When a man pulls away, trying to fix it by analyzing or reaching out backfires because it shifts him out of his masculine role. Instead, stop doing and thinking. Shift into feminine being energy: feel, stay present, trust he'll return when he's not being chased.
When a man starts to pull away or ignore you, your natural instinct is to fix it, to figure it out, to do something about it. You start thinking, what can I do to get him back? How can I make him see my value? Should I reach out? Should I give him space? Should I send him something to remind him of all the good times we had? But all this is masculine energy. That's doing energy, that's outcome focused energy. When you operate from that place, you're actually pushing him further away. Because attraction between a man and a woman is created by polarity. The masculine is the doing energy. The masculine leads, directs, pursues, solve problems. The feminine is the being energy. The feminine receives, flows, feels, enjoys the process. When you step into the masculine role, by trying to lead the relationship, trying to control the outcome, trying to fix the problem, you destroy the very polarity that creates chemistry and attraction. He doesn't feel like a man around you anymore. He feels like you're trying to do his job. So? So when he ignores you, the most powerful thing you can do is stop doing, stop thinking your way through it, stop analyzing what went wrong, stop trying to manipulate the situation back into your favor. Instead, drop into your feminine energy, get back into your body, feel your feelings instead of thinking about them, and trust that if he's the right man, he will step up and come towards you when you stop chasing him.
