How To FLIRT With A Man (4 REAL Date Examples)

So our friend Keena is going to be going on four different dates with four different guys, and we're going to be coaching her with a secret earpiece. So let's see how it goes and see who she picks.

Hello, Keena.

Hi, my name is Doug. Hi, Doug. Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you. Yeah, this is a nice place. So you got some dates lined up, huh?

I do, yeah.

Are you excited about it?

Yeah.

Cool.

Yeah. Are you?

Yeah. Yeah.

Well, I guess you only have one.

Yeah, I think I'm happy to be your first.

Oh, okay.

Yeah. Well, you should see the other guys. They're total hunks.

Oh, are they?

Say, what secrets should I know about you?

I'm just messing around.

Well, what's. Are there any secrets I should know about you?

Let's see. I'm pretty much an all American. Good. Nice guy.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah. Yeah. So are we gonna have a date today?

Are we?

Yeah, I think this is our date. I think this is our date. I thought we were gonna go.

Are we gonna go somewhere?

Wait, have you ever done anything like this before? Before?

Oh, no.

No. Okay. No. No, I haven't either.

Yeah.

And so are. Are you into health and wellness?

Yeah, like, I'm your typical wellness girly that, like, you know, like, hot girl walks. I don't normally talk like that. Cold plunge sauna. Like, they just opened this, like, breath work yoga. Cold plunge sauna studio by. In La Jolla by you say, Do.

I take your breath away?

That's good. So cold. How cold is the cold plunge?

Okay, so this one is set at 45, but the one at my gym I have not tried and it said at like, 32 to 34.

What do you get out of it?

Supposedly it's really good for stress and metabolism. And what does it do? Serotonin, dopamine? I don't know. One of those, like, feel good drugs supposed to help with.

Say, do I activate your dopamine?

Nice.

That sounds worthwhile.

Come on, say it.

So do I. I think I would.

Mostly just feel proud of myself.

Oh, yeah.

You know, like, I did it.

Yeah, but then you're going to become one of those people that, like, it becomes your, like, personality that you did cold plunge. And you're cool. Well, I guess you are cool coming out of the cold plunge. But I mean, like, because, like, because everyone. When something becomes trendy and then people start doing it, it's like their whole personality. Like when people become Paleo.

Yeah.

Or like, vegans. You're not vegan, are you? Well, thank God.

I like seafood and veggies.

You eat them.

I liked seafood and veggies. That's my main thing.

So what do you.

What do you most desire?

Life out of life.

I think the most important thing in life is being happy as a couple. I think if you have that, then I could be in a lame town. But if I'm with my partner, I'll be happy. If I had to go to Fargo, North Dakota, but I'm with the person I love, I'm sure I'd be happy there.

They probably don't have Cold Punch studios.

They just go out in the snow.

They just go outside.

I'm 50% Finnish. It's very interesting that you wouldn't know about Finland. They really love karaoke. And. And I love karaoke too.

You do?

So maybe it's, like, part of my heritage.

It must be in your blood. No, I don't want to go on karaoke.

Oh, you don't like it. Oh, well, see you later.

It's really funny because. Well, it's not funny, but I've noticed it always. Maybe because I never want to do it. I'll go watch you. You can serenade me. That'll be fine. But I'm not gonna participate. Is that on the dating apps, everyone, like, will put, like, what's your favorite karaoke song? And I'm like, don't.

Oh, you'll swipe left.

Yeah. I'm like, I don't know.

You're just like, oh, my gosh.

Do you guys your prompt?

No, but it does say what I like, and I say karaoke. So then you. You'd just be like, swipe left.

I'm scared.

Yeah.

Okay.

Well, are you good at it?

You know what I found is if you sing a song so awesome, people resent you. Like, I sang a song so good. And then I sang the song, and then I actually heard a guy say, I won't say the real swear word. But he said, f that guy because.

You were so good.

Yeah.

How does it make you feel?

Yeah. And so then.

Wait, how'd that make you feel?

I didn't like that. I was like, you know. Damn.

And then.

