When women try to control a man, he withdraws. What works instead: trust his decisions, respect his autonomy, and let him see you're open to receiving. Men respond to this non-verbal signal by stepping into a protective, providing role.
Do not try to get him to do anything. Here's the thing. The more you try to get a man to do something for you, the more likely he is to do the opposite or do nothing at all. Because of masculine-feminine polarity, when a man feels that a woman or his woman is trying to control or change him in some way, he has only 3 options. Either he has to submit to her leadership, And move into his own feminine energy, or he has to fight her or argue, get into some kind of debate about it. And number 3, he has to pull away or completely detach from the situation or the relationship. And typically, all those options will eventually end up with him pulling away anyways. But the key is, if you want a man to come closer to you, if you want him to love and adore you, The biggest and deepest desires of the masculine is to be trusted and respected, which means trusting and respecting him to lead himself and to make decisions on his own. It communicates also your value to him. It shows that you're willing to be, and you are in your high-value feminine energy where you trust and respect him, and that you are wanting and open to and willing to be receiving his adoration, love, and devotion to take care of you, to be your hero, and to want to make you happy. So that shows your value. And one of the top things that you can do
