Make Him REGRET Losing You – Here’s How

If he doesn't value you, do this. If you're tired of a man pulling away or he's not treating you like a queen, he's not respecting or valuing you on a deep level that where he sees you as his princess, his one and only, his everlasting love. Forever, ever, forever, ever, forever, ever. Then this is what you need to shift the dynamic and, and have him come crawling back to you, begging to have you in his life. So I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize youe Man. If you don't know me already, and for over 20 years, combined with my wife Antiya, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man of their dreams. So I'm excited to be helping you today with mastering your relationships in this video and get you on the right track track starting now. So let's dive right in with the ninth powerful principle to make a man value you on a deep level, which is. Whoops, sorry, that is from last week. We have to bring up this week's training, which is to expand your emotional range. Point number seven. So your feminine energy lies in your heart. What is in, in your heart, there are emotions that are there oftentimes your heart, your body, your womb, all the your gut, all the sensations you might be feeling in your body, that is your feminine energy. And in order to express your feminine energy to a man, which is what attracts a man, especially a masculine man, because of the law of polarity, which states that opposite energies attract, we want to expand your feminine feminine range through your emotions. That's going to make you radiate like a flame to the moths, like the sun to the planets, the flower sending out its delicate scent to the honeybees. This feminine range is your emotions. Which means if we can expand that range, you can expand the amount of feminine energy that you can output towards a man, which makes him crave you, makes him desire you, makes him want to have you in his life. It doesn't mean that you're constantly going to the highs and the lows of deep, dark sadness and depression, all the way up to bliss and ecstaticness. Although that you would, you would have to agree that is more feminine than masculine, right? Masculine energy is like this, flatlined, getting the job done, going to work, whether he wants to or not, accomplishing the mission whether he's afraid or not. Feminine energy is the range of the emotions. It's like the changes in the weather, the changes in the tides and the waves Crashing down and then glistening on the surface of the ocean. So when a man can feel that range from you, he's feeling your heart fully, he's feeling your feminine energy. Now, how do you do this? In practicality, what this means is you want to practice expressing yourself fully. So when you are feeling happiness, joy, pleasure, bliss, how do you allow yourself to communicate that fully with not just your words, but with your body, to actually radiate? Does your face radiate when you're feeling happy? Are your eyes bigger? Is your mouth open? Is your face open? Is your body language open, showing the world that you are happy? Are you dancing? Are you singing? Are you making noises? For example, our other expert here, Kevin, made a sex video the other day, and he was talking about how men love to hear a woman expressing pleasure in sexual. Well, are you able to do that? Are you able to allow your body, your voice, your movements to express when you're having pleasure and how a man makes you feel in the positive sense when he is making you feel safe, protected, relaxed, good, happy, ecstatic, expressing that fully. Now, on the other side, when you may be feeling some rage, some anger, some sadness, some confusion, some annoyance, anxiety, fear, are you able to express that fully with your body in the right moments, when it's appropriate, Are you able to cry? Are you able to break down? Are you able to throw maybe an adult temper tantrum that we talk about, where you jump on the bed and you scream into a pillow in a constructive way? It doesn't have to be with your man. This could be probably by yourself or in your car. When you have very strong emotions coming up, are you able to release those emotions in a healthy way, in a constructive way? But mostly it's about allowing yourself to feel feeling again. Because a lot of women who have become more masculine, they're up in their heads, they have shut off their body, they have closed it off. They don't want to feel a lot. They're more like men walking around with a suit on and just getting the job done, making money, becoming successful. I'm an independent woman. I don't need no man. And they're not able to really feel into those emotions that are there in their body and express them, which is what's going to draw a masculine man in, because he's going to love the range. He's going to love it when you're happy and when he's contributed to that. But he's also going to want to help you when you're feeling that rage or that anxiety or that fear, and it's authentic. And you're not just performing it to try to change him in some way or to try to manipulate him. When it's authentic emotional range within you, he's going to feel your heart. In fact, one of the moments when I started really bonding