Jack Canfield traces three childhood wounds from ages 3-8 that shaped his unconscious limiting decisions about worthiness and vulnerability. After a recent workshop, he reclaimed those decisions and reports dramatic change. He offers a guided process he says helped 99.7% of a small beta group locate and heal their own limiting beliefs.
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99.7% of people he works with claim a miraculous experience.
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Hi there. I want to share something really important with you today. Maybe the most important message I've ever done, a video about. Every one of us. Somewhere in our life, we get stuck. There's something we're trying to manifest, something we want to do, some goal we want to achieve. And it keeps showing up year after year. We just don't seem to be able to do it. It might be a deep relationship that works. It might be decluttering your office, it might be making a certain amount of money. It might be getting book finished, whatever it is. There's some core wound that you experience as a child, usually between the ages of 3 and 8 years old, that is still running your life. Because during that moment of trauma, rejection, feeling like you were unloved, feeling like you weren't getting your needs met, you made a decision. And that decision became a limiting belief that usually is unconscious. You're not even aware you made it. And as a result of that, your life has been stuck. And I'm going to share with you to start with what I learned about myself, I just took a workshop very recently. It was a very deep dive into my own personal development. And I got in touch with three core wounds that here I was, 75 years old, and this was just several weeks ago, that what happened was I got in touch with three things that I decided when I was a child and kind of beginning to be like, you know, like 12, 13, 14 years old that still were running my life. Kind of shocking when you think about it, given how much success I've had. But I'm going to share those with you. Then I'm going to show you a technique. I'm going to talk about a technique that I'm going to give you free access to, to allow you to identify what some of those wounds are for you and how to release them. So in my own life, my first wound was when I was a baby. This was like in the DNA of me, pre verbal, when I would cry, my parents would put me in the car because my dad would not like to hear my crying. So out of the apartment, into the car. And my dad would want my mother to come back. And so I'd be in the car crying, no one answering. Whether I was hungry or needed my diaper changed or just needed to be held, wasn't happening. And the decision I made at that time was, I'm not worthy of love. I'm not worthy of love. If I was worthy of love, obviously my parents would respond to me, but they weren't. And As a child, we never think it's their fault, we think it's our fault. There's something wrong with me. And because I decided I wasn't worthy of love and I couldn't ask for what I want because when I did, no one responded. I then created several strategies for living my life that were in a very way, in a lot of ways, self destructive. Number one, if I can't get what I need, naturally I've got to manipulate for it. So I've got to prove I'm worthy. So I spent the entire life proving I'm worthy. When you write over 200 books, you think you can say to the world, am I worthy enough? Now? Written over 100 forewords to books, you know, offered thousands, literally thousands of radio and television shows. I have a resume that's 81 pages thick, all saying I'm worthy of love. I worked too hard, I traveled too much. I wasn't there for my wife, my second wife. And the reality was my kids didn't get the dad they needed because I was out proving to the world that I was worthy. And yet I was passing on that same wound to my children because they weren't getting the love they needed and could come up with the same decisions. Now, the third thing that happened, the second thing that happened to me was when I was about 9, 10 years old, I wanted to go to a movie. My dad didn't want me to go. I snuck out of the house, I went to the movie, he came and got me, took me home, and he literally whipped my butt with a hairbrush until it was like, red. And I refused to cry. I refused to give him the satisfaction that I was going to cry. And so I made a decision. You can't make me cry. And for about 60 plus years, I would never cry. And what did that mean? I. I was never vulnerable. I was never able to just be honest and admit that I was afraid, that I was lonely, that I was scared. And that means no intimacy in life. And so I had to really, really learn that that was killing me and was creating pressure in my body, tension in my body, tension in my jaw, tension in my shoulders and all that kind of stuff. And finally gave myself permission to cry. Now, the third thing was I got accused in school of doing something I didn't do. I was accused of stealing something. I didn't steal it. And I wanted my dad to come to the school and stand up, but he wouldn't do it. I was going to this private school that my rich aunt paid me to go to. My brother didn't get to go there. My dad was intimidated by that school because he was not of the upper class where all the doctors and lawyers sent their kids so he wouldn't stand up for me. And I made a decision I must not be worthy of standing up for. So I was not standing up for myself. I wasn't confronting people, I was afraid of confrontation. I wasn't the powerful man that I needed to be in my marriage, in my company and in the world. And those three things were keeping me from being a successful and happy and fulfilled as I wanted to be. Now reowning all that just in the last few weeks since I did it, my life is magically different. And so what I want to offer to you is a process that will allow you to achieve the same awarenesses and let go of those limiting beliefs and decisions you made and make a new decision that will allow you to be more empowered and more living in your heart. And I will guide you through this closed eye process starting with where you feel stuck and then we're going to take you through some body awareness and take you back to the earliest time that you can remember and you're going to actually find out where that decision was made and we're going to actually heal that decision and allow you to make a new decision. And it's so easy, but so powerful. 99.7% of all people that I do this with claim that they had a miraculous experience. I just did a little beta test of this thing with about 20 people two different times a couple weeks ago and everybody said it was one of the most powerful things they ever did or telling all their friends, telling Patty, Aubrey, telling me, sending me emails, et cetera. So this is available to you. It's a gift from me to you because I feel so excited to be living this new full hearted, powerful life that I'm living that I can't not share it with you. And I want to share it with you. So basically I would love you to just click on the link below, it'll take you to a page. It's really profound and powerful. So this is my gift to you.
