Everyone has red flags, not just the people you're dating. Expecting perfection in a partner is unrealistic. The speaker argues for a more compassionate approach that accepts flaws rather than fleeing at the first sign of imperfection.
Everybody's gonna have red flags, okay? I'mā I don't like that narrative of the redā oh, they had a red flag. Yeah, everyone has a red flag. Welcome to being a human. Everyone probably has a few red flags. We can get a little cuckoo with all this stuff and think, oh my God, they have a red flag, and run in the opposite direction when really there is no perfect, okay? Everybody is a human.
