A relationship coach explains how women can communicate needs in ways that make men feel protective rather than controlled. The key difference: vulnerable, heart-centered requests versus critical or directive language.
The 10 hidden criteria men use to select a woman being able to communicate her needs in a feminine way. So every woman has needs, every person has needs. And it's a beautiful thing that you have needs because that gives him the opportunity to be your hero, protector provider that we were talking about before, where he can actually help meet your needs and feel valued, feel valuable, that he is offering some service to the world, that he has a meaning and a purpose in his life. Now the key is, how do you communicate those needs? If you're communicating those needs in a disrespectful way by telling him what to do, trying to lead him, trying to control him, trying to pull him on a string and manipulate him, that's going to feel bad to him and he's not going to want to meet your needs. He's going to feel either like a child that we talked about before or. Or that you simply don't respect him. And you're basically commanding him to meet your needs. You're commanding him to change, which will only make him pull away more and resist you more. So instead, you want to share your needs vulnerably with an open heart, using magnetic feminine communication that we'll teach you and we teach our clients in our advanced courses, and how to actually script out the language to use specifically with him. How do you communicate your needs in a way that draws him in through your feminine energy? It's much different than masculine communication, which is telling him what to do and criticizing, blaming, nagging, etc.