Then the people who would sing horribly but it's funny. They got the biggest. Biggest.

They get a really good applause.

Yeah.

So if you could be a juice, what would you. Which one would you be and why?

I would be Jesus, because he's the greatest. Jesus was a Jew before Christianity, not a Jew. I know. I'm just joking. I heard you the first time.

Oh, you heard me the first time. Okay. Now I can see what our life would be like. Yeah.

I like to make jokes. And for my jokes, two out of three are awesome, and one out of three, not so much. But anyway, if I was a juice, I would be Maha Virtue. Sweet cherry.

Sweet cherry.

Why?

Because it's good for you. And that's the one women love the most.

Okay.

Of our four flavors.

Well, tart cherry with is supposed to make you go to sleep. Right?

Or is it aphrodisiac?

Gives you energy and ups your mood.

Which one is the aphrodisiac?

Which one's the aphrodisiac?

Did you know our drinks are aphrodisiac?

No. I know.

They are.

Really?

They are.

Yeah. They're good for that.

Okay.

They help men with edd.

Oh.

And you know what that means.

I do. Is this why you're so passionate about it?

It's just one of the benefits.

Okay.

And if you're worried, you needn't worry.

I'm not worried.

Okay.

Can I ask. What? Do you have, like, a favorite, most treasured memory?

Yeah. I would say when I retired from the Navy.

Okay.

And I had a ceremony on the flight deck of the USS Midway, and so, so many of my friends and family came from out of town to be there with me, and my squadron put on an amazing, you know, retirement ceremony. And my son and my niece sang the national anthem.

They did.

Yes.

Also singing Runs in the Family.

Yes.

Okay, so last question.

Yes.

That's your thoughts about monogamy.

Do you have any thoughts on monogamy? It's good. Okay.

It's normal.

It's normal. Yes.

Yes.

They're trying to make it not normal.

Right, Right.

I'm like, you girls realize you just, like, normalized being a player, right? Like.

Yeah.

And I'm very. I'm a traditional person.

Same.

That's great.

I am, too.

A very fun first date.

Oh, good. Thanks. Do you have a favorite part or what you liked about it or about me? Or about me.

Yeah. I like it when you smile and laugh. And I'm glad that you like my jokes.

Most of your jokes, yeah. Okay, good.

That's good. That's a good sign because if you don't get my humor, then that's not going to be. That's not game over fun for anybody.

I know.

Yeah. Well, it's so nice meeting you.

All right.

Thank you.

Thank you.

All right.

Bye.

Bye.

Bye. I'm a hair stylist and want to be real estate developer. I live by the Beach. I love the beach. Surfing. I really like somebody that's like, super fun and funny and more lively because I'm a bit more shy and I feel like I have a lot of fun to make up for. I think I won't even give somebody a chance if I don't think they're gonna line up with the important foundational things. I'm sorry. If I have to stick his wiener in my mouth for the rest of my life, then he has to be good looking. My dad left when I was pretty young, when I was 6, and my mom never dated again, so I didn't see much of any relationship. I've been set up on dozens of dates by people that I would think know me, but they're kind of like, oh, you guys agree on this and this here, You're a good match. And then it's like, I'm like, are you blind or do you not know me or do you not care? Because I've been on so many dates that I'm just like this. I don't even know how anyone thought this was a good idea. So I think the constant disappointment and is like, sure, I'll go. I think between personality and looks, I'm just never interested in someone. Like, I'm too picky, but I don't know how to change my mind. Just thinking I'm gonna be single forever because I'm too picky, and I don't know how to not be picky. But then where am I gonna settle? Someone that has a shitty job, that's not cute, that's a nice guy, but that's it.

Hello.

Hi.

Hi. How you doing?

Good, how are you?

Good.

My name's Mark.

Mark. Christina.

Christina. Nice to meet you.

Yeah.

Mind if I have a seat?

Yeah, please.

So how's it going?

Good, good. How are you?

I'm good, I'm good.

Yeah?

Yeah.

Can I ask what you most love about your life right now?

What about your life right now?

