How to find that 1 Single important Goal in life- Power of Rewriting Goals
1 Feb 2024 · 18 min
Jagdish and others discuss how to identify your single most important life goal and rewrite it daily to stay focused. They share practical steps for clarity and prioritization, emphasizing that repetition and action transform goals from wishes into real change.
Writing goals is very important to become.
A 1 percentage successful people in this entire world. Writing, particularly one single important goal which is really important and priority for you is going to make the entire difference. Because we cannot achieve hundreds of goals at a time.
We are not robots or we are.
Not programmed like that.
Okay?
So we need to find out that one particular priority and we need to.
Focus our entire energy and attention and focus so that we really excel and achieve that.
Because even to achieve that, a lot.
Of people make a lot of problems in doing that. Okay, imagine if you have 5, 10, 20 different goals.
It becomes a hell a lot of problem. In one of the very important statistics.
It'S found that lack of clarity in.
Whatever is your single most important goal.
Is the reason for 90% of your success. More than 90%, I would say.
Okay, so people are not able to get that one single most clarity.
See you, you'll be fantasized with people like I want car. I want to get good, healthy, I want a good job, I want this, that. How do you really prioritize that one single goal? Right? You might have lot of things in your mind.
This particular podcast is going to give.
You science and clarity behind how you can exactly do it with the power of rewriting the goals.
Okay, so jump into this podcast.
I'll be explaining to you.
If you are new to this particular.
Podcast, go and subscribe me in Spotify and Apple and you will get a lot of notifications for the further episodes, whatever I'm recording.
Because this, this particular design for change.
Is not just giving you design clarifications and pain points and what is the creative designers really face problem, but it.
Also addresses in your overall well being.
Of your life how you can achieve your goals. One such podcast, this is really going to change your life because people don't know what is mean by writing goals and people don't know what is the single most important priority. My mentor Brian Tracy says clarity is a mother of success. If you're not able to clearly decide what you exactly want in your life.
No matter how much hard work you.
Do, no matter how much smart work you do, you're not going to achieve it.
Okay, so how do you really find.
That if you're in an office, if you're working in a creative field, you.
Will be lot of putting efforts and.
Your client interactions, your project, everything, right? If you're putting your entire energy in a wrong item which is needed, or a wrong priority which is not required, now what happens? It all goes in vain. Right?
Okay, so having Said that. First, let me tell you what is.
The way in which we think of being successful?
Okay?
A lot of people think I want to become success.
Success. I wanted to do this, I wanted to earn more money, I wanted to become healthy, I wanted to become a successful designer. 80% of the people are just dreamers, okay? They have just a desire, they have just a fantasy. And that's not going to happen. 20% of the people have goals, okay? Written goals.
Out of this, 20% of the people.
They read, I want car, I want money, I want this. That, out of which only 10 percentage and less than that percentage people have very single, specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, time bound goal. That's called smart.
Smart goals they call, okay, you need.
To know exactly how much amount of money you want. You need to know exactly when you want it, and you want to exactly know how much you want it. And the measure, relevancy, time, everything should be there.
Okay?
Out of this 10% of the people.
Only 1 or 2% of the people.
Really have a very good clarity on that one single goal.
Okay?
So Jagdish, how do I really find it?
See, right now I need to buy a car.
Right now I need a very good design job.
Right now I'm looking for a job. So right now I need a good.
Health or your priority in your life keeps changing, right?
So how do you really find which.
Is the single most important thing?
Because the big misconception, the second misconception.
I would say we are driven. We are driven by the society, we are driven by our environment. We are driven by the shiny object syndrome, okay? Which is called a shiny object syndrome. We just fall for distractions and colorful things and so much flashy things. Hey, this iPhone is good. Let me go and get it.
Hey, this particular car is good.
Let me go and get it. Hey, this particular headset is good.
I'll get it.
So we really invest in our money, which is not even needed for us.
Or we invest in something which is so high, we think it's so much.
High priority, but it's not. We really don't invest in the things which we really need it sometimes.
So how do you really understand this priority?
The only solution for this is, guys, first you need to buy a spiral book, okay? That is the very first step. So go and do it.
If you're doing this podcast as an.
Action point, then you will get a lot of benefit out of it, okay?
