5 Behaviors Men Find Irresistible in Women

Five attitudes that men love about women. I am Kevin Anthony here for Magnetize youe Man. I'm a certified sexologist and host of the Love Lab podcast. Okay, here we go. Number five. She is soft and feminine. As men, especially masculine men, we really appreciate when a woman is in her soft feminine energy. It really is true. Polarity is real. I know there's a lot of people out there that talk about it. Some of the information out there is good. Some of it really isn't good. Polarity gets misunderstood a lot and sometimes gets a bad name. But the reality is, is that polarity does need to be present in a relationship. And when it comes to a heterosexual relationship between a man and a woman, we're talking about masculine, you know, energy in a man and feminine energy in a woman. And so, you know, if we are, you know, a high quality man who is in our healthy masculine energy, we are going to want and love and appreciate a woman who is in her healthy feminine energy. If you're wondering whether or not you have polarity in your relationship or if some of the problems you've had in the past were due to polarity, you can find out by taking our free quiz at PolarityQuiz. Number four. She is supportive. So it is fairly natural for women to be supportive in general. That's part of being in that feminine energy. The feminine is nurturing. It's supportive. And that is something that as men, we really don't get a lot of outside of our relationships. Obviously, when we're young, you know, we can get that from our mother and our parents and our family structure. But once we're adults and out there in the real world, it's dog eat dog and we're expected to compete all the time. And so when we come home and we come home to our partners, we really love and appreciate that supportive, nurturing energy that she brings because we really just don't have an opportunity to get that anywhere else. And it is something that we all need from time to time. Now, women can get supportive energy, obviously from their man. They can also get it from other women as well. Again, because women are naturally nurturing and supportive. So women tend to have more opportunities to receive that type of support where we as men, we really don't. We don't necessarily get that from our male friends. And so it's an attitude. It's a way of showing up in a relationship that we really appreciate and love about women. Number three. She likes sex. Of course. Of course, I mentioned this, obviously in a lot of the videos I do here on this channel. But it is a very important part and the research actually shows us that women relationships that have a satisfying and healthy sex life tend to last longer, be happier and more successful. So as a man, we really appreciate it when a woman shows up to a relationship with a healthy attitude towards sex. And what do I mean by healthy attitude? It means she's healed her shame, she's healed her trauma. She sees that sex is, is an important part of that healthy relationship and she's willing to invest in co creating a health, the sex life as a component of this healthy overall relationship. So that is something that we as men really really value in women. All right, number two, she doesn't complain. So I know that's kind of like something that you don't do as opposed to something you do do. But just think about what is the opposite of complaining. That would be praising. So we love when our woman has an attitude of praise where she's, you know, building us up through praise, through positive comments, positive reinforcement. That is something that we really, really do love. And you know, when we're in a relationship with a woman who's in her feminine, who's supportive, who has a healthy relationship to her sexuality and is, you know, praising us and sharing all of that with us, it just, it, it lights us up, it makes us just love her so much because a lot of that we, we just haven't gotten in our lives and it is so needed. And a woman who can genuinely provide those things, like doing it because she wants to, because that's her nature, is just such a gift to us as men. And number one, she is collaborative and not competitive. So she's not competing with you in the relationship for, you know, power or super or proving herself or anything like that. She's showing up with an attitude of collaboration. Here we are two people who have chosen to be together. We are creating a life together, right? And we're going to work together to make this the best relationship and the best life that we can possibly create for each other. And I know a lot of times when I do these videos, I'm talking about it from what can the woman do? What can. But that's because I'm speaking primarily to a female audience and when I speak to men, I talk about a lot of the same things because as I just said, relationships are collaborative, they are co creations. And so, you know, in this video, I'm talking about five attitudes that men love about women. And men definitely love when a woman brings a collaborative attitude to the relationship.