A speaker challenges the belief that your identity is defined by pain or suffering. They argue that repeating damaging labels about yourself becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, and ask who gave you permission to keep saying them. Breaking that cycle is how you reclaim control over your life.
what your name is going to be, but you were born with a name, and the name is called pain. How do you comfort someone every time they see you, they say, there comes pain. There's pain. There he is. Look at him. Was it with his suicidal self? He's worthless. There comes pain. Every time they see you, they see pain. They gave you the name, but who gave you permission to keep repeating the name daily?
