7 Questions Men CRAVE To Be Asked

Seven questions that draw him closer to you. If you'd like to know how to hook a man, to have him crave you, desire you, and can't stop to where he can't stop thinking about you, and avoid a man pulling away, losing interest, or not wanting to deepen a relationship, then this is going to be very key and some powerful questions that you want to learn. So, hi, I'm Brody Boyd, if you don't know me already. And for over 10 years I've been studying all these secrets and the insights into what makes a man fall in love, what a man really wants. And I coached men, in fact for many years, and I've been doing this for over 20 years, combined with my wife, Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man they want fast. So let's go ahead and dive right in with question number seven, which is, could you show me how I can be the best partner for you? It's a powerful question because what it does is it allows him to take the lead. It puts him into the masculine, the, in a way, a teacher role, a helper role, a coach role where he can actually guide you, just like in a dance. In a dance, the masculine energy is leading, the feminine energy is following. So when you ask a man if he can actually show you or teach you how to be a better partner for him, how to communicate better, how to be more respectful, how to create an amazing relationship together, he can actually take that role. Hopefully he'll be inspired into that role to want to teach, to want to show. And it gives him, at the very least, it moves him into this masculine energy where now he's seeing that he has responsibility, he has the ability to help influence your relationship together, that he can guide you, that he can guide himself to create a better relationship, to create a better world. And so this is going to be a great question and you may be surprised on what he actually comes up with and what he may end up doing for you. Now if he doesn't, that's another, that's another conversation. We need to use magnetic feminine communication to start activating his masculine core. But likely he will start. And if, and if you use the 90 day challenge as well that we have, you'll give him enough space to start actually stepping into that role and wanting to make things better in the relationship and you can continue to be open and honest and authentic with him, sharing your feelings. That'll cause him to want to give Even better direction and be a better lead, like in the dance, like in the tango, to guide you forward, to guide the relationship forward and create a better relationship for both of you. And then you can just relax, enjoy, and just speak up and share whenever you're not enjoying the dance or also share when you are enjoying the dance with him. So that's powerful. Question number seven. Number six is, may I ask about your thoughts on monogamy? Now this is a powerful question because what it does is if you find yourself in a situationship with a man where you feel like you're being strung along, or where it's maybe friends with benefits, or maybe no benefits and just friends, then this can be a great question that can open up some things potentially for both of you and allow you to see what kind of man you're dealing with as well, and maybe give him some ideas and some things to think about and talk about that you guys haven't thought about or talked about before and that he hasn't thought about or talked about with himself, even. So, asking this question can open up a lot of things and it can be great and it can deepen it. And now why this is drawing him closer is because when you're asking this question, especially if you're in a situationship, you're showing that you're high value, you're showing that you have standards and that you actually are not just going to be in a situationship endlessly, that you're not just going to be in friends with benefits endlessly. And it allows you to have the space to also set your standard that you're not going to be just strung along with a guy where you're an option and not a priority. So see what he says, see what opens up. It can be a very interesting conversation and it could lead to very good things. It could also reveal potentially that this man has no interest in a long term relationship, he has no interest in monogamy, he doesn't believe in monogamy or have any desire for a relationship that is committed on that level. And that will become very apparent quickly as well. So either way, it can be a blessing and it can be a great conversation and a great opening in your relationship together. So I would highly recommend that question. The next powerful question number five is may I ask what you think would happen if we broke all the rules and decided to live our best life possible? Now, this is a great question because what it can do is it can help free any of the blocks, the barriers, the artificial boundaries that may be existing around your relationship where you guys both believe that you have to follow these set rules between each other, that you can't just simply enjoy each other and enjoy life in the way that you want to. And it could help reveal some of these limitations that have been imposed upon yourself, that you may have imposed on yourself, that he may imposed have imposed on himself, or that you both may have imposed on the relationship. To then start to dream, to start to dream about possibilities, to open up him and to open up yourself to the possibilities of what your relationship actually could be and what could be possible for you both to experience, to have to do and in your future moving forward. So it's a great question to bring the excitement back into your relationship. What would we do? What could we do? If anything were possible, if we didn't have any rules, if there was nothing that we were supposed to do but just what we wanted to do, what would that look like? And just see what he says and let him take the lead. With a lot of these questions, you're just signaling you're opening a door for him to step into with his masculine leadership and to start to guide and lead the conversation forward or not. That's his prerogative as the lead in the dance. It also reveals what kind of man he is and what level of care he has for your heart on which direction he takes this conversation. If a man just doesn't do anything with it and it just falls flat and he changes the subject or he doesn't answer your question, that reveals a lot that's very telling about what kind of man he is. Of course, he may be not in the right mood for a conversation like this. So that's one piece I want to add as well. Whenever you ask these questions, preface it by asking for permission and actually asking him if he's receptive to these conversations by saying something like, could I ask you a question? Or can I ask you about something personal? Or could I share something that's been on my mind? And then go into the question. Wait till he says yes. Wait till he opens the door and says yes, I I can give you this attention. I can give you this presence and allow him to be giving from his masculine because remember, masculinity, masculine energy is about giving. Feminine energy is about receiving. So when you ask him for permission, you ask him to preface a deeper conversation that gives him the space to actually give you his full presence, give you his full attention so that you don't feel dismissed, so that you don't feel like you asked him this powerful question and then he's just not in the mood. He's just preoccupied by something at work or some challenge he's dealing with, and then he dismisses it or he doesn't really give you an answer that you like, and then you feel hurt and rejected and then you pull away and close up again. So we don't want that. So make sure you preface it ideally so that you can have these conversations in a deeper way. Or just wait until you're in a private, quiet location, such as on a date or in the evening when the kids are asleep or you guys have some space outside of work where nothing's going on, nothing's nobody's texting you or bothering you, and you guys can just be fully present with each other. That's going to be create the best space for these questions. So now if you like to do if you'd like to have us actually do this for you and give you the exact best communication to use