more closely with my wife, Antia was when we were in a hot tub in Hawaii and she had had a breakdown. We were talking about some issues that were going on in her life, some fears that she had about the future, and she started crying. But she wasn't doing it to try to get me to love her, to bond with her. It was authentic. It was because she had a lot of things weighing on her in her life. And I felt that. I felt her vulnerability, I felt her open heart and it made me want to help her as a man, to be her hero. So it's a very powerful element of feminine energy that you want to embody and practice to attract a high quality man and make him value deeply. The sixth powerful principle is to recognize and reject waiting energy. So a lot of teachings out there tell women to do the no contact rule or to just wait for a man to text you back, to not say anything, to not do anything. And if he doesn't communicate to you, if he doesn't reach out to you, then. Then it's over, it's done, and that's the end of the relationship, essentially. And I don't agree with this because absence can make the heart grow fonder. But absence can also make the heart forget and. Or it can make the heart think that you don't really love it. So he may get the message that you're not really that interested. Or he will lose his feelings, his connection to your heart, because it's now close, it's blocked, it's off. And yes, he may be responsible for that too, because he's not reaching out to you. He. He's not checking in with you, he's not being proactive. However, being in the feminine energy, taking on a feminine role in a relationship means that you keep your heart open. Your heart is like an open book that a man can be connected to and feel at any time, good or bad. Like we talked about, the emotional range that you're able to share your feelings in the right way, in a respectful way, in a vulnerable way, to let him know what's going on and also to allow him to help you to be your hero, to be able to ask him for help. And in those moments, rather than just waiting and suffering in silence, feeling Lonely, feeling sadness, feeling depression potentially, or whatever might be going on for you in your life, or even feeling happiness. If you're not sharing that with him, that could be a lost moment as well. That could help him to potentially lose connection to your heart as well. So rather than waiting, be like that woman, be like that woman back in the Victorian age who was dropping her handkerchief. She would drop her handkerchief as a signal to a man that she wanted help, that she was interested, that she wanted his connection in her life. You can do this with a man as well. You can drop the handkerchief, you can signal to a man like a flower signaling to a honeybee that it's available, that it's wanting that bee to come to it. And you can send him a message, you can reach out proactively. But being in the feminine energy, you using feminine communication only because if you are using masculine communication, if you're trying to lead or direct him or change him or manipulate him in some way, yes, that will push him away further and that will not get a good response. You want to be detached from the outcome regardless of response you get, because you may not get a response, but to vulnerably reach out to him and ask for what you want. Say, may I ask if I can, if we can talk on the phone or can I ask if we can meet in person? Or you can add a little bit of fluff to it and say, hey, hope you're having a great week. I really loved our date last week. I haven't heard from you for a while and I would love to see you again. Can I ask if we could talk when you're next free? Or can I ask if we can meet when you're next free? So either a phone call or an in person meeting, which is where the connection is going to rebuild the strongest, because again, that's where he's going to be able to feel your heart and your feminine energy. The strongest is over the phone or in person rather than just messing messaging back and forth text and numbers on a screen. So ask for what you want, ask for help, ask for his advice, share your feelings, but do it in the right way. You have to use magnetic feminine communication. That will teach you in our programs and our advanced trainings and our coaching to help you to actually have a good conversation with him when you do meet in person and how to actually ask for other things that you need and share other feelings that you're having. But you're going to draw him to you that way. You're going to at least let him feel your heart. He's going to feel your desire. Then he has the option to be your hero or not. If he doesn't step up, then he's likely a broken man or has no level of care for you, in which case you should move on. We also have our seven word Relationship Revival text message you can send to a man who isn't responding to you or who potentially has broken up with you and then that can get the relationship back on track. But first you would need to use some of the other principles here to just simply ask for what you need to allow him to step up. And the key is to do it in a respectful way, do it in a vulnerable way, and that way you're not just waiting around, but you're keeping your heart open