7 Phrases Men LOVE

You are my hero. This is one of the most powerful phrases you can use with a man that allows him to actually feel like he can be that for you. He can step into that masculine role of serving, protecting, providing for you and wanting to make you happy. You create a self fulfilling prophecy when you use a simple phrase like this. You're my hero. Thank you so much. This inspires him. Inside of his system, his masculine instinct is his fire is lit, it's activated. That allows him to actually see himself as being the hero for you, which makes him feel great. Because every man has a masculine core in his center and they have a desire as the masculine to want to serve, to want to protect, to want to provide, to want to be that superman for somebody, for anybody. And you can be that woman. You can allow him to feel that sense of purpose in the relationship which gives him a sense of masculine happiness, which is different than feminine happiness. Because feminine happiness wants to feel loved and adored. Masculine happiness wants to feel respected and trusted. You give him the sense of happiness within his system, a sense of purpose that expands the polarity, it activates him and activates his attraction and devotion. And so it's a very powerful phrase you can use anytime a man does something for you, something small or something big to say, you're my hero. Wow, thank you so much. You're my hero. You're my hero. Practice it, use it. It is very, very powerful. I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize youe man. And for over 20 years, combined with my wife, Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with the man they desire. So let's continue into the other powerful phrases that men love to hear. Number six is I trust you. A man wants to feel that his woman trusts and respects him. So it's so important that you demonstrate this trust to him. Actions, but also through your words, by the simple phrase I trust you. Whether it's a big decision that he has to make, he's thinking about, he's pondering, or a date that he's planning for both of you or an adventure, that simple phrase can allow him to feel that you have actually delegated that authority to him. You see him as this lead, like in a dance within your relationship, as, as your hero. Again, we talked about earlier that you trust him to make the right decision, you trust him to do the right thing. Because with great power comes great responsibility. And when you hand him over that authority to take the lead in your relationship, to allow that planning, that investment, that care, that devotion into the relationship on his side. He will often feel the weight of that. He will feel, wow, she actually does trust me. She actually is putting her heart, her vulnerability into my hands. And most men are going to feel that responsibility. They're going to feel the weight of that and want to do a good job, to not want to let you down if he has any level of care for you and if he's a decently healthy man. Of course, there are a certain percentage of men, 5 to somewhere between 5 to 15% of men who are deeply damaged and broken. They're narcissists, they're sociopaths, they're deeply avoidant attachment styles. They have trauma, they have wounds. And likely those types of men are not going to be able to take good care of you. They're not going to be able to handle those situations well and take care of your heart. Those types of men, unfortunately, you will have to walk away from because they're never going to step into that. Healthy, masculine. But most men, however, are going to take that responsibility. They're going to feel great about it. They're going to start gradually over time, wanting to do better and better things to make you happier. And if they don't, of course they will make mistakes. Sometimes they're not going to get it perfect. But allowing that space will for him to make certain mistakes. Maybe he doesn't turn off on the right exit when you're heading somewhere, but he can get back onto the highway and he can get there eventually. So you're trusting him, that he will learn, he will get better. But that trust is going to allow him to feel like he's in the masculine role, that he's in the hero instinct. And he's going to want to do that more and more for you and do a better job to make you happier as your relationship progresses. Because he will feel great. And when a man feels fully trusted and respected and his natural response from the law of polarity is he's going to want to adore and love you even more, sometimes you have to go first and sometimes you have to trust him. Even if you don't feel that he's trustworthy or he hasn't shown to you yet that he's trustworthy. But you take the leap. You show some faith and some courage, faith over fear. And then you watch his actions. You give it a period of time like we recommend for our clients in our courses, we use the Magnetize youe Man 90 Day Challenge. So it's a 90 day period of time where you're using the things that we teach you and we go through a specific process and allow him that time to actually shift. And you'll find that your relationship will reconnect, it'll come back together, and he will be that incredible partner for you that you've always wanted. Now, the fifth simple phrase that men love to hear is whatever you think. This is another phrase that shows him that you trust him, that you believe in him, that you have faith in his leadership abilities which will expand that masculine feminine polarity, which is a law of the universe. Opposite energies attract. So when you show him that you believe in him, you believe in his thinking, you believe in his problem solving. Because the masculine is about thinking and problem solving. The feminine is about feeling and vulnerability. So when you show him that you respect his thinking, you respect his decisions, and that you actually want him to make those decisions, you encourage him to take that lead, like in the dance of your relationship, in that tango dance, that beautiful polarized partnership. Then he's going to want to take that power wisely, ideally, and make good decisions. And he'll feel great that he, that you're trusting him in that. So it's a very simple phrase. You can use whatever you think, or whatever you decide, or whatever you think is best. So there's certain variations on that that you can use, but it's a