8 Magnetic Questions To Activate His DEVOTION For You

Eight magnetic questions that activate his devotion for you. If you'd love to have a man be truly devoted where he cares about your heart, he wants to protect you, he wants to be your hero, he wants to make you feel adored and cherished at all times. In fact, he's chasing, pursuing and investing into the relationship to prove to you how much he cares about you. Rather than a man pulling away, losing interest, being dismissive towards you, or avoidant, not wanting to connect deeply, and you fear that he may be pulling away and leaving to another woman, or making other things in his life more important than you, then this is the video you need to watch all the way through because it's going to be super powerful and important and can dramatically change your love life once and for all. And I'm going to include a special bonus question as well with this also. So, hi, I'm Brody Boyd, if you don't know me already, and for over 20 years, combined with my wife, Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man they desire fast. So let's go ahead and dive into it with question number one, which is a question you want to ask your man. Could you show or teach me how to be the best partner that you'd like me to be for you? Now, this question is like a little hack. It's a little hack because whenever you ask a man to show you something or teach you something, you're automatically expanding the masculine feminine polarity, which is the only thing that creates real attraction, chemistry, interest, passion, love and devotion. Long term masculine feminine polarity. The law of polarity states that opposites attract, opposite energies attract. You can activate that with him by you being in your magnetic feminine, which is what we teach you. So by entering this, asking him this question, entering your feminine, you're asking him to actually teach you and provide for you, which is putting him into his masculine role, where the masculine gives the feminine the open, vulnerable feminine. You are receiving from him his gift of teaching and providing for you. Now, the added bonus is he's actually teaching and providing for you how to be a better partner for him, how to actually help him and help him fall in love with you more ideally, because now he is leading you to be a better partner. He's teaching you, he's showing you. So it takes some vulnerability, it takes some healthy submission. Submission in a relationship, in a masculine feminine polarity context is actually when you are following his lead, when you are letting him take the Lead to be your protector, provider, hero, and for your pleasure. If at any point you don't enjoy his leadership, you're speaking up and letting him know that that is what a queen would do. So you're letting him guide you, you're letting him lead you, you're showing him respect and honor, and you're letting him set the tone for the relationship. Now, that's a powerful question, and he may not always have an answer, but the willingness, the fact that you're asking this question respectfully is showing him that you're wanting to learn. You're wanting him to teach you how to be a better woman for him, how to be a better partner for him. And the conversation can go a variety of different ways, but this is showing him that you are a woman that he can lead who respects his leadership. And of course, at any time, if he's not leading you, well, you want to get out of that situation. You want to speak up or get out of that situation, because otherwise you're complying. Complying is when you follow a man's leadership. When you don't enjoy it, you don't feel good about it, because just like in a dance, you need to enjoy the dance the whole time through. Otherwise you stop dancing. And there's no point to be in a relationship if he's not leading you well for your pleasure. And, and he will get pleasure by knowing he's giving you pleasure. So this is a powerful question to ask. The next powerful question to ask a man number two that I have for you here is may I ask what makes you feel the happiest and what your top needs and desires are in a relationship. Now this is just starting to get to know his mental and emotional wiring, what actually makes him feel happy as a man, what are his needs? Again, he may not have an answer. It's okay, he doesn't have to have an answer. Just asking the question can show your willingness that you want to learn, that you're supportive, that you are open, that you're available to have him give you potential instructions for what would work for him in a relationship. Of course, it has to work for you as well. If he's ever giving you instructions that you don't like, you have to speak up and share. But this is helping you to get a playbook for how to win potentially with him. Because in the relationship as the masculine role, he should be giving and providing for you. If you find that you're trying to meet his needs and you're giving to him too much, even Especially if he hasn't asked you to meet his needs, he hasn't asked you to do things for him. You're mothering him, you're giving, you're in the masculine provider role. And you need to stop now. You need to stop the madness because you are reversing the polarity, you are damaging the polarity. And it's going to be very hard for him to maintain attraction and devotion for you, because for one, it'll be hard for him to feel that he can be the protector, provider, hero, because you're already taking that role. And number two is he can start to lose respect for you and value for you because you're being what we call the doormat, where the doormat is primarily giving to a man. She's sacrificing herself, she's people pleasing in order to get a man to like her, to get a man to give to her. So I want to give you that caveat here, that you want to listen to what he might say, what his needs and desires are in the relationship. That doesn't mean you necessarily have to give him all those things. And if he does direct you to give you some of those things, that's a different conversation because he's in leadership. But these are great questions to ask to start to get more insights into what's going on for him. Question number three, hope this isn't overwhelming you. Hope you're digesting this. This is supposed to also be light and fun. Ultimately, if you're ever having any doubts, go into your fun, playful energy with a man because that's going to naturally help you to relax, enjoy and make sure you're not in your masculine, trying to lead, control or manipulate him. This will inspire man's devotion, make him want to care for you. So the next powerful question is number three, may I ask what your vision would be for a better world if you had one? Now, this question is very powerful because what you're doing here is you're activating his king. His king is the part inside of him that has a vision for the future, a vision for the future of the world, vision of the future for his community or his people, a vision, future of a future for his family, and a vision of a future for you and his relationship. And a vision of a future for himself. Of course, the king is more outer focus, though. The king is actually looking at his domain, his territory. How do I make my territory better? How do I make the world around me better? How do I make my family better? How do I make them Happier. How do I provide for them? How do I make sure they're healthy, that they're safe, that they have everything that they need. So by you asking these kind of questions to him, this one in particular, you're helping him step into his king energy. You're activating that, that spark Again, he may not have an answer. That's okay. Just like, be open, be available to whatever he might say. And ideally, this may even be an ongoing conversation. Some of these questions are ongoing. That can happen multiple times. You can bring them up in different ways. But asking him if he has a better vision, a vision for a better world can help him to start thinking in those terms of like, it's not just about me. My life is not just about me. I'm also a king. I'm also have a sovereign goal inside of me to make the world a better place and protect my people, my family, my community, my woman. And so you're activating this instinct within him, the king instinct to be that. And now that he's having you help him activate that king instinct just by through the question, he's going to be more likely to see you as his queen alongside of him. That if he's creating a better vision for the future in some way, that you can be a part of that as well. You can be a part of that vision, you can help craft the vision, but you potentially, he might ask you some questions or what. What do you think, what do you think would make the world a better place? Or what do you think would be a better, a goal for our, our family? We have some of these other