to get the relationship you want with your man in your specific situation. Guaranteed that. And I highly also recommend taking our free Magnetize youe Man quiz by clicking the link in our bio, the comments, or in the description below. Or go to our website magnetizeyourman.com if you haven't taken that already. We'll do it for you. Highly recommend it. All right, question number four is may I ask what you most love to do for fun? So again, you're opening up the door. This can also be a great question you can ask with a man that you don't really have a relationship with yet. Somebody at work, somebody that you run into at the coffee shop, somebody who's an acquaintance or a friend. Just ask them what do you like to do for fun? Or another version that I like to ask. And I would actually ask a lot of women this question when I was single is do you have any fun plans for the weekend? And this is a great question because it opens up the door to fun, to pleasure, to excitement. And you get to also understand with this man, what does he actually get turned on by? What does he like to do in his life? What activities, what hobbies, what social groups, what meetings, what events he goes to, who he hangs out with. You can learn a lot about him and you can also understand the kind of activities that you can also start becoming a part of. Or he may end up and this is the really powerful stealth secret about this question. After he shares these things with you, he may ask you what you do for fun and or he may also ask you if you want to join him. So, for example, if you ask a man what do you most like to do for fun around here, or do you have any fun plans for the weekend? And he says, oh, I'm actually going to a hiking group hike this, this Saturday with some friends up, you know, wherever he goes hiking to. And he may say, oh, you should join us. Or, you know, do you want to come along or you want to join in? So it's very natural. It allows, allows it to be very natural for him to naturally say, let's go together or why don't you come with me? If this is a guy you're not really having a strong connection with yet. So that's a powerful question, and it can benefit you in many different ways with a guy that you're interested in. The third powerful question to draw a man close and hook his interest on you is, could I ask what your biggest fears are in a relationship? Now, the reason why this question is so powerful is because it brings out vulnerability, vulnerability within himself and also likely within yourself. Because anytime you ask a man a question, anytime you ask anyone a question, typically after they answer, they're going to ask you the same question. So he's going to be able to talk about his fears. Ideally, he'll be able to open up, be vulnerable, and then you can also then be able to open up and be vulnerable. And this can be a very healing and productive conversation. Often it depends on where you're at in the stage of the relationship. The man may not be comfortable yet to going to this level of vulnerability with you and having these deeper conversations, which again will reveal what kind of man you're dealing with and how interested, committed he already feels for you in his heart. But likely he's going to answer the question and you guys can have a good conversation about some things. Maybe he has a fear of commitment, Maybe he has a fear of hurting you. Maybe he's afraid that you guys could get divorced or he could end up like his parents or it'll end up like his last relationship. So these can be healing conversations. These can be good to talk about. What is that? What are actually your fears? Now, this is something me and my wife did right before we got married. We called it a shadow ceremony. We learned it from somebody. Somebody had told us about it. And we're like, we're going to do that. We want to do that for our wedding, for our marriage. And so what the shadow ceremony is, is the night before you get married. And you can choose if you Want to do this or not? But the night before we got married, we dressed up all in black. So it was kind of like the anti wedding, right? We dressed up all in black, just the two of us. We sat down together and you know, we made sure there was no distractions or anything. And we just started sharing with each other and asking each other about what were our deepest fears going into the marriage, going into our wedding the next day. And I shared with her a lot of my fears. Such as fear of being trapped, a fear of getting hurt. No, not fear of getting hurt, a fear of being trapped, a fear of commitment, a fear of losing my freedom. She shared with me some of her fears about not being good enough for me or that I would stop loving her, stop adoring her, etc. And we had some good conversations and it was really great to just get those off our chest because they're there anyways. You might be afraid of talking about the fears, but they're there anyways. And the thing is with vulnerability is it brings people closer. These conversations by nature helps people to be real with who they actually are and hopefully open up you up to be who you really are. And it brings you closer. You start to bond. And there's been some studies done on this, the 32 questions to make someone fall in love, that was done years ago, which is progressive vulnerability. When people get progressively more vulnerable with each other and have deeper conversations like this, it starts to create feelings of love and deep connection. So depends on what stage you're at, you're in your relationship. But it could be a really good question to ask to talk about some things that may already be there that you guys just aren't acknowledging and to see what it is on both your sides to have deeper understanding of each other. So I'll be answering some top questions after I finish my last point also. So make sure to start posting your questions in the comments below now, and I'll hopefully get to those in just a minute when I start answering some questions after these points. So question number two, powerful question to ask a man to draw him closer to you and build even feelings of love for you is may I ask how I could best support you to achieve your biggest dreams? So this shows a man that you're the cheerleader, you're not the coach, you're not his mommy, you're not going to tell him what to do, you're not going to try to be his therapist or his nurse and help him. But you can still be there for him. You can Support him, you can cheer him on. And if a man leads you, and if he guides you to do certain things for him, that's still him being in his masculine, just like in the dance, he's still in his masculine by giving you direction and asking for things that he wants. And then it's up to you if you want to do those things or not. But then that way you keep the polarity, you keep the chemistry. Because the only thing that creates real chemistry, attraction, polarity and deep feelings of love and devotion long term is in a relationship is masculine, feminine polarity. Because of the law of polarity that states opposite energies attract. Masculine energy attracts feminine energy. So by asking this question, you can help him to take the lead again. Teaching you, guiding you, showing you, and you can follow. You can be receptive, you can share your feelings, you can be vulnerable and do what he requests if you want to, if it feels good to you, and if it doesn't feel good to you, you can have that conversation about your feelings around it, whatever he suggests. But see what he says, how you can support him to achieve his dreams. Because here's the thing, one of the deepest fears that most masculine men have in getting into a long term committed relationship is they're afraid they're going to reduce their ability to fulfill their potential. That by being in a relationship they're going to be trapped in some way or they're going to be hindered in some way rather than, you know, their goal for making a million dollars, a billion dollars building a company, making being famous, you know, achieving their life dream of whatever their career ambition is. However, if you ask him how you can support him in that, how you can even just be there for him with that, that's a different conversation because now that's showing him what you're communicating through this