723. The Fastest Way to Manifest What You Want

You can bring things, you can bring situations, you can bring results by picturing them and pulling them into your circle.

Welcome to the Earn your happy podcast. I'm Lori Harder, founder of Light Pink, best selling author, three time fitness world champion, and I'm a crazy, multi passionate entrepreneur. My journey has taken me everywhere from being a broke waitress, barista, retails associate and personal trainer with massive anxiety and no belief in my myself to later becoming a multi millionaire in love with my life. In 2007, my husband and I lost everything. We found ourselves hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. At rock bottom. We had no ideas and I had no education to fall back on. This is when I found personal development and learned everything I could about business. Not by choice, but because I realized no one was coming to save me. The conversations on this podcast are going to let you know that you' not alone and that we all feel like.

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We're back with another episode of he said, she Said. And we are going to teach you one of the coolest manifesting visualization tricks. So fast. It's so easy.

Well, no, it's. It's so easy and it's so effective that it actually is something I'm sticking to. And I have a problem sticking to things sometimes, especially when it comes to visualization or, or meditation. And so right before we sat down to record this, I just got done hanging in my inversion chair, which if you don't have one, it is the greatest thing in the world for your knees and your hips and your back. But I was hanging in my inversion chair for five minutes and I did this. Just close my eyes and I did this visualization, this circle visualization that Lori taught me maybe a week or two ago. I have never stuck to something so easily in my life. Now I'm a visual person. So especially if you are a visual person and you like to picture things that you want or you like to daydream, this is totally for you. So, Lori, you have to teach us them.

I also want to say there's a lot of people out there who are not visual, so this can totally work for you. I'm just going to tell you a different way to do it as well. Yeah, I'm going to just make up a statistic here and tell you that you're 90% more likely to get what you want if you do this. And if you believe that it's the truth, which is just so crazy that once you can grasp that whatever you believe is your truth, and if you've been lying to yourself that you can't, and if you've been been lying to yourself that you're not able to do the thing because of something that you've chosen to believe, that's a lie, or that becomes the truth for you as well. But I believe that that's a lie. So I'm choosing. If people are like, I feel like a fraud, I'm like, yes, but if you tell yourself that long enough, or if you quote, unquote, if this works better for you, lie to yourself long enough, it becomes your truth. So let's get back to talking about what this is.

Can I just speak on that quick, though? Here's why I love this type of short, easy visualization is you can feel it. If you're supposed to sit there and be like, I am abundant, I am wealthy, I am right. I understand the reasoning behind that as a. As a form of meditation. But the problem is what you just said. Way too many people let themselves get in the way. Like, yeah, but I'm not. Yeah, but I don't feel that way right now. And then it collapses it right there. Because it collapses right there. That's why they don't stick to it. What I love about a visualization practice like this is it's just kind of daydreaming. It's like proactive daydreaming. And you'll explain in a minute, but you're just picturing how you want your day to go. You're picturing things that you want and you're pulling them into this circle. And anyone can do that without feeling like a fraud.

Yeah, this is so great because there's no. So many people are like, oh, my gosh, I need to sit down and think of the thing I want. I have to write what it looks like. I have to do all of the things. And that feels like work, right? And that's absolutely not what this is. It is really. Now you can take it there, you can do more work around it. So I'll go into a couple stuff steps that you can do, but this really is the easiest thing that you're going to do. It's pretty much just keeping things on your radar, because when things are on your radar, they're going to come into your realm somehow. So I learned this because I did a podcast with a woman named Laura Day, and she wrote a book called the Circle. And essentially, I am giving you. It's not exactly this. I kind of put my own spin on it, but I'm giving you the Cliff Notes of a book. So if you want to read more, you can go read her book called, I believe it's called the Circle by Laura Day. But this is what I took from it and created or just started doing this kind of like circle manifesting routine in the morning that's so easy. So you can either write this on paper or you can just do it in your mind. So you can just wake up, say your little prayer, whatever you do in the morning to wake up, or go.

Get your cup of coffee.

And you literally just picture a circle in your mind, and in the center is just you. You're like the magnet in the center. And I want you to actually picture yourself as the magnet. And you're going to just place people and things inside of the circle that you would desire, that you want for the day, or that you want to collaborate with or interact with. So for me, when I was manifesting investors that I wanted, I would just take those women and I'd put them in the circle, and I would literally just feel them in my presence. And what would that look like if they became investors? Or what would that look like to collaborate? And it was just something so simple that even some days, if I didn't picture, what would that look like? I would just take those people and place them in my circle. And to me, my circle was this world of this field that I was just attracting people or that I wanted to keep in my presence, that I wanted to think about, that I wanted to potentially connect with. And that's what would happen, is I would have them in the forefront of my mind just by putting them in the Circle. And typically what it would do is that day it would make me take action. Unlike, okay, if I want to do something with her and she's in my circle, that means I have to send an email. So it made me get really actionable.

And then it doesn't mean that there.

Has to be action included, though, as well, because what I'm seeing is sometimes I'm seeing these people pop into my life in the craziest of ways just because I put them in my circle over and over again, and I'm thinking about them nonstop. And so it's just insane the different miracles that have showed up because of it. Now, if you're a person who isn't visual, I want you to actually just keep a notebook every day that you draw the circle, and whether it's the same circle every single day, you just redraw it and re put those new people in there so that you actually physically feel yourself writing their names, writing the things that you desire. Put yourself in the middle. Just put me or put your name or draw a stick figure, whatever the hell you want, and just put everything that you want into that circle. It's an actionable way to bring things to the forefront of your mind and shift your energy into the feeling of what it would actually feel like to be the person who could attract these people, who would collaborate with these people, and who would have them in your life. It's like a complete energy shift, and it's so fast. I mean, you can literally do this in under a minute.

I have nothing to say. I was just sitting here listening. I'm like, you just described this absolutely perfect. The only thing I would add to it is you're talking a lot about bringing people in your life, because that's big for you right now, right? You can bring things, you can bring situations, you can bring results by picturing them and pulling them into your circle. We have a big dinner tonight with some really cool people, and it's the first time that we're all going out to dinner together. So I pulled them all into my circle. I pictured us at the restaurant that we're going to. I pictures laughing, having a good time, everybody having the perfect energy together. And it kind of put my anxiety at ease of, oh, God, I sure hope all these big names get along together. You know what I mean? And so it's not just the people you want to bring in. It's the results. It's, oh, my God. I put our. Our cryptocurrency account into the circle today, and I pictured the results I wanted today. I mean, it's a really cool process.

Love that.

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Babe, I just pictured a whiteboard with like, take tape and make a permanent circle and then you just write what you want in a circle every single day. Holy crap, we're doing it. I'm gonna put one in my office. We're gonna get one in your office.

I feel like I could create a Circle product.

I know. And now you just told 50,000 other people how to create that circle product. So now we've got a race to market. Dammit.

It's a race, you guys. So this is so much. And you know, I still love meditating, I still love longer visualizations. But I gotta be honest, right now, my time, I just feel like I don't have time. And of course that's made up and all of the things. But what I'll tell you what I'll tell you is that it's efficient and it works. So I want to hear if this works for you and what you're putting in your circle. Like, I literally want to see what you're doing and let us know by tagging us and letting us know if you're gonna do this exercise and what you're putting in your circle.

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You guys were so grateful for you and and just showing up every single week and love seeing how you apply these different podcasts and love knowing who we're talking to. So until next time, have the most.

Amazing week and we hope that we.

Get to see you in one of these places where we get to work.

With you and pull us in your circle.

Pull us in your circle.

Bye.

Sam.