He Can't Resist! Make Him Miss You In 8 Simple Steps

How to make a man miss you badly. If you have a man that you feel has been pulling away from you, he's losing interest, or he's simply not giving you the love, care and devotion that you really crave deep in your heart, deep in your soul, he's not being the man you need in this moment. This is going to help shift him so that he comes close, he loves you, he wants you, and even starts to obsess over you. Hi, I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize youe man. And for over 20 years, combined with my wife, Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man they desire. Let's go ahead and dive right in now into how exactly to do this. So the eighth powerful thing that you want to do here is you want to give him space and trust. The deepest desire of the masculine is to feel trusted and respected. The deepest desire of the feminine is to feel loved and adored. So if you want him to love and adore you, you have show him trust and respect. Now, I believe it's important with a relationship with a man that you first give him trust and respect to your full capacity. Until he shows you that he is not trustworthy, or unless he shows you that he's a broken man or not somebody that you want to be with, then of course you set a boundary with yourself, you step back away from that relationship. But until that time, you want to show him your full trust and give him that space to do his own thing, to be his own man, to go into the bear cave when he needs to, and potentially even to pull away. There's something called the rubber band theory, where if you let somebody pull away long enough, if there's some level of care there, if there's already some present level of desire and a foundation of passion and polarity, he will come back to you. And sometimes that can be a hard time. When he's in that tension mode, that's what it'll feel like. Tension like, oh, I want him back in my life. But if you give him that space for long enough, typically he will come back. However, there's a lot of principles and a lot of distinctions that you're going to need in order to do this properly. But you first want to show him that trust, you want to show him that respect, you want to give him that space, let him do his thing, let him process his own emotions, let him come to a decision on what he wants to do with the relationship. And in the meantime, give yourself all that you're hoping to get from him. So the self care, the love, the adoration, and continue to build your social life. Because. Because unless you're in an exclusive relationship with him, there's no reason why you should not be putting yourself out there, making yourself available to make other connections, both friendships and potential, dating and romantic partners. This doesn't mean sleeping around, but it means making yourself available and filling yourself up. Filling up your own cup so that it overfloweth and that you have many options in your life. You have a life of abundance and happiness and joy that will make you naturally radiate, that will draw him back to you energetically, potentially. But there are also many other communication techniques I'm going to teach you here as well. And then we teach our women with magnetic feminine communication that will bring him back. In addition to that, the seventh powerful principle you want to use here is to have fun and enjoy your interactions with him. So there's something that we have as humans called mirror neurons. Mirror neurons are activated whenever we are interacting with another human being. Typically, what this means is however they are feeling is how we are going to feel as well. That's why they say crowds can be very dangerous, because the crowds can get activated into certain emotions such as anger or fear, and people just start to get caught up in the emotion. Because we have these mirror neurons as humans and we become tribal and for better or for worse, it can. It can just be just the way that we humans work. And so when you're with your man, you can use this principle to understand that however you are feeling is also typically how he is going to feel. So if you are feeling relaxed and joyful and happy and having fun, he's probably going to feel relaxed and joyful and happy and having fun. If you're feeling anxious and stressed and angry and frustrated, he's probably going to start feeling angry, stressed, frustrated, confused, etc. So when you're with your man, if you want him to feel really good and have positive associations with you, you can make sure to default towards having fun and enjoying yourself when you're with him. To let go of the outcome, detach from the outcome, commit to the process and enjoy the process. Enjoy the journey of being with him. It doesn't mean that you're still not having boundaries and you're not communicating when real issues come up for you because you want to be authentic. We're not just putting a happy smiley face sticker over your empty gas tank. We want you to be authentically happy and joyful, which is why you want to use and learn a lot of the principles that we teach you here and we teach the women in our courses. That allows you to actually be a radiant feminine woman when you're with him. And then when issues come up, you're able to use magnetic feminine communication so that you could respectfully and vulnerably share problems that you're having in a way that he wants to hear it. Because it's also important that he helps you. And it's important that he understands when there is an issue so that he can be your hero. And that's going to make him feel really good as well, because that's part of the law of polarity. And then when that issue is handled, you can then default back to enjoying yourself. And that's gonna make it much more likely that he enjoys himself around you and wants to be back again with you soon. Now, before we get to our next point, if you haven't yet, I highly recommend taking our free Magnetize youe Man quiz to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man you desire fast. Where we'll customize this for you and give you the more advanced