questions here as well, but you can start to get involved with this. And now he sees you as an integral part of his future path moving forward, that he's not going to be limited, you're not just going to be the ball and chain around his neck, but that you could actually be a partner helping him, supporting him, being his partner in crime. Ride or die together, making the world a better place. That's the definition of a power couple. So very powerful question to ask a man. And if he has any also ambition within himself, if he's a more masculine man, he wants to accomplish things. This is going to be a great question that he's probably going to love talking about. The next powerful question number four is may I ask if there were any times that you felt truly content in the last few months? This is a powerful question to start to get to know more about his inner wiring. So we talked about this before with his needs and Desires, but helping him actually get a concrete example when he felt content in the last few months. Because then you can start to realize what actually feeds your man, what makes him feel good as a man, a masculine. So men masculine energy enjoys the void of nothingness, the emptiness, the bear cave where he's hibernating, he's recollecting himself. That's how men get filled up. The feminine gets filled up by being out in the world and enjoying the pleasure of the senses being around other women, communing and connecting. The masculine is getting filled up by emptiness and the void of nothingness and death. It's kind of like a feeling of death, of the nothingness, of just, I don't have to do anything, I don't have to be with anybody, I don't have to talk to anybody. That's where the masculine is getting fueled and, and he'll usually feel content when he's in those situations. So it's important for you to start to realize what activities he actually gets fed by. His masculine is getting fed by the contentness of nothingness in some way. Maybe it's fishing for him. Maybe it's exercise and weightlifting. Maybe it's also could be after he accomplished the goal. So after, you know, in football, after the touchdown happens, it's the ultimate like masculine victory, right? Like, we accomplished the goal, we made it happen. Now I can relax. Now I feel content. Just like in sex after orgasm, it's like, ah, I accomplished the goal. Now I can relax. Now I can go to sleep. So that's like the kind of feeling of the masculine is like, I did it, I made it happen. I bam, I made, I accomplished my goal. And so he's going to feel really good. And you want to get clear on what those moments are for him. So it could be activities, it could be certain accomplishments he's done. And then you can start to understand more what feeds him up. So you can make sure to give him space for those moments or to help in some ways be available for those things. Like maybe he says what made him most content is just you both hanging out at the beach. Like, okay, maybe we should spend more time at the beach. Maybe he felt most content by the time he was like, just fishing on Sundays by himself for two hours. Like, okay, I'm going to give him more of his fishing time doesn't necessarily have to be contentment with you, but helping him to, to create space in your relationship where you can help support him in that makes you a valuable asset that he would never want to lose because you're a woman who actively protects his contentment. You help give him peace rather than other women who maybe are constantly bickering at him or trying to get him to give them approval because they're insecure all the time. And he can never get arrest, he can never get a break, which is okay, for of course you have to speak up your needs and you have to share your problems and your feelings with him. That's how it actually activates his devotion for you and makes him feel good as a man, that he can solve problems and he can be your protector, provider, heroes. And on top of that, you can look for, what are the ways you can help support him and getting fed. His masculine getting fed, getting filled up and getting. Getting his cup filled back up so that he can be the best man possible for you. It's a very powerful question. Question number five is, may I ask what you desire the most out of life? Similar question to some of the ones before, but this is about his life as a whole. What does he want out of life? What is he excited about? What is he valuing? So when you ask what he desires most out of life, you can get a clear idea also what stage of life he's in. If he says, right now, I just want to have fun and party and play video games, that's one state that he might be in. His life or one type of man you might be dealing with. Likely a man you don't want to be with long term. Or he might say, I desire to raise a family, I desire to have kids, I want to find a partner. By the way, these are all questions you can ask on a first date, you can ask them on a second date, on a third date, or if you're 10 years into your relationship, you can still ask some of these questions. So what do you most desire out of life? Just get clear on that. What does he like? What does he want? What is he prioritizing? It'll help you to see, for one, if this is actually a man you want to be with. Number two, what stage he might be in if he doesn't seem at all like he's ready to prioritize a relationship. You can have a conversation about that, you can share your feelings about that using magnetic feminine communication in the way that we teach you so that he can open up, you crack open the egg to have a beautiful butterfly come out, have a beautiful bird come out and fly. That would be his masculine radiance. Doesn't sound very masculine. But you're helping him to actually get clear on what is his dream life, right? What does he actually want so he can be his most fulfilled self, which is going to be really powerful for you. More great information for you to have in your tool belt of how you can actually be a best partner for him, a great partner for him. Of course he's going to be a great partner for you. So we're just making sure you've got your side of the street optimized, cleaned up, polished, so that you're a high value woman that no man would ever want to lose from his life. This is a woman who he values, who he cares about, who he sees as. This is someone I could build a future with. I want to commit to her, I want to marry this woman. I'm going to put a ring on it. So it's very important to ask number six. Question number six is may I ask how I could best support you to achieve your biggest dreams? Similar question, but this is also, this is more related to how you can support him. So whatever his desires were for his life, now it's about may I ask how I could support you? You notice also with these questions I'm asking, I'm adding in the may I or the can I asking permission, which is respectful language because you never want to forget that the masculine desires trust and respect. The feminine desires to be cherished and adored. So even through the small little bits of your language, by adding in asking permission, you're showing a man respect, you're building that polarity, you're building that attraction and devotion, even with the little mundane things you might be talking about. Of course, it's just one element, one tiny element of the full picture of magnetic feminine communication that we teach you and, and that will help you with in our coaching programs to really master as well if you want to go deeper into that. But it's a very big key to understand to make these questions also easier for him to digest. So may ask how I can support you to achieve your biggest dreams. And whatever he says, it's fine. Be detached from the outcome. The masculine cares about the outcome and the goal. The feminine is detached from the outcome and enjoys the process and the journey. Commit to the process, detach from the outcome. So be detached from whatever he says. It's okay, it's all beautiful. When in doubt, just have fun, enjoy yourself. Whatever he says, make, make a joke out of it. Have fun with it, laugh with him. Maybe occasionally depending on, you know, these don't have to be super deep conversations. These Also can be fun conversations. So how can I support you to achieve your biggest dreams? And he may say, you know, just being with me, just you know, caring about, you know, me, showing me that you're, you're care that you're there for me, that you're, you know, trustworthy, loyal, you're committed, you're, you're in it with me, you're in this, this like you're committed to the relationship as much as I am. You don't know what he's going to say, but he'll probably, he may say some things like that. He may just say like, you know, just, just being there. Like I said, just being there. It could be something very simple or it could be something more complex like, you