SSP 089: Weekly Lesson - How To Get Anything You Want

Hey, what's going on, guys? It's Jordan Kanlis here, speaker, coach and founder of State Shifters. And you're listening to the State Shifters podcast, a show designed to help conscious achievers master their internal state and break free from the limiting patterns that are keeping them stuck. So you can live a life of passion, purpose and freedom. And on this podcast, you're going to receive everything you need to evolve physically, emotionally, spiritually. And you're going to be getting the tools, the strategies, the live coaching interviews, all, all from conscious creators who are also living their purpose and leaving their mark on the world. And really, it's my belief that we're all capable of greatness. And once we have the courage to own our pain and learn the lessons from our past, we can create a future built around our purpose. And my intention with this show is to really give you the resources you need to help to tap into your unique soul mission and really live life from a beautiful state of being. So with that being said, if you want more tools, resources or guidance in your journey, head head on over to stateshifters.com if you want to join my free Facebook community, you can click the link in the show description. And if you're interested in getting help from me or some mentoring, if you want to accelerate your evolution and move beyond these limiting patterns that are holding you back, feel free to drop me an email jordanstateshifters.com or you can head on over to the website stateshifters.com workwithme and we can tee up a call. So without further ado, guys, enjoy. Take a today's episode. Welcome to the State Shifters podcast, a show dedicated to helping you discover your true potential through connecting the mind, body and soul. Cooking Guys, I've just come in from my morning exercise. Steaming hot out here in Perth. I've got some morning sun, I've had a swim at the beach and I want to share a perspective with you very quickly. It's gonna be a quick perspective that I wanna share around how to get anything you want. Now, a lot of the coaching work that I'm doing with people, right, I'm gonna let you in a bit of an insight around my coaching process and what I take someone through. When I first jump on a call with someone, I do some coaching with them because it's such a powerful perspective shift when you realize that everything you want, you already have. Now, getting to that conclusion in my life was really what shifted everything. And the person or the leader who helped me get to that conclusion was Dr. Joe Dispenza. I discovered him about three and a half years ago when my first coach has introduced me to his content. I read all three of his books in the space of about three months. And then I went and seen him alive in person in Toronto and sat in the front row and was doing his meditations. And I noticed my life transform around me as I transformed from the inside. So a lot of my coaching process is around the embodiment of his teachings and then how to apply that and shifting your lens to see that energetically, everything you want already exists inside of you in the form of a frequency. The coaching process. Whoever you hire as a coach, that process is designed to, you just turn the dials on the inside so that you can allow that energy and frequency to transmute through you. Does that make sense? So the best place to start when going into wanting to achieve something, wanting to manifest something, wanting to create something in your life is you start off with, okay, this, this is where I am right now. This life, what I've created, this is where I am. This is what I have. This is the people I hang out with. If I want more. You kind of project yourself forward into the future and think, okay, one year from today, you know, what do I want to have? How's my life going to look? And a lot of the times when I ask this question to people, people don't think big enough. You know, that's the first, that's the first thing that I really would advise most people is to start thinking way bigger. We're like limit our capacity by just thinking small around what's possible. There's a great book that I will recommend. It's called the Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz. I read that book a number of years ago. It's called the Magic of Thinking Big. And that book just like helped to get me in the habit of thinking bigger. And such an important thing to adopt early on in your journey because you catch yourself just playing small, unknowingly thinking small. Like, if you think, what can I create in the next year or the next three years? And if you start to think, oh, you know, I just want to have enough, or I just want to have enough to get by, or, you know, I just, I just want to earn the same salary that I'm making now, but I just want to have a little bit more freedom. No, I want you to start thinking. I invite you to start thinking, how good can things get once you're able to adopt this philosophy that everything you want, you already have in the form of an energy or frequency, you realize you have untapped potential. Now, the only thing that's getting in the way of you actually seeing the external manifestation of you tapping into that energy is how quickly you can turn the dial internally. Okay? And I've thought about creating a post around why meditation alone is not enough and why I'm so big on an ongoing process that meditation just becomes the foundation for you to help create this within a deep meditation practice. You're opening up the channels for you to download the energy that you need. Once you come out of the meditation, that's when the real fun starts. Because then when the same people that trigger you, when the same environments that trigger you and you go out into the everyday world, how do you then respond to those triggers? Because that's what is the key determinant, that's the key factor in you being able to maintain a high state of energy, a high frequency state. Because I've realized in myself, and I'm sure you guys have done this as well, if you've meditated before, you do breath work. I'm sorry if that sound in the background is boggling. It's my washing. Started it this morning. Thought it'd be done by now. The key factor is you can sit in a meditation practice and do