question is, hey, I don't have to be a burden for you. I want to support you in your dreams. I want to help you be your best self to achieve your dreams, to be the king to shine. I want to help you to be strong and do all the things you want to do in your life. And we can do it together. We could be a power couple. We can achieve those dreams together. Let's start thinking of more dreams. And here's the other thing. If he doesn't have dreams, if he doesn't know what he actually wants, that can open up a whole nother conversation around what are his dreams, what does he want to achieve? What does he want to do? What does he want to experience? You Guys can talk about that together and those can create. Those can create dreams that you can have for your relationship together that you can accomplish. So it's a beautiful question to ask as well. Now, powerful question number one that you can ask your man to draw him in is, can I ask what was the last interaction we had that made you feel really good? So this can be interesting question because it can allow him to think about and ponder what does he really love about your relationship together? What does he love that you do in the relationship? And it could be an interesting insight to see what that actually is for him. Maybe it was just you both sitting in the car listening to music while you're driving. And he just felt really great. He just felt like, wow, I got my woman by my side, we're on the way to go see my family, and it just feels like everything's right in the world. Or he may say, you know, when we had that deep conversation the other day about your fears, that made me feel really good. I actually loved having that conversation that we can talk about those things because I hadn't thought about those things before and I didn't know you had some of those fears in the relationship. That could be something. Or he could just say, you know, when we were having sex last and you were scratching my back, you're putting your fingernails into my back. And it just felt really, really good. And I just felt really turned on and I was enjoying my ravishment of you. That could be one. Who knows what it is? We don't know. It depends on your man. But it this can open up the door for him to share those things with you. And then you can make a mental note and say, hmm, my man really likes it when I just am there with him, when I'm not saying anything, when I'm not telling him what to do, when I'm just being with him in my feminine and enjoying the moment. Or my man really likes it when I am expressing myself fully and when I'm actually sharing things with him. Or, hmm, my man really likes it when I am playful and jumping around and singing songs. Who knows what that's going to be for him. But it can be very interesting for you to make a mental note so that you can do more of those things in the future. Now, it doesn't mean you have to turn yourself into a pretzel and just perform for him like a dancing monkey and I'll hear I'm the perfect woman for you. You take all this as interesting information, you still got to Be authentic and true to yourself, which is actually your true feminine instinct and your feminine core when you're listening to your heart and listening to your own emotions and operating from there because that's your femininity is what's going on in your body, your feelings. And then you can take that information and you could say, you know what, I actually love being playful. I'm glad I get the permission now or I'm glad I'm giving myself the permission to do that more. I didn't know he likes that so much or if it's something that you don't really like that he said he likes about you, like, oh, I just like when you shut up or who knows what he's going to say. Then you can share your feelings with him around that and use magnetic feminine communication the way we teach you to have an empowering conversation and hopefully get him to show care for your heart and not be dismissing your heart or not be doing something that makes you feel bad or makes you feel anxious or low value or insecure, et cetera. You can have a conversation around that without blaming him, without making him feel attacked or criticized, but where he can empathize with your heart and want to shift and want to make you happy naturally. So I hope that was helpful. I'm gonna start answering some questions now that have popped in. It looks like there's a lot of them. So again, go ahead and start posting your questions now if you want me to answer them about what I talked about a relationship you have with your man right now, dating, etc, and we can see how many we can go into those while I'm still live today. So Mercedes said, happy eclipse, Happy eclipse. Mercedes very happy. All right. Pamela said, amen. Heather said, hello, Brody. Heather said, wow, great question. Heather said, well, I know my fiance is about to propose to me. All right, great. Well, let's hear it and please send some photos once that happens. I would love to see those. We do get a lot of a lot of success stories lately in our groups and men committing, proposing, doing everything that the woman wanted, wanting to be a better partner. So it's really great to see when your man is activated and stepping into his masculine and wanting to serve and provide for you. Lindy said, this is good. Glad you like it, Lindy. Mercedes said, thanks for this live. I really love it. May I ask for examples of good feelings and words of appreciation? I'm now in this about feelings. Thanks for. Thanks to you. Okay. Yes. So you want to share your feelings. The first thing you have to do is you have to listen to your body because that's where your emotions live and that's where your feminine lives in your heart, in your body, in your gut. So in order to really share appreciation properly with a man where it really impacts him, you want to first listen into your body and your emotions and your heart and your gut. What are you actually feeling when he does things for you? Any small things like he opened the door, he made you a dinner, he packed for the trip, he fixed your, your light bulb, he, he fixed your car, etc, whatever he did for you that you appreciate or that felt really good. Listen to your body. What are those emotions that you actually feel? Is it joy, is it gratitude, is it excitement, is it bliss, is it peace, is it relaxation, is it safety, is it calmness, is it turn on attraction, etc. And then you can share those things with him and say, wow, when you just did that for me, I just felt so happy. Like thanks for doing that. Or when you, when you, when you helped me with my taxes the other day, I just felt so taken care of and nurtured or looked out for. And you're so amazing with that. And I just said I wanted to thank you for that. Or you could just say something as simple as you make me feel safe or you make me feel happy or you make me feel so relaxed or you make me feel comfortable, but you want it to be authentic with anything. You want it to be coming from your authentic femininity heart. Because the thing is with feminine communication and the way we teach it in our courses, in our groups, in the coaching is it works because the man feels you. It's not so much the words. The words are great, but the words are also helping you to open up a gateway for yourself to actually share your feminine energy with a man. So by you saying the words I feel, you have to tap in. Your brain has to start connecting to what am I actually feeling? That's why I feel statements are so powerful. And then you can share what are you actually feeling? I feel happy, I feel safe. I. You also can say share the other things. I feel sad, I feel anxious. But that goes into the full spectrum of feminine communication the way we'll teach it to you. But that's how you want to do it. And it's going to be a learning journey for you because if you've been operating more from your masculine as a woman, then you're probably disconnected in a lot of ways from your own feelings, especially from sharing your own feelings. It'll Feel uncomfortable, it'll feel scary, it'll feel weak, It'll feel like, oh, I don't want a man to take advantage of me. Or I don't want men to think that I'm weak and I'm soft and I'm ushy, gushy, feminine deliciousness, which really is what it is. So I'm not going to share