Oh, that's a good question. I like the freedom that I have right now.

It's a good thing.

But it's also a bad thing.

Okay.

Because I have too much freedom.

Okay. I want to know more about this.

Okay. I have too much freedom. I look around at all my friends who are in, you know, married or whatever and have kids and all that stuff, and they look at me like, oh, you got all the freedom in the world. I'm like, yes, but, you know, I don't have someone consistent to share it with.

Okay. Why do you have so much freedom?

Because I don't have anyone consistent to share it with.

Oh, you don't have a old ball and chain? Is that what.

You do not have an old ball and chain?

No.

Can I be your ball and chain?

So I'm sure that's kind of a similar situation to you, too, as well.

Well, sure. I. I don't have anyone bossing me around, making me make sandwiches.

Can you be my boss?

Bossing you around. Making sense.

But I would love to have a boss.

Really?

Well, duh.

Okay.

Okay. You're.

You're more of a. You're not a dominant.

You're the.

Okay.

Oh, no, I. I didn't mean it like that.

No, no, not like that.

No, no, no. I mean, it's called a woman.

You're.

You know, you're.

Yeah, no, I'm a girl.

Yes, you're a girly girl.

I'm just a girl. So if you were a fruit, what would you be?

Such fruit would I be.

Yeah.

I don't know.

Probably a pineapple. I like pineapple. It's. I'm just into it lately. I like to eat pineapple.

Okay.

Yeah, Pineapple's really good for a lot of things.

Yes, they are. Yes, they are.

Does that even mean.

What are some of the biggest risks. Risk you've taken?

Oh, I don't know. Traveling in other countries alone, it's kind of a risk, I guess, right?

I don't know. Depends on the country, I guess it depends on. I don't think it's risky.

Okay.

Have you.

Where have you traveled to?

All third world countries? Pretty much. I think.

All of them.

Yeah. I don't think I've. I've never been to Europe, so.

I've never been to Europe.

Haiti, Costa Rica, Belize, Mexico, Indonesia, Taiwan.

Nice. Southeast Asia. I've been to.

Yeah.

Thailand, Vietnam. Look at that. You've been to those countries, too?

Just Taiwan and Indonesia. Okay. Yeah.

By yourself?

Yep, I was by myself.

Wow.

Yeah, that was. That's actually the biggest risk I've ever taken.

See, there you go.

Independent woman.

But it wasn't the traveling. Oh, don't be mistaken. I'm not independent.

Well, I meant to. Independent is an independent design. You don't have to worry about being in a relationship and going with friends and all that stuff.

Well, that was the biggest risk I've ever taken. But have you taken any big risks? Like with love?

Okay.

With love. Oh.

I mean, yeah, I think so. I mean, anytime you get those feelings, aren't you kind of taking a big risk?

Well, do you see it as risky in the moment?

No.

Right. Like, no.

You just kind of go with, you know, with. With your gut, with your heart. That sounds corny, doesn't it? But, yeah, it's true. But the older you get, you go with all three. Your gut, your heart, and your brain. I think. Just go with what you. What you're feeling. Just go with it.

When you're falling in love with somebody, it doesn't seem as risky because you're like, oh, my God, they're so cute. And he's so nice.

Sure.

Yes.

This is so fun.

And you're a team.

Yeah.

So you're right. I guess you're right.

Going to buy three bitcoin.

Risk, Risk.

I'm gonna keep taking those. Hot babe on dates. I mean, you might be disappointed, but it might. Yeah.

Okay. So when you look at it like that. Yeah, I would say no, it's not a big risk. It's a risk, but not a big risk. Have you ever had smoked pineapple?

Do I have. Do I smoke pineapple?

No, no, no, no. I don't think that's a thing. Have you ever had smoked pineapple?

I probably smoke. It's something in a pineapple. I've never done that, though.

I don't know.

No, no, no. Yeah.

Isn't that Pineapple Express is a movie where they smoke weed?

It is. With Seth Rogen and the other guy there.

Yeah. Yeah.

Have I smoked pineapple? No. Have I had it? Pretty sure.