know, maybe we could have, you know, life meetings every week or we can talk about our goals and share with them like I want to talk about them with you. Maybe we can plan things together. Let's plan the future together. And let's maybe start creating some, some checklists of some to do lists of things we can both do so that we can make sure we're on track for our goals as a couple or as a family. It could get more in depth like that depending on his level of ambition and growth and personal development at the time. So it's a great question to ask. Number seven is, may I ask about your thoughts on monogamy? This is a good question, especially during the early dating stages with a man that you may be very interested and I'm sure you're thinking of this right now. I would love to know my man's thoughts on monogamy. If you're just started connecting with a man that you like, even a man you've probably been with for a while, like what does he actually think about that? Is he afraid of it? Does he want it? Does he like it? Is he have hang ups around it? Is he, is he more traditional? Is he more feminine? Is he more, you know, a player? Doesn't really care about me, doesn't really care about my feelings, doesn't really want to have a legacy or do really anything meaningful with his life. How deep does he want to go in relationships? So this can bring up a lot of stuff that can be good to talk about because it's already going on in your relationship. It might as well bring it out from under the rug, right? You might as well have these conversations with him ideally sooner rather than later so you don't get caught in a relationship with a man who never had any intention of having Anything other than friends with benefits or a situationship, as they say. So it's better to talk about it now rather than later. And you're. Then you'll just be like, it's caught in a situation with a man who was like, he hates monogamy. He never wants to be monogamous. He never wants a relationship. And he's very clear on that. He's probably not going to change. So it's good to have those conversations because otherwise the alternative is. He also says, like, you know, I'm with the right woman and in the right situation, like, I would love to have. Get married again or whatever. He might say, I would love to have a deep relationship, committed relationship. You could say, like, what would that, you know, what would you. What would that be for you? What would you want it to have to know you're in the right relationship, to go that deep with somebody or to have that with somebody. And he might share with you more of like, you know, I want somebody. It could be easy things, like, I want somebody who is, you know, who I could just have fun with and who we could travel together and who we can support each other. You know, when one of us is down, the other one's lifting the other one up. You never, you don't know what he's going to say. But it could be something very easy like that. It's like, okay, good to know. Mental note, it's good to be playful and enjoy myself with him. Or mental note, I want to check in with him a little more often. Just ask him, may I ask how your, how your day was or may I ask how your health is doing if you, if he has any health issues? You know, different things like that where you can check in with him in certain ways. So those are the seven. Those are the. Actually, we do have eight magnetic questions here, so we're already getting. I must have not included one. My bonus here. All right, Anyways, we're going to get to another eight, which I'll just call it a bonus as well, because really, it is a bonus. I could have done seven points and had no bonus. So I had this as a bonus, and I'm doing. This is the bonus. All right, so the bonus question to ask a man, very important. And by the way, you can start posting your comments or questions below because I'm going to start answering questions pretty soon as well. I'd love to hear your questions on any of these things that we've talked about here and your thoughts, your concerns, and maybe a situation you're dealing with with a man right now. Like, post those in the comments right now and I'll be able to start answering questions pretty in a couple moments. So the bonus is, may I ask what you think would happen if we broke all the rules and decided to live our best life possible? I want you just to sit with that question right now and imagine that you're asking a man that question. May I ask what you think would happen if we were to break all the rules and decided to live our best life possible? This is a powerful question because it's about possibility. What is the possibilities? What are the possibilities for your relationship? How can you both create exciting ideas, adventures, goals together that you can accomplish? And that could involve family goals, children goals, could involve friends, circle goals, social life. It could involve travel, exploring, projects, businesses you start together, hobbies that you get involved with together, pets, who, who knows? The sky's the limit. But for you and him to have this conversation together about what do you think would happen if we broke all the rules and decided to live our best life possible. May I ask what you think would happen if we broke all the rules? And you may be very shocked and surprised and maybe pleasantly surprised, maybe just scared by what he answers from this question. But it could be very interesting to have this conversation with him and find out, like, what life would he want to live and what life would you want to live if you, if you didn't have any fear of failure, if money wasn't an option, if you guys didn't have any expectations from your family, from your parents, from society, like, you can just really do what you both really wanted to do. What would that look like? And it can give you, hopefully some ideas together to be excited about, things you can create. And now you're putting yourself into that vision with him. You're creating this together so that he sees that the relationship isn't a burden and something he's going to lose his freedoms and his ability to have adventure, but that actually your relationship can become a source of adventure. So, like, when me and my wife got married, we said, with this ring, I set you free. So what if your marriage was actually a gateway to more freedom? What if your relationship was a gateway to more freedom? Or it could be a gateway to more of you both being who you really are, exploring the world together, exploring new goals together, exploring new family goals, social life, all the things we talked about, all these expansive things you can now create and have and experience as a couple doing these things together. So it's a very Powerful question to start to explore what he actually desires and what you can both create together to have a better life and be excited about engaging in a deeper relationship that can involve a long term commitment and not just, oh, we're just buddies hanging out. It's all just fun. Too cool for school. We're just gonna hang out and just see what happens. It's like, well, what if we were to do something bigger than that? What if we were to do something more powerful than that, where we're actually creating a much better life together rather than just being friends with benefits that have sex sometimes or just, you know, talk sometimes or just message back and forth, let's do something more. Let's do something powerful. Let's change the world. So if this is something you really are resonating with, that you want to create this kind of relationship with a man and have a deep, loving, long term, committed relationship, then you're going to really need to master magnetic feminine polarity and magnetic feminine communication. Those are the two keys that will unlock all the doors for you with your man to have the life and relationship that you ultimately desire. And the best thing, the best place to start, to start really mastering this for yourself is to take our free quiz. If you haven't yet, it's our gift to you. 