Jess explains why you keep dating the same person over and over. The pattern isn't about them, it's an unresolved wound inside you. Break the cycle by doing the inner work, or you'll find yourself in the same relationship with someone new.
Sometimes you need to break up with the pattern and not the person. I'm Jess Conscious Relationship And Dating Coach for individuals and couples, and I support you in getting to the root of the patterns that are keeping you stuck so that you can have a new experience either with this person or the next person. And what a lot of people run into is at a certain point you realize, wow, I'm actually dating the same person in a different body. And the reason for this is because there's actually something within you that really wants to be looked at. And the best way for to teach us is to show us repeatedly, hi, this is what you need to look at right now. It's not to punish you. It's actually because life loves you so much that it wants you to be free. So it's really showing you, okay, there's a wound here. Are you willing to slow down and actually tend to the wound and care for the wound that keeps showing up in your external world, or it's going to keep showing up? Because it's really it's the time to do the work. And so you may— it may take what it takes for you to actually be willing to look at it. But when you are, it's a profound opportunity to heal. You don't want to leave the relationship or the dating situation too quickly before doing your work, right? Because then it's just going to likely pop up with the next person. So if there's enough here for you to actually continue to explore with this person, I would really suggest looking at what is the consistency that shows up with every person and who's the common denominator, not from a place of shame, but from a place of empowerment of if we know that something's going on with us and it keeps showing up, then we have the power to shift some things within us. Then the external world will reflect that back. So often doing the work will either transform the current relationship or it will elevate you to a place where you come together with someone and it's a different dynamic. If you're needing some support with this, I'd love to connect with you more. You can book a connection call at the link in my bio.