that. But it's going to feel uncomfortable. And that's like, that's why I describe this often, this process, this journey that taking you on as the journey of learning a new language or learning a new dance. Just like if you were to learn how to do a salsa dance, you're not just going to perfectly dance overnight. It's going to take some time. You have to learn the steps. You need to coach, you need practice. That's why we do a lot of role playing with our clients and I'll role play with them. Live some of the hard conversations that they need to have with their man or the good conversations as well, so they can see what it feels like in their body to interact with a man from their feminine. So, so important, so powerful to change your life and to change your relationships forever. So it's going to take some time. It's going to feel uncomfortable. And just know that going into it and know that it's going to take some courage to be vulnerable. It's going to take some courage to break through your old fears of am I going to get hurt again or is he going to reject me or is he not going to like it, or once he sees who I really am, is he going to, is he going to pull away? And there's always that risk. There's always the risk that a man could pull away at any moment for any reason. We can't control him. Men are going to do what they do and your man is going to do what he does. All you can do is be the most magnetic, feminine, open woman you can be and see how he responds to that. Because it's going to be a better way of life anyways. You don't want to be living your life having to walk on eggshells and having to pretend everything's good when it's not. Or having to manage his perceptions of you and put on a mask and do a little happy monkey dance to try to win his approval. Like, you need to be authentic. You need to be true to how you're actually feeling. And you have some guidelines. Like, we'll give you some guidelines. Just like in salsa dance, you have some guidelines you're not just going to completely, you know, fling yourself everywhere and not. Not follow the tempo and not follow his leadership. So there are some guidelines, but at the end of the day, you'll be able to still express yourself and be true to yourself and natural. And if you're not enjoying the dance with him, you can step away at any time. And also the man, if he's not showing that he's a capable partner for you and he's not leading you well and he's not doing the dance well, then you can communicate with him about that. And you can use our 90 day feminine magnetic Feminine challenge to give yourself a period of time where he can learn the steps as well. And he can learn how to interact with you from his masculine, since you're becoming, moving more into your feminine. And then you can have an incredible relationship at the end of that 90 days guaranteed. Or he may reveal himself to be a man that is not capable. Because there are a certain percentage of men, 5 to 10%, who are deeply broken. They're sociopaths, they're narcissists, they're deeply avoidant attachment styles that just can't be fixed. And some of those men will reveal themselves to you. And that's when you have to be the queen and be willing to take him off the pedestal and step away. Because you don't want to also live a life like that. And you don't want to have a relationship like that where you have to be walking on eggshells constantly or you're being abused or you're being dismissed. And a man has no care for your heart. But likely he will be inspired. Even the most broken men, some of them will even also be inspired to step in their healthy masculine and show deep care and affection for your heart when you use what we teach you. So just a process for that, Lindy says. Do you have a book? Yeah. The most powerful thing Lindy I would recommend is taking our free quiz@mungetizeyourman.com or clicking the link in the description or below. Below. But we do have a workbook and we have a book as well that you can get on Amazon called Magnetize youe Man. It's a good intro to some of the work that we teach and it goes very deep into a lot of uncertain topics. Not as deep into magnetic feminine communication, which we're primarily teaching now, but it's a very powerful book. Again, it's called Magnetize youe Man. Would recommend getting that as well at some point. And there's an audiobook as well. Leanne said, I asked the man I liked, what does your perfect relationship look like? I made him blush. Is that it? Did he not respond? Now, if he was just blushing, he probably got uncomfortable for whatever reason. Maybe he, he was. He's a very feminine guy, it sounds like. I mean, I, I can't imagine a very masculine man blushing when you ask him a question like that, but he probably just got uncomfortable or maybe he wasn't ready to have a conversation like that. I don't know what else his response was. If he just blushed and was quiet, he's probably shy, he's insecure, he's not very confident, etc. I don't know. I would need more information. But yeah, it's interesting when you ask these questions to see how he actually responds. It'll give you more information what kind of man he is and also what level of care he already has for you and how willing he is to start talking about. I don't know if they're necessarily deeper conversations, but they're interesting conversations. They're great conversations. See how willing he is to go into that and, or not. And if not, you want to use some of the other things we're teaching you to share your feelings and inspire him to want to go deeper with you into different areas. Margaret said, Love this great information. Glad you like it. Margaret Hobby said, what would you say or what would you direct me towards if I asked you what is the best way to heal from my divorce so that I'm not transferring my fears or easy triggers into my new relationship? Yeah, so the best way to heal from your divorce is to start getting into your feminine and practicing that with new people, with men that you're meeting and really just rebuilding your social life. Because if you're not, you may not be ready yet to start dating, which is fine. And we have a course also on Magnetic Feminine Online dating, how to actually do online dating from using Magnetic Feminine Polarity principles and Magnetic Feminine Communication principles and scripts for adjusting your bio and the messages you send men and the messages you respond back, etc. But if you're not ready to date yet, I would recommend start to focus on rebuilding your social life and using what we're teaching you, ideally with our coaching, because we'll do this for you and we'll teach you exactly what to say and exactly what to do and customize everything with men. And if you're still having conversations with your ex husband or whatever situation you're in right now, we'll help you with that how to understand the psychology of men and how to get into your magnetic feminine and communicate from a more powerful way. But I would recommend getting coaching, support and being in the 90 day challenge because that's going to help you really master this, master dating and relationships once and for all so you don't have to go through this again. Pain and bad relationships. So you want to start practicing those things, practicing what you're learning here, Practicing magnetic feminine communication, especially so that you're getting used to this new dance, a new way of being in your feminine in a healthy way in relationships so that you can tango dance effectively. My personal dance is actually west coast swing. I love that dance, but that's what I'd recommend. Learn how to dance, learn the new language we're teaching you so that when you get into your next relationship for one, it'll help you to get into a healthy, polarized, long lasting, committed relationship with a quality guy and a masculine man. But it will also help you to make sure you keep that relationship and make sure it lasts and make sure it's sustained and the passion stays and the chemistry stays and you're able to be authentic and share your emotions. And the man wants to help and he wants to show care for your heart and he wants to be in his masculine and lead and guide and make decisions and plan and invest in the relationship and move things forward. So you have to learn the dance and that's