A short YouTube coaching video by Kevin Anthony (certified sexologist, NLP practitioner and sex, love and relationship coach) listing 10 body-language techniques meant to attract or arouse men. The speaker runs through a numbered list (10→1) including: blushing, laughing, batting eyes, showing a little skin, touch, smiling, feminine posture, good posture, leaning in, and facing/open body. The clip is instructional and persuasive and ends with calls to action to take a polarity quiz (polarityquiz.com) and visit kevanandsaline.com.
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Kevin Anthony — certified sexologist, NLP practitioner, sex, love and relationship coach.
polarityquiz.com and kevanandsaline.com (link in bio).
2024-08-15T14:00:05Z.
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10 Powerful body language secrets that turn men on. Hey everybody. In this video, I'm going to be talking about body language and specifically body language that turns men on. So I'm going to cover 10 things that you can do with your body to turn him on. I'm Kevin Anthony. I am a certified sexologist, NLP practitioner and sex love and relationship coach. And for over 10 years I have been helping men, women and couples and have the relationship of their dreams and the best sex of their lives. Okay, let's just dive right in. Number 10, you blush. So this is a little bit more subtle than an actual body movement, right? But it is something that your body does and it is something that is a turn on. If we are potentially flirting with a woman and we see her blush, that is absolutely a turn on. That is a something that lets us know that she's potentially interested in us. Number nine, you laugh. There is nothing more beautiful than a happy woman who is laughing and it is a huge turn on. This is why in other videos when we talk about ways that men flirt with you, men try to be funny, right? Because they want to make her laugh. Because. Because her being in a state of laughter means that she's open, she's probably relaxed. Assuming, of course, it's not one of those like little fake laughter type things that sometimes people do. But it is definitely something that is a turn on for men. Again, it means that she's open, she's having a good time, she's potentially interested. If she's definitely a no. Or not comfortable with you being there, she's not likely to laugh unless it's one of those kind of fake laughs. Number eight, you bat your eyes at them. Ah, yes. If you're out on a date and you've put on a little makeup, you've probably got some mascara on, which makes those eyelashes just pop right out like they're a mile long. And they are very noticeable. And when you bat them at us, it absolutely does turn us on. Number seven, you show a little bit of skin, it doesn't mean you have to have your whole butt or all of your boobs hanging out. It just means that you show a little bit of skin. That is definitely something that you can do with your body. That is a big turn on and also a big signal that you are potentially interested. So that could mean just having a button open. That could mean maybe showing some of your neck. Could mean, you know, wearing something that shows your legs. So yeah, showing us a little bit of skin is definitely a body language. That turns us on. All right, number six, this one's pretty obvious. You are touching him in some way, whether it's just leaning up against him, putting your hand on his knee, touching him with your foot, something like that, leaning into him, snuggling up against him. You know, any way that you are using touch in your interaction with him is a body language that is definitely a turn on. And number five is smiling. Similar to laughter in a way, because it's pretty much impossible to laugh without also smiling. However, you can smile without the laughter. And so, yeah, just having a smile on your face is absolutely a turn on that. You know, as men, we absolutely love to see our women lit up. I can mean a lot of different things, but, like, happy, turned on, radiant, vibrant, lit up, smiling, right? Just rosy cheeks, all of that stuff. We absolutely love to see that. And if we see a woman who's frowning all the time or always looks like she's sad or angry, it's actually kind of a turn off. Despite what that song says. You know, there's that song about seeing the girl with the sad look on her face and what a turn on it is. I don't remember the exact lyrics to that one, but every time I hear that song, because they still play it on the radio, I think, no, no, no, not really. Show me a woman that's got a big, beautiful smile over that any day. Number four, your body movements and posture are very feminine. So this one's a little bit more difficult to really explain or quantify, But I think we can all tell what is, like a masculine posture and what is a feminine posture. And so anything that you're doing with your body that feels feminine, right? And that can be, you know, could be sticking your chest out a little bit or your butt. It could be simply the way you cross your legs. It could be, you know, lots of different things. But any. Anything that is a body movement or posture that we would generally consider to be feminine is a big turn on. Number three is kind of similar to number four, and that is that you have good posture. So body language can really say a lot. And if you have good posture, you're. You're erect, you're upright, you are not slouching like this, or, you know, we all know what good posture is because our parents and teachers and everybody else have been telling us to have good posture our entire lives. But there's something about that, seeing a woman who has good posture, that emanates a certain confidence to us, a vibe that you care about yourself and how you look and how you show up. There's just something that is even a little bit hard to quantify as a man. But there's definitely difference. You know, if we see a woman who's all like, you know, versus a woman who's like, you know, really upright and has a smile on her face, it is a massive, massive difference. Number two, you are leaning in towards him. So this is a body language thing that you can do to show that you are interested. It's absolutely a turn on for us. But rather than being like, you know, kind of like this, you're more leaning towards him again with a smile and with good posture. If you do that, that is an absolute sign to us that you are potentially interested and it is definitely a turn on. Okay? And lastly, number one, your body is facing him and open, right? So rather than having your shoulder to him or your back to him or your arms crossed and your legs crossed and everything's kind of tight and contracted, you're more open, right? Maybe your hands are, are down in your lap or, you know, obviously if you're wearing a skirt, you can still cross your legs or even if you have pants. But the idea is that you're projecting this body language that, that is telling the person you're talking to that you're open to them, you're open to their energy, at least, if not also potentially their physical body. And women, you understand this. You know, when somebody is around that you are not interested in, that creeps you out. You know exactly what to do to give that cold shoulder. Like, nope, go away, I'm not interested. So if you do the opposite with somebody that you are interested, we can absolutely feel that and it is a turn on for us. All right, so there you go. There are 10 body language secrets that are a turn on for men. I hope you found that helpful. And please make sure that you go to polarityquiz.com and take your free magnetic feminine polarity quiz today. And if you want to know more about my work and find out how you could potentially work with me, then go to kevanandsaline. Com linkinbio.