strategies of magnetic feminine communication. Magnetic feminine polarity. To have the relationship that you really want with him. In order to get that, all you have to do is click the link in the comments or description below or, or you can go to our website as well, magnetizeyourman.com to go ahead and get access to that. Now, the sixth powerful principle here is to connect with him through deeper forms of communication. Now, typically in our modern age, we live in a social media and online dating society, which means people tend to default towards texting and messaging. Beep, beep, beep, beep beep beep beep. They're sending little data, little ones and zeros to each other over the screen. And it has influence negatively our ability to really connect with somebody. And for most importantly, a man, to really feel your heart. Your heart is where your feminine energy lives. That's your radiance. That's where your emotions are, your vulnerability, the sensations in your body. And if a man can't fully feel your heart and feel your feminine energy, he's not going to be able to fully build attraction, love and devotion for you because of the law of polarity. If he can't feel your feminine energy, there's not going to be any spark there, there's not going to be any pull long term, there's not going to be the Passion and real love and devotion. So you want him to be able to feel your heart, you want him to be able to feel your feminine energy. It's so key to attract a man and to draw him in. In order to do that, you're going to need deeper forms of communication long term because you're not going to be able to fully communicate your heart over text and words on a screen. You'll be able to communicate some emotions and you'll be able to have some connection, but it's likely not going to activate that deep sense of passion and devotion within him for you. So if you really want a man to miss you, you have to activate and turn on deeper forms of communication, which means getting on the phone or talking to him in person. And you might be saying, well, he doesn't want to talk to me on the phone right now, he's pulled away, or he doesn't want to meet in person. And the first thing I would say to that is if a man doesn't want to talk to you on the phone, he's not willing to get on the phone with you at least, or of course to meet up in person. But even if he's not willing to at least get on the phone with you, that's not a good sign. And that's a sign that the man is either deeply broken or he has no level of care for you, or both. And either way it doesn't matter because all that we're looking for at the end of the day is as a man showing care for your heart or is he not showing care for your heart? If he's not willing to get on the phone with you, that's not showing care for your heart. And that needs to shift. We're going to help you to shift that. Because if you're, if you're not dealing with a broken man, he may be deeply broken. In that case, it's actually a good thing that he's not talking to you because you kind of want to step away from a relationship with that. With a man like that, we go deeper into how to know if a man is a broken man or not. We use our 90 day magnetic feminine challenge typically to uncover that and also to draw him in in that process if he's not broken. But if a man is deeply broken, he's potentially abusive, he's potentially going to hurt you long term in different ways, either through neglect or intention. Either way, you have to distance yourself long term. But if he's a healthy man and he has some level of care for you. He's going to be willing to get on the phone with you. And if not, we're going to help you to get him to that point as long as he's a healthy man. And then once you're on the phone with him now, you can use real magnetic feminine communication and you can have a magnetic feminine conversation that will teach you how to do, how to actually share your feelings and your heart in a way that makes him feel good, that lights him up, that makes him want to help you and cherish and adore your heart. Because a man wants to feel all of your emotions, not just the positive ones, like sharing appreciation and how he makes you feel happy or joyful or relaxed, which is really great. But also the negative emotions, such as if you're feeling sadness coming up or loneliness or some frustration or anger or confusion or uncertainty or just blandness. If you're not feeling anything, you could also share that with a man as well. If you're feeling numb, how can you set up a phone call or an in person meeting with him? Easy, just ask for it. Simply send him the message. May I ask if we can talk on the phone or I would love to share something with you. Is it okay if we talk on the phone or can I ask if we can meet sometime this week? I would love to reconnect with you and simply put that desire out there and either he's going to accept it or not. If he doesn't, then that's something we're going to work on. If he does, then you can move to the next step and have a magnetic feminine conversation with him. Fifth powerful principle is to commit to the process, but detach from the outcome. This means that in this process of drawing him back in, of re attracting a man, or having him start to crave, devote, and even want to commit to you on a deep level, you have to commit to the process of becoming this woman, becoming reconnected to your feminine core, your feminine instinct. Because we're not changing who you are here. We're actually bringing you back to your true self, the self that exists inside of you. Before any of the wounding, before any of the bad experiences with men or the bad programming you've had from society or from parents or from schooling or from the media. We're bringing you back to who you really are as a woman, before all that, when you were young, when you were pure, when you had this golden heart inside of you. And we're bringing you back to that so that you can show that to your man, you can actually express yourself from that place, which is going to draw him in and going to make him want to miss you, make him want to come back to you and have