A coach explains why constantly meeting your partner's needs backfires: it pushes you into a masculine role and kills his desire to protect and provide. Instead, focus on your own wants and vulnerably share what matters to you. That's what makes him want to stay.
Here's how to make him worry about losing you, and that is to focus on yourself rather than him. Now, I've talked about this before, that focusing on him and what he's thinking and what he's wanting is actually masculine energy. Because what happens is you start to become a mother to him. You start to concern yourself with his needs, his wants, his thoughts, what he's doing, etc. Rather than feminine energy, which is focusing on yourself, your desires, your wants, your, your needs, your thoughts, et cetera, and then being able to share those things vulnerably and respectfully with him, to allow him to help you. And that's where magnetic feminine communication comes into play. Because when you can actually then share your heart, which is the key thing that a man actually wants, is your open, vulnerable, feminine heart, he is inspired, his masculine energy is awakened, and he wants to start protecting and providing for you and making you happy and thinking about your needs and your thoughts, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. And so that is how you reverse the dynamic and start to bring a man close and make him truly devote and fall in love deeper with you than he ever has before.