Okay. Yes. Because where I'm going with this is smoking, as in smoking food.

Okay.

Is something I want to master too.

Okay. So I don't know if pineapple would be the first thing I'd want to master.

No, it's not. The first thing I did was a turkey.

Okay. That seems more fitting.

It was awesome. A 14 pound turkey. And I smoked the perfect turkey. Me and my Richard, he helped me out because he's a master smoker or whatever, and it was delicious.

Well, sounds good.

Yes.

I don't ever think about death.

I don't either. They say that it's impossible for human beings to really think about it for more than, like, 10 seconds.

Emotional fears. Fears of the love. I think picking the wrong person to be with.

Oh, that's a good. That's a good fear to have.

Like, what if I, like, girls are really good at, like, ignoring red flags?

I would agree that guys are too.

Have you ever ignored any red flags? No.

You don't think so?

Do you ever ignore red flags?

I have. I think I'm getting better at that.

Though. Okay.

Yeah.

Well, I don't know. I guess I envision, like, the men being more in control. So then guys. I don't know. I think guys. When guys see red flags, they're very easily turned off, and they can just, like, go on their way.

Okay, sure. Guys can do that.

Sure, sure.

Girls.

I think girls are the same, though.

No, no. Girls are like. Girls will literally see you texting another girl, and you could be like, it's my cousin. And then she'll tell all her friends about it and be like, but he said it was his cousin, right?

Yes.

Like, girls.

Okay.

Does that happen in real life?

Not to me.

Okay. Friends.

But I see that.

Okay.

I'm like, girl.

Yeah.

Okay. So can we say that they're both red flags. Happen to both. But you think girl's just a little bit more ignorant.

A lot more.

A lot more.

Okay. Yeah. I think guys are more compartmentalized and logical, and they can be like, this girl's annoying. I'll continue to date her because she's hot, but I'll never go further.

There was a time in my life when I was like that, but. But I grew.

That's.

That's one of the good things about getting older.

But girls will get attached despite the red flags. Guys will be like, well, I'll never marry this girl, but because of da, da, da, da, da. But I'll still date her.

Yeah, I can agree with that. Okay, see, you're opening up my mind to all sorts of things now.

What are some other red flags that you've seen in women?

It's fun, though.

So have you ever seen red flags and talked yourself into, like, that? It was fine.

There was a time when I went on a date with a woman and she somehow coerced me into buying her a dress on the first date. The first date. Second time I met her. The first date.

Deeply noted.

Yeah.

And I think I was just kind of coming out of a relationship, and I'm like, well, all right. I guess, like, she looks really happy in that dress, you know, so.

And.

But that was a huge red flag. Huge red flag.

I'm curious how she managed to do this.

I don't know.

I mean, not that I'm going to, but it would just be good to know.

Get you to buy me some money for you.

Yeah, sure.

Future reference.

Yeah.

All right. This guy got me a lobster, a steak, seven margaritas, and now he's going to get me a dress.

That's great.

Seven.

It wasn't seven. No, no. But, yeah, no, it Was.

I mean, the dress was emotionally, financially expensive.

Wait, where. Where. Where was this dress?

Like a Macy's. Okay, how did we get there? I don't know. I don't remember.

Yeah, how did you get. She was a margarita. Well, I guess a margarita to Macy's. Isn't it too outlandish?

Yeah, I don't know. I guess she was a Jedi or something.

I don't know.

She just kind of. This was fun.

Yeah. It was so nice meeting you.

Likewise.

I love your sense of humor. You made me laugh a lot.

Oh, good. Well, thank you. You laughed at my corny jokes, so there you go. That's a green flag.

Good team.

Yeah.

Okay, cool. It's nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you, too. Yeah.

Thank you.

Yeah.

Here, I'll give you one of these, if you don't mind.

Boom.

All right.

Thank you.

Thank you.

It was nice meeting you. Thank you, guys. And, yeah, we'll see you around.

All right.

See ya.