your breath work and tap into these states, tap into the 5D and feel the joy, the abundance, the love. But then we come out and we go back into our life and we realize, shit, man, things not going my way. Or we get upset by certain things. That is when the real work begins. Because the old you, the small you, the limited you would react, would go into victim mode. But now you've made a conscious decision that, hey, no, no, I'm gonna let go of this. I'm gonna choose to move in the direction of the new, expanded me. You create the foundation in the morning through your meditation practice, but then you're becoming aware of all the things in your life that upset you, all the things in your life that you're not happy about. Now, this is. This is all that's happening in it throughout a coaching process that when I work with people, I'm just shining the light on all the areas in their life where they may be holding on to energy. Okay? So if you reflect on that, where am I holding on to energy? So, you know, I thought about this when I was in my corporate job. I was started meditating and I started to realize that I wanted a better life. I wasn't happy with the life That I have. I wanted to travel, I wanted to have all these things. But I caught myself throughout the day holding on to resistance to my environment, to the people around me, to my work. This resistance was blocking me from receiving. It was blocking me from accessing the ideas, the opportunities, the inspiration to know what the next step was, the inspiration to get guidance from my intuition. We can't receive if we're holding on to all this weight, which is like dragging around all this weight from the past. It's cutting us off from accessing these elevated lighter states of emotions that once you get there and experience them on a consistent daily basis, you know, that's all you got to worry about. All you got to worry about is your internal state of being. Moment to moment. Everything else out there, life takes care of that. God takes care of that. Nature's got that covered. We just have to take care of what you feel. Moment to moment. It's so simple. It's so damn simple. And the process is not necessarily easy, but it's very simple. And what we often get caught up on is thinking. I got to figure out how to get out of my job and find my purpose or I got to figure out how to find my, my dream partner. But in reality, all you got to figure out is how can I tap into the emotional states that I expect to feel when those external things show up so that you've actually collapsed? The future, the future already exists inside of you in terms of an energy. And once that happens, you no longer need the new job, you no longer need the new partner. You, you're so topped up on love and gratitude for life that you're like a magnet. You just start receiving things, things start coming to you. You're just like, wow, this is, this is amazing. You start to celebrate all the things you already have. So every single day, my invitation, my suggestion is spend some time getting clear. If there's something you want on an external level, new opportunities, new houses, new income, new relationships, if there's something you want an external level, yet very, very laser sharp as to how are you going to feel? How am I going to feel Once I get these things, I go through an exercise where I'll write it on a piece of paper on the left. It's like the external things on the right, the internal things. What most people stop at is they don't do the internal things internally get very clear emotions such as joy, freedom, abundance, passion, enthusiasm, excitement, you know, like flow, ease or gratitude. Get internally clear on how you want to feel and then Set up a practice or set up a routine, a ritual where you do not end that routine or ritual until you've tapped into that frequency. For me, sometimes it's I close my eyes in a meditation and I. And I just feel. Quiet my mind down so I can get into my body, into my heart, and just fill up with energy, fill up with life. Do not get up from your practice until you've accessed that. If you're serious about creating your goals, if you're serious about creating this new life. From what I've just shared, you know that the life is already created on the inside. So you just make that the number one priority. Do not get up from your inner practice until you felt these elevated emotions. Once you feel like you've tapped into them, once you feel like you've accessed an elevated state of being, you can then get up and enter your day. The next thing after that is you just bring the awareness to all the things in your day where you feel like you're leaking energy. Where am I leaking energy? I'm complaining about that traffic pisses me off. That person at work annoys me. What that actually is is life trying to show you, hey, there's something inside of you that you're trying to ignore. And the best example of it is in relationships. If people upset us in relationships and we're constantly complaining about the other person, we are projecting outward a part of us that we don't look at. So anger becomes. Or anger or blame becomes this part of our minds that's trying to distract us from actually feeling a part of ourself that doesn't feel good enough, doesn't feel love, doesn't feel worthy, doesn't feel seen. So every little upset, every little trigger in your life is actually the portal for you to discover where there's more likeness. A portal for you to discover where there's more love available. Right? Love, abundance, wholeness, gratitude available. There's more portals available in the upsets. So if you're going through a down. If you're going through a period of time in life right now where you just feel like you get smacked with all these things, that's actually the greatest opportunity because the largest portals are starting to open up. You know what I mean? So a lot of. A lot of people will think, fuck, I'm going through. I'm going through a dip. I'm not. I'm not creating, I'm struggling right now. Things aren't happening. That's actually the most exciting time because things are happening. If you're going through challenges. If you're going through internal battles, that. That. That's where the foundations are being built. Because on the other side of that is new like this. All new clarity, all new