A coach explains how to make a man miss you by giving him space and trust. She frames masculine desire as needing respect and feminine desire as needing adoration, then describes the rubber band theory: let him pull away so he comes back when the polarity is strong.
So the eighth powerful thing that you want to do here is you want to give him space and trust. The deepest desire of the masculine is to feel trusted and respected. The deepest desire of the feminine is to feel loved and adored. So if you want him to love and adore you, you have to show him trust and respect. Now, I believe it's important with a relationship with a man that you first give him trust and respect to your full capacity. Until he shows you that he is not trustworthy, or unless he shows you that he's a broken man or not somebody that you want to be with, then of course, you set a boundary with yourself. You step back away from that relationship. But until that time, you want to show him your full trust and give him that space to do his own thing, to be his own man, to go into the bear cave when he needs to, and potentially even to pull away. There's something called the rubber band theory, where if you let somebody pull away long enough, if there's some level of care there, if there's already some present level of desire and a foundation of passion and polarity, he will come back to you.
