7 Non-Verbal Ways to Make A Man See Your Worth

Do not try to get him to do anything. Here's the thing, the more you try to get a man to do something for you, the more likely he is to do the opposite or do nothing at all. Because of masculine feminine polarity. When a man feels that a woman or his woman is trying to control or change him in some way, he has only three options. Either he has to submit to her leadership and move into his own feminine energy, or he has to fight her or argue, get into some kind of debate about it. And number three, he has to pull away or completely detach from the situation or the relationship. And typically all those options will eventually end up with him pulling away anyways. But the key is, if you want a man to come closer to you, if you want him to love and adore you, the biggest and deepest desires of the masculine is to be trusted and respected. Which means trusting and respecting him, to lead himself and to make decisions on his own. It communicates also your value to him. It shows that you're willing to be and you are in your high value feminine energy, where you trust and respect him and that you are wanting and open to and willing to be receiving his adoration, love and devotion to take care of you, to be your hero and to want to make you happy. So that shows your value and one of the top things that you can do to show your worth to a man without saying anything or doing anything, which actually makes it a lot easier on your side. So, hi, I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize youe man. And for over 20 years, combined with my wife Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man they want. So let's go ahead and continue with the powerful methods that you can use to show a man your worth without saying anything. So number six is to be willing to walk away if a man cannot or will not meet your needs. If you are using everything we teach you, you're using magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication. You're doing our 90 day magnetic feminine challenge and your man hasn't shifted. He's not giving you what you want. You have to be willing to walk away because again, you can't tell him what to do. You do not want to try to tell him what to do because that'll just typically cause a reverse reaction from what you actually want instead. You can be vulnerable, you can be in your magnetic feminine energy. You can use magnetic feminine communication. But this is about how to show your worth without communicating really not verbally, but you can show your worth, you can show your feminine energy, and then what happens is the man will be inspired within to want to do those things on his own, to want to devote to you, to want to give to you, to want to make you happy. As if he, he thought of it. But even if he knows that's what you want, he comes from within. His own motivation, his own masculine drive. Again, that hero instinct to want to do it on his own. And he feels great about it. He feels like he actually is investing into the relationship. He sees your worth, he sees your value, and he wants to continue to give, give, give more because he's feeling like he gets to do that on his own and he wants to do it on his own. He wants to make you happy because he feels like you're not trying to control or change him in some way. Now, if a man isn't doing that, and you've used that for the 90 day challenge, you've used magnetic feminine polarity and communication potentially. But this, we're talking about Nonverbal for the 90 days and he hasn't started showing that love and devotion to you. Now, there's a couple things. He might be a broken man. He could be deeply in his feminine energy, but every man does have a masculine core. So we're trying to pull him out. You are pulling him out through your feminine energy, through the law of polarity, which states that opposite energies attract. You're pulling him into, into his healthy masculine because you're up in your high value feminine energy and he's going to start meeting your needs. Now, if he doesn't, if he stay, if you're up into your feminine, he's staying in his feminine as well. Or you're in your feminine energy and he's not moving into his high value masculine energy, then he's probably a broken man. Or he's just so deeply detached from his masculine energy that he's not capable of showing care for a woman and showing care for you. And this could be because he is like, if he's a broken man, it could be because he's a narcissist, a sociopath, a deeply avoidant attachment style. There could be some things, some trauma within him that's not allowing him to show care for your heart, but that's the only thing you have to look out for. And if he's not, you have to be willing to walk away. That shows your worth, that shows your value, that you're not going to lower your standards. You're not going to lower your desires and try to fit yourself into a, into a, make yourself into a pretzel and walk on eggshells to try to make him happy, which is masculine energy. If you're trying to make a man happy, that's you trying to control him, trying to change him in some way. But when you're in your feminine energy and if he's not changing, you're not going to lower your standard. You're going to be up here and he has to either meet you up there or you're gone. You have to be willing to walk away. And that's how you communicate your worth to him, to other men and to yourself. Most importantly, that you are a high value queenly woman who deserves to be adored and cherished by a high value masculine man. Hopefully he'll be inspired into that if you have a specific man in mind right now, and if not, then that it is what it is and you're going to be better for it because you're going to quickly attract a high value masculine man after that, if you're using what we teach you, if it's not going to be him, but hopefully it will be and will help you to do that. The fifth way that you show your worth to a man without saying anything is to focus on his positive qualities. So it's so easy in a relationship to get focused on what we don't like about the other person because often they're a mirror for us and we see things that we don't like about ourselves in him. And that's communicating that you have low worth within yourself and you're projecting that onto him and seeing him as low worth, or you're just upset that he's not seeing your value. When the actual empowering thing to do in this situation is to shift that and shift your focus to what is positive within him, because you're also shifting