Men subconsciously ask if a woman will protect his heart. Small lies or telling him what he wants to hear erodes trust and signals you're not relationship material. Consistency and honesty show you're worth a real commitment.
Number 2, he'll likely be asking himself is, will she protect my heart? Will she protect my heart? And this goes back to fundamental elements we were talking about, about trust, about loyalty, about reliability, about that you say what you mean, that you're not trying to do little white lies with him or tell him things that may not be true. To try to make him feel better or to avoid any drama. Because these little tiny things also break little bits of trust that can make a man say, oh yeah, well, I'm definitely not going to have a long-term relationship with her, but I'll still have fun. But he just, in his unconscious, he might not even think this consciously, but he'll just feel like, yeah, she's not relationship material for me. I'm sure she'll make some other guy happy, but not for me.