One of the concerns that I have would be, like, getting him to open up or be more serious. Like, I like the sense of humor, but then I'm like, can we get past that? But it was just a first date, so maybe on a second date I'd be able to see top things I liked about him would be he likes outdoor activities. He seems very kind and funny and outgoing and supportive.

I thought it went pretty well. She's very, very cute. Very easy to talk to.

Very.

Sociable, it seems. Yes, I like that. A good conversationalist entrepreneur. I like that. That's cool. Yeah, I thought it went pretty good. I don't know. You never know. Sometimes it feels good and not so much. But then sometimes you're like, well, I don't think she's into me. And you get a call the next day. So we shall see. Would I see her again? Yes, sure. We can go out for some pineapple.

Hi.

Hi.

I'm Christina.

Dorian.

Nice to meet you.

We've actually met before.

We have met.

Yes, I think.

Where did we meet?

Probably at one of the awakened 30s or 40s events.

Yeah. Yeah, I used to go to those a lot.

Yeah.

So what secrets should I learn about you today?

What secrets should I learn about you today?

What secrets should you learn about me?

Secrets I need to know.

I have no secrets. I'm an open book.

None.

No, I just.

Secrets, they're just bad secrets don't make friends.

No secrets don't make friends at all. What about you? Any secrets?

I'm a walking secret.

I'm just a walking Mystery.

Okay. Figure it out page by page.

Yeah, exactly. Or like an onion.

An onion. Okay.

Each layer.

Each layer. Perfect.

It might make you cry.

Yeah, I, that's, you know.

I'm not gonna make you cry.

I know, but I don't want to do like, make me cry. That sounds bad. So what do you, what do you do for work?

I am a hairstylist.

Okay.

Yeah. And then I have been working on like some real estate stuff on the side. And then eventually I would like to switch careers to just basically like a domestic engineer.

Translate that to housewife.

Yeah, basically. Would you hire me?

Maybe. Yeah. Early in the interview process, we gotta see how many kids would this domestic engineer be able to handle?

I think as many as possible.

As many. Would you still want to just like do like hair? Like haircutting, like on the side, like, you know, friends come over and you kind of do it? Or is that just, you just want out of this?

I mean, I think the like politically correct answer would be like, yeah, of course. Like, I love it. I just would do it sometimes for fun. No, I do not want to work. I'm a girl.

If you were to pamper me, what would you do?

Next time I get a hair.

If you were to pamper me, what would you do?

If I were to pamper you, I mean, what do you, what do you like? Do you like the beach? Do you like.

I do like the beach.

I mean, pamper. See, that's such an odd word.

It is an odd word.

I know, it depends. Like, are you sick? Am I pampering you because you're sick or you just, you had like a rough week? Like there's so many different things.

Because my heart's lonely.

What if my heart was lonely?

Your heart was lonely? We'd have to fix that. Obviously not make you heart lonely. Probably take you out, hang out with me. Hang out with you.

What advice would you have for your 20 year old self?

Like a sock and a half.

Oh, okay. So what advice would you have for your 20 year old self?

For my 20 year old self?

Yeah. If you could go back and speak to who you were when you were 20, what would you tell them?

Be original, just be you. I think when I was 20, I was still trying to like figure out who I was and we just kind of. I don't think I was acceptable to who I was. Like I wanted to be like, oh, I'm gonna be the cool kids, I'm gonna be this type of person, or be that. Instead of just being real, just be who you are, you know, just kind of fit a lot of, like, my personality until I was honestly just over who I was and open up.

I see. So what was the personality that you felt like you were, like, suppressing as opposed to the one you're pretending to be?

Probably my geek side the most. Okay. Like, I love Legos, and I'm like, I want to let people know I like Legos. Like, I like comics. Like, people can't know you like comics.

Like, I thought that's, like, very popular, like, now.

Like, there was a. But, like, when I was 20, those things were. You didn't have, like, the Marvel movies out. You. Like, a lot of person was like, so what is your ideal, ideal first date?

Like, if you were to go, that's so hard. I'm really easily entertained. Like, if I could tell you actually put thought and effort into it, then I'm like, oh, my gosh.