So buy a spiral diary.
Second is every single day, when you wake up, the very first thing which you will have to do is write your goals.
Okay?
10 goals.
What you wanted to achieve in next one year.
Okay?
Don't confuse much guys. Just one year starting from now, okay?
Today is February 1, 2024. And in February 2025, February 1, what.
You wanted to achieve.
Okay?
Remember that just 10 things. Don't write 20, 30 or don't write less.
Okay?
So the condition for this particular goals.
Is it should be there in the present tense.
Like you need to time travel to.
2025 and write like how do you write it in present tense? I own a house which is worth of 45 lakhs. I have a design job which is paying me 1 lakh per month. I own a car which is Maruti Suzuki Swift Desire, white color.
So how do you really write that? You need to time travel and write.
It in a present tense.
Okay?
Like let's say if you want to. If you want to quit smoking.
Don't write like I wanted to quit smoking before 2025. No, I am a non smoker now at 2025. That's it. That's how you write it.
It's very important to follow this condition.
People don't know how to even write goals.
Okay?
Okay.
So third important thing is make sure.
It is smart, format specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, time bound goals.
Okay?
So fourth important thing is the day two.
Like let's say if you're following the day one, the same process, day two is you need to turn back the page, whatever you've written yesterday and rewrite it freshly.
Okay? Don't see the first page. That's the rule. I'll tell you why. So the reason being I got you, I wanted to get you spiral notebook is you can turn your pages very easily.
So that you will not even mistakenly also go and see what has written yesterday.
Okay?
Jagdish, what happens if I write something new?
It's okay guys, write it.
What happens if I forget something yesterday? It's okay. That's the reason I'm asking you to write it down. Day two.
Okay, write 10 goals. Maybe you'll write less or maybe you'll write more.
Day three, okay, you'll write different goals. Again, don't refer to the day two. Day three. Day four.
Can I tell you something guys?
The moment if you start writing down.
This in every single day, different, different things.
The fourth important thing what you will notice is you will start seeing some.
Repeated goals happening in your pages.
Okay?
Like let's say if you wanted to.
Become a designer or maybe if you wanted to really get a health done.
Or if you wanted to really fix your relationship, maybe something is your big.
Priority which will keep repeating again and again.
That's the fourth important thing. The fifth important thing which you will have to observe is see the order.
In which you're writing.
See, like let's say you're the very.
First thing when you wake up and start writing.
First goal, what's your goal?
What's your second? What's your third?
What's your fourth, fifth, sixth, seven, eighth, ninth, ten. Look at this order, okay? The fourth important thing is, see the.
Repeated goals, highlight it later.
Fifth important, very important thing is make sure the order. This clearly signifies that you wanted that.
Particular goal to happen first.
Let's say if you want to get a laptop, that's your big priority.
Okay?
Don't worry about money, don't worry about resources, don't worry about will I get it or not in this topic.
Don't think anything, guys, okay?
Imagine you have all the resources in the world.
You're gonna get it in one year.
What you want.
Write it down.
Okay, so 10 things. So then and only you will know.
Exactly what you wanted in your life. You might be not taking action for it. You might be very scared, skeptical of getting, not getting.
Do this, guys.
This will magically change your life in a profounding way.
Because I've did it. I've talked to hundreds and hundreds of.
Students and people lives have changed instantly. Can I tell you some testimonial?
One of my student, he got results.
In just two months. He got 3x salary growth. His name is Caleb.
The other, other guy who got results.
Like he bought a house and he.
Set a goal for one year and.
Before that itself, he achieved that goal. One of my students, she achieved a.
Goal when somebody is not talking to.
Her in a relationship for years and.
She wrote a goal and that particular.
Person called her and then they reunited.
And she wanted to get a cycle. She got the cycle.
After writing her goals, she wanted to.
Talk to her father and she wrote that as a goal.
And that relationship again fixed up so lot many different, different things happened in terms of job, in terms of getting different, different things for your life, in terms of relationship. Goals are very powerful, guys.
When you see knowing about goals is.
Not the point, are you really having the clarity in that goals? That's the point.
That's why we are recording this podcast. Okay, so the sixth important thing is.
You need to now circle that particular activity after 21 days. When you did this, 21 days you.