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Jana said, my husband And I, after 18 years marriage, separated, I want to get back together. What could I say to him to assure him I want to create a better vision for us this time around? Well, it's great that you're watching these video, this video because so many of these questions that I just gave you are going to be really helpful to have to ask him and have these discussions about. I have a whole list. There's about 30 more questions like this that I give you in our, in our coaching memberships, Magnetic Feminine Polarity memberships to really have these on your toolbox that you can ask throughout the lifespan of your relationship with him. At any time you can just bring these out. These are really great to develop deeper bonding with him that he actually connects with you on a heart level and at a purpose level which is so important for a man. So what I would say is you want to start having deeper conversations with him. You want to see, depending on his level to talk with you right now. Ask him if he's okay to ask if you can have a phone call. May I ask for a phone call? Get on the phone with him. And the main thing is you want to continue to be open and vulnerable and share your feelings with him about how you feel anything that comes up for you around anxiety, sadness, joy, gratitude, you want to be sharing those feelings with him. And through this process of you guys being separated, that's going to be important. Without trying to change him, without trying to get him to come back to you, but just vulnerably sharing and sharing the stories you're telling yourself around. The story I'm telling myself is I was this way in the relationship and that that's what drove you away. And I don't want to be that anymore. And may I ask for your help with that? May I ask if you can help me? So part of reversing the dynamic of the separation with him is getting him to give you help, getting him to start Serving you and seeing you as somebody who needs him, who appreciates him, who respects him, who admires him, who needs his help in your life. That there's of course, the needs that you take care of for yourself, such as your health, exercise, working on yourself like you're doing here, getting coaching, support your mindset, support. And there's so many needs that a man can provide for you as well, such as protection, provision, gifts. Gifts helping you solve problems, helping you fix things in your house, with your car, with your computer, with your family. Like different things that he can help provide for you. So asking him for help, that will help him, to assure him that you need him, that you value him and yeah, that you want to create a better version of, of you both. This time, part of it is asking like that, that question I gave you in the beginning. Like, may I ask if you can teach me or show me how I can be a better partner to create a better version of us? Like ask for him to teach you, Ask for him to show you how you can be better, how you can be a better wife for him. And of course you don't have to do everything he suggests, but it's a great conversation to ask for his help in that way. Can you please show me how to be better for you? Like teach me, teach me. And you could even make a role play out of it and put on a sexy student costume and ask him to put on a sexy teacher costume and put on a mustache and some teacher glasses and put a tie on and you guys can role play it, have this, like, make it a little naughty experience. But I know you're separated, so I don't know what level you're at, but, but this could be something you could do because that's kind of the level we're getting to here is this polarity, right, where it actually creates a sexual attraction as well. When you're asking a man to teach you something, to show you something, to help you with something, it can be, I'm sure you're aware, very sexy when a man is teaching you, showing you, giving to you. So let him have that gift. Let, let him have that role for you to actually show you that can be powerful as well. So again, if you have any other questions with that post in the chat, things around your dad, things around your relationship. I was saying the dad. So there is the, the daddy role. You know, if you call your, call him daddy. We're talking about extreme levels of polarity. I don't really like that one myself. Now, one Sexy term you can use with a man is call him like boss. Whatever you say boss or may ask for some help boss. I don't know if I would say it that way. I would say like so what I love is when my, my wife says you're the boss, you're the boss. That's a good one. So you're the boss. Yes, you're the boss. And that's like it's a good way to create this kind of like fun, flirty kind of polarity where it's like putting him in the masculine. You're in the feminine. So anyways, I digress. So just some ideas to start thinking about. So the next question I have here is from Laronda. So Laronda said he is a widower and has shut down once. We didn't parks for about a year. I'm not sure what that means. He is a widower and he has shut down once. We didn't do something for about a year. I'm worried that he's going to shut down again. Any suggestions? He is a widower. He has shut down once. We didn't. I'm guessing you're saying maybe you didn't have sex for about a year. I'm worrying that he's going to shut down again. Any suggestions? Post in the chat. Laronda, if you're still watching to so you can explain to that to me a little bit more what you mean by that. Yeah, I'm not sure. I. I can't really help you with that until I have a little more clarity. I need to know what the specific issue was. But yeah, post again and I would be happy to answer that for you and anyone else listening post your questions, challenges you're having with the guys. He pulling away? Is he not giving you what you need? Post it. I can help you with that here and help you get a breakthrough hopefully around that. Shan Veta said how to get a man to prioritize you. Yeah, that's a great question. So the best way to get a man to prioritize you is being feminine. So magnetic feminine polarity and magnetic feminine communication. But not just being feminine, but also being the queen, which is what we teach you with magnetic feminine communication. Magnetic feminine polarity is how to have him see you as feminine, open, available, vulnerable. That you need him, that you need his help, that he can provide for you and be your protector, provider, hero. And also that you value yourself, that you see yourself as a queen, that you are speaking up. You're not, you're not on the other side, where you're a to him and telling him what to do or being, or punishing him, or being selfish or aggressive or manipulative, but you're being the queen where you're able to receive, you're able to follow his lead, you're able to appreciate him and, and you're also speaking up whenever you have an issue and you have a problem that he can solve for you, that you're not just letting him steamroll over you, which is what a doormat would do, but that you are a healthy, feminine queen. That's how you get a man to prioritize you. Because now he feels needed, he feels the polarity, he feels he can give to you and protect you. And he also values you. He sees you as the prize. He see he respects you. He sees that you value yourself. And so he's much more likely to prioritize you because you're prioritizing yourself, you're prioritizing your own needs, but you do it in a feminine way because there's very fine distinctions here between being the queen or being the doormat or the bitch. The queen is a very specific way that she communicates with a man, a very specific way that she operates with a man. You get into the sweet zone where you're your most true, authentic self, that you value also yourself. That makes a man value you and prioritize you and be deeply attracted to you as well, because you are feminine and you are creating the polarity in the right way. And that's, of course, again, what we teach you in our Magnetic Feminine Polarity quiz and in our coaching as well, that we do with women in our coaching memberships to help you really master this and even practice how to communicate with a man so that he does prioritize you in all the small ways and all the ways that you desire him to prioritize you, whether that's through checking in with you regularly, calling you, making time for you, giving you attention, asking you on dates, buying you things, taking you out, going on adventures, being there when you need support, all the different ways that a man will prioritize you when he actually values and cares for you and is deeply attracted to you as well. So these are all things we're teaching, because it's a very big question, but you're in the right place. You're exactly in the right place for us to help you with, because. With that, because that's what we specialize in. So stay tuned and let me know if you have any other specific questions. With that as well. Would love to help you. Linda said thank you so much. I love learning from you. You're welcome Linda. Glad this is helping and great example and practice of sharing appreciation as well, which you want to do with your man often when he does things that you like and he is giving to you. So Loranda gave me a follow up for her question earlier. She said we got pretty close and we did shut down because obvious at his wife was feeling guilty. It started getting having feelings that he could control. We are now speaking and seeing each other occasionally. Okay, I'm trying to, I'm trying to get the full picture here. So we got pretty close and we did shut down because obvious at his wife