Short persuasive monologue (YouTube transcript) advising that a key quality men seek in a wife/partner is being teachable and leadable. The speaker argues that men expect to lead (metaphor: partner dance), and that women should trust, respect, and follow a man's guidance to maintain relationship harmony and mutual pleasure.
The 10 hidden criteria men use to select a woman is being teachable and leadable. Now, a man will get frustrated in a relationship where he feels that he can't really lead. That if he makes suggestions to you or if he's guiding you in your relationship. If he's making decisions and you're constantly resisting him or criticizing his abilities or making fun of them or shaming him in different ways or ignoring him, then he's going to be like, why am I here? I can't really dance with you. Think of relationships as a partner dance. In a partner dance, the masculine is leading the feminine. He's even teaching her, like in a dance class. He's showing her where he wants to move her, how he wants to twirl her, how he wants to dip her for his pleasure and for her pleasure, which is what a good lead will do. He's looking out for you. He's making sure you don't bump into walls. He's making sure you're having a good time. He's making sure that. That he's leading in a way where you clearly understand what he's trying to do, where he's trying to take you. And he takes you there on his magic carpet ride so that you can see a whole new world together. Now, that involves being teachable and leadable, meaning you're open and receptive to his leadership as a man, that you trust him. Do you trust me? The answer would be yes. When he's leading properly, that you show him that trust, you show him that respect, and you follow him.
