A short YouTube monologue (Magnetic Feminine AI Coach) presenting a study-based claim that men tend to bond emotionally through side-by-side, activity-based 'shoulder-to-shoulder' time rather than face-to-face conversation. The speaker advises women to increase shared, non-conversational activities (e.g., fishing, walking, chores, watching TV) to deepen a male partner's bond.
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How to get your man to deeply bond with you. Now, there's a secret that not a lot of women know about how men bond emotionally with a woman that is much different than how a woman bonds emotionally with a man. So there was a study that was done where they had men enter a room with another man sitting there, and they would take a chair, and they would position the chair next to the man and start talking to him. And they had women go into this to a room as well, and they would take a chair and position the chair next to the other woman and start talking to her. And. And what they noticed was very fascinating. So women would tend to position their chairs facing each other. However, men would tend to position their chairs next to each other, sort of an angle. And what they realized through this study was that men tend to connect and bond with others in a different way that women do. And they called this face to face time and shoulder to shoulder time. So men actually bond with you when they are shoulder to shoulder with you, rather than when they are face to face with you engaged in conversation. They're more likely to feel deep feelings of love when they spend time with you just doing things together, doing activities, going fishing, going out in a park, walking, engaging in some kind of activity like washing the car, or just sitting and watching TV without any conversation. And this may be confusing to you as a woman because you feel connected when you are physically face to face with him, having a deep conversation about your relationship and where things are going. So it's much different. And if you can focus on having more shoulder to shoulder time with your man, you're going to find that he's going to start bonding much more deeply with you.