Can see in the 22nd day very.
Clearly that one goal keeps coming in the first. What is that particular goal? What is that second important goal? What is the third important goal? Take this three and put it in a white sheet. After 21 days you need to do it.
Okay?
In these three important goals, just close.
Your eyes and think you have a magical wand in your hand.
Okay?
Like let's say. Like let's say you are a Harry Potter.
Okay?
Imagine you. I think you know Harry Potter, Dumbledore and all this magical school and everything, right?
So you have that magical wand with you.
Okay?
So you need to exactly do this.
Guys, then only it will happen.
So think out of the three goals, if one goal which has happened tonight.
Like let's say if you sleep and wake up in the morning, if that.
One goal happening, Jagdish tomorrow morning I.
Would be the most happiest person in the world. That will make the big difference in my life.
Out of the three goals, okay, it.
Could be goal one, it could be goal two, goal three or even you can take the 10 goals and check. No problem.
Okay, so the moment the why I told you top three goals, it keeps.
Repeating you every single day in the order of 1, 2, 3. So that's important.
Okay, so out of these three you will definitely have a problem to pick one. Okay, so what is the one single most goal?
How you want to pick up is close your eyes, think and imagine out.
Of just three goals if this particular second goal happens before tomorrow morning.
Like let's say if you wanted to earn 1 lakh per month to settle all your debts. If that is your single most thing, what you're thinking every single day. Jakdish, if tomorrow morning if I start earning 1 lakh per month, I would be the most happiest thing in the. I would be the happiest person in the world.
I will not think of anything. I'll be really, really superb.
To secure my family, to take care of my financial, to settle my debts and live a happy healthy life. That is your one single most priority.
Guys, okay, don't do this on day one. It's absolutely in what you call stupidity.
Okay?
Do it on the 22nd day. If you follow exactly, only you'll get the results.
Guys, if you ulta the ingredients of the process of cooking a pizza or a biryani.
But if you have all the ingredients. But if you ulta the process or.
If you change the order, what happens? You will never get biryani or you will never get a pizza.
Okay, so do this order.
Let me repeat you guys.
First is get a spiral notebook.
Second is write 10 goals in one year, present tense. Third is write it in a specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, time bound goals. Fourth is make sure you follow the.
Particular, what you call repeated goals. Check out that. Fifth is find out the order in.
Which you are writing. 1, 2, 3, 6.
Pick the top three goals.
And seventh is imagine the magic wander, magic wand which you have in your life. Which one goal, if you sleep and wake up if it happens, you will be the most happiest thing in the world. Okay, so and then that particular eighth step is the one goal which you wanted to really accomplish in the next one year. Now I'll tell you the next step. Okay, See, it's not completed. Listen to it. You need to have some patience.
Okay, so after this eighth step.
Ninth step is make that goal in a written present tense simple format. Okay?
It should not be like I want to become rich, I want to become designer. Don't write that. I hope you would have not done that.
Because smeart is a specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, time bound goals.
So make sure that goals you write.
It in a present tense and fit it in a visiting card size format.
Okay?
Write it down in your hands.
Okay?
Ninth step, after you take, after you.
Write it down, go to a color.
Printout shop and print it out and color laminate it. Put your name, the signature, write it down and pick a color lamination.
Okay?
Let's say even if water splashes, you should not, it should not be erasable.
Okay?
So take a color lamination print. Get 10 copies.
Okay?
Put all the copies like visiting card.
You need to first put it in your purse. Second is you need to put it in your bag. Third is you need to stick it opposite to your workspace.
Fourth is put it opposite to your home workspace. Fifth is put it in your bathroom.
Sixth is put it in your roof. Seventh is put it in your hall room. Hey Jagdish. What people will think of me? Nobody cares about you guys. Please go and do it.
Don't have this fear of judgment and all. Everybody has their own way to do and achieve their life. Nobody really cares. Don't think that somebody else will think something on you. If you don't do this, then your biggest problems will come and hit you.
Then you will feel even embarrassed than this.
Okay?
So make sure you splash it. Let's say if you want to reduce.
Weight of 10 kg in next three months, if that is your Big pressing goal you to want.
If doctor has said if you're not.
Reducing weight, you will definitely end up having huge, big problem which will make you go into a surgery. Do you think money is your priority? No.