was feeling guilty. I'm sure. I'm afraid I still don't understand fully. La Rhonda, keep posting your questions. I'll try to help you with that. Yeah, it sounds like there may be another woman in the picture. Maybe he's married. Hopefully not. So yeah, maybe give some more specifics around that I can try to help you. Okay. Shanveta had another follow up to her question. What if it's like a situationship? How can you deal with a situation like that? So if it's a situationship, then you want to deal with it by being the queen and by speaking up, sharing your feelings around the situationship. So again, a doormat doesn't say anything. A doormat just lets a man do whatever he wants and you want him to like you, you want him to not leave you. So you don't want to rock the boat. You don't say anything. But that actually makes him not value you, not respect you and not want to commit. So what you have to do is you have to be willing to share your feelings around the relationship. So you would say something like may I share something with you? Or best thing is over the phone or in person. So you'd ask, may I ask for a phone call or may I ask if we can talk in person? And he would probably say, sure, you have a phone call, you meet in person. And then you would say I feel may I share something with you? Sure, I feel sad. Why do you feel sad? Because we haven't seen each other for a couple days. We haven't seen each other for a week or so. We haven't. You haven't messaged me for a couple days and I'm telling myself the story that you may not be prioritizing our relationship. And that thought made me feel sad and I don't know what to do and let him respond to that. If he doesn't have a clear response or doesn't say anything, you can ask, may I ask for some help? Let him help you. You activate his masculine devotion instinct and his hero instinct when you ask for help. And when you ask for it is his advice. When you ask him to teach you, when you ask him to show you something, when you ask him to provide for you so then he can start to see it as a problem that he can solve. Like, I don't want you to feel like I'm not prioritizing you. I don't want you to feel like I don't care. Like what? What would you like me to do? What can I do differently? How would you like the relationship to be? And you can have a conversation about that. He may. He may. Who knows how he's going to react. You want to be detached from the outcome, but likely he'll want to solve the problem. If he has any level of care for you, you also got to anticipate that he may not. This could be a player. This could be an avoidant attachment or somebody who just does not have no interest in a relationship with you. He doesn't have care for you. And if that's the case and you've shared your feelings consistently and you use magnetic feminine polarity and magnetic feminine communication like we teach you and he doesn't shift, then you're going to have to walk away. Be willing to walk away. But the best way to actually get a player to shift and change his ways, to get a man who's avoidant to change his ways to become more secure and to give you everything that you desire, is by using magnetic feminine communication and magnetic feminine polarity. Because that is how he gets to see your value. That's how he gets to feel your heart, feel connected and he feels needed by you. He gets to feel like he could provide and the polarity increases and he's going to likely be more attracted and devoted to you. So it's very important. Now the other thing you can do is use what we call the Magnetic Feminine 90 Day Challenge. The Magnetic Feminine 90 Day Challenge is with a man that you've been dating for a while that for 90 days you could put the date on your calendar for 90 days. You're going to use everything that we teach you. You're going to use our magnetic feminine polarity principles and magnetic feminine communication. The exact scripts and strategies that we'll give you exactly what to say with him whenever, when these conversations come up and we could even practice and I'll help you and give you exact script of what to use for your customized situation. And if you've done that for 90 days and you use what we teach and we use the coaching and you use the feedback and you haven't and for 90 days you've done that with him as to your best of your ability, you've used the magnetic feminine clarity, magnetic feminine communication and he hasn't shifted, which is the 90 day challenge, then you have to be willing to walk away and you know you'll become very clear that he's either not the right man for you, he has no care, or, or he's going to step up and shift in ways that would shock you. And we have so many stories of this, of women, of men just totally turning around exes, men who are gone out of the picture for, for days, for weeks, for months, for years in some cases who completely shifted and turned around and are now devoting themselves to the women and deeply in love and caring and prioritizing. So it's all totally possible. So again, if you want to get the specific magnetic feminine polarity 90 day challenge, make sure to first take our free quiz which can lead you there, which is be feminine.com or you can click on the link in the description or comments below. So take our free Magnetic Feminine polarity quiz. That's where this all starts. That's the first step you need to take that'll help you shift everything with him is take the free quiz Magnetic feminine or feminine Be feminine dot com. I'll put it on the screen again here just so everyone knows it's befeminine.com or the link in the comments or description or in the bio. You want to take that after this, during this video or after this video is over so that you don't miss out on that because that's going to turn everything around potentially with a guy that you're interested in and have men in general start coming closer to you, especially high quality men that you're interested in, they're going to completely change their ways. Once you've done this, and especially if you use the 90 day challenge, you give it enough time for you to learn, for you to really learn these skills as well and how to actually communicate with him and it to so that becomes natural because you're connecting to your feminine core, then you're going to see dramatic shifts likely with him that you're going to be completely surprised by that it'll be a beautiful relationship. So I'm Excited for you with that. So let's get to the next question here. Hope that was helpful. And so now we have where did it go here? The next question. Cheryl said, very effective advice. Thank you. You're welcome. Cheryl, Gladys, help. And then Monet said, I'm chatting online with a guy. He lives 25 miles away but is currently out of town. It feels like self sabotaging by his expecting on how I should help him now with money. I won't. Should I still date him? So you feel like he's sabotaging your relationship by that, by saying that? That's what it sounds like, yeah. If he's. If a man's expecting you to help him with money, this is clearly a more feminine man, a man who's looking for a woman to protect and provide and be his hero. This is a man who's emasculated, who's deeply into his feminine. So it's, it's definitely a tough situation. Now, you can shift that potentially with him. Now, depending on how far gone he is, how much of a feminine man he is, he may not be redeemable. Hopefully he needs to work with a man coach and learn how to actually be a masculine hero, protector, provider. I don't care how much money he makes, at any level, he could start improving his life. He can start giving to women, he could start providing, he could start being the hero. But he needs to shift his mindset, he needs to shift his, his inner, his inner heart position to become his masculine connect to his masculine core. So what you can do, the best thing you can do with him is of course not give to him, because the masculine gives, the feminine receives. So anytime you're giving money to a man, anytime you're paying for dinner, anytime you're giving him a back massage or doing anything for him that he didn't ask you to do, especially if he didn't ask you to do it, then you're in the masculine role, he's in the feminine role. Polarity has been reversed. Chemistry is likely down the toilet. Attraction is going to be demolished and he's not going to be able to devote himself to you because now you're the man, you're taking care of him, you're giving to him and he's receiving now as the feminine. So you want to avoid that. So that's the first thing is stop the madness, stop giving to a man. Now, there's some exceptions where he specifically asks you to give to him, but in certain situations you still don't want to give to him. If he's asked you, hey, babe, can you make me a sandwich? Or hey, babe, can you take care of this thing for me? If it feels good to you, you can