Okay. If you had to plan the date.

If I had to plan.

If you had to plan the date, if you had to take me out, what would you do?

Oh, well, what I was gonna say is kind of expensive. Do I have to use my own wallet?

We'll throw money out.

Money's out.

We'll say money. It's just gonna be paid for by random ways.

Costa Rica for the weekend.

Costa Rica for the weekend date.

All right.

That's a very expensive first day.

We threw the money out.

Costa Rica.

You're not scared of sharks, are you?

No, I've actually been in the water with sharks before.

Oh, you have? That's cool. Have you heard of Ocean Ramsay? She's in Hawaii and she swims with great whites.

No.

Oh, my God. I want to go swim with her so bad. And she's like, it's okay. It's just a great white. You just push their nose up and away.

I've never seen a great white up in person, so I'm just going to go ahead and take the word on that last question.

If you had a crystal ball about the future, what would you like to know?

If you had a crystal ball, what would you like to know about your future?

What age do I die? No, that's not.

You want to know when you're gonna die?

No, not at all.

Okay, so what if you were Gonna Die At 67, what would you do about it if you knew you were dying at 67?

I would live my best life until 67.

Oh, you wouldn't try to change it and live longer?

No.

What would your best life look like?

Like, it's why mess with fate?

Okay, so then what would your best life look like up until 67?

Being married, raising kids. Like, I just, you know, enjoying a nice family life. Leaving behind, like, you know, memories for my. For my future kids and just, you know, let it somewhere. Like when I'm gone, people are gonna remember me and my memory just lives on, you know, get the most out of what I can enjoy. Pick up the hobbies that I've always wanted to try. You know, just.

Just a good, normal, simple, fun life.

Just good, normal, simple. Yeah, you don't wanna strive for too much. It's gonna be who I want. The basics, just the simplicity. Cause everything comes from that. When you have a good family, you know, you have a good wife, you have good kids, things just naturally occur. Like, you know, what about you? If you looked in that crystal ball?

I wanna see who I'm gonna marry.

You wanna see who you're getting married.

That's all I care about.

No spontaneous in that. Like, you're just like, I wanna know that.

I just wanna know.

That kind of takes a lot of the mystery out of it, though, doesn't it?

Well, hopefully it just takes the mystery out of the next.

That's fast.

Too fast.

I'm not gonna say that. Six months. Meet Mary.

It was so nice meeting you. Yeah, same my time with you.

Yeah. Hope you have fun today.

So if I ran into him outside of the show, which I guess we did, he isn't normally somebody I would talk to. And I feel. I almost feel really bad because I don't remember him. So the top things I liked about him would be he's tall, he wants to get married and have kids. He seems, like, very confident. The tattoos are not my favorite thing. I don't like tattoos.

It was fun. It was enjoyable.

Yeah.

I think it was just nice talking to her and just like, no pressure or anything. It was just great. Just an enjoyable fun time. I like how she's just very open. Like, she's very real. I think she knows what she wants, she knows what she doesn't want. Like, she's very nice and open about that. As far as chemistry or connection, there could be definitely a small little spark there and would be interesting to see if, you know, it expands more and play one or two more dates to really know. But definitely have some things I thought were in common and some things I want to learn more about and, you know, experience.

How are you? I'm Johnny. Nice to meet you.

Hi, Johnny. Christina.

This is cool. Yeah, it's like, I feel Like, I'm.

More like a show.

Like, reality show.

I mean, you basically are, but do you have any fears when it comes to love?

No, no, no. Pretty. Pretty confident.

Okay.

In a sense where, like, you know, just. I like to be me, myself, and that's the best thing you can do, is be yourself.

Yeah. That's very true.

Yeah. How about you?

I think my biggest fear would be, like, what if I, like, pick the wrong person and it's a disaster or I just end up single forever.

Okay.

Yeah.

Have you. Have you. Have you been in that situation or.

Well, of picking the wrong person. Yeah. That's why we broke up.

Okay. No, I get it. Yeah, me too. Yeah. I've had that happen.