you in his life. And in that process, we're going to be working on you, we're going to be coaching and helping you, guiding you, just like you're learning a new language and learning a new dance. But once you've learned it, it becomes easy. And then in the process, you're going to have to detach from the outcome if you want to get the best results with him, which means letting go of caring whether or not he responds back to you, letting go of caring whether or not he actually comes back and wants you in his life. Because ultimately you can't control that. And the more you try to control him, the more he's probably going to pull away. So we want to let go of that and trust in the process, have faith over fear, and know that if you're using what we'll teach you with magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication, either you're going him back into your life very quickly and rapidly, or it's going to become apparent that he's a broken man and he has no level of care for you, which eventually you're going to have to step away. And you will then quickly attract a new man into your life who's high quality, who does devote to you, who you're excited about and want, and he wants you. So either way, you're becoming the treasure, you are the gift. And that's the ultimate prize that you're going to get in this process is who you're becoming as a woman. In order to do that, we want to commit to that process. Commit to yourself first and let the cards fall where they may. The fourth powerful principle to make a man miss you badly is to be genuinely appreciative and express how his actions make you feel. For a man to feel deep devotion for a woman, he needs to feel that she needs him in some way, that he is valuable to her, that he has some gift to offer her, he can provide something for her in her life. In order for him to know that he's doing that and he's able to do that, he needs to get some signals from you. The most powerful signal you can send to him is your feminine appreciation, letting him know when he's done a good job, when he's created some positive emotions in you, because there are things that he's done in the past or in the present, even very small things. Likely, if you think about it and if you look into it, that have made you feel good, that have made you feel happy, that it made you feel safe, relaxed, cherished, et cetera. And for you to be able to share that with him in the right way will give him a signal. It'll let him know he is capable of being a hero for you, he has a place in your life and specifically what things do make you happy, that he can do a good job as a man, that he can be your man. So to share things like, I love when you did this for me, it made me feel so special. Or it always makes me feel safe when you open the door for me. Thank you. Or simply just saying thank you with your body, even smiling, glowing at him, giving him a hug potentially. But letting him know when he's done something for you, that he did a good job, that he's making you happy in that moment, or if there's nothing he's done lately. You can bring up old incidences so you can say so rather than what a lot of people will do, a lot of women will do in relationships, often with a man they're unhappy about, as they will bring up issues from the past that are negative and bring it into the present and say, you forgot about this just like you forgot about my birthday last year, or that one time that you said this hurtful thing to me. So they'll bring up those things from the past and that creates a negative association for him that reminds him that he failed in that moment, that he is potentially failing with you as a man and that makes his masculine self esteem go down. He feels like he's not good enough and then he feels ultimately like, it doesn't sound like you need me. Why do you need me? I'm not able to make you happy. Like, we should just end this potentially. So as opposed to him feeling, oh yeah, I remember when I did that thing for you that made you feel really good, such as I fixed your, that situation with your, your brother, or I helped you with your car, or I gave you directions to that place when you were lost and you were scared. So you can remind him of those things and he remembers, oh, I was a hero for her once. I have done things that made her happy and I want to do more of those things because it feels really good to me. If he's a healthy man to want to do that in the future. Now, if he's a broken man, it likely won't have an effect on him. He may still get upset or Angry or pull away or over time. Which is why we need to give it 90 days to see how he actually responds to you being in your feminine, to see how he can shift with our magnetic feminine 90 day challenge. And there's a lot of things you can do and implement to make sure you are dealing with a man who can be that hero for you and who is a healthy man and not a deeply broken man who's ultimately not capable of showing care for your heart. So we need to identify that. And one of the most powerful ways is opening your heart and sharing appreciation with him. The third powerful principle to make a man miss you badly is to be fully present and radiant in your interactions with him. What this means is when you are with him, to shut off everything else as much as possible. Put away your phone, don't be looking around and distracted. Don't be overly in your head thinking about the past or thinking about the future. Where's this heading? Does he like me? Does he not like me? Did I say something stupid? Did I say the wrong thing? What should I say next? What should I do next? If you're up in your head, if you're thinking about other things outside of you or thinking about what the past of the future is while you're with him, you are in your masculine energy. You are disconnected from your feminine energy, which means he's not going to be able to feel your heart. He's not going to feel that pull of that passion and polarity when he's with you. So in order to do that, we have to get you out of your head and out of the external, because the external is also masculine. The internal world is your feminine