do it still. But if it doesn't feel good to you, you want to share that with him and share how you feel. Use magnetic feminine communication. Share with him the problem so that he can sol and not do that and not feel disrespected by you, he also won't feel disrespected. He'll feel good about it. When you use magnetic feminine communication in the way we teach and now and then, you also always want to watch the balance in the relationship. If you're giving more than he is, you know you're more in the masculine role than he is. You want to change that, you want to shift it. Even if he's asking you to give to him, he's asking you, he's leading you to give to him. So you want to be very careful. There's a gray zone with that, but for the most part, just keep this basic rule. Don't give to a man. He gives to you, he gives to you, you receive. You're the feminine, he's the masculine. That's how you're going to create the polarity, the attraction. Through the law of polarity, opposite energies attract. Now you have to not give to him. And then now you want to share your feelings with him about that. You want to share with him how that makes you feel. So you're being in your feminine instead of being in the masculine, you're instead going into your feminine. Because all you really have to do is always be more feminine than he is to build the polarity. You just have to be more feminine than he is. So even if he's a very feminine man, you have to be more feminine than he is. And he will start raising into his masculine because the law of polarity. So you just have to be more feminine than he is to get this to shift, which you will. When? Especially if you've gotten coaching support with us, you've taken our quiz, you've done all the things you can to get into your feminine, gotten coaching support to get into your feminine to be the most feminine, valuable woman you can be. You're going to be more feminine than he is. He's going to start shifting into his masculine, he's going to start treating you better. Now, especially that'll happen when you share your feelings with him about how that feels to you. So you would say something like, may I ask for a Phone call. You would have a phone call. May I share my feelings? May I share a feeling that I have? He would say, sure. And you would explain it to him. Something like, you know, when you ask me to give you money, when you ask me to help you out with your finances, I feel sad. It's actually better if you first share the emotions. So say I feel sadness. And he would say, why do you feel sad? And you would say, because when you asked me to give you money to pay for things, I felt like you're not seeing me as a woman in your life and you're seeing me more as like a mother or someone to take care of you. And that made me feel sad and I don't know what to do. So you're putting it to him as a problem now that he can solve on a golden platter. And you could also add on potentially, may I ask for some help and let him help you now? You're putting him back into the masculine where he's now shifted back to helping you, to giving to you. And if he keeps asking you to give to him, you share your feelings with that. Eventually you have to walk away again. The Magnetic Feminine 90 Day Challenge, or you could even do it as a magnetic feminine 30 day challenge will help to give that clear container where you're learning what we teach you and you're practicing. And if he hasn't shifted by that time, you have to walk away. Because he's not a man who's capable of caring for your heart. He's not a man capable who's capable of giving you what you need either because he's emotionally damaged, he's mentally damaged, he is narcissistic, he's a sociopath, there's something wrong with him, there's something broken that needs to be fixed and it's not. You're not going to be the one to fix it for him. You're not his mother, you're not his therapist, you're not his caretaker, you're not his financial provider. You're not the piggy bank. You're woman. You are a queen and you need to be treated as a queen. And you do that in a feminine way. You do that through being a high value woman using magnetic feminine polarity and using magnetic feminine communication. That's how you get a man to put you on a pedestal, to treat you well, to see you as the queen and want to give to you. Because you're not telling him these things. You're being it. You're being your feminine core. Because what we're teaching you here is the opposite of playing games. You are being your most authentic self. You're connecting to your feminine core, which is what attracts a man. Your heart, your vulnerable feminine heart is what's going to attract a man to you and make him want to provide for you and protect you. And it's the most authentic thing you can be with a man. You do it in the right way, we give you some guidelines. How do you actually do that? So that you're not going into insecurity or fear or trying to control him, trying to lead him, trying to attack him in some way, trying to blame him in some way, but being your feminine, vulnerable, open, receptive self and communicating with him in a way where he sees that and he wants to give to you. It's very, very important and very powerful. Okay. Laronda said his wife is deceased. So you were talking about him. You were feeling some guilt. So what you said back here, obvious as his wife was feeling guilty, it started getting. Yeah. So his wife, his deceased. I'm imagining you're saying that he still has feelings for his deceased wife. And it's hard. The best thing you can do is. Is hold space for him to. To not to hold space for him, to be patient with him and to share your feelings, to communicate vulnerably with him around that process in the right way so that he can stay connected to you as well. And maybe you can ask him, like what he may ask if you need space or may ask what you would like me to do in relation to the situation so he can lead you. He can guide you and be in his masculine to help you help him. So you don't want to help a man, but you can help him lead you. You can have him lead you in the ways that he would like you to help him, which is actually him still leading you. He's leading you to help him so that you're not just helping him out of your own accord and trying to give and be his therapist, which would be you actually trying to control him and trying to make him like you, which would be masculine. So. But you can't ask him how you. What he would like you to do. That's something you can ask a man to. May I ask what you would like me to do in this situation? Because I don't know and I need help. That's very powerful. So supercalifragilistic, said Monet. If you haven't met him in person, don't send a dime. Yeah. Especially if you haven't met him in person. Don't send a man a dime. There's so many scammers out there. We have women constantly coming to us for help with a man who is obviously a scammer. And it's like we have to help them see this. This is not a good situation. This man is not authentic with you. He has bad intentions and we help you to see that and we help you to correct it and get into a good situation. So it's very, very important as well. So Mary said, what do you do when your man moves to another part of the state and doesn't call you for two weeks or text? I would say, may I ask for a phone call? That's what I would do. Simple text. May I ask for a phone call? See what he says and hopefully he will get on the phone with you. Once you get on the phone, set up the call. Say, may I share something with you? He'll say, sure and say, I feel anxious or I feel sad. I feel sad and anxious. Share your vulnerable feminine heart and let him come to the rescue. Why do you feel sad and anxious? Because you moved to a different stage since you moved. I haven't heard from you and I'm telling myself a story that you maybe don't care about a relationship anymore. You don't want to continue our connection. And it made me feel sad and I don't know what to do. And let him respond to that and see what he says. And you could even ask me, I ask for some help and see if he wants to help you, see if he gives to you. Be detached from the outcome. Likely he will. Likely he can have a great conversation. He may explain more about what's going on in his life and hopefully he'll start shifting his behavior. That's just the very tip of the iceberg of what you can start doing to shift the man, start to have him start coming towards you. There's so many other things and we want to work on energetically and with your mindset and what else to communicate with him. But those are some great starting points that could hopefully help start bringing him back towards you. That's what I'd recommend for now to start with Mary. Hope that was helpful. Missy said, a man has been in my life for the past 14 years. We are both separated from our spouses over the years. He has