Now health is your big priority. So you will know what is your.
Priority when you write this process.
Okay, so make it, make sure you.
Put it, put it, put it everywhere. So what happens now, Jagdish? If I do it the moment. If you fix on one thing, your mind consciously and subconsciously wanders and find out some circumstances, people, events, situations to bring that thing in front of you. And you know what, you will definitely achieve that goal. Whatever timeline you set.
How.
That's the science behind this. Don't ask me why. Hundreds of years people have researched this topic. Thousands of personality development trainers and huge, big top people like let's say Brian Tracy, Dr. Don Demartini and Blair Singer. These people have really, I seen all these courses and I've attended this programs.
And thousands and thousands of rupees have.
Spent to learn this particular technique. Guys, years of training I had in this. That's why I'm telling you it's a powerful thing. Don't think, just do it. Exactly. Whatever I said, I've learned from them.
Okay?
So if you're able to do it, guys, you know what? Like let's say you wanted to read.
50 books a year before next February.
That would be your goal.
Maybe you think you're writing it.
Okay, I'll tell you, you don't have any book now. You don't know how to read books, you don't know nothing. But you're really desirable and you're very clear out of this 10 goals.
This is the one priority goal. What you're getting now, what will happen is next day when you're scrolling your social media feed, when you are reading your newspaper, when you're seeing your YouTube, when you are talking to people, whenever.
You'Re doing anything randomly, if your particular scroll or social media, when you're going through, you'll find some information relating to.
This speed reading coaches or maybe you'll.
Find how to read books faster.
You'll find some blog, you'll find some.
Material, you'll find some article, you'll find some YouTube video, you'll find some shots. Somebody will tell something about it and you know, okay, this is what I exactly want.
Yeah, I've been looking for it.
Okay, so this guy is really helping.
People to read books faster.
Okay?
Like there is a coach called Manjunath.
In India who really does that if you want, you can join this program.
I've heard a very good feedback about.
Him and he's really an expert in doing that.
You'll find lot more things which is more attractable. See, I'm not taking Manjunath program because.
I. I am not really inclined towards reading that book.
Maybe if my priority is that I.
Would have taken an action.
So your inclination, your priority, your goal.
When you are setting this clearly, you will attract people, you will attract coaches.
You will attract people who can really help you. Let's say if you wanted to become.
Financially free in one year, you wanted to earn 50 lakhs rupees.
Okay?
The moment if you set that intention.
Clearly, you will start finding some coaching classes, you will start finding some investment strategies, you will start finding some good books or materials or strategies or, or.
Maybe even a business opportunity to earn.
That much of money. You will start your entire life changing in a profound different, different ways. Guys. That's why your life really explodes. My mentor exactly used this word. If you start writing goals every single day, rewrite, rewrite, rewrite. Your life not only changes in health, your life not only changes in wealth, your life not only changes in relationship, your life changes in all direction and it explodes like anything. Can I tell you something? People who are really a big believer in the world, they know exactly what they want in their life 1 percentage and less than people know exactly what they want in their life. And 99.9% of the people in the entire world works for them directly or indirectly to reach their goals. I repeat this, only 1% of the people really have a clear written, specific goals which they really wanted to focus. And 99% of the people directly or indirectly go and work for them to achieve their goals.
So what does it mean? If you're not having goals, then you will have to work with somebody who has goals. So are you ready to do that? So take out your spiral notebook, go.
And get it in your shop, take action and let me know in this podcast, how do you really change it? Because I wanted to hear from you.
Podcast is not just I'm talking, you need to also talk and write about what you think about in this podcast.
I'd be really happy to follow up with you me on my team, because we have a huge participant. So me or my team will definitely get back to you guys.
If you're a lucky winner, we'll be.
Giving you a special gift also because really reward people who write goals in a very specific way and achieve them. That's the very first thing for you to become success in your life. Whatever is told is a statistics, guys. It's a proven thing. One percentage and nine, 10% things.
Okay, so take action.
Because if your life really wants to change, listening and reading doesn't really change. Taking action will change your life.
Okay, so take action. And take action now. Thank you so much. We'll see you in an episode. We'll see you in another episode. Bye. Bye. See you.
Take care.