that focus into what's positive within yourself through the mirror effect. And so looking for those things that you do admire, appreciate, respect and trust about him is going to be so helpful to you energetically. So what I recommend to a lot of our clients who work with us is one of the, one of the exercises that we do in the journey is making a list of the things that you most admire, love, appreciate and respect about your man that you're interested in, or that you're dating or you're married to. And so that will help you to redirect your focus towards those positive attributes, which will make it much easier when you're with him to be seeing him in that light, seeing him with, not with rose colored glasses necessarily, but glasses, I call them like hero glasses. You're seeing him as the hero that he is and that he can be. Because you're seeing those positive attributes. It doesn't mean you're just sweeping all the negative things under the, under the rug. Because you do want to address those things with feminine communication if they're coming up and there are things that he's doing that are hurting you unintentionally or intentionally or just not meeting your needs. We do want to address those things. But it's so powerful to see him through that hero lens. Because when you can do that, you are starting to subconsciously program him into that hero instinct, into that being that hero, that superhero for you. Because you start to naturally see the best in him, expect him to do the best things, expect him to take care of you, expect him to love you, expect him to cherish and adore you, expect him to want to meet your needs and make you happy and show care for your heart, etc. Rather than the lens you may have been looking through at him in the past, which is more of the villain lens where you're seeing him as a villain, a man who can hurt you, a man who, who is not good intentions, a man who is a bad man, or he's incompetent or he is bad in relationships, et cetera. And then that makes him become more of those things. This becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. And so you don't expect him to do those good things for you. You don't expect him to show care for your heart and, and then he starts to not expect that he needs to do that either. Because like, well, you already don't expect me to treat you well. So maybe I'm just not going to text you back or I'm not going to do anything, those things that you want me to do. But if you treat him with that, you see him with that hero lens, then he's like, wow, she sees me as this hero. Like I want to live into that. Because every man has a masculine core in his center. And that will be activated by you. You are like the spark that lights the fire potentially in this, in this man that he is now seeing himself as being that he wants to step into that hero. He feels good about it. He feels a sense of purpose, he feels a sense of meaning in his life that he gets to make somebody happy. If he can't make the whole world happy at Least he can make you happy and he becomes more of that because of your expectation. So it's a very powerful thing to do. Now, before we get to the next point, if you haven't yet, I highly recommend taking our free Magnetize youe Man quiz to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man you want. Fast to use some of our advanced principles in Magnetic feminine communication. Magnetic Feminine polarity. Get our magnetic feminine 90 day challenge as well to help you with your romantic life with a relationship for a man you want. So you can click the link in the description or comments below or go to our website magnetizeyourman.com to get that. Highly recommend. All right. The fourth way that you show your worth to a man without saying anything is to prioritize receiving over giving. So you may be in a relationship right now where you're doing a lot for your man. You're managing him, you're trying to fix him, you're trying to be his therapist, you're trying to help him, you're trying to make him happy, you're trying to make him feel good and see you as, as you know, an amazing woman. Rather than, which is all being his therapist, trying to be his mommy, really ultimately it's, it's, it's providing for him. You are in the masculine role whenever you are doing those activities rather than being in the feminine energy. In your feminine energy because every woman has a feminine core deep inside somewhere. Some are more present to it than others and more connected to it because it's your most authentic self. That's what we're teaching you here, is to be your most authentic self and not be playing games or manipulation, any manipulation or trying to control a man or change him, etc, being authentic in who you really are. So instead shifting in that feminine energy you start to receive, you start to be open, you start to be vulnerable. You start to allow a man in, you start to respect him, you start to trust him. You start to let him lead, let him make decisions, let him plan. Just like in a dance. Just like in that, that amazing dance you might watch on Dancing with the stars or on YouTube when you search for west coast swing dances. I used to do that back in the day when I was, when I was dancing west coast swing. And you just watch in awe how these two people, the masculine, the feminine, can be in this beautiful dance together. And the harmony that happens with a healthy polarization. So that's what happens when you allow him to actually start giving to you. And he may not at first, when you open up when you stop giving to him, you stop doing things for him. He might, he may not give to you yet because he's so used to being in his feminine energy with you, being in a little boy energy and you're the mommy or being where you're the boss and he's the, you know, the employee kind of dynamic that he doesn't know yet how to be in his mask. And he hasn't learned that with you. And so he may have to go through some time to learn and be inspired into his masculine energy, just like we talked about through the law of polarity. And that's why you should use the 90 day challenge that we teach and that we'll give you on how to actually do this over time to give him that space to step into his masculine. Because a lot of what we're teaching you is like learning a new language. It's like learning a new dance. And you have to get the steps right and you have to try to not step on his toes. And then hopefully he will not step on your toes. And pretty soon you're dancing. But you have to learn the steps. It takes some