Have A Man PURSUE & INVEST Into Your Relationship With THIS

Why a woman should never pay on the first date. The only thing that causes long term love, attraction, chemistry, passion is masculine, feminine polarity. Masculine energy is about giving. It's about leadership, it's about providing, protecting, being the hero, solving problems, getting an outcome. Feminine energy is about the process. It's about sharing your feelings, it's about receiving, it's about being open, being in the flow and following, following leadership that you want to follow and that you get pleasure from following. So naturally in a situation like a date where a man is, if he's taking the masculine role, is expected to pay, if you are being a feminine woman and you desire a romantic, loving, attractive, attracted, polarized, passionate relationship with this man, you cannot pay on the date. Now here's the caveat with that. Of course, if you don't want a romantic relationship with him, yes, you can split the bill, yes, you can pay for it, but you will not be able to create that polarity. You will not be able to have a passionate chemistry with him, at least in that moment, because you are now in the giving role or you're at least neutralized where you're splitting it equal 50, 50. No passion, no polarity. Your friends, your roommates. So you never want to pay on a date with a man. Here's how to handle it instead. So if you're on a date with a man and the man is, the bill is coming, or maybe he's, it's getting towards that time and he's, he's going to do one or one of two things. Likely he's going to just take the bill, he's going to pay it and he's going to handle it. He's going to lead, he's going to be a provider, he's going to give you his provision. He's going to be in his masculine, his healthy masculine, taking the role, that role. Now you can then respond in the feminine by receiving that, receiving his gift, receiving it with showing how you feel, how that makes you feel, that's the best way to receive a gift from a man is leadership. Just like in a dance. If you, if a man is leading you in a dance and he's leading you well and you're enjoying yourself, you want to show appreciation either through smiling, through your body language, openness, receptivity, or just saying thank you after the dance is complete. So you would say thank you, you'd smile, you would appreciate it, and that's it. That's the healthy, polarized way of the masculine giving, the feminine receiving. Now if a man has option two where he says, the bill comes along and he says, do you want to split? Or he says, let's go 50, 50. Or he says, you know, it's modern times. Women are just as empowered as men. We are equals. Let's split the bill. How are you going to handle that? So the best way to do to. For you to handle that situation in your feminine is to actually share authentically and vulnerably how that makes you feel, which would be your feminine. Again, the feminine is about receiving and it's about sharing vulnerably in the process. So you want to share how that makes you feel in the moment and be authentic with that. So you would say something like this, may I share something with you? And he'll say, sure. You want to share your raw emotions. I feel anxiety. I feel anxiety, or I feel sad or I feel uncomfortable. Usually anxiety is probably what you're going to be feeling because you're like, I don't know how to handle this situation. So you say, I feel anxiety. And then he would say, why do you feel anxious? And you say something like, being truthful, I feel anxious because you just asked me if we want to split the bill, and I don't want us to become just friends. And I'm not sure what to do. You've put the ball back in his court. You've shared vulnerably. You spoke up. So you're showing your value. You're showing your worth. And you're saying, hey, I'm not just going to, you know, let a man walk over me. And I'm not going to say nothing, even though this makes me uncomfortable and I feel anxious and I feel weird because I don't want to split the bill. I don't feel like a woman when I'm splitting the bill. I don't feel like even any level of attraction or polarity if I'm splitting the bill, or in fact, if I'm paying for the bill would be even worse. So you definitely would want to share that. And then you let him respond to that as you're sharing your value. He gets to then see it. He's also getting to see your feminine magnetism because you're showing your heart. You're being open and vulnerable with him, and he's. And he gets to respond to that. So he may say whatever. You have to be detached from the outcome. He might respond positively, he might respond negatively. Either way, you're showing your heart, you're being in your feminine, and you're showing your value. And your worth. Because he also might reveal his colors, that he's not a masculine man, he's a damaged man, perhaps. Maybe he's a sociopath, maybe he's a narcissist. Maybe he's just doesn't care about your feelings. Or he's, you know, who knows, a male feminist, whatever he might be, that where he's like, ah, no, no, no. Like we're, we're in modern society. You need to pay for the bill. Actually, you need to pay. I don't even want to sp. We don't know how he's going to react, but you're simply sharing vulnerably. And he's going to react how he may, because the feminine is about the process, the masculine is about the outcome. So you have to detach from the outcome. He's gotten a glimpse of your heart, he's got a glimpse of your value. Most likely he's going to say something like, I don't want you to feel anxious. Like, I'm, you know, I shouldn't have, I shouldn't have said that. I shouldn't have brought it up. Like, no, I, I'm definitely. I want to cover this and I want to. I'm going to treat you. He'll probably say that because he didn't even know. He may not be used to actually interacting with a feminine woman who knows her worth. You're valuable and you're feminine. That's a very rare combo. Most women don't understand and you know how to communicate in a feminine way. So he's maybe taken a little bit off guard because he's used to women maybe buying him meals or he's always splitting or whatever because he's cheap or because he's used to it or because we're in an equal society or whatever. He might have his stories, his reasons why he's. He's doing that, but now he's saying, oh, wow, you're different. You're actually a woman who values herself and who's feminine. And you've also communicated to him that you don't want to just be friends. That you've communicated, hey, I see that if we split the bill here, we're likely just going to become friends because I'll probably lose attraction at the very least. And you'll probably lose attraction as well because now you haven't been able to step into your masculine. With me. You're. We're just kind of roommates. We're kind of friends. We're buddies. There's no more romance here. There's no more chemistry, there's no more passion, there's no more romance. So that's most likely how he's going to react and he's going to then want to pay for the bill or he doesn't. And if he doesn't, that's probably your sign to exit stage right. That it's not, he's not, he's not the right man for you. Most likely you have to detach and just move on, you know, so it's also a good test. But that's how you're keeping your worth and that's how you're gonna attract a masculine man who actually does want to take care of you, who does want to provide for you, who's going to give you the world, who wants to make you happy. And because now he cares about your emotions. And you could also just end up having a good discussion about it, share more about your feelings, about how you don't want to lose chemistry and passion because you, you know, you're looking for a man who wants to take that role in the relationship, who wants to be the leader, who wants to be in his healthy masculine, who wants to be a protector, be a provider, be a hero. And that's why that's important to you. And so you guys can have a good discussion about that may open some things up. And now he's like, wow, this is actually. I didn't even know there was a woman like you that existed. And that's what I want. That's exactly what I want. Who knows how he's going to respond. You have to be detached from it. So hope this was helpful. Much love. Make sure to use it, practice it. Leave your feedback in the comments. Things that come up. I'd love to hear your stories and look forward to talking to you more on our next future training videos. Take care. Bye bye.