8 Things A Man Will Do Only If He REALLY Loves You

Ten Things a Man Will Do Only if He really Loves you In this video, we're going to be going deeper into what are the things a man will do when he cares on a deep emotional level, the hidden signs to look for that you may not have noticed before so that you can understand his mind and heart like a guidebook, like having a map, without feeling uncertain, unsure where you stand with him, or wondering if he's even pulling away or losing interest in you. Hi, I'm Brody Boyd, if you don't know me already, and for over 20 years, combined with my wife, Antia, we've been helping successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship without fear, loneliness or emotionally unavailable men pulling away. So let's go ahead and dive right into the signs that we've seen. The first thing a man will do only if he really loves you is he will love who you really are. He's going to embrace the authentic you, even the things that you might think are flaws about yourself. Or maybe he even recognizes recognizes as flaws within you. It doesn't matter because since he deeply cares about you, he's embracing you as the entire package. That there's something inside of you, something he's latched on to emotionally that he doesn't want to lose and that overshadows all the other things, the flaws that might be there that maybe he normally wouldn't have gone for if he had to choose a woman out of a magazine or somebody who he's had a crush on for a long time, like a celebrity or something. But he chose you because there's something very specific that has activated his heart that he doesn't want to lose. The next thing a man will do, only if he really loves you, is he will regularly want to know how you're doing emotionally. He's going to check in regularly, just like somebody would check on their gas tank in their car to make sure that the gas is full or it is pretty close to full and that it's not running on empty because he wants to know how you're doing in the relationship. That's his gauge of. Of how good of a job is he doing. Being your boyfriend, being your husband, being your partner? He's going to be checking in emotionally. What is that gauge showing? Are you full or are you running on empty? Are you sad? Are you frustrated? Are you lonely? He's going to be checking in so that he knows how he can correct and change things to make it better to get that gas tank back to full. So that you guys can have a happy, loving relationship. His self esteem will be deeply tied to this process. The third thing a man will do only if he really loves you, is he will want to solve problems for you. He will ask you and he will wonder and inquire about how your life is doing, how you're doing. And he'll pay close attention to the challenges and the issues and the frustrations that you might be having in your life. And unconscious. And unconsciously and automatically as he is going to activate his hero impulse to start to want to fix those things for you, to make them better, because he truly cares about you, he's going to want to be valuable to you. He's going to want to be that protector provider. He's going to want to be activated in that way so that he feels like he has a purpose in your life, that he has some value that he is bringing to the table for you. The next thing a man will do, only if he really loves you, is he will be physically affectionate with you. He's going to go out of his way to hold your hand when you're walking down the street to put his arm around you, or his arm around your shoulder, or your waist. He's going to want to hold you. He's going to want to cuddle when you guys are sitting next to each other, or when you're in bed, or when you're on the couch, or when you're just out and about. He's going to give you hugs. He's going to want to kiss you. He's going to want to be showing you those signs that he that he cares about you, demonstrating it so that he can feel and maintain that connection with you as often as possible. The next thing a man will do, only if he really loves you, is he will want to meet your needs and make sure that you're happy. He's going to look to meet your needs on all different types of levels. Mentally, emotionally, physically, even spiritually, sexually. If you're in that level of a relationship together. And he's going to make sure that he's meeting your needs so that he doesn't risk losing you. He's going to again inquire to how you're doing. He's going to pay close attention. He's going to trust his own intuition as well to see see if he's meeting your needs and how he can meet your needs in deeper and more profound ways. So he's going to become a needs meeting machine for you when he deeply cares the next thing a man will do, only if he really loves you, is he will give you the space to grow. He's going to let you be your own person and let you shine and blossom independently of him and even independently of your relationship. So think of it like a greenhouse. A greenhouse is creating this amazing environment, space for, for a plant, a flower to bloom. He's going to be that greenhouse for you where he's giving you that space to grow and to flourish. He's not going to try to hold you down. He's not going to try to stifle you and try to make you less than. He's going to actually want you to shine and bloom because that's a reflection of him and that actually looks good on him. When he has a bloomed wife or a bloomed girlfriend that he can show to the rest of the world and they say, wow, she looks amazing, she looks happy, like he must be doing something right. The next thing a man will do, only if he really loves you, is he will ask you questions and he will listen deeply. He will seek first to understand you before seeking to be understood. So he's going to ask you all kinds of questions about how your day was, how your week was, like I mentioned before, how you're feeling, what you want, what you like, about your history, your. Your background, your family, your interests, your hobbies, your friends. He's going to want to learn and absorb as much about you as possible because he's interested, because he cares. And that's going to, again, give him a map to know how to make you happy and how to. To help you in your life in different ways. And it just really shows that he's honestly curious and authentically interested in who you are as a person. And he wants to explore those intricacies because he finds them fun, fascinating. The next thing a man will do, only if he really loves you, is he will respect your boundaries and your comfort zone. So he's going to pay close attention to your level of comfort and safety. And he's not going to want to bypass those boundaries and make you feel uncomfortable. Not only that, but he's going to be looking to the situations and the people that you're around and making sure that they're also making you feel safe and comfortable. And he will intervene if he feels like somebody is crossing a boundary of yours or making you feel uncomfortable. Again, that brings out the protector provider aspect of him, the hero, where he wants to make you safe, make you comfortable, and he feels like he's winning when you feel safe. So he'll ask you questions like do you feel comfortable with this? Do you feel safe? And he's going to also trust his intuition. This doesn't mean you don't have to communicate to him, but let him know what your boundaries are and when you do feel uncomfortable. But he's going to want to make sure that he acknowledges those and when you communicate them, he's going to respect them them because he deeply cares about you and doesn't want to lose you. As you can see, when a man deeply cares about you and loves you, he's going to go through great lengths to make sure that you are happy, blossoming and feeling respected, loved and cherished. If he doesn't deeply care about you, he's going to be more neglectful of how you are doing, what your needs are, if you're happy or not, if he's meeting your needs or not. So pay close attention to his willingness to observe and actually meet you at where your standard is and that will give you the biggest signs to whether or not he truly loves you. Next, if you'd like to dive deeper into science that a man really loves you, deeply loves you and actually how to activate those feelings of love and deep devotion for you on a on a much more profound level, make sure to take our free Love Quiz and virtual coaching session where you can get this customized plan for you by going to getlovequiz.com getlovequiz.com or you can go ahead and click the link on the description or comments below this training. Much love. I hope this was helpful and we can't wait to help you more there and continue your journey to getting the lasting, loving long term relationship that you truly deserve. Talk to you later and much love. Bye bye.