going to help you. It's going to help you to heal and it's also going to set you up for the next best relationship. So you want to do all those things simultaneously, which is why we design it the way we do when you go through our courses. Because it's all building on each other and it's all, it's all doing. The things you're learning are impacting multiple areas at the same time. They're building upon each other so that you're not only healing, but you're also creating magnetism that draws quality men in. So you're getting set up to attract your next man and then also keep the relationship. So that's what I'd recommend for you. Hope that helps. Tina. Hello. K said, I actually think my crush likes me back. That's great. Congratulations. And now use feminine communication to actually have a relationship with him and have him be inspired to ask you out. Go on dates, deepen the connection, move things forward. Want to care for your heart, want to help you in different ways, solve problems for you and listen to your feelings and want to help with those things etc from his masculine so you're in the right place and glad things are starting to shift with him. Spring said, can you post the questions please? I missed some of them. Yeah, I can't post them right now, Spring, but what I'd recommend is after this live stream is done, watch it again and go back through the beginning and that'll have all the questions for you. Heather said, Another great question. All right, awesome. Yeah, I'm sure you're responding to something I said earlier. Pamela said, My war veteran friend has some stalkers, so I'm wondering how long it's going to take for him to give me his phone number and actually call me. I don't know. Sorry. Not that it's a funny situation, it's just a complex situation. I have no idea. It really depends what that means with him having stalkers. If they're old ex exes that are that he is that have been showing up at his house or but here's the thing Pamela. If a man really has care for your heart, he's going to overcome those things that are hindering him from being able to connect with you and to move the relationship forward. Especially when you're using what we teach you, he's going to start treating you differently because he's going to realize you're different than the women he's dated in the past. Women he's dated in the past were likely telling him what to do, criticizing him or being his mommy and taking care of things for him and sending him reminders and giving things to him and trying to do things for him or they were closed off and not in their feminine, they were guarding their heart, etc. So it's very rare when a man meets a high value fe feminine woman who knows how to communicate properly from her feminine, who knows how to interact with a man from her feminine let him lead, let him give to her, let him invest in the relationship, let him move things forward, plan things, make decisions, give to her, et cetera. So you have to give him some space and ideally that'll happen when you've really mastered these things, when you've gotten coaching support, when you've really practiced these things, especially with me directly, and so that when you're interacting with him, he gets it and he starts to understand how to show care for your heart. Because this whole situation, you can use feminine communication to talk to him about it and how it makes you feel. How does this whole situation make you feel? What are the emotions you're feeling? Does it make you feel sad? Does it make you feel insecure? Does it make you feel resentful? Does it make you feel angry? Frustration? Confusion? You can share these feelings with him respectfully. So you want to be vulnerable, but you also want to be respectful so that you're not penetrating him energetically and moving into your masculine so that you draw him closer to you rather than pushing him away. You draw him closer to you and you make him open up and you make him want to help you, make him want to get rid of this situation, fix the situation so that he can be focused on you. And you'll be surprised. You don't have to do much. You don't have to do it for him. But when you share with your from your feminine, you inspire a man to want to show care for your heart, to want to help you, to want to provide for you. Because he starts to feel like your hero. He starts to feel great. And then he'll, he'll fix it. He'll figure it out. Trust him to figure it out. He'll handle it. And if he's not figuring it out, if he's not handling it, you have to share your feelings like around that. Which is why we recommend the Magnetic Feminine 90 Day Challenge. So you give this a period of 90 days, which, by the way, you can get that again by taking our quiz, our free quiz in the description or comments below. Make sure you save that link or go to magnetizeyourman.com but take the 90 day challenge and then you'll allow him to learn how to be in his healthy masculine how to understand that you're in your feminine and feel your feminine, be inspired to be your hero. He'll figure it out and he'll move the relationship forward. He'll do it for you. You don't have to do it for him. He'll figure it out. He'll do it for you. And if he doesn't, if he's not inspired, which would be surprising, but there are some men that just aren't there yet. They're not able to either because they just have no interest in you or they're deeply broken in some way, it'll become very apparent. And then that's at the point where you will have to, over the 90 days, it'll become very apparent and you may have to move on. You may have to say, I can't be with a man who's not showing care for my heart. Because at the end of the day also, and this is so important, please listen to this. A man's actions are the most important thing. Don't be distracted by his words because he may tell you all these wild stories and tales about how his hamster has diabetes and his mom just recently crashed her sailboat into the. Into the harbor and she needs to get fixed and she needs this and that and then has to go do save his. He has to save his dog from some stalkers. Whatever it is, the stalker thing, it could all just be make believe. It could all be just words. Who cares? At the end of the day, all that matters is how. Is what are his actions doing? Are his actions showing that he has care for you or not? Because if they're not showing that he has care for you, if he's not actually doing something to fix it and move things forward and he's showing progress and effort, real effort, then it's. It's irrelevant. It's irrelevant what he says. All that matters is, is he progressing the relationship forward? Is he asking you out? Is he wanting to solve problems? Is he wanting to listen to your feelings? Does he check in with you? Does he want to commit? Is he exclusive? Is he shifting things around in his life so he can spend time with you, so he can call you on the phone? Those are real actions, right? Those are, those are signs that a man shows care for your heart. If he's not doing those things, then it's just, it's just chatter. It's like, you know, Charlie. If anyone's seen Charlie Brown from back in the day, remember the teacher at this at the front of the room. Sometimes you have to do that when a guy is just telling you things because you don't want to be so distracted by his words. You want to look at the actions. It would actually, I think, serve a lot of women if they almost couldn't even hear what a man was saying. All they could listen to is what he's doing, what actions is he doing? Is he calling you? Is he asking you out? Is he making time for you? Is he wanting to listen to you and your feelings? Is he solving problems and wanting to help and make things better if you're feeling sad or anxious or lonely, etc. Etc. When you use feminine communication in the way we teach you, with being vulnerable and respectful and asking permission and sharing problems in the right way and giving it up to him to take leadership with the different phrases we have for that. So those are all the things that they'll show if he's actually a true man, that's showing care for your heart or not. And at the end of the day, if he's not showing care for your heart, you need to move on regardless of the blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Right? So just wanted to