
A coach explains why women should focus on receiving from men rather than giving excessively if they want to build lasting love. The core idea: men fall in love through the act of giving, so letting them do it matters more than what you do for them.

A coach explains why women should focus on receiving from men rather than giving excessively if they want to build lasting love. The core idea: men fall in love through the act of giving, so letting them do it matters more than what you do for them.
How to make a man fall in love with you. The main thing you have to do is stop giving to him. Okay? Most women give way too much to a man. They're buying things for him, they're doing favors for him, they're fixing things for him, they're driving him around, they are paying for things. They are trying to make him happy and meet his needs. And that's the opposite approach. If you want to have a happy, loving, long term, committed relationship with a man you want, you have to stop giving to him and instead start receiving from him. Only do not give anything to him unless he asks you for it and it feels good to you. And even then, you have to look at the overall dynamic of the relationship. And if you're giving more to him than he is to you, you need to stop right now.