energy. And so we need to get you out of that external, thinking about other things, thinking about him, thinking about your phone, thinking about other people, and away from being in your head in general to down here, internal, inside of your heart, which is your feminine core. And in order to do that, you need to listen to what your body's actually telling you when you're with him. There's some powerful questions you can actually ask yourself when you're with him that'll help bring you into your feminine core, such as, am I enjoying myself right now? If you're not enjoying yourself, then the question becomes, how can I enjoy myself more now? If you are enjoying yourself, then great, continue doing that. Another question you can ask is, am I feeling my feet on the ground right now? Am I feeling my butt in the chair? Am I feeling my breath? So you can actually ask yourself about the sensations in your body, to remind yourself of your body, which is your feminine energy, and to notice those sensations that gets you out of your head back into your feminine, and then to just have those practices when you're out listening to your body, listening to your sensations, listening to the emotions that come up, rather than thinking, thinking about what he's saying, thinking about what he's doing, thinking about what he's going to do next, Feel into it, feel into what he's saying, feel into what he's doing, feel into what you want to do next. It's a powerful way to operate with a man. It may be very foreign for you if you've been used to being in your masculine energy primarily in the past, because of your wounds, because of your traumas, because of how you're erased potentially. So what we're helping you here is we're taking you on a journey to get back to your feminine core, to get back to that feminine instinct. And it can feel very strange in the beginning because you're like, what is this? And it feels scary, even because it feels vulnerable. It feels. Well, now, if I'm not in my head thinking about it, then I'm going to get hurt. If I'm not planning ahead, if I'm not thinking about what he's thinking or anticipating his needs or wanting to make sure that he's happy, then I'm going to get hurt, he's going to leave me, he's not going to like me or something like that. Unconsciously, you may be thinking. And so we have to let that go again. We commit to a process, detach from the outcome. You have to have some courage to actually trust and reconnect to yourself. And trust that when you reconnect to yourself and your own core, you're naturally going to draw him in. You're naturally going to bring in that radiance that's going to make him magnetize to you and give you exactly what you want. So it's a paradox, really. You're letting go of the fear. You're letting go of caring, really about if he likes you or not. Instead, you're focusing back on yourself. And the paradox then becomes he is actually more likely to want to be with you. He's more likely to be drawn to you because now you're in your feminine radiance. Second powerful principle to make a man miss you badly is to offer sincere apologies. So if there's been some bad blood in your relationship, there's been bad arguments, bad incidences, potential things you've said to him that were hurtful or disrespectful, then you're going to want to clean those up with him. At least clean up your side of the street so that you can know you're becoming your most queenly magnetic feminine self. And that if he doesn't choose to be with you at that point, it's on him. It's because he's a broken man or he simply doesn't have any care for you for whatever reason. Again, all that matters is is he showing care for your heart or is he not showing care for your heart? So we want to help you clean up your side of the street. There's actually a process we teach our women in our programs that you may have heard about, which is our big apology process. And the big apology is where you can actually go and do a self accountability exercise where you look back on your relationship and discover all the areas where you may have been in your masculine energy with him, where you are criticizing him, complaining to him, telling him what to do, mothering him, trying to make him happy or anticipate his needs, treating him like a child. There's so many different ways you may have been in your masculine energy and potentially disrespectful. Because respect is one of the deepest desires of the masculine. Men crave to be respected if they're a healthy man. And so if you're not, it's not even that they crave it, they need it. Just like you need to be loved, he needs to be respected. And if he feels that there are things you have done or said that were disrespectful, he's going to feel a negative association towards you and he's going to have less love and devotion towards you than he would have beforehand. And so if there's been multiple incidences like that in your relationship, you're going to want to clean that up. And you can go through that big process where you actually make that account. You list it out, you have a, you'll reach out to him, which we'll give you a script for and have a conversation with him and actually share those things with him in the right way, in a respectful and vulnerable way, and then apologize for those things and then detach from the outcome. And he's either going to cry, he's going to open up himself, he's going to want to talk about it, he may apologize for some things himself or, or he may not respond at all. We don't know we have to detach from the outcome, but we've had all those different stories and mostly it's men wanting to clean up themselves as well, wanting to come closer, wanting to actually trust you now because they feel safe to actually come back to you and come back to the relationship because now they realize you have self awareness and you've cleaned up your side of the street and you're a different woman, you're more connected to your feminine core, you're more respectful, you're more in your feminine energy. And so you can do the big process or you can do a smaller process where you apologize in small moments whenever