mention that. So she also said, will he ever trust me? Yeah, I think he will. He has to heal his stuff. That's his work to do. All you can do is be magnetic and feminine and show him that you're trustworthy by trusting yourself and being open and sharing. That's the ultimate way to build trust with a man is when you're using what we teach you with magnetic feminine communication, and you're allowing him to feel your heart and your femininity. And that shows that he can trust you, that you're not trying to put on a mask and that you're not trying to take advantage of him. You're just like, hey, here I am. I'm a woman. I'm in my feminine. I'm available, I'm open. Like, will you lead me? Will you help me? Will you guide me? Will you take, do you want to date me? Will you take our relationship forward or not? And if not, I'm going to find a high value man who will do those things. Because I'm a prize. I'm a high value woman. I'm feminine. I'm open, I'm available. I've gone through Brody's and Anja's coaching and training. I know this. I mastered it. And now I'm gonna, if you can't be that man, I'm gonna find a high quality man who will. So, and then Pamela had another question. Do you think that the 22 year difference in age is wrong? He seems very mature. I wouldn't say that it's right or wrong. The key is how does he treat you? Like you said, if he's mature, yeah, that's great. But how does he treat you? Does he treat you with care? Does he show care for your heart? Does he want help? Does he want to listen to your feelings? Does, does he respond well when you use magnetic feminine communication? That's all that matters. Because at the end of the day, age is just a number. And if he's doing those things and you enjoy your connection with him, then go for it. If he's meeting some of your criteria, one of your top criteria should be, does this man show care for my heart? And then also along with that is, is this a quality man that I respect and admire? Because if you don't respect and admire him, you really have no business getting into a relationship with him. Because if you don't respect and admire a man. Really what's going to happen is he's going to feel that over time and he's not going to feel good about that. And he's going to feel like, why am I here? The polarity is going to be destroyed at some point because he's not a man that you trust and not a man that you can respect. And the deepest craving for a man is to be with a woman who trusts and respects him. And part related to that is admires and appreciates him. If you don't trust, appreciate, admire, respect him and you can't show and find those ways to do it, then likely at, at some point it's going to cause issues in your, in your dynamic. And so you have to speak up about that if that's the case. I'm not saying just leave a man or dump him if you don't feel any trust or respect towards him. You need to use what we'll teach you and we'll, we'll give you the scripts. We'll do this for you if you take the free quiz. We'll, we'll help you on this journey, do it for you to say exactly what you need to say to shift the dynamic and get him to love and care for you, guaranteed. Or you'll have to move on if he's not a man capable of that. But that'll be revealed. So hope that helps. Pamela, someone said hi. Is it okay to allow a man to take you out and pay for it, even when you know you only want friendship? Yeah. You know what? I think this could be helpful because it's about you practicing receiving. It's about you practicing being in your feminine and allowing a man to take care of you. Allowing a man to show care for your heart and allowing men to give to you. Now, you can still have some boundaries around that if you feel really uncomfortable with it within yourself and you feel like, I don't want to lead him on, I'm not really interested in him. Now, of course, give a man. I would say it's okay to give a man a chance as well. You might still be hung up on your ex and you may be a slightly emotionally unavailable yourself. So you want to give yourself a period of time. Maybe it's just one date, maybe it's two or three dates where you actually see, do I actually like this guy? Like, I don't think I'm interested right now, but I'm going to give it a little bit more of a chance to see if something develops Because I may still be hung up on my ex or the guy from work or whatever, and I might not be fully emotionally available myself. So I want to give myself some time to actually open up and to actually make myself available to receive from a man who could be showing care for my heart and who I could actually start to potentially build attraction and interest for. And if you're just very clear that this man you have no interest for, it's never going to happen, there's no way, then you may want to say, you know, thank you, but I'd rather just keep it as a friendship. And, you know, let's just split the. Split the bill. Because that's what you're doing when you allow. When you split and bill with a man, you're basically saying, let's just be friends. So that's okay to say, let's just be friends and just allow it to be that and not let him pay for you. So that's what I'd recommend for that. All right, the next question we have here is from Randy. So Randy said when he looked in my eyes, I felt a strong connection, but I asked. He said he was just feeling like friending me. Yeah. So that's, you know, you got to listen to what a man says. If a man says he's just friends and he doesn't feel any romantic connection, you should believe him. Don't create fantasies in your mind. This goes for everybody. Don't create fantasies in your mind that a man is available when he's not just because you think and you had a hunch, oh, he must. I think he's actually into me or I think he actually likes me. Well, if he says no, he's not interested or he doesn't want a relationship, you should believe him because men are typically very honest about that and 99.9% of the time they're not going to shift from that. So don't get. Create fantasies in your head that may be non existent. Mary said, where is my soulmate? He's out there, Mary. He's available. He's waiting for you. You have to put yourself out there. There's billions of men on the planet, billions of them. I'm sure your soulmate is out there somewhere. And some people would say there's multiple soulmates that you could be with. Now, the key is you got to be available to him for him to find you as well. So that's why I would recommend taking our course on magnetic feminine online dating. And then also, you need to rebuild your social life and you need to start going to meetup.com finding meetup events in your area. Hiking groups, dance groups, friends. Have a dinner party, go to. Go to the farmer's market, go to music festivals, whatever you're interested in. You have to start putting yourself out there so that your soulmate can find you and he can approach you and he can date you, because he may be out looking for you, but he's like, where is she? I don't know. I. Every time I go out, I don't run into her. And then finally you show up, you go out one day, and then he's like, oh, there she is. And you guys have a great conversation and you connect, and then he progresses things and you. And all of a sudden you're in a great relationship and marriage potentially. So that's what you got to do. And that has to be the process. Mary, you have to start first by making yourself fully available. And we'll help you as well. Because also, here's the other thing. You can be fully available. You might be saying, oh, I do go out all the time, Brody. I'm available. I'm out every weekend. I'm at events, I'm with friends. I meet guys all the time, but none of them want to date me or none of them I'm interested in, or nothing progresses past the first date. Well, then that's another problem. And that's where we come into play, especially with helping you to master magnetic feminine polarity and magnetic feminine communication. So that stops happening. So that you're attracting a higher quality of men, and they're in their masculine. They're pursuing you, they're interested, and they also progress the relationship and they move things forward. That's what we're going to help you with as well, because that's actually our specialty, how to bring a man to you and how to have him want