and allowing him to serve you and understand what's going on for you. Because men are not mind readers. He doesn't know what may be going on for you emotionally or mentally, but then allows him to get the chance to understand and to help with that and reconnect with you in that sense. Before we get to our next principle here, if you haven't yet, I highly recommend taking our free Magnetize youe Man quiz to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with a man you want fast by clicking on the link in the description or comments below. Or you can also go to our website magnetizeyourman.com to get our custom recommendations. Magnetic Feminine Polarity Magnetic Feminine Communication Advanced trainings as well that are available and really get you on track to have the relationship you want with your man long term. All right, the next powerful principle number five is to reflect on whether your communication might inadvertently be perceived as disrespectful. So if you've had a man who's pulled away, he stopped messaging you, he's not valuing you, he's not prioritizing you. Maybe he broke up with you, maybe he told you he hates you. Well, what can be most powerful in these situations is to turn the lens, turn the mirror, turn the camera back to yourself and to look at how may you have you contributed to this dynamic. Now, the ultimate desire of the masculine is to be loved or is to be respected and trusted. The ultimate desire of the feminine is to be loved and adored. So if your man isn't loving and adoring you, it's either because he's a broken man and he's incapable of it because of his deep wounds from childhood or wherever, whatever might have happened to him, or he simply doesn't have any care for you, or the more common reason is because there was something you did or said to him that was disrespectful unknowingly, or that you were in your masculine energy unknowingly. Just like this diagram here. Masculine love is what attracts feminine respect, and that feminine respect draws in masculine love. So through the law of polarity, if you want to attract a man's love, you got to increase the feminine energy and the respect towards that masculine energy. The masculine energy will give you back love and adoration. This is the way the universe works. This is how God designed it between men and women. I have another graph here. Love and respect. To increase it, you want to do the polar opposite of what you desire with a man, which most women don't realize, how deeply men crave to be respected. So to look into and do an analysis for yourself, where may have you been disrespectful towards him unknowingly? With your language, with your actions, where you are mothering him, you're trying to tell him what to do, you are criticizing him, you are trying to change him, you are trying to manipulate, manipulate him. You were showing him that you didn't respect him, that you didn't trust him as a man. And that may have pushed him away, that may have caused him to stop valuing the relationship. Because typically when a man feels disrespected, he's either going to shut down, he's going to pull away, or he's going to fight you, he's going to have an argument. And so if a man is pulling away or shutting down, which is the more typical response, because a man typically doesn't want to hurt you, if he's a healthy man, then likely there was something that may have contributed to it. Now, I'm not saying this is for sure, but it can be very valuable for you as a woman to look in inward, which is feminine. Feminine energy is about self inquiry, self awareness. Masculine energy is about external inquiry, external awareness, thinking about what the other person is doing, trying to lead and control them. So we want to turn it inward and look at, was there anything on your end to clean up your side of the street that may have inadvertently been disrespectful towards him? And just to see, just to look into it, just play a game. If there is nothing, that's great. And sometimes you need somebody else outside of you, you need an expert or a coach, which is what we help our clients with, to understand where they may have gone off the rails, where they may have done something that inadvertently pushed him away that they don't even know about because a fish doesn't know that it's wet. And there's a lot of things that we don't know that we don't know. But we're helping you here to get clear on the things that you can start to know that you know. And then eventually also the things that you know that you don't know so that you can really understand what it is you might have done and what may have ruined the relationship. Now, I'm not saying it was you. It could of course be just that he's a broken man and he screwed up and he's just not valuing you or doesn't care about you for whatever reason. But we want to look at that because that can be the key to your growth. To have a loving, long term, committed relationship, regardless of whether it's with this specific man or the next corporate quality man that you will attract into your life because of it. And then we can reverse it and start to potentially either apologize for those disrespectful things and then get on track with actually being in your feminine, being respectful