Yeah.

But it takes you so long before you realize, oh, shoot, like, five, six months. You're like, oh, man.

Could you tell me, like, a crazy and a funny story that you have from, like, online dating?

Well, so I have, like, a special skill where I like to do, like, different accents, a funny story, just to be funny. On the date was I tricked the waiter into thinking that I'm a British person.

I speak. Can you do the British accent?

There's just the rest of the state, like, hey, look.

So can you do, like, the British accent for the rest of the day?

Yeah.

No, like, not just, like, I want to hear right now. Can you do it, like, just the rest of the day?

I can do it all the time. It's not complicated. It's just like, you can't really focus on the accent that much. It's just, like, you just have to let go. You think it's funny. Can you do a British accent?

No, not really.

No.

It's a lot of practice.

The only thing that comes out of me is like, like, slang from. From, like, like Australians.

Could you try it?

No, because it's all bad slang. Like, I don't think they. I don't think I can say it on the show.

No, that makes sense.

That's going to be just in the other accents.

Yeah, I get what you're saying. I don't know the slang, but I. I get.

Well, like, the C word is one of their favorite words. Yeah.

Yeah.

Do you have any other accents?

I can do a little Southern sometimes. It just depends. It's not that great, to be honest, but I try. But I'm really good at the British accent. It's not difficult. It just depends on what's going on. Like, if you like to go to the parties, you like to go dancing, and not really.

Does it help you meet Girls.

It's just something fun.

Does it help you meet girls?

It's actually a sense of humor, I guess. A girl's like, is so.

Girls love accents, you know, but until.

They find out you're not British, I.

Guess then they're going to find out you're not British. It might be weird.

Well, I mean, I talk like this in the. On the first day and then I merge into the accent.

They.

They get the point.

But wait, what happened to the waiter? So wait, what was the funny story, though, about the date and the waiter?

That was the funny story.

Oh, that was it.

They did the British accent and you believe.

And he's like, oh, yeah.

Right away.

Oh, okay. I would make you go out in the ocean with me.

What's a life jacket on?

Right.

Can you not swim?

I do not have to swim.

I'm just saying, like, figures each like, oh, my God, you get like doggy pattern.

Like, oh, my gosh. I love being in the water.

How are you supposed to rescue me if I need a hero?

What if I, like, was in trouble and I needed to hear a hero? Would you rescue me?

I would, but I'd probably drown doing. But at least that's the rest.

Say that's true love.

So then we would both die.

You would be saved, but I'd be like, probably. Maybe she, like, show like some dolphins concern.

Oh, I love dolphins.

They're very smart. Like.

Yeah.

I think, like, they can sense your energy.

Oh, yeah.

Big on, like, energy. I think it's a real thing and.

Oh, absolutely.

I believe in. I mean, I'm religious too, but to some extent.

What do you mean to some extent?

I'm Catholic. I just don't have time to go to church on Sundays because I have a lot going on. But I used to go to church a lot when I was younger.

Who would you want as a dinner guest if you could spend have a dinner with anyone in the past or present?

Like in general? Like in general, yeah.

Other than, of course, me.

Would it be me?

It could be you, yeah.

Yeah. Okay. We can just go with that. Anyone from history?

History.

Well, I'm into music. I think Elvis.

Okay.

It was cool, you know, King of rock and roll.

Yeah.

Do you like music?

I mean, yes, in general. I'm not too versed in it. I don't know, like, who sings what, but I know that you can get married by Elvis in Vegas.

Yeah, I think my cousin.

Would you want that for your wedding chapel?

I don't know if it was from him, but it was like Similar vibes.

Yeah.

Would you do that?

Would you get married by Elvis in Vegas?

Maybe not that extent.

I wouldn't, no. No.

But it's just too much. Maybe like just a small chapel, you know?

Maybe. Would you dress up like Elvis?

I could definitely slicken my hair back.

I just.

Can you do his accent?

I can't really do his accent.

No, wait, you can do all these accents, but not his?

No, it's. What would you have as a guest?