you said something disrespectful and just saying something like, you know, I'm sorry if I said something that was disrespectful when we had that conversation. Or you know, I was thinking about what, what I did yesterday with that, with that situation and I realized it may have been disrespectful for you, to you. And I just wanted to apologize for that. And then he can respond and he can do whatever he does, but really it doesn't matter what he does because you're doing this for yourself. You're doing this for who you're being as a woman. You becoming the most radiant, magnetic, feminine, queenly woman you can be. And then he's going to do whatever he does. Likely he's going to show care for your heart, likely he's going to come closer again, he's going to want to be with you long term and start missing you again. And that can be a powerful way to shift the whole dynamic in your relationship. The first powerful principle to make a man miss you badly is to set boundaries with yourself. So in your relationship with him, there can be a lot of situations that come up where you feel that he's not meeting your needs, or you feel that he's being disrespectful to you or hurtful to you, or that it's not healthy for you for whatever reason, whether that's a situation or the entire relationship. Now, you being a high value woman and valuing yourself and knowing that you're worthy means that you're willing to set boundaries when needed and to walk away when needed. That's ultimately how you hold your worth as a woman. That you're not willing to accept consistent bad behavior from a man, whether that's hurtful comments, whether that's hurtful behaviors, or he's cheating on you, or he's abusing you, or he's just not valuing you. You have to value yourself enough to be willing to Walk away and say, no, this doesn't work for me. This is hurtful towards me. I can't be in a situation like this. And that is the feminine way of setting boundaries is setting a boundary with yourself rather than with him. So masculine boundary setting is saying, you did something wrong, you need to stop or you need to leave, or you need to start doing this behavior that I want you to do. You need to be more kind to me, or you need to be more caring towards me, or you need to change, or you need to work on your issues. That's you setting a boundary with him. That's masculine. That's you leading him and trying to change him, trying to tell him what to do, trying to make him do something or manipulate him into doing something. And that's just going to push him away more. Why? Because it's disrespectful. Because you're not valuing his capacity as a man and you're mothering him in that moment. You're trying to make him be your little boy. You're like a mommy scolding your little boy. Like, you gotta stop doing that or else you're gonna get punished. As opposed to the feminine way of setting boundaries, which is almost. It doesn't matter what he is doing. It's not about him. It's about you. It's about what is healthy for you, what works for you, what makes you feel good or doesn't feel good. And saying things to him. Like, I'm feeling pretty sad right now. I'm feeling hurt, pretty hurt right now by what happened. And I just need to take some space for myself. I can't talk right now because I don't want to be disrespectful or I don't want to say something hurtful. So you're using I statements. It's about you. It's about what you're doing. I need to step away. I need to take some space. I can't talk about this right now, or I can't do this right now, or this doesn't work for me right now, or this isn't. This isn't good for me right now. Rather than saying, you need to change or you need to stop, or you need to do this, or you aren't doing this, or you have to. That's you trying to control him. So you make it about yourself. You set those boundaries. And then the ultimate boundary is like with our magnetic, feminine 90 day challenge is if a man hasn't shifted. When you've done our 90 day challenge, and you've given him some time, because oftentimes a man does need some time to shift. When you use what we teach you, when you're actually in your magnetic feminine core and you're using magnetic feminine communication, we'll give you the scripts of exactly how to handle different situations and what to say and what to do that are coming from feminine energy. And he needs some time to learn the dance as well. He needs some time to learn a new language because he might be used to interacting with you, with you being in your masculine energy, you being disrespectful, you being closed off and trying to change and control him and criticize him. And so he needs some time to adjust, to learn how to interact with you when you're being nice, when you're in your feminine, vulnerable energy, but just still authentic. So it's not really nice in that way. It's authentic and it's gentle at the same time. That's the queen is the perfect balance of that gentleness with that self focus, that self interest really. But you're still respectful, you're still vulnerable in that process. And so he gets to value you. And he also sees, okay, I need to step up. And he does it for himself. He says, if I don't want to lose her, I need to shift my behavior on my own. I need to be a better man because I want to keep her in my life. And now he sets a boundary with himself about him not being disrespectful to you, not being hurtful to you, not being unloving to you. And he wants to change on his own. And if he doesn't over that period of time, then you have to be willing to walk away. That's the ultimate boundary you set with yourself is walking away from an entire relationship because it's not serving you, because it's not meeting your needs. But you need to give it that time. Ideally, if this is a man you really care about, and we'll help you with that and we'll coach you along that journey to draw him back in, to make him really crave and devote himself to you so you can have a loving, long term relationship that you ultimately desire with him. Much love. Hope this was helpful and I look forward to talking to you more on our next powerful training very soon.