Stop Trying To Pin A Baby On My Boyfriend, He's Not The Father! | KARAMO

You said, man, you said. Stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it. You know you lying.

Madison called the show because she claims her boyfriend's ex, Nyisha, is trying to pin a baby on him. Take a listen to this.

Hey, Karamo, I need your help. There's this girl that's trying to pin a baby on my boyfriend and I'm just so sick of the whole situation. She's always coming and banging on my door late as hell at night trying to drop her baby off and be like, watch her while I run here, watch her while I run there. But then the next minute she's trying to fight me out in the parking lot, always starting shit, always running her mouth out her window. Like, it's just, I'm so sick of the whole situation. This is, it's, that is not his baby. And like, I almost guarantee, like, I guarantee it's not his baby. And I'm just ready to get this situation handled and over with, please.

Hmm, well, she had a lot to say. Let's see what Nyisha has to say about this. Nyisha, how are you doing, first of all?

First off, I'm not harassing her. Second of all, I could, I have every right to bang on their door. That's my child we're talking about.

Mm-hmm.

Okay? He has not stepped up in 2 years outta the 5 that she's been born. He has not stepped up outta the 2.

Yeah.

She has manipulated him to think that this is not his kid. We lived together 3 outta the 5 years, so how can this not be your kid?

I listen to language. You said you bang on her door. Does that mean you're trying to fight her?

No, I'm trying to get my kid to see her dad like she's asking.

Okay.

My kid cries for her dad. My kid asks me and begs me to call her dad and he don't answer. They don't answer. I can hear them in the house with their phones ringing, not answering the door.

And do you believe that he is actually the father?

Yes, in my heart, yes. I feel that he's the father.

Okay. So then what happened if he was the one that raised her for 3 years? How does this switch all of a sudden?

I know when my man is cheating. I'm a female. I know when my man is cheating, okay? And if you wanna lie, two can play that game.

You get to me every time.

Two can play that game.

Okay. And I was messing with another guy 'cause he was messing with Madison, so.

So are there other possible fathers in this situation?

Yeah, my boyfriend could be a possibility too.

Okay, okay. Are you harassing him and his girlfriend in any way?

How can I be harassing and I got your kid?

Mm.

You was there for 3 years and then the last 2 you don't wanna be there. How do you think that makes my kid feel? I don't wanna sit there and listen to my kid cry for her dad and you're not answering the phone.

Yeah.

And we live in the same apartment complex.

Yeah, yeah. With you living in the same apartment complex, does he see her at all?

Nope. He don't knock on my door, he don't call me, he don't do none of that.

So how does your daughter feel about knowing that her dad is in the same apartment complex?

She cries. It's been nights where she's been up all night crying for her dad.

It makes sense.

Yeah.

You're one floor, two floors up and I can't see you.

Yeah, it don't make no sense.

Who does she call dad?

My boyfriend.

She calls your boyfriend dad?

Mm-hmm.

Mm, okay. There's a lot happening in this situation.

Yes, sir.

So who do you think, knowing that— Reggie. Okay, Reggie. I didn't get the question out. She said, Reggie. All right, clear, I got it. So you believe that Reggie is the father?

Yes.

What makes you so certain?

'Cause I was with him majority of the time.

Yeah. What do you say to Reggie when you see him?

I told him that he's a deadbeat. I told him he needs to grow up and be a man.

Be a man. So where did this doubt come from with Reggie?

His girlfriend Madison.

Fully?

Yes, sincerely.

You don't think it's anything about your relationship with James that could have caused that doubt?

No, 'cause that—

You think it's all her?

It's that bitch.

Oh, okay. Got it. Well, Madison says you're trying to pin a kid on Reggie, and I actually do wanna see what she has to say all about this. So everyone, let's meet Madison.

She not coming out?

She won't come out? She's not coming out.

Of course.

Let me go try to get her. You said what?

I said, of course.

Of course?

Yeah.