I would want to spend time with someone, like, from the Bolshevik Revolution.

Okay.

Or ussr.

Okay.

I don't know too much about Stalin.

Okay.

I don't know. What made you choose Hitler? I don't know.

Oh, you're going.

You're going.

Yeah.

It's a finish. I have.

She's like, yeah, we're going back in time over there.

Yeah. Or maybe like, Edward Bernays. Do you know who he is? Back in the day where they had, like, one of his big stories is he had, like, an Easter parade and they got, like, pressured all the women to, like, smoke. And they did it by, like, posting magazines and newspapers out of women smoking back in the day when it, like, wasn't allowed.

Yeah.

And he, like, set the stage to have these women smoke in a parade. And then all these women started smoking, and it was called, like, Torches of Freedom and Defiance of Their Husbands. And so women weren't really supposed to smoke in public. And then he made it happen.

Interesting.

Yeah. So I feel like I would want to meet, like, one of these guys that had something to do with all that.

What is your core values of a relationship?

You know, they say that sex, money, and communication are the top three reasons for divorce. So I think those are really important to have in tact. And then I think just being, like, exactly on the same page with my husband, or he wouldn't even be my husband unless he was with our faith and religion and how we wanted to raise our kids. And then also just the vision that we have for life. Like, I think as I get older and I have things more established, it makes it a little bit harder to meet someone who's on the same page as you. But then when you do, like, you'll know.

I get that. And what is the worst and funniest date you've had?

I mean, I think, like, just meeting guys from the apps. Like, usually I'm pretty good at picking out, like, decent guys, but there have just been, like, really creep. Like, total creeps. And then there's been a couple times where I've had to, like, Pay the bill for both of us. So I think that's probably as bad as, like, the worst ones that I've had. Just creepy or having to pay the bill. Well, it was nice meeting you.

Jinxing.

Yes.

Oh, my gosh, you're funny.

Can you say goodbye to me in an accent?

Thanks. Can you say goodbye to me in your accent?

I have to go now, but what accent is that? It's supposed to be, like, a British accent, but it's kind of watered down a little bit. It's not, like, completely British. It's. Cause when I'm nervous, nervous, it's a little bit of the States and a little bit of British. So it's, like, hard to keep up sometimes, but yeah.

Okay. Am I making you nervous?

Not really.

It was nice meeting you.

It was nice meeting you.

Thank you. I could definitely tell that he was a lot younger than me at first. I was looking forward to it, that I would think, like, oh, maybe they would be more fun and, like, a lot more lively and more fun experiences to catch up on. Because a lot of the times I meet guys that are, like, so much older than me. Right. So I'm like, oh, maybe that would be really fun. But I felt a little old, and I'm very serious. I think some of Johnny's top qualities for me were how important family communication and trust is. Like, he made that very clear, and that is so important. I think I feel guilty when I know that I don't like someone and I have to, like, continue on. And there's something in me that I feel bad. I don't want to, like, lead them on or disappoint them.

All right, all four dates are done. Now we want to know from you, Kina, big decision is awaiting. What is your criteria going to be for choosing who was your favorite date today?

Okay, so some of the things that I thought about when choosing my favorite date are how I felt with being confident and feeling, like, stable and secure and someone who made me laugh.

How are you guys feeling? Any thoughts, any anxieties before the big decision here?

She made it easy for us all. I think we all agree with that. So thank you.

It was a fun time.

Yeah. All right, Keena. So the moment everyone's been waiting for. Drum roll. Who is your pick?

Okay, so this was a hard decision. So I just thank you guys all for coming and for such good conversation and good days. The person that I'm going to choose is Douglas.

All right.

Thank you. Thank you.

I'm honored.

Douglas, you want to take a step forward. All right, Douglas, how do you feel about being chosen?

Like I said, I'm honored. Thank you very much. It's been a pleasure and a privilege to be here, and I look forward to going to Bali with you. All expense trip paid. We're going to be YouTube filmed. It's all going to be great.

Is that where our second date was going to be?

We were talking about possibilities.

Let's do it.

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