to commit and treat you well and show care for your heart. And it happens through our unique mechanism of magnetic feminine polarity. Magnetic feminine communication that we will do for you, and then we will teach you. All right. Heather said yes. I go out every Saturday night with my boyfriend, who happens to be a guy. Okay, that's great. So I hope. I hope that's not because you're trying to meet somebody else, but it's great that you are going out. I mean, it's. You probably asked this question earlier based on something else. It's funny that it came up right after her question, but yeah, that's great. That means he is progressing things. I mean, he is showing consistency. He is spending time with you. So that's. Oh, are you saying your best friend? I thought I read boyfriend. You might be saying best friend who happens to be a guy. Yeah, I would be a little careful with that. I would try to also invite some girls out with you, because here's the thing. When you're out with a guy, the other guys around you are going to instantly and automatically assume subconsciously that you guys are dating. Because men are very possessive. And if another man is with you, you may feel that it's just friends. But there's been a lot of interesting social experiments that have been done that they have women ask their best guy friend, hey, like, they'll, there's a video I watched where this, the guy would approach women and he would say, do you think your best friend is interested in you? And she's like, no, of course not. We're just friends. He's like, well, let's do an experiment if you're up for it. I'll pay you a hundred dollars if you do this. And she'll be like, okay, what is it? I want you to call him and I want you to say, you know what? I thought about it. And I would actually like to explore if we started dating each other and see what he says. And so the girl would call the guy and it was like, every time that a girl did this, the guys would all say, yes. They're like, yeah, you know, I, I, I'm okay with that. Yeah, let's see where it goes. Let's see what we can. What happens? And they were shocked. They're like, oh, I thought we were just friends. And then they find out, oh, the guy was actually interested. The guy actually had some deep romantic interest. Deep in the back of his head, at least if not more prominent. So I would be careful of that. But that's what men. That's one of the reasons why men automatically and instantly assume that if you're with another man, even if it's your brother, they don't know what the situation is. They're going to assume you guys are together. So they're likely not going to approach. He's not going to approach you. He's not going to start talking to you. So when you go out, you can still go out with your guy friend, but also invite some women. If you can invite some other friends, maybe it's. I would invite at least one other woman. Because if you have multiple guys, that's also really weird. So try to invite some other friends when you go out in short, or go out if you feel safe to certain places, you can go out by yourself and be available that way. Have open body language, being your feminine, use what we teach you and that would be a much. You'll probably get much better results that way than just going out with your best guy friend. So hope that helps. Heather. So Brenda said, I watched you and Matt last night. So I asked him today if we have a relationship. He asked me what I thought because we have just been texting. When should I ask these questions? Yeah, I think you can ask these questions at any time. It depends how long you've been texting him. Some of these questions you can ask even before you're dating a guy. Like I said, the question of what do you like to do for fun or what do you most enjoy for fun? Those kind of questions you can ask right away. Some of them are a little deeper, but I think you could always go a little deeper than you feel comfortable with. So even if you're like, oh, wow, that feels a little bit uncomfortable, that's probably a good thing because that means it's more vulnerable for you and it's probably going to open up some deeper things in the. In the relationship. So I would slightly push it to something you're slightly uncomfortable with asking and see what he does. And worst case, he doesn't answer and it's fine. As a feminine energy, you want to be detached from the outcome. That also makes sure you're not trying to get an outcome which is masculine. Feminine is detached from the outcome. The masculine is getting outcomes and making things happen. So you want to do things and signal and ask, but be detached from whatever he says and be okay with whatever he says. And that's often the best test if you're actually in your feminine and if you're detached from the outcome, if you were to text the guy something or if you were to ask him something and you'd be completely okay if he didn't respond, then that shows you're in your feminine, you weren't attached to an outcome. And then you just go about your life. And of course, if that happens several times and he's not responding to your messages, then you need to have a deeper conversation or you need to use what we're teaching you to salvage the relationship because he's not showing care for your heart at all, or you need to walk away. So there's definitely. There's several things we can recommend and what we do with our clients. When a man isn't responding to you or he isn't engaging and that can save the relationship. We call the relationship recovery and we have a seven word text message you can send especially that'll help with that. But if a man doesn't have any care for you and he's not wanting to even engage, then that's a whole different conversation. And likely it may end up you having to walk away, but that's still holding your head high and being in your queen because you're like, look, that's a sense of detachment from the outcome is like, look, I deserve a man who's taking care of my heart, who wants to solve problems, who wants to be there for me. And if he's not it, then I got to move on and I got to make myself available for a man who is. And it's not like you don't have to necessarily have any hard feelings about it and be. You can still be sad about it and you can grieve, but ultimately it's like it's his loss. You got to move on and you got to be available to somebody who is going to treat you with care. So I hope that was helpful, Brenda, and let me just see, I'm going to answer one or two more here. Randy said again, he approached me and he introduced himself. He couldn't go on. Then I asked him some questions. Does it show he is shy? He approached me, introduced himself and he couldn't go on. Then I asked him some questions. Does it show he is shy? Yeah. If he doesn't respond to your questions, he's probably shy. If he couldn't go on, which I'm assuring, assuming you meant by that he's probably sigh or not interested and you just have to be detached and you have to be willing to move on from that. So I hope that helps. Leanne said, what is your take on no communication? How and how long do I wait for him to respond first? Yeah. So if there's no communication, You need to use what, what we'll teach you with our seven word relationship revival text and also with our appreciation bomb text to potentially get the relationship revived. If, yeah, if, if he's not, if he's not communicating with you, if he's not reaching out, you can still reach out to him, but you want to do so from your feminine and we'll teach you how to do that and what text messages to send so that you're not in your masculine when you reach out. Because just because you text a man does not necessarily mean you're in your masculine. If you're using feminine communication when you reach out and if you're using the things we'll teach you, you can still reach out to a guy in your feminine and have him start engaging. Have him then take the lead from there and step into his masculine. The way I like to think about it is signaling versus initiating. And I've done a video on this, but basically, and I have a module, training module. But basically signaling is like you're the flower. You're this open flower that's showing the world that I'm amazing, I'm beautiful, I have, I smell delicious and any man would be lucky to be with me. And then the man is