Is this because of—

She does this at the house. This is what they do at the apartment. They don't come out.

Oh, okay. Dang, okay. Well, let me go try to get her real quick. Madison?

I'm not coming out there. I'm not doing it. I'm not coming out there just so I can get my ass beat on television.

She said that she doesn't feel like she's gonna fight you. I just wanna make sure I hear your side. Why don't you wanna come out? You think she's just gonna fight you?

Yeah.

Like, she's been coming to my door at my apartment. Like, she's steadily, like, always been trying to fight me at, like—

So this— so you feel like this is what she does at the apartment, so you're nervous?

Yeah.

Like, I'm not trying to— This is a safe enough space for you to come out.

No. Madison, come out here, come on stage.

No.

You done called the show, you done brought me out here, you done brought my daughter into it, come on.

Madison, I just need to know one thing if you're not gonna come out. Why are you so sure that this is not Reggie's child?

I don't think they look anything alike.

Okay, so it's the look.

It's the look, but they look exactly alike.

Got it, okay.

They look alike, they talk alike.

Madison, if you change your mind, the stage is open to you because I do wanna hear your side.

Okay.

Why does she have this irrational fear that you gonna fight her?

If I wanna fight you, I'm gonna tell you I wanna fight.

Yeah.

But I'm not gonna fight over a man that I don't care about no more.

Yes.

I'm just here for my kid.

Yeah, that's it. I get it. Well, since we couldn't meet Madison, let's go ahead and meet Reggie to get his side of the story. So everyone, welcome Reggie to the show.

No.

Stop lying. Stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it. You know you lying. 3, 4 years.

3 years?

Together. Day in and day out. I was in love with you and I took care of that baby for 3 years. I took care of that baby back and forth to work. What about the last 2? What about the messages I found in the phone? What about the messages? It don't matter. What about Jerry? It don't matter.

All these other guys.

It don't matter. It don't matter. It don't matter. Yeah, you knocking on my door day and night. I'm tired. I'm tired. I wanna be left alone. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. Don't act like I ain't never find no messages.

I'm sorry.

How you doing?

I'm sorry.

Okay, come on.

Take a seat for me.

Take a seat.

Take a seat.

I gotta ask you, because I hear you say you were there for three years. You say you did a lot for this child. Where's this anger coming from?

Man, honestly, I was in love with the girl. She started off as my best friend. We built a real bond, trusting relationship, I thought. Then one day I just went through the phone while she was asleep. I ain't gonna lie. And then I caught the messages. I didn't know the number 'cause she didn't have the number saved, but I just see how she was flirting around. I wanna see you tonight. Let's meet up. He don't get off work until 8. Like, come on, what's all of that?

What's all of this doing with Madison? You was going— Who cares about Madison?

You need to leave her alone.

No, I'm not saying anything. I'm trying to make you man up and take care of your kid. What type of female be with a man and don't make them take care of their kid?

Well, I wanna make sure because we gonna get to the kid, but I understand now the aggression because your heart got broken.

Yes.

Even through the heartbreak, you were there for the first 3 years.

Yes, sir.

Yes. And why did you make that decision to be there for the first 3 years? 'Cause you believed this was your child.

Yes, I thought it was my baby. She had me convinced. Literally, I was there. Then like, what's up with James?

Don't worry about him.

He's doing what y'all not doing.

And James is the person you said could possibly be the child's father?

Yeah.

Okay, so again, your aggression makes sense to me 'cause I can understand from your point of view of like, I'm there, I loved you, I wanna be there for my child, and all of a sudden I found out you're sleeping with somebody in our complex.

What you think I'm gonna do, Karamo? You think I'm gonna sit around and be dumb? No, I'm gonna go and move forward with my life.

Yeah. Have you seen this little girl since you broke up?

Yes.

Okay, you've seen her.

Don't listen to them lies. The little girl see me, Daddy, Daddy. But truth be told, she calling me and the other man Daddy.

