Growth always hurts. The speaker compares it to childhood growing-pains leg cramps: your body expands, it aches. Same with careers, skills, relationships. Expect turbulence. Discomfort means you're expanding, not failing.
Right? Even doing anything, like, this literally applies to anything and everything. Doing something completely brand new, starting a new career. It's never gonna be like, oh, sunshine and rainbows. It's going to be discomfort because it's a, it's an expansion of a version of yourself that you've never been. You've never been, even when we're kids and we're growing up, I remember, because I'm tall, and I don't know if it's I'm tall too. Yeah, I'm, I'm 5'9". I'm 5'10". A lot of similarities, Joy. So I don't know if you, you remember, but I remember when I was growing up, my legs at night were hurting so much. Yes. Yes. I couldn't sleep. Yeah. No, they were bad. Yeah. Yeah. And that's discomfort because as this little body, we're growing up and we're, we're, we're changing. We're, This is what I mean. This is what I mean. That's what I'm trying to say also in relationship, especially in healthy relationship. People need to understand it's not going to be fucking buttery smooth.