great easy phrase that you can use in a variety of situations with a man, such as he's asking you, you know, where should we go out to eat this Saturday? And you say, whatever you think, whatever you think. Now, of course you want to say it like that. You don't want to say it condescending, like whatever you think, whatever you think. Like, you know that it's a bad decision, but it's like, whatever you think, I trust you. I give it up to you. Here I am in my feminine vulnerability, my feminine energy. I'm trusting you as my hero to make a good decision. And hey, it may not be perfect, but I'm going to still trust you as my man and allow you to lead and encourage you to continue to build your own decision making powers, your own wisdom within yourself to make better and better decisions for us, for us as a unit, for us as a family. Like, I trust you as my man to do that. So it's a very powerful thing that he'll feel, that sense of honor that you're giving him in that moment, that sense of lifting him up, that you're seeing him as a strong, capable man as a capable leader. And he's going to want to fill that role naturally within himself, most likely, as most men will over a period of time. When you've used this consistently, what we're teaching you here, if you haven't yet, I also highly recommend taking our free Magnetize youe Man quiz if you really want to master these principles and take it to the next level, the advanced feminine communication strategies that we give as well in specific scripts. And you can do that by taking our free quiz to get a loving, long term, committed relationship with a man you desire by clicking the link in the comments or description below or. Or going to our website magnetize your man dot com. All right, the fourth simple phrase that men love to hear is I apologize. Now, I'm not giving you a giving him a free pass here. He can just do any kind of bad behavior and you're going to be the one apologizing. And being a doormat, that's not what we're teaching you here. There's two ends of the spectrum. On one side we have the doormat archetype. On the other side we have the bitch archetype. But we're helping you to combine those two energies, combine those two archetypes, the best from both, and become the Queen. Now, the Queen is respectful. The Queen is in her feminine, but she also values herself and she also owns when she may have been disrespectful to her man, or when she may have been in her masculine energy, telling him what to do, mothering him, doing things for him, trying to solve his problems, trying to control him, trying to manipulate him, etc. So when you catch yourself doing those things and have cut yourself doing those things, it can be very powerful to simply apologize for it. Hey babe, I just want to say I noticed yesterday I said something that was a little disrespectful for you when I was questioning your judgment or criticizing you in this thing, or I was telling you what to do or mothering you in this way. And I just wanted to say I'm sorry and I don't want to do that anymore. What you're doing in that moment is you're owning for yourself and you're letting him see it and witness it because you're really doing it for yourself to become a more high value, magnetic, magnetically feminine woman that men naturally want to give to and provide for and devote themselves to and love and cherish and adore and be deeply attracted to. So it's really for your own self value and your own self worth as well, that you're owning. And then that way it also reminds you not to do those disrespectful or masculine behaviors that you may have done in the past that were actually pushing him away. And so that you don't want to do it again, you're going to be less likely to want to do those behaviors again because you, you know, and you've made an agreement with yourself, whenever you do those things, you have to apologize. So it's a great practice to just own those things in the moment with just a simple, quick apology. And men love to hear it because it's actually a sign of vulnerability. It's actually a sign of you letting down your armor and your shield and your weapons, where you instead, in the past, you might have gone into an argument and tried to fight him or tried to prove that he was in the wrong and that he's the one that screwed up. Because sometimes you have to go first, sometimes, even if you don't feel he deserves it, or he's done things that have hurt you and he's done things that are bad. But when you clean up your side of the street, when you own it and you put down your weapons and you embrace the open heart, feminine vulnerability, which is the key to feminine energy that allows him to see your heart, to feel your heart, and for him to also want to put down his weapons and instead to lift you up, to hold you, to want to protect you, to want to make you happy, to not want to do anything that would hurt you as well, that he would have to apologize for. And you might find often in this process that he will end up apologizing too, for things he might have done that were hurtful or that weren't caring on his end. So it's a very powerful practice that you can use regularly in a connection with a man, even from the very beginning. The third phrase, powerful phrase that men love to hear, is you're right. And this goes a lot along with what we just mentioned around apologizing. But oftentimes, some of the biggest disagreements and arguments can happen in relationships when two people try to be right, when it's they'd rather become right than be happy. So if you find yourself in that mode where you're constantly trying to look for the ways that he said something that was incorrect, whether he recalled something incorrectly or he had a fact wrong, or he is doing something that is uncaring and he doesn't think that it was uncaring, and you're Trying to prove to him that it was uncaring, like this was not okay. See, my girlfriend said it was not okay. See, our therapist said it was not okay. You are wrong. You are a bad man. You are an evil man. You need to be better. You need to do better. That's only going to push him away. That's going to make him feel disrespected, that's going to make him feel like a child. And he's going to start losing interest in that relationship because he feels like, well, why am I here then? It sounds like you had everything handled. You have all the answers. So why