like the honeybees, the honeybees that fly around. And then a man comes to your, to you as the flower. And so when you're initiating, when you're signaling to a man, you're like sending a text message. It's like a signal, often in the form of a question. Then it's up to him to then take the next step from there and to initiate from his masculine and to actually move things forward or not. So there's a couple things from that that will help you to move things forward when you use the right messages from your feminine in those situations. Brenda said, you and your wife are really helping me more than you know. Awesome. So glad to hear it, Brenda, and glad it's really helping you. And this one is from Alyssa. She said, hey, if a boy will take the chance to get in trouble just to say hey to you or to run his own arm into you are to like to be by you every chance he gets. I don't know if there was a real question there, but yeah, if a, if a man or a boy is willing to get in trouble to talk to you, that's a good sign. And if he's running his arm into you, that's a good sign. If he does it playfully, as long as he's not abusing you physically, we don't want that. It's a playful nudge, that's okay. And yeah, if he's trying to be by you, around you every chance he gets, that's a good sign. And Heather said, alyssa, he really likes you. Yes, that's a good sign that a guy likes you when he's doing those things. Likely Ozoe said, how to stand out when a, when you're dating a high earning man who says it's not hard for him to date because he is successful. Went on one date. It went well. Yeah. So the more successful a man is probably likely the more masculine he is. Because masculine energy is about achievement, it's about success. It's also about getting things done, making things happen, moving things forward. So the more financial success a man has, the more masculine he is. And also the more masculine he is, the more likely he's also to have some financial success. And so the same principles apply. If you want to attract a high, high value successful masculine man, you got to be high value feminine. Which means using everything that we're teaching you here, the things we'll teach you, especially with our coaching, are perfectly designed for this, perfectly designed to attract a very wealthy man, a very successful man, a very high value man, a very masculine man. That's the whole point. Because I don't want to help you attract a man who's feminine, who's wanting a mommy, who wants you to take care of him and pay all the bills and let him just stay at home and play video games all day. That's not what I want. Because that's not a healthy polarized relationship. The man is selling himself short and he's not being his best self, which if I was, and I used to coach men, if I was helping him, I would help him raise back into his healthy masculine to be a protector, provider, hero. Now, when you're being in your feminine, you're going to naturally attract those kind of men. And the more feminine you are, the more high value feminine you are, the more you're going to attract these kind of men that are more high value, that are more successful, that are more masculine, that are showing care for they know how to treat a woman, they, they know how to take care of a woman, et cetera. So you want to use everything we're teaching you and more, because that's what's going to make you stand out. That's what's going to make you much different than the other women that he may be dating. Because he may say, it's not hard for me to date, I'm successful so I can date any woman I want. Which by the way, if a man is really that successful and he's really that good at meeting women, he probably wouldn't need to say that just as a little caveat. So I don't know how successful and how desirable he actually is. The fact that he said that to you, it actually speaks to some insecurity. But if he is actually successful and he has women after him, who cares? Because just because they're after him doesn't mean that they're women that he wants. They could be gold diggers, they could be women that are just low value women. For example, they could be masculine women pushing themselves onto him and trying to make something happen, trying to lead and control him in some way, manipulate him so you can stand out by being different and by being a high value feminine woman, being the queen, as we call it, that'll make him see and feel differently about you. And so I would highly recommend getting some coaching support and doing our 90 day challenge because that's going to help you a lot with him to make sure he continues to want to date you and he stays and he continues to deepen the relationship. And it's yet to be seen because I still would give him some time. We don't know exactly who this man is. You don't know much about him. So you want to continue to give him some time to see if you actually want to keep dating him because sounds like he could potentially be a little insecure. We don't know how actually successful he is, how actually desirable he is amongst other women. He says stuff, but we don't know if that's actually true. It could be. I'm not saying it's not. I'm just saying we don't know. You don't know a lot about this guy. So as always, take him off the pedestal and wait and see. Because you're the prize. You want to be the prize and let him come to you and let the more feminine you are, the more he has to prove himself to you and he has to chase you like just like the sperm and the egg. The sperm is chasing the egg, the egg isn't chasing the sperm. Right. So you have to let him come to you and invest and prove himself that he's worthy of you to take into your life and let him fertilize the egg potentially. So we'll do this as the last question. So Jane said, how will you know that a guy is seriously in love with you if you have more than 20 years Gap Girl is older than the guy. Well, you have to look to his actions. Again, like I said earlier, it doesn't matter the age difference. What matters is the stage. The stage difference which matters is is he investing into the relationship? Is he showing care for your heart? Is he treating you well? Those are the best indicators if a man is seriously in love with you. Age gap is less important than that. You don't want to be distracted by the age and you don't want to be distracted by the words that he may say. Look to his actions that'll be the best determinant if he's actually in love with you. Now, the other caveat I'll add with this is I want to make sure you've actually met this guy in person and they're actually seriously dating him. And he's, he's taking action because there's a lot of Internet scammers and romance scammers out there that are pretending to be some, you know, guy who's. Or they're from another country and they just want to get to your country or they want money or they want the woman. One woman was telling us today he wants a $200 Apple gift card to help pay for his blah, blah, blah. Okay, it's clearly a scam, all right. But that's often comes later in the relationship. You may be in the early stages where he's just starting to build a relationship with you via text or maybe he's even talked to you on the phone. But you know, he's pretending to be somebody he's not. Who knows? So just always just look to the actions, make sure you've actually met this guy in person and see how he treats you, see what he does. And then let that be the determinant and if this is actual healthy relationship for you or not. And then you can continue it with him or not. So hope that was helpful. Again, if you really want to master these principles, you want to master magnetic feminine polarity. Magnetic feminine communication. To have the man, the relationship that you want, the type of man, or the specific man that you want within 90 days guaranteed using our magnetic feminine 90 day challenge. Make sure to take our free Magnetize youe Man quiz by clicking the link in our bio comments or description below or going to magnetizeyourman. Com. And we'd love to help you with that. And we will help you with that to make sure you have a relationship because we'll do it for you. And we're with there. We're on the journey with you. So much love. Take care. Hope this was helpful and I'll talk to you again in our next video very soon. Bye bye.