Short coaching monologue advising listeners to verbalize appreciation for a partner’s masculine traits (leadership, decision-making, initiative, problem-solving, planning, taking action, and small helpful acts). The speaker argues that celebrating these behaviors reinforces masculine energy, increases polarity and attraction, and encourages a partner to adopt protector/provider roles, leading him to be more devoted and make the listener feel safe and cherished.
Chapters
Nine keys that make him cherish you. Celebrate his masculinity. Verbalize how his leadership and strength make you feel safe and cherished. So find ways and actually think about that and feel about that within yourself. Of what are the masculine traits that your man has? What are the ways that he is leading? That he is making decisions, that he is solving problems, that he is planning, that he is creating a vision for the future, that. That he is initiating, that he is getting things done, that he's taking action, that he's moving things forward. Even the small ways, even little tiny things, like, for example, he took your car in to go get fixed, or he is making decisions, what you guys are going to eat at night, little small things like that. Find ways to appreciate him for those and to celebrate him for those things. Because what happens is you create positive reinforcement that allows him to actually celebrate his own masculinity, his own masculine energy, which makes him want to do it more, which makes him want to be your protector, provider, hero even more. So it starts with you starting to recognize those masculine traits about him, which again will just by itself, start to increase polarity, and that will allow him to start doing more of that for you and then coming to you. Because he will feel that pole. He will feel that attraction. He will feel that he is stepping into that role and that he is wanting to lead and provide for you, that he is wanting to be a better man for you and to make you feel safe and cherished and adored. So when you start celebrating that within him, it starts to bring it out more and you get exactly what you want.