don't you just, you know, I want you to be happy. So why don't you just be happy by yourself? Because it seems like I'm just making your life more miserable. However, there are things that he is doing that you appreciate. Then you should look for those things. Slight things that he's doing, small things, big things that he's doing that make you feel good, that make you feel happy. You want to start bringing those things out more with appreciation and then acknowledging when he is right, when he did something that was helpful to you, when he said something that you actually agree with, that you respect or did something that you agree with that you respect. So that way you give him a path to victory. You show him a map for how he can actually make you happy. Because if a man has any level of care for you, he does want to make you happy. He just needs that clear guidance on how to get there. So this can be a powerful phrase to use often to lower the guards and make him feel that he can win and make you happy. So number two phrase that men love to hear, powerful phrase, is thank you. This goes along with appreciation and simply acknowledging how he makes you feel in the positive when he does things that make you feel happy, relaxed, confident, safe, secure, loved, adored, cherished, etc. You have to let him know those things. You want to let him know those things because that's going to inspire him to want to do those things more. So a simple thank you in different moments can go a long way. And beyond that, you can take it to deeper levels by really letting him know what you thank him for. You know, thank you for working so hard to provide for us and make, and make the family just function. Thank you so much for the effort you put in to our relationship. I really appreciate it. Makes me feel so, so safe and cared for. Thank you for helping me the other night with fixing my phone when it was having those bugs I feel, I feel so grateful to have you in my life. Things like that make him feel really good. And it makes him feel like he is that hero for you, that he is good enough, that he is worthy, that he can serve in, he can provide, he can be that knight in shining armor. So you give him a glimpse of that every time you say a simple thank you. And even when you go beyond that which is more powerful and share how he made you feel, the positive emotions he made you feel in that moment and for specifically what he did so that you're also again, giving him that guideline, giving him that guidebook on how to continue to make you happy in those kind of ways. What is it that actually works? And then the number one phrase that men love to hear is I feel. So anytime you say I feel followed by an emotion, it's very powerful because in that moment, you're essentially being the core feminine energy that you can be within yourself. You are embodying pure femininity, because feminine energy is about your heart. It's about your vulnerability. It's about the emotions that live inside of yourself, the changing tide of emotions, the rise and fall of the cycles, your hormonal cycle, your emotional cycle, the waves that pass through your body. A man wants to feel those things because it gives him a glimpse into what's actually going on for you. Men aren't as emotionally wired as women are, especially the more masculine he is. You become almost his surrogate heart, his way, his glimpse into feeling different emotions inside of himself. So if you're closed off and if you're not speaking up, if you're not sharing your feelings and your emotions with him, which we will help you with with magnetic feminine communication. We'll give you specific scripts and guidelines on exactly how to do this with our advanced trainings. But when you can actually open up and share your feelings and your emotions, especially when there's a problem going on, a problem that he can help you with, which again will activate his hero instinct, he's going to feel really good. He's going to feel very connected to you in that moment. It's going to generate feelings of desire and feelings of love for him. But you need to do it in the right way. You need to do it in a respectful way. So part of it is already built into the sentence I just gave you. I feel you're making it about yourself. You're not making it about him. So if you were to say something like, I feel sad or I'm feeling sadness, I'm feeling Anxiety right now, that's about you. That's not about him. You're not saying like you made me feel sad or you hurt me or you need to fix this. You're just simply talking about your experience, which is much more respectful. It's not going to feel accusatory. It's not going to feel like you're criticizing or blaming him or telling him what to do, but it's just simply giving him a gateway into your heart, allowing him to see and to feel you. Especially when you pause after sharing your emotions, you allow him to actually feel the weight of that. And then what happens within him is it generates a feeling of empathy. We have mirror neurons inside of our brains as humans that we almost can't stop ourselves from feeling the emotions of those around us. And especially when you communicate those emotions clearly with your words and with your body, a man is going to feel those emotions as well. He's going to understand those emotions, he's going to be more likely to sympathize and empathize with those emotions and want to help you. Not only that, but he's going to feel that connection through the polarity, through the masculine, feminine polarity being expanded in that moment because you are being open, because you are being vulnerable and in your feminine. So it's a very powerful phrase to use that'll activate a man in his masculine, allow him to connect to your heart and feel that attraction, that desire, even obsession over you when you do it in the right way. And then what follows that is going to be very powerful as well. When you actually allow him to take the lead and ask you more questions about why you're feeling that way, what's going on, and then you can use magnetic feminine communication to elaborate and allow him to really deeply connect with you and want to help you continuously. So much love. Hope this was helpful today. Leave your comments or questions below. Love to hear them and I look forward to talking to you again more in our next powerful training very soon. Bye bye.