training, it takes some education, it takes some practice to get this down. But once you've learned it, once you've learned that language or you've learned that dance, it just flows out of you. It's like beautiful music. You're playing the instruments now. You're moving to the music into the rhythm of your relationship. So in order to do and get to that place, you have to be willing to let go of that masculine energy and let go of trying to provide for him and be the hero for him, and instead allow him to start giving and providing and being the hero for you. And we know how, and we'll teach you how to inspire him into that. But the first step is when you catch yourself, find yourself in a hole, what do you have to do? You have to stop digging, Stop digging the hole, stop the madness, stop the masculine energy, shift into the feminine. That's the first step to start, to allow him to start shifting into his masculine and provide for you. So the third way you show a man your worth without saying anything is to listen to him attentively and respectfully. So a big part of feminine energy is allowing a man to lead, allowing him to be inspired to want to move the relationship forward, to want to provide and make you happy and make decisions. And take that, take that energy off of your shoulders, take that, that, that job off your shoulders that you don't have to do that anymore. He can actually help you. He can provide. He wants to. He feels great about it. When he's able to do that from a connected place in his healthy masculine energy, which you can inspire him from. Your feminine energy. Your feminine energy. So part of that is listening, listening to him. Just like when you're in a dance with somebody, if you're. If you're in the feminine energy in a dance, the only thing you really have to do is be a great listener. You're listening to your man, his. Your partner that you're dancing with, where he wants to lead you. When he wants to dip you twirl, you move over here, do. Do this little dancing motions and rhythms, you know, the pacing, the timing, making sure you're not bumping in anything. So you're following his lead. And you have to. In order to follow somebody's lead, you have to be able to listen. You have to not just listen with your ears, but also listen with your body and your emotions and your sensitivity, your feminine receptivity to be able to hear that energy and feel that energy from him, coming from him guiding you and wanting to bring you on a journey, on an adventure. Just like Aladdin on the magic carpet ride, right? He's taking you around to show you the world. So in order to do that, you have to be open and receptive, which means not interrupting him, not dominating the conversation yourself or trying to guide. Guide the conversation too much yourself, or just shutting him down and saying, like, you know, I. I don't want to talk to you right now, or I don't want to hear it. Of course, if a man is being disrespectful to you, and if he's insulting you or hurting you in some way or just crossing your personal boundaries again, you have to be willing to walk away and step out of those situations. Ideally, before. Before you step away, you've used magnetic feminine communication, the way we teach it, and we'll help give you scripts for that so that he's aware that he's hurting you or making you feel a certain way. Because not all men are aware of that. Because in their masculine. In a masculine being, they are primarily focused on achieving outcomes and thinking and solving problems, et cetera. So they're not always as emotionally attuned to. But you as the feminine can help him with the emotional attunement piece and allow him to actually feel his own emotions through feminine communication. And then he'll want to change on his own. He won't want to cross your boundaries, but sometimes you have to cross, you have to set that boundary with yourself and be willing to walk away. So just a little side note with that, but just listening sometimes can be a huge gift you can give to a man of just really hearing him out, which you don't have to do anything really for. You don't have to say anything. You're just listening it. Mm, wow. Okay, interesting. And just letting him communicate whatever he needs to communicate for your relationship, for a situation. And of course, you can share yours as well. And you should share how you're feeling because we're, we're wanting you to be open and vulnerable in communicating your emotions. That's super important as the high value feminine woman. And it's also important to be able to listen and allow him to share his perspective fully without feeling like he's going to be judged, attacked, or that you're immediately going to go into anxiety or, or fear or try to shut him out in some way when he's communicating what's really on his mind, some important matters or feelings that he's having. So it's a very easy way you can show your worth, that you are open and that you are respectful and that you are willing to hear what's going on with the people around you, importantly for you in a relationship. So important in an important way in a relationship. So that's an important piece that we want to also practice to draw a man close. All right. Another powerful way to show a man your value without saying anything is to express gratitude through your actions. So of course you can share gratitude through your words, which is very important. But it's also powerful to share your gratitude through your body. And how a man makes you feel through smiling, through eye contact, strong eye contact. Like we talked about with listening, which that's a big part of listening, is just presence. Presence. It's not looking at the phone, it's not being distracted by other people around you. It's like focused in on the person you're with and really listening to them, what's going on for them, how they're feeling, what they're thinking. But the gratitude piece is something you can share with, with that, with your body. If a man cooks for you, it's like letting him know through your body how you appreciate his meal that he cooked for you, assuming it's a good meal, assuming he didn't ruin the spaghetti with some too much ketchup or something. Hopefully he's not making spaghetti with ketchup. But if he's really trying and he Did a good job. And you actually enjoy the meal, or at least part of it. Like showing that through your body. Wow, so good. I mean, we're talking about not using words here, but and just like the enjoyment as you're chewing the meal or if a man is dancing