do you even want to lose weight?

Do you even want to lose weight? And I asked this question sincerely, because a lot of people are walking around under the delusion that they really want to lose weight, when in reality, they just wish that they'd lose weight. They wish that they'd wake up tomorrow and all of a sudden be motivated and start doing the things that help them lose weight. But they don't actually want to do that. And this distinction is crucial because it'll let you know where you're at. Because if you just wish it'll happen, then you'll keep looking for diets or medicines or surgeries that can just make it happen for you. But when you really want to lose weight, when you really want it to happen, then you'll start action.