Jack Canfield teaches a T-chart exercise to find your ideal partner: list what you don't want in a relationship on the left side, then rewrite each as a positive quality on the right. Cross out the left column and focus only on what you do want.
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Hi there, I'm Jack Canfield, and today I want to share with you a simple technique that you can use to activate the Law of Attraction to help you find your perfect mate. In our romantic relationships, we tend to focus on the things we don't want in a partner, rather than the things that we do want. So give deep thought to what you want to create in your life. Consider the relationships in your life and focus on what you do want, not what you don't want. Get in touch with your inner truth, your authentic dreams, your goals, and your heartfelt desires, and honor these and own them without fear, shame or inhibition. Your dreams and desires are not subject to anyone else's approval. They're yours and yours alone. But you have to define them in order to achieve them. Your dreams and aspirations should serve to ignite the passion within you. And this passion will not only inspire you to achieve them and will also send a positive vibrational frequency out into the world. Naturally, through the Law of Attraction, the universe will respond accordingly. One effective way to activate the Law of Attraction in your love life is to create a dream list of your ideal relationship. Your dream list will be a comprehensive overview of your dreams, goals and desires. It will represent what you want to be, do, have and achieve and in all areas of your life, including relationships. Now, the first technique is the creation of a T chart. This type of chart is a very effective way to identify what you do want in your life by looking just briefly at all the things you don't want. So address one area or subject at a time, such as your career, your personal goals, or your relationships. And start by drawing a line right down the middle of a sheet of paper. Label the left column what I don't want and and the right column what I do want. For instance, within the relationship category of your life, you may want to focus on a topic such as my ideal romantic relationship. And start by writing down what you don't want in that area of your life in one column. And then in the other column, turn it around into an opposite statement, saying what it is that you do want. Begin to fill out your T chart. And if you don't want to partner with smokes, write that down on the left. And then write the opposite of that on the right side. A partner who lives a healthy lifestyle. If you want a partner who enjoys an active outdoor lifestyle, write that down on the right. When you've completed your list, go back and cross off everything on the don't want list on the left side of your chart. And from now on. Just use the right side of each list and stay focused on what you do want in your life and what you do want in that ideal relationship. There's no need to give any further attention or energy to the list of what you don't want. And by the way, the simple act of crossing out what you don't want is empowering in and of itself. I promise you it feels really good just to do that. Now. Completing this exercise will help activate the Law of Attraction in the relationships area of your life. And completing this also helps you realize what you want in an ideal mate. I want to leave you with a bit of homework to complete after you've done watching this video. Complete your own T chart for the relationships that you want to attract into your life. Then cross out what you don't want in your perfect mate and begin to stay focused only on what you do want. So was it easy or was it difficult to construct your dream list and why? So let me know in the comments and I'll be sure to follow up with you. So thank you for watching and remember, nothing will change for the better until you do. Now, if you found this video helpful, make sure you like it, share it with a friend who may need it, and subscribe to my channel. For more videos like this one, and for some additional resources on how to elevate your success and happiness, visit my website@jackcampfield.com.
