If He DEEPLY LOVES You He Will Say THESE Key Phrases

When a man deeply loves you, he'll start saying these key things. If you're tired of not knowing where you stand with a man, if he's deeply in love with you, if he's actually committed, or if he may be losing interest or just acting like he loves you, but he doesn't actually have that level of deep commitment emotionally to you, where we're going to help unveil that today from two male brains, two male hearts, gonna give you the insights, the goods into what men actually think and feel starting today. So I'm Brody Boyd, if you don't know me already, for over 20 years, combined with my wife Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term, committed relationship. And we have Kevin as well today.

Yes, I'm Kevin Anthony and for over 10 years I've been helping men, women and couples have the relationship of their dreams and the best sex of their lives.

Alright, Kevin, well, let's go ahead and dive in. What does a man actually say when he's starting to feel love, deep love for a woman?

Okay, we got to get the low hanging fruit out of the way first because this is an obvious one, but he'll actually say I love you. Now here's an interesting thing is yes, it's low hanging fruit, but when I say he'll say it, I mean he'll say it on his own as opposed to being pressured. And that is one of the key differences is a lot of times women will actually start to hint around or pressure it or say it and pause and wait for responses like oh, I love you too kind of thing. When that happens, he'll feel kind of obligated to say it. And so he may say it when he doesn't necessarily mean it, but when he actually does feel love for you and he wants to say that to you, you, he'll start saying it on his own without you prompting him, without you pressuring him, without you leading him into it. So if you notice that he starts to say that more frequently. Right. Without any sort of prompt, then you can bet that it's likely very sincere.

Yeah, women will often do this. I think some men do it as well, where they will say I love you to try to get the other person to say I love you. So love you, I love you. And then the thing about that is if you're trying to get something from him, if you're saying I love you to try to get him to say something back, it's like he is now he's feeling like he's being controlled, right? He's feeling led like you're leading him like a little puppy dog. Like, hey, say, I love you.

Say I love you.

I said it. You got to say it now. And generally, that's not gonna feel good to a masculine man. He wants to say it like you're saying, out of his own volition. He's gonna say it voluntarily because he's feeling that in his heart, and he wants to give you that gift of sharing what he's feeling. So. Yeah, that's a very good point.

One, you don't want to lead him, but two, you don't want him to say unless he actually means it. Yeah, and that's the problem is a lot of times early on in a relationship, he's like, I'm not sure if I'm ready to say that yet. I'm not sure where I'm really feeling yet. But there's pressure to say it, so then he'll say it. The problem with that, though, is when you do pressure him to say it and he says it now, you can't really trust it. Did he. Did he say it because he really means it, or did he just say it to placate you because you've been putting all this pressure on him?

Yeah, that's. That's such a good point. And, yeah, he's. He's going to be much more likely to actually reveal his true feelings, like you said, if it's coming from his own volition. And then also, you may be really. The woman may be really hurt if he doesn't say I love you back. He's gonna feel. She's gonna feel like I put myself out there. And here's the thing is, actually a man does want to feel your heart. He wants to feel your vulnerability. So I'm not saying. We're not saying don't say I love you first to a man. Of course, share it. But it's. Where is it coming from? What place is it coming from? Is it because you actually are feeling it within your heart and you feel this feeling of desire or love or connection, and you want to say, like, I feel love for you. I feel love. As opposed. And being detached from the outcome. As opposed to. So that's the feminine. The feminine is detached from the outcome. The masculine is getting outcomes and getting results. So being detached, detached from the outcome and just sharing, being vulnerably sharing I love you is much different than saying I love you, trying to get him to love you back. So that would be an outcome. So what's the next thing that men say when they love you?

