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You're not showing love by absorbing pain for someone who gives nothing back. That's not love, that's breadcrumbs while you cook Thanksgiving dinner. Real love honors yourself and doesn't demand sacrifice.
You're not showing love by absorbing pain for someone who gives nothing back. That's not love, that's breadcrumbs while you cook Thanksgiving dinner. Real love honors yourself and doesn't demand sacrifice.
You take the pain because that is love. And then it's like, this don't feel very loving. No. I'm, I don't, I'm not getting anything back. Or the one, I feel like I'm getting breadcrumbs when I'm making this whole fucking Thanksgiving dinner. So it was like, let's, let's throw that lens away. That's not love. Now I gotta figure out what it is and, and feel into it. And it has a completely different energy. Right? It's obviously more beautiful and it's less self-sacrificing very much because it's honoring itself.
