A coach reflects on how a recent breakup triggered old abandonment wounds, then used it as an opportunity to examine subconscious patterns. They explain how core beliefs shape relationship struggles and describe their practice helping clients shift from toxic dynamics into healthier partnerships.
Hi guys, so I wanted to share with you a little bit about this blog entry that I wrote, Turning Your Struggle Into Your Strength. And you know, life happens and sometimes things happen and we don't have a whole lot of control over what happens, which as humans we don't like. But I have to say that anytime I've gone through challenge, adversity, pain in my life, when I choose to use it as a way to grow and really go within and uncover what's coming up for me, What are the beliefs that are surfacing? What's the pain that's coming up? And using it as a way to detox and heal, that is how I change my life and I change the circumstances in my life. So many of you know that I'm actually going through a breakup right now, and it's the last thing I wanted. It was very painful and it brought a lot of my past trauma to the surface, my abandonment wounds and things like that. And so I've decided, you know, after about 6 weeks that I have gone through, you know, the pain, the crying, the resisting, all of it, and now I'm ready to step into what is this showing me about me? What is here for me to learn? I know ultimately that I desire to have a partner for my life, and I know that I will, and whether it ends up being him or not, that can just be a bit of a distraction, you know? And ultimately our work is always within ourselves. So I would really invite you, if you're going through a challenge right now and you're feeling like you're struggling, reach out for support, number one. And number two, I would love to guide you to uncover what's the root of what you're experiencing. So what's the root cause of what's happening? Because a lot of the time, if not all the time, It's core beliefs that we have in our subconscious that are creating the very circumstances that we don't want. So this is the work that I do with my clients. I've seen absolute miracles, people going from, you know, dating unavailable people to being in toxic dynamics to choosing themselves and then ending up in the most beautiful, healthy relationships. So it's all possible. We just have to say yes to ourselves. And I'm saying yes to myself right now, and I invite you to do the same. So Message me if you're curious, and I'd love to connect with you.
