What Your Anxiety is Telling You to Invest In
14 Nov 2024 · 11 min
Podcast episode by Lori Harder (recorded Nov 14, 2024) encouraging listeners to preserve 1–2 routines during the holidays and to reduce anxiety by investing in areas that cause the most stress. Lori’s central thesis: anxiety signals where you lack a confident plan or skillset, so invest (hire help or tools) in those areas—she cites organization, social media strategy, and team/organizational planning as examples. Episode includes personal examples (daily walks, product mentions), practical tips for trialing hires (30–90 day trials), and two sponsor messages (blinds.com and Shopify).
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If you're in anxious mode, let me tell you what doesn't happen. You don't start making more money in that mode. And you absolutely don't get creative ideas when you're coming from a place of lack and anxiety. Welcome back to the podcast. It's time for another quickie because there's always time to fit in inspiration. And as the holidays are are here, guys, they're here. Hallmark has started doing all of the Christmas movies. Everyone's decorating. I hate to tell you, if you are someone who decorates in December, I am so sorry. I decorate November 1st. I would actually love to start decorating in October. I am going to maximize the holiday season. I just want Christmas to explode in my face. That's really what I want come November 1st. So I'm in it. I'm loving it. And I wanna tell you that one of the biggest hacks that you can do during the holiday season is to stay in some semblance of a routine. It doesn't mean that you have to keep your exact routine, your gym routine, your supplement routine, all the routines, your routine for your routine. Trust me, I get it. It's insane. I don't even know how we do this as human beings, you guys, but if you keep one to two of your normal habits that you do and you just promise yourself that you're gonna stick to these throughout the holiday season, it's gon huge for you. And one of those routines for me, obviously, you guys know I'm never gonna stop walking no matter what. I'm gonna keep my walk and I'm gonna keep my glossy. So I'm gonna be having my two sticks of glossy per day and I'm gonna be doing my walk. And come hell or high water, no matter what happens that day, no matter what kind of Christmas shenanigans are going down, I am having my two sticks of glossy and I am having my walk. So there you go. I hope that this helps you guys. If you want to get 25% off, you can go to getglocy.com and use code. Happy, please tell me what you are going to keep during the holiday season. And today I was thinking, I literally just got this thought of what I wanted to talk about on my quickie in the shower because, you know, sometimes we get our best thoughts there. And I was trying to think of the things that I've been doing lately that have been helping me and I was racking my brain and racking my brain and I was like, oh my God, you know What I have been investing into organization. So my word of the year is organization. And if you know me, I am super creative. And it's funny because my house is insanely organized. But, like, I really struggle in the department of, like, just the flow of my day and what that should look like and how to get really organized in my company and how to get really organized in my email and organization on all of those types of things. So I've been investing in organization. And so I want you to look because I had this just epiphany in the shower, and I was like, your anxiety is begging you to invest. Because if you have anxiety around something, it probably means you don't have a plan that you feel confident in. And when you don't have a plan that you don't feel confident in, it may just mean that you don't have a strong skill set in the thing that you're planning. And so for me, I admittedly can tell you that I do not have a strong skillset in organization. So in order for my anxiety to calm the F down, I am investing in organization. So if you don't know where to invest, I want you to think of the place that you carry the most anxiety around. For me, I'm really trying to figure out a daily schedule of, like, I want my podcast all to fall in one day. I want team meetings all to fall in one day and different meetings all in one day. I want to feel like my I know my exact content days. I want to know what I'm feeling filming on those exact days. I want to look at my schedule and be like, I know what I'm doing. I know when. I know what I'm having to deliver so that in my free time, I can actually chill out instead of freak out. So that's where I'm at right now. And so, you know, looking at what do you need to invest in the most? Where is your anxiety the highest? What feels like you do not have a plan around it. And from that, if you don't know someone who can help you start putting it out there, put it out on social media. I was just with a bunch of girls and I said, hey, does anybody have, like a life organizer or someone who can really help me in business and in life to just organize my entire schedule, like, come and look in at everything that I have to do in a week, in a month, and help me just get this to a place where I feel good. And one of the women was like, yes, I have the perfect person for you. So Literally, I have the email in my inbox. I'm going to be emailing her right after this to invest in organization in that particular arena in my life. The other one that I have a lot of anxiety around is social media. And while I have a team who helps me post and get it posted, I'm still coming up with the content strategy. And so for me, it's tough for me to like look at all of the businesses that we have along with glossy and go, what's a really great content strategy for all of this? So I am hiring a social media strategist who's really freaking good. And if it goes the way that I hope in the next couple months, I hope to have her on the podcast as well. Because if this is something you're stressed out about, your anxiety is asking you to invest in it. It's worth it, you guys, to get the plan. So not only am I about to invest in this kind of like life and business organizational woman, I'm also going to invest in a social media strategist. 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So I just pick one and I try to work out as much as I possibly can into investing into that particular thing because it is going to save you time, it's going to save you money eventually, and it's going to help your anxiety and free you up energetically to get those creative thoughts again. Because if you're in anxious mode, let me tell you what doesn't happen. You don't start making more money in that mode and you absolutely don't get creative ideas when you're coming from a place of lack and anxiety. So you guys, where does your anxiety want you to invest? So I'm sending you so much love and until next time, earn your happy. Bye everyone.
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