You did say that your daughter calls James father too.

Yes, she does.

So how do you think that's gonna make him feel knowing that your daughter's calling both of them Dad?

If he was there, she wouldn't have to call both of them dad.

In reality, that confuses a child. I'm not here to play games. I'm here to find out the truth.

Okay.

So if it is mine, I can be the man that I need to be.

Got it. So I'm gonna ask you this because I see the passion about that came from y'all's relationship, the pain, but I also see passion with this little girl. Do you wanna be her father?

Part of me does, but a part of me don't want the hassle. The drama, the toxicness, and everything that comes along with it.

I'm just gonna say it like this.

So what about the clothes, the shoes, all this stuff?

When she's just started school, you ain't helped out with school, nothing.

James has done everything.

So, like I said, I don't gotta do nothing to lock my daughter up.

What about the times that I've called your phone for her to talk to you, for her to come down and see you? What about me banging on the door and getting angry and everything? What about you? It's not harassment when I got your kid and you need to step up.

James is your current boyfriend, correct? Yes. Okay then. And the other potential father to your daughter. So everyone please help me welcome James to the show.

You should be ashamed of yourself.

All right, all right.

Man up.

Man up.

Man up.

You left, you left.

Hold up, hold up. You left, right? So I manned up. That's on me, you feel me?

Okay.

End of the day, mines or not, I'm still gonna be there.

Yeah.

So James, regardless, that's good on your behalf. Any day I'm there, it's better for me. Any day I'm there, I can move forward on and keep doing what I'm doing.

But that, all right, that don't make no man out of nobody though, at all. James, James, how you doing, sir?

I'm good, how you doing?

I'm all right.

So tell me, how do you feel about the situation?

Listen, end of the day, it's the kid at heart, you feel me? That's, that's the, that's the only interest. Mine's his, ain't got to worry about that. It's hers.

So how long have you and Aisha been together, man?

Off and on since she been about 20.

Okay, so this has been a long-term relationship.

Yeah.

Okay. And did y'all hook up while they were together?

I mean, if they was together, I ain't know.

Did y'all hook up while they were together?

Mm-hmm.

Okay then.

So that's easy to pay attention to.

And her daughter calls you father. How you feel about that?

I call her my daughter.

Mm-hmm.

I'm there.

Yeah.

Ain't no point in doing nothing different.

Do you want her to be your daughter?

I mean, yeah.

Yeah?

I got 2 other daughters and a son, so. I might as well go ahead and add to the clan.

Ooh.

Do you think this could be your daughter?

Yeah.

When you look at Madison—

We know it's your daughter.

It's not.

We know it's your daughter.

It's not. She looks just like you. Don't do that.

Okay.

Well, I love that he doesn't have an issue with you. The only thing that he wants to know is—

I don't got no issue with him either.

Yeah.

But she's just so crazy. She think I ain't gonna see this man.

You need to make Madison come out while she called everybody to the side.

No, what you need to do is stop doing the same— And why she wasting everybody's time? No.

No.

You wasting my time.

Chill, chill, chill.

Listen, what you need to do is stop doing the same thing you doing and I'll help.

So what you need to do, so—

No, you need to make Madison come out.

Man up.

Madison, you need to woman up and tell him to grow up and do something for your kid.

Let's get to the results.

All right, so James, I wanna know from you, what will you do if you are her father?

If I'm the father?

Yeah.

I'm still gonna do what I gotta do.

And if you're not?

I'm still gonna be there.

Great, okay.

We in this to the end.

So if you're not the father, you'll stay in the relationship with Asia?

Yeah, we in this to the end.

Hmm, how's that make you feel?

It makes me feel good.

Yeah, okay then. Well, listen, it is time to find out if one of these two men is the biological father to Nyisha's daughter. Here you go.

Oh, y'all gonna let her read them?

Regardless?

Yeah.

Hey, you know what's gonna be funny though? What happens if me or him don't come back today?

