You keep breaking up with different people but having the same fights. The common denominator is you, not them. Real change comes from looking at your own patterns, not switching partners.
And this is why I like to say sometimes you have to break up with your pattern, not the person. How many times have you had a similar experience in a different relationship that was kind of what you went through before in the previous one? Who's the common denominator here, right? And that's not to blame or shame ourselves, but it's just to start to understand that if we want to be free, if we want to be liberated, we actually need to do the work within ourselves.