Okay, my list isn't really in order here, so I'm just going to pick the next one that I kind of want to talk about now. And this is a big one. I did a YouTube video about this on my channel also, and it's I've got you. Right. So this is a term that men will often use to say, hey, look, I'm here for you. I'm here to take care of you. You know, it's kind of the. You know, in bro terms, we'd say, I got your back. You know, but, like, with our women, we say, I got you. And these are words that when a woman hears this, it melts her instantly. However, he's not really gonna say that unless he actually feels something for you, because, you know, it's not just a yeah, don't worry, I'll get the trash kind of thing. It's more of a. Like, when a guy says that, it really means like, I'm here to support you. I'm here to be your king. Right. Like, I've got you in this life, in this partnership. Right. So that's something that he's likely to say when he really starts to feel. Feel like he wants to step into that position of being your masculine man, of being responsible for not only your physical safety, but your heart.

Yeah. Really awakening the protector, provider, hero instinct within a man. Him feeling that sense of, like you said, responsibility for your happiness, that he is not just responsible for your happiness, but even responsible for your safety. You feeling safe, you feeling comfortable. And he's taking that on is like, I got you. I'm responsible. I'm holding the space for you. I'm taking care of you. And, you know, if you're afraid, great. If you're. If other emotions come up, great. If you're feeling uncomfortable, let me know, like, I got you. So I'm willing to go through the fire with you is another way of saying it. Like, whatever comes up. If you're gonna have some chaotic emotions coming up of anxiety, a fear, upsetness, like, let it out. And that's one thing me and my wife do often, is we'll say. I'll say, like, more so, like, if she's getting upset and she's. She's yelling, let's say, which it happens pretty rarely, but something may happen. It's like. More like, say, like, how else do you feel? Like, let it out. Like, that's another thing. I think a Man will say if he loves you. It could come in different words, but it's this idea of like, give me more of you, rather than some men would try to shut you down, which is a sign that he doesn't deeply love you, where he'd say, like, no, you're too dramatic. Like, this is too much. Like, I need space. I need to take a break. Like, why don't you go chill out? Why don't you go to this. Go in the car and scream? Which we do that sometimes as well.

Like.

Like, let the energy out. But if he's. If he's like, actively, like, how else do you feel? Like, give me more. What else did I do that made you upset? Like, one. Encouraging the emotional expression rather than trying to suppress your emotional expression. I feel that's a big sign that a man really cares.

Oh, yeah, I totally agree. I mean, if he. If he really loves you, he's not going to want to let the situation get any further out of hand or go any longer than it has to go. He's going to want to be there and say, hey, let's figure this out now. Which is, you know, another way of saying, like, all right, give me more. Like, let's solve this. As men, we are problem solvers, right? So when a problem arises, we want to fix it. That's our sort of default mode. And so the only time we wouldn't want to do that, really, is if we just don't care all that much. Right?

Solve your own problem. I don't care.

Right. But.

But if we are involved, if we.

Are emotionally invested and we do love the woman that we're with, then we're going to want to sit there and try to work it out. Now, yeah, obviously, if, you know, she's being extremely emotionally irrational or, you know, even physically violent, yeah, she's being abusive.

That's different. That's when he's going to set boundaries and be like, look, right? You can't talk to me like that. Or you. We don't do that in this house. That's one of. One phrase I heard one of my friends use once. Like, we don't hit each other in this house. We don't hurt each other. We don't yell whatever it is like, or just don't ever talk to me like that. That would be like a masculine man setting boundaries that he's not being abusive back, but he's setting a clear boundary. Like, this isn't okay, but when a 1. When you're simply having emotions come up, that are about. Maybe you had a parent that has an illness and you're really sad about it, you're really upset about it, or there's somebody else is doing something in your life to stress you out, and you're having a lot of these emotions and you're like, breaking down. He'll be like, I got you. What else? Tell me more. Like, what do you need? What do you want? So we're getting into a lot of phrases here, I think, that go into, like, a man showing. But. So you're getting the idea here of some of the phrases that will come up from a man. It first comes from the energetics of him actually feeling that he wants to help you, that he cares about you.