with you, like showing your. Your joy, your bliss through your body. Of course, when you're having sex, expressing the. The pleasure that you're feeling authentically, we don't want to fake your emotions, but if you are authentically feeling gratitude and appreciation for your man or something he's doing or did for you or how he's making you feel, like you can show that, of course, verbally, but very powerfully through your body, through your voice, through your eyes, through your movements and your touch. Also hugs, cuddling, kisses. Again, sex. If you're at that stage in your relationship, hopefully you're waiting until a man has claimed you to have sex, which is another very important part of showing your worth to a man without saying something. I didn't include it with this one, but waiting until a man has really invested fully into the relationship and claimed you through exclusivity, ideally through marriage, really, if you really want a man to see that worth fully. But yeah, so that's very important to show that appreciation in all of the different levels of your being. And number one is to engage in activities that bring you joy. So if you are doing things that fill you up, that fill up your cup and make you feel happy, make you feel good, make you feel good after you've done the activities as well, such as activity, exercise, eating healthy, drinking lots of water, getting enough sleep and taking a nap if you need to, and getting out in nature, getting sunlight. But also things that really bring you that joy, like a hobby you have, a favorite book series or a dance that you love to do. Sometimes it could just be dancing. And maybe you want to dance in front of your man. That could be another form of showing your appreciation with your actions, your gratitude with your actions. Is doing a sensual or sexy or just a fun dance in front of him? I remember when me and my wife were first dating. Oftentimes, I mean, she still does it to this day, but I would be like working or doing something and she would just come into my office and just start dancing because she was. She was excited about something or she just wanted to be playful. And I love that. I thought it was really fun. And so that's something you can do when you have that, those authentic feelings of joy within you, playfulness, sensuality, Sexuality, you can express that through your body and do that. Also activities you can do by yourself. You know, just dancing in your office, dancing in your room, going out to outdoor hobbies you love, skiing, snowboarding, swimming, sailing. I mean, the list is endless of things that you may find joy in. And if you don't know what that is, you should probably try some more things. You should probably look up meetup.com or go on Google or Facebook events and find things that are going on in your city, hopefully social events. This is especially powerful if you're single as well, to find those, those activities, those passions that you can do that also involve other people. But look for those things, those crafts, those, those artistic expressions that you can get involved with. The reason why this is so powerful and why it communicates your worth to a man is because when you are happy and when you're feeling good with a man, he's going to automatically and unconsciously believe that was because of him, that he is the source of your joy. Now, you may say that's, that's egotistical or maybe even narcissistic to some level. Potentially, if your man is that, that can be a problem. But it's actually a good thing, A good thing for you. Because if a man believes that your joy is because of him, if he's connected to his mask, and if he is a healthy man, he's going to feel really good about that and he's going to feel like he's winning, he's going to feel like he's doing a good job and. And he's going to feel that sense of purpose and meaning. So men and women feel happiness in a different way. Women typically will feel happiness through, you know, joy, through fun activities, through connection with their partner, love, being around people that they love, et cetera. Men typically will feel joy or happiness, if you call it that, more through a sense of purpose and meaning, knowing that they're doing a good job, that they're winning, that they're providing some value to those around them, especially those that they're close to, that they're being a good protector, provider, hero. That's where men get their sense of value. And that sense of happiness, which is typically different for women, and it'll be more different the more masculine your man is. So in order to help him to feel like he's in his masculine energy and have his testosterone go up and have him feel like he's in the right relationship and he's chosen the right woman, is when you are happy to authentically show that to him. And I'm not saying to fake it. I'm not saying to just put on a, you know, rose color, not that we were talking about the rose colored glasses, but not put on a smiley face over the empty gas tank. But you want to be authentically happy by filling yourself up with authentic things that make you happy, not just him. Now, ideally he here, there's a lot he can do for you to make you happy. But like for example, I use this sometimes. A man can't make you breathe, a man can't force you to eat healthy foods. There's a lot of things that you can and should do for yourself that will fill up your own cup, make you happy so that you're overflowing. And so when you're with him, you don't just need him to provide everything for you that you're still standalone within yourself, you feel great within yourself and you can be present with him and more detached from the outcome. And then he could feel great that he gets to be around that energy and also feeling like he's unconsciously contributing to that energy and maybe also directly he did help you to feel happier. And that's where the appreciation and the gratitude comes in, where we talked about that earlier. But it's very important to do the self care and do the passions and the joy activities while you're in this process, while you're in the 90 day challenge of bringing men close to you and using the things that we'll teach you and the scripts that we'll give you to allow a man close and allow him to feel like your hero, to feel like he's winning and to feel like he's in the right relationship that will last so much love. I hope this was helpful today. Love to hear your comments or questions below. Any of your big takeaways from this and I will talk to you again very soon. Bye bye.