energy. So what often happens once you engage in this process and you get clear on, okay, these are the external things that I want to create, these are the internal emotions I want to feel. And you start to consciously decide through intention that I want to move in this direction. Life will pull the things out of you that need to be removed so that your future can come. Real life will pull the things out in forms that don't sometimes show up in a way that we imagine in terms of. That will never show up in a way that we imagine. But sometimes it's in, like a negative situation. Sometimes it's in something that happens that we don't. We think it's a bad thing. Oh, man, fuck, I just got fired for my job. Or that person just broke up with me, or, damn, I crashed my car like shit, I've got to pay this bill. It's actually life testing you so that you can move beyond an old part of you that it's playing small, man. It's powerful. Life will show you all the ways that you're playing small. And it's up to us to decide, are we ready? Are we ready to feel? Are we ready to just, like, say, hey, I'm no longer playing small in this area. I'm playing a big game, right? So everyone is on here if you're ready to play a big game. It's just literally about deciding. I'm no longer going to settle for this. I'm no longer going to keep avoiding this area. I'm no longer going to keep complaining about the excuses why I can't take action. You just nip it in the bud, say, no, done. I'm going to. I'm going to just press go. And whatever negative feelings come up throughout that action is going to be the catalyst, is going to be the fuel, is going to create the springboard for. For the next expansion. So I get excited when I talk about this because it is so powerful, because it is so simple. Once you can cultivate the courage, once. Once you can kind of tap into a reason for wanting to get uncomfortable. You know, that's really the core of all of this, right? Everything that we do to create something new is going to require an element of discomfort. So if you're prepared to get uncomfortable, if you're ready to get uncomfortable, everything you want is about to be created if you want to stay in the comfort zone, you'll keep achieving to the same level you're achieving now. So now, with that being said, I'm gonna keep this pretty brief today, guys. So last week I recorded a workshop, a free workshop that I shared with you guys around how to build a stronger relationship with yourself. And some of the foundations that I covered in our workshop were the tools and the strategies and the insights to support you into being. Being able to move through the discomfort with more ease and flow so that when you hit up against resistance, you don't default back into old patterns. Now, for anyone who's listening or watching this, you know, I brought a lot of energy to that workshop, and I would like to get it out to as many people as possible because I know there's a lot of value in there. And if you have not seen that workshop yet, send me a dm or if you're listening to this on the podcast after, email me. Jordanastateshifters.com Send me a DM or just email me and I'll send you the replay for that workshop. I know it's going to serve you in this journey if what you've just listened to resonated. So that's my request. Check out the workshop, because I brought a lot of energy to that that I would like you guys to get access to. But from what I shared today, I know this will be the catalyst. I know this will be the springboard, because it is very simple. Okay? It just requires courage to get uncomfortable, courage to keep moving forward with purpose. The courage only shows up when you have a strong reason why you want to do what you do, you know? So once you're fed up with what you've got, that is usually the catalyst. You go, I'm ready. I'm done with this, like playing small shit. I'm ready to go. Okay, so I'm big on, yes, slow things down. Get clear on what it is that you want to feel. Get. Get really clear on how to access those feelings. But once you come out of your meditation of your or your inner process, it is then time to take relentless action. Just be relentless. And I'm, you know, in a spiritual community, people will sometimes talk about you just like mana, law of attraction, man will come to you. It will come to you while you're taking inspired action. It will come to you when you're getting really uncomfortable and just taking things that, you know, you've been avoiding from a place of higher guidance. So this is like. This is like sweet balance Here, you know, we don't dance around avoiding discomfort. It's a necessary step. So to wrap things up, guys, thank you for everyone who's joined me on here. It's always, it's always fun downloading and sharing information with you guys. So it makes this process so enjoyable is to see other people actually receiving it and actually implementing it. So again, if there's anything you took from today's live or anything you downloaded or got an insight on or you know, there's an action you've been delaying taking that you're now ready to take, send me a dm, like, just, just drop me a message, tell me what insight you had so I know you know, you've. You've received something, you'll keep taking action. I love it. And hit me up about the workshop. If you haven't seen that yet, I'll send it to you for free. I'm more than happy to get that out to more people. So, guys, thanks, thanks for joining me on the live and I'll, I'm going to keep these coming because I'm feeling very inspired. So take care. Have an amazing Tuesday or Monday evening, wherever you are. We'll talk to you soon. Peace. Hey, there we have it, guys. Thanks so much for listening to this episode. And yeah, look, if you made it this far, cool. Here's my voice again in your ear and I'm gonna make one more request for you is go ahead and subscribe and leave a comment on the podcast page because I'm really putting a lot of focus and attention on getting this podcast out to more people because I know what I'm putting in here can serve and bring value to people and it would mean a lot if you got value from this to leave some feedback and subscribe. So you stay up to date with what's coming up and as always, follow me on Instagram and love hearing from you. 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