James is not Aubrey's biological father.

All right, it's okay, it's okay.

Okay.

So one down.

James, how do you feel about that?

I mean, it's all right. It's possibilities. I ain't mad about it.

Yeah. But now you have clarity.

Yeah, but I'm still there though. I ain't going nowhere.

That's what's up, bro.

That's what's up.

And Ny'Asia.

I appreciate that.

What do you think now? 'Cause you now know that James is not the father.

I know Reggie is the father.

Okay.

Let's get to it.

Okay.

I know Reggie is the father.

I've been waiting on this.

Well, here's the DNA outcome. Here you go.

He said what?

It's all for her. It's not my truth. I'm not in y'all life.

Reggie is Aubree's biological father!

I told you!

I know who I slept with! I know! Now tell Madison to open that door when I come knocking for my kid! Tell Madison to come open that door!

Just step up. That's all I'm saying.

Just step up.

Just step up, man. That's all it is. That's all it is. There you go. There you go. There you go.

There you go.

I might get around, but I know who I sleep with, Karamo.

I'll give you that.

I'll give you that.

Okay, I know who I slept with. Now, doesn't that make you feel like a fool?

I'm sorry. I love you. And Aubrey, see you.

I love you too.

First of all, I'm glad y'all got answers. The thing that's interesting about this is from the minute y'all walked out here and I could see the heartache and pain, I know that was what was causing all this anger. You just felt betrayed.

Oh yeah, for sure.

You felt betrayed. What I do know about this situation is that this little girl is gonna be surrounded by a lot of love.

Oh yeah, for sure.

And that actually makes me the most happiest because no matter all of this other outcome and everything else, this little girl's gonna be surrounded by a father who's gonna step up, who already showed respect to her mother in a minute and said, I love you, I'm sorry, without even having to be prompted to do that.

I'll give you that, bro.

Another man that's like, I'm gonna be here. So Reggie, what is the first thing you gonna do when you get home?

I'm about to go get my baby. I'm about to go get my baby. You just don't know. I'm about to go get my baby.

She's gonna be so happy. Oh my God, that's gonna make her day.

She's definitely a daddy's girl. She loves that man. You can't tell her no wrong about this man. Yeah.

So Reggie, I need to know, how do you feel about if James is still being called dad? Because he is in her life.

That won't help it.

She got 2 dads, bro, in my eyes.

Yeah, 'cause in reality he been around, And I don't wanna hurt the baby's feelings. So we just gotta literally figure out the situation and settle it at hand.

Good job.

We just gotta figure out how to fix it. That's it.

So this is your family now?

Yeah.

You feeling good?

Yeah, I feel amazing. This is a burden off my chest.

It's a burden off mine too.

Yeah. Well, there is one last question. What are you gonna do about Madison?

Yeah, what are you gonna do about her?

Because at the end of the day, Madison brought us here, stayed in the room, and has been involved in this. And she now needs to understand that this woman is your child's mother. She gonna have to grow up.

She gonna have to do what she supposed to do. If she's gonna be a stepmother or a mother figure, she's gonna have to step it up. Or she's gonna have to exit herself out the situation as well.

All right.

That's all we need to hear.

Now you got it.

So if she ever overstep her boundaries, what you gonna do? Just replay this?

I'm gonna let her know. I'm gonna let him know.

She taking this back with her. She gonna show her. Post this on they door, you feel me? You know what I'm saying? Yeah, we good.

Yeah.

Well listen, good luck to you all. I wish y'all the best of luck and I wish your baby the best of luck as well.

Thank you so much.

Listen everyone, thank you for being with us. Make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and we can keep growing. I love you all.

I really just can't believe this.

I really just— I really didn't think it was his. I can't believe this. But we gotta do what we gotta do. I mean, like I said before, when I called in, like, if it's his, we'll take care of it. We'll do what we gotta do. But I really didn't think it was gonna be his. I really didn't think it was gonna be his.