A man who truly loves you will commit long-term, build the relationship like a foundation, have tough conversations about problems, align your values and goals, and seek solutions where both of you win.
Ten things a man will do Only if he really loves you. He's interested in growing with you, not just pleasing you. What this means is if a man has deep feelings of love for you, he sees the relationship as a long term potential. He sees the relationship like a castle that he is building, that he's laying down the foundation brick by brick by brick. And he wants to make it strong, he wants to grow it, he wants to improve it, he wants it to last over time. Which means he's not always going to do things just to please you, but he's also going to do things that are in the best interest of the relationship long term. For example, bringing up tough subjects, having tough conversations, going into problem areas or things that he foresees could be problem areas for you and him in your relationship. He's willing to address those things, such as long term goals or values, alignments, or an issue that he sees, for example, with something that you want to have in the relationship that he may feel he's not capable of delivering, or something he wants in the relationship that he feels that you may not be capable of being for him. And so he wants to have those conversations so that you can work it out. He wants to find a solution. He wants to find that win win where both of you can get your needs met. And so the relationship has a foundation of strength long term, where neither of you are feeling like your needs are being left out of the relationship and that the relationship is serving both of you ultimately.
