיל יוסף שחר (M.D) CategoryEducationPrivacy configurationPublicAu

In this brief Hebrew dialogue, Dr. Gil Joseph Shachar (M.D.) and a co‑speaker discuss a common marital anxiety: the fear that one has chosen the wrong partner. The co‑speaker shares a recurring question she hears from couples in her clinic—‘Did I make a mistake in choosing my spouse?’ She answers that, fundamentally, most couples are not inherently compatible because God created each individual with distinct brain structures, emotional make‑ups, and bodies. Compatibility, therefore, is not a pre‑existing condition but a goal that must be achieved through joint effort. Dr. Shachar embraces this view, suggesting that while partners may start out as mismatched, they can deliberately change together to become compatible, emphasizing mutual transformation as the path to a harmonious relationship.