never really committed himself to me. Oh boy, 14 years. And I believe he is seeing other women as well. Lately though, after I caught him with another woman, he told me she was Nothing but a friend. And he sees me more lately if he. He is not busy with work and business. But still, he doesn't want the public to know that we are in a relationship. Red flag, Red flag. I got to get my red flag up here so I can start pulling that out when it happens. I have never met his family. That's another big red flag. Red flag. I love him and I wish to have a deeper relationship. Sorry the rest of your message got cut off. I think we got enough of that, Missy. We got the idea. So sorry to hear that. First off, that's a tough situation. And yeah, it's definitely signs that he's not really committed to the relationship. He doesn't really value you. He's likely has other women that he's dating, sleeping with, depending if you guys are sleeping together. And that's just the reality of it. But it's good to acknowledge the reality of it, at least for now, so that you can fix it. So the way you would fix it with him is the Magnetic Feminine 90 Day Challenge. That's going to be the key to fix it with him, to get him to shift and to start treating you with devotion. Because if you've been together 14 years and he hasn't really committed to you yet, you definitely need some help with this. You definitely need to start a serious process to get him to shift towards you. And so using the 90 day challenge, again, you're going to use all the principles of magnetic feminine polarity. Magnetic feminine communication. You're going to share with him your feelings. You're going to communicate with him. Your feelings are all kinds of things. And you're going to have some deep conversations with him and you're going to ask him for help and you're going to ask him for help with your. Your feelings and help with your problems and the stories that you're telling yourself around this. And get him to start seeing you as a woman that he that is his queen and that is the woman he wants to protect and provide for for the rest of his life. Because you'll feel you activate. Here's what happens with Magnetic feminine communication. Magnetic feminine polarity. You activate a man's masculine core. You have him see himself as your hero. You have him see himself as your protector and provider, which makes him feel a deep sense of purpose and meaning in the relationship with you. That's how a man feels happiness in a relationship when he feels like he has purpose and meaning in the relationship. If he doesn't feel like he can really give protect and provide for you and be your hero. He's not going to feel that sense of devotion. He's not going to see himself as your man long term. So you can trigger that within him and use the specific techniques that will teach you. Trigger his hero instinct, trigger his king instinct to be, be this man for you, that he sees you as his queen and his wife and wants to protect you and wants to be there for you and is protecting you and is providing for you and is being there for you. And it starts by you being vulnerable, by you vulnerably sharing your heart and where you're at and telling him, but being both vulnerable with your heart and vulnerable with your mind, that you're telling him the stories you're telling yourself and you're showing him your feelings that you activate within him this desire to want to help you, to want to provide for you and to solve your problems. And so he feels needed, he feels wanted, he feels a sense of purpose in the relationship. He's feeling the polarity. He's also seeing your value, that you're a queen who speaks up. You don't just accept, because here's what happens. A doormat accepts the type of situation you just described. A doormat accepts. I don't need a man to introduce me to his family because it doesn't really matter. You make excuses for him. I don't need a man to tell anyone that we're in a relationship because, you know, it's about us, it's about our connection, it doesn't really matter. Again, more excuses for him or, you know, we don't need that piece of paper, it's just a thing. I don't need him to really be exclusive with me as long as he's still connected to me, like you said, here he is still. He sees you more lately. Oh yeah, he's seeing me more lately. So, you know, it's fine. We don't. I don't really need a commitment. So a doormat makes excuses for him, lowers your own standards, lowers your own desires because you don't want to rock the boat. You don't want to lose him, you don't want to push him away. So you don't say anything, you don't speak up, you don't share your feelings, you don't communicate them. And therefore he can't really value you because you're not valuing yourself. So you have to speak up. You have to share your desires, the desires of your heart so that he can take care of them, so he can actually value you because you're valuing yourself. But you do it in the right way. You do it using feminine communication and you do it using feminine polarity. And we can definitely teach you, coach you exactly how to do that again. What I'd recommend for you, Missy, is first take our free quiz. If you haven't yet, that's going to help you a lot. Befeminine.com go to befeminine.com or click on the link in the description below. I would recommend starting there and hopefully getting some coaching support with this because if you've been together with him for 14 years, there's a lot of patterns that have existed. There's a lot of specifics we need to go into around how he treats you and how what your last communications were and last time you guys had an argument or the last time you had you got time you guys had a deeper conversation or the last time you shared your feelings with him, what happened, how did he react? And then we can make all the shifts and all the changes we need to to have him give you everything you desire and have the relationship you desire with him for the rest of your life. So that's what I'd recommend, Missy. Hope that was helpful and that's going to start the path and the process for you. Kat said, can, can you be friends and also walk away from a situation? Yeah, of course you can, but it's. It depends on the situation and it depends if that's good for you, if that's going to be healthy for you to still be friends with somebody who is not healthy for you, who is toxic that you still have a lot of feelings for. So ultimately, yes, you can be friends. You're going to need to have some very strong boundaries with yourself of when you can see him, what ways you're going to communicate with him and also to make sure that you're also dating other men and that you're making yourself available to be claimed by a man who's actually going to have a loving, long term, committed relationship with you. And that could involve letting go of this guy because this guy could still be holding space in your life and in your heart that's occupying where the right man could be occupying inside of you. If it's blocked, the right man can't come in. So you want to. We want to look at that and we want to do some energetic work and some inner game work with you to see how you can be fully available to the right man. And that's going to be a very delicate situation that we want to navigate. But that's what I recommend with that case. So hopefully was helpful. Shavinta said, very helpful. You're welcome, Shinta. Glad it was helpful. Monet said yes, correct. So I'm going to answer just a couple other quick questions here. Maybe we'll do a lightning round. Sarah said, what does it mean if a guy just talking about sex that means that he just wants to have sex? His guys are pretty simple. If he's just talking about sex with you, that's all his on, that's all that's on his mind. He's not seeing you as a committed long term relationship yet. And that's okay. That can still be shifted, that can still be corrected. Hopefully you haven't had sex with him yet. Because I, I highly recommend not having sex with a man until you're in a committed relationship until he's claimed you, which usually involves exclusivity. It involves a deep commitment of some kind, like signs of his actions, signs of his devotion to you and ideally marriage really. I mean ideally marriage and engagement. There's a lot of wisdom in biblical teachings, in traditional teachings around sex because there was a reason why that women and men and couples and people found that to be a valuable way to live for so long because there's so many problems you get into when you have sex outside of marriage or with a man that you're not who hasn't really claimed you, such as him just seeing you as sex, that's a very easy one. That's a big problem. There's so many others, but that's one of the big ones. But it can still be turned around with using magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication. Because