Hinesh Chauhan speaks directly to viewers, using a personal anecdote (cutting chili and rubbing eyes) to introduce a message: do not feel guilty or ashamed if a marriage ends. He encourages learning from failed relationships rather than self-blame, and asserts that roughly 50% of first marriages end in divorce, with higher rates for subsequent marriages.
Have you ever been cooking and chopping up a chili and then a couple minutes later, you rub your eyes, touch your nose, pick your nose, touch something that you shouldn't have in your body on your face, and it starts burning? Hopefully. Unless you're me, you only do that once, maybe twice in your life. Well, I was talking with a consulting client, not a coaching client today, and they had been married multiple times and presented it with a lot of guilt and shame. And. And for anyone out there that feels the same way, it's like you're divorced. Your marriage, your relationship, didn't work out, not a big deal as long as you learn from it and made the effort to understand how it came to be and learn from it. So if you haven't take the time to learn it and don't feel guilty about it, don't feel bad that your marriage didn't make it, it's okay. You're one of the many, because current divorce rate, first marriage, divorce rate, anything after that's much higher because people don't learn the rest of their lessons. So the first round is at 50%. 50%. So when you're standing at the altar, kids, half of you aren't going to make it.
