The family's black sheep is often a highly sensitive person who picks up on subtle energies others miss. Their emotional difficulty or ADD might be attunement to dysfunction, not pathology. They're there to break cycles and heal the family system, a demanding role that matters.
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and the black sheep is so highly sensitive that they can't not feel it. When you were younger, you may have not really known exactly what was happening, but you might have had challenges regulating yourself, or you might have had behavioral problems, or you might have been diagnosed with ADD. All of these things are really symptoms of someone who is actually dialed into energies that are more subtle and more nuanced, than most people can really access. And so a lot of times in these families, there's a certain system, there's a certain dysfunctional system, and the black sheep is the soul that actually comes into the family to shift the cycles and break and heal the cycles from the entire family lineage. So it is a really important role. It is also a big task.