Are You Mothering Your Man? #Relationships

Stop mothering a man if you found yourself trying to do things for your man, anticipating his needs, trying to make him happy, providing him things like free therapy, solving problems for him, sending him reminders, doing things for him, telling him what to do, suggesting things to him. These are all going to destroy the polarity over time and not allow him to step into his masculine hero, protector, provider role to be able to lead the relationship forward for you. Because that relationship has already been shifted to him being the little boy, you being the mommy, and that's not going to create the kind of passion, chemistry and devotion that you would like to experience with a man, likely long term.