you want to start sharing your feelings with him about how that makes you feel that he just talks about sex. May I share, may I share something with you? Sure. I feel discomfort. Why do you feel discomfort? Because it seems like every time we're talking you're asking me about sexual and I'm telling myself the story that that's all you see me as is somebody to have sex with or a sex partner or that's all you want and it made me feel discomfort and I don't know what to do. May I have some help that can shift it around that can help him to start seeing you differently. That's just the beginning. That's the first step. But that could help starting to make him see you as a high value woman as a, as a long term potential rather than just a sex fling hookup that you Want to start shifting with him. So that's what I recommend. Sarah, hope that was helpful. Moo said, what is mew? I'll say. Mu that sounds a little better. Mew said, what is a situationship? Thank you. Situationship, it's a newer term. It defines a relationship that is more of like a friends with benefits situation. So it's not really a relationship, but it's also not really just friends, just casual, just acquaintances. So it's more of a we're in a specific situation, we have a situation on our hands. He's not committing to you, probably is the short, the shorts stop of it is that he's not committing, he's not devoting, he's maybe wanting to just have sex like Sarah was talking about. And that's it, that's the extent of it. So it's a situationship, it's not a relationship. So that's what we help, that's what we specialize in actually is how to turn situations around. To have a man see you as a high value woman he wants to devote to and claim and have a deep attraction to, deep desire to have you in his life for long term. And not just seeing you as a situationship or friends with benefits because that's painful and you don't want to get caught in those situations because they usually go nowhere. You waste days, months, years out of your life sometimes hoping that he's going to change, but he doesn't. Because you haven't learned what we're teaching you, you haven't done what we teach you and how to communicate with him effectively, to shift him in ways that would shock you, to get him to actually be your hero, protector provider and not just a friend that wants to have sex. So at best. So we want to avoid that. So I hope that was helpful. Mu another rapid fire question. What if a man says he's not ready for a relationship but it feels like a relationship he even share he has love for you, but it's hot and cold. Yeah, the same thing. That's exactly what we just, just talked about, a situationship. Right. He's not, he said he's even told you oftentimes the guy's told you, I don't want a relationship or I don't feel like I'm ready for a relationship yet, but I feel feelings of love for you or I care about you or I like you, I want to keep seeing you. It's still just signs that he's not really claimed to you, he's not really devoted, he doesn't really value you in that way yet. We can change all that for you, but you're going to need to go through the process. Ideally, you're going to need to go through the magnetic feminine 90 day challenge that we talk about. That's going to really help you to shift things with him and hopefully getting coaching support around that. But yeah, so that's what you're going to need to do. That's what it means if a man says he's not ready. So he just wants a situationship. He wants a friends with benefits. He doesn't want to have to. He doesn't want to commit or he doesn't see the value in committing yet because he doesn't see you as a high value woman. He doesn't see you as a queen that he wants to partner with that he sees in his future that he has meaning and a purpose around that he can provide for, that he can give to, that he can be a king for. So he hasn't devoted himself in that way yet. But don't lose hope, Shaventa. We're going to help you with that. You're in the right place. Just take the steps forward. We're going to get you there. We got you. We got you, girlfriend. All right, we're just about done here. There's a lot of good questions here. Man, I wish I could go through these. Let me see. I'm just going to answer a couple final ones here. I sometimes take over masculine, so it's good to know. Jana, thanks for sharing. I sometimes take over, which sometimes causes my husband to not tell the truth because he's afraid I'll get mad because you've been using anger as a punishment. You've been punishing your man, which is not magnetic feminine principles that we teach. I'm going to read you a quote here that I wrote for our coaching group. Our magnetic feminine coaching group. That's very powerful to know. So many women have been modeled by their mothers. How to turn a man into the bad guy so that you can manipulate and control him. This would be saying something like, you never loved me, you hurt me, you are never there for me when I need you. All of these statements are putting the spotlight onto him and making yourself invisible. Instead of sharing your vulnerable feelings such as I feel pain, I feel sad, I feel loneliness, I feel insecure, etc. Which we teach you with magnetic feminine communication. How to be vulnerable with a man in the right way, that he values your heart and he doesn't feel like you're whacking him on the head with your emotions or trying to control him or trying to manipulate him or trying to, to punish him or get him to change in some way. Because all of your emotions are beautiful. It's not about. It's. There's no bad emotions. There are only bad behaviors. So another example is saying something like, when you don't take the trash out, you don't care about me, insinuating that he has bad intentions. So the worst thing for a man is when his woman doesn't trust him to be good and to be competent. This would be communicating other messages to him that insinuate you are actually a man that is here to hurt the vulnerable, feminine me in your life. And you're here to not protect me. You're not capable or you're not capable of being a good partner slash boyfriend, husband for me. So making a man feel or insinuating something like this will crush him, crush his spirit. So you want to avoid that and you want to be careful of that, of punishing a man and using punishment as a tool to try to manipulate him. So that's why he's afraid and he's afraid of that. But we can help you turn all that around because it's going to involve you being feminine and vulnerable with him, which will make him feel comfortable being honest with you and opening up and sharing with you and wanting to help you and wanting to. Actually, he would never want to lie to you. He would never want to do anything to hurt you because now he cherishes your vulnerable feminine core, your heart, because you've, you've exposed that to him in the right way consistently. And the 90 day challenge is going to really help you with that as well. So the last thing Monet had a follow up, I won't give money. Especially since we have not met. Yeah, definitely don't give him money if you have not met yet. Thanks for the clarity advice as always. I did tell him how it made me feel. I think I'll find I will try your 30 day challenge. Yes, definitely. Monet, that will really help you. Highly recommend that. So with that, that's what I recommend for anyone else who wants to do the 30 day challenge. Who wants to master magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication. Get our coaching support with this also so you can get specific scripts that will customize for you exactly what to say to your man to turn everything around. Make sure you get that by going to befeminine.com or clicking on the link in the description or comments below or in the bio that we'll put here befeminine.com to get the Magnetic Feminine Polarity Quiz completely free. And we also may have recommendations for you to do some coaching with us if you want to, to get more specific in our coaching memberships, get support, go through our courses that we have on this Magnetic Feminine courses and do the 90 day challenge which is going to be so valuable to you and so many of the women who are here tonight. The 90 day challenge is what you need. You got to get that started with your man because that's the fastest thing that's going to start shifting things with him and you don't want to be wasting any more time and having him not committing to you and not giving you what you need. So hope this was helpful tonight. If you need to watch again the recording some of you are just hopping on now, we have a whole video here you can watch back. You're going to get all the juicy gold nuggets that we talked about in the eight questions, Magnetic questions to activate his devotion for you. Hope this was helpful. Much love and we'll talk to you again very soon. Take care. Bye bye.