using the "As-If" technique

The as if technique is one of the best ways to create personal change in your life. The beauty of being a human is that you can decide to be the person you want to be anytime that you choose to. And the best way to make that happen is to begin acting as if you were already that person. You start to speak as if you were that person, feel as if you were that person, act as if you were that person. And as you start to practice this, you develop the musculature, the thought patterns, the actions and habits of the person who you want to be, and next thing you know, you are that person. But it all begins in your mind, and it begins by knowing exactly who you want to be and starting to act like that person immediately.