towards him in the right ways while still maintaining your. Your value as a woman. That will draw him in and have him value you immensely. Because now you're being the queen. The fourth powerful principle here is to practice gratitude by consciously listing things you appreciate about him. So if you want a man to value you, it can be very powerful to first see all the ways that you value him and make a list of it. So look at your man, feel into your relationship with your man. Feeling his masculine is a feminine energy. Feel into it and feel into. What do you actually appreciate about this man? Things he's done for you, things about him as a, as a man, things he's done in the past or the present. Character traits, skills that he has, knowledge that he has. And I would combine it with also things that you respect about him. So things you appreciate and respect about him. The appreciative things are things more that he's done for you. The respect elements is more of who he is as a man. And so make a list of it. Make a list of those things you appreciate and respect about him. And then even try to prioritize it. What are the most powerful things about it that you really respect and appreciate the most? And then you can actually share those things with him. I know it sounds crazy. Can be vulnerable, it can be a little scary sometimes. This is part of vulnerability. You're Sharing the good and the bad with a man in the right way so he understands your heart, he can feel connected to your feminine core, and you can share those things with him, ideally daily. If you have a really committed relationship with a man, you see him or talk to him every day. You can share one thing every day at least that you appreciate or respect about him. If it's more of a casual relationship or you don't see each other very often, of course, just save it for next time when you see him or share with them. Have a phone call ideally, and then there share some of those things. I just want to say I really appreciated that one time that you did this for me. It made me feel so safe. I really just want to say I respect you so much for your leadership skills. I see how you are with our kids or I see how you are with your co workers and it just. I really admire you for that. So that would be an example of sharing those things with him in a feminine way. That will light him up. It will activate his masculine core activity and make him start to want to reciprocate that from his masculine side. And valuing you for the feminine energy you're bringing to the table and your openness and your heart, because that's really all you have to do for a man. That's really all that he wants, a masculine man. He wants your heart, he wants to feel connected to it, he wants to understand it and he wants to make it happy. He wants to make you happy. Ultimately, that's where he gets his sense of value from and that he feels like a hero and he feels like he could be of service. So don't think you have to be performing and giving him a bunch of money or building him a house or being his mommy and cooking for him all the time and cleaning his socks and washing his toes. Like you just have to give him your heart. That's it. And really, you are the gift. There's nothing more than that that you really need to do. And hopefully that'll help you stop feeling guilty when you can just receive. When a man does value you in that way and does treat you like his queen. So the third powerful principle here is if you want a man to value you, if he withdraws during a conflict, it may just be his way of de escalating. Not that he doesn't love you. So rather than making up a bunch of stories about why he's not getting back to you or why he's not reaching out to you or, or leaving you on Red or he's not prioritizing, you understand that it may also be just simply his way of not wanting to create more damage than what's already been done, potentially, like as if you have both had an argument or as if you have both caused some drama between each other. Maybe there were some. Some things that happened, some tension, some fighting. And so his response potentially will be, like I mentioned before, to shut down and to pull away as a way of protecting you in some ways, even a broken man, if he sensed that he could be a danger to you, if he's too triggered or he feels pushed by you or disrespected by you, that he doesn't want to hurt you, he doesn't want to say things that are hurtful, he doesn't want to do things that occur potentially hurtful or abusive, so that he may protect you from himself and step away and get some space and go to his bear cave and process his own thoughts and feelings so that he can come back to the relationship to you and be able to be a better man for you, be a healthier man, be a more mature man. And this is just a possibility. There's a range of possibilities of why a man may pull away. We go into that in a lot of our other trainings here. But one big possibility is that he's simply putting a boundary up between himself and you to protect the relationship or to protect you or potentially to protect himself. If he feels that you're the abusive one and that he's. He's actually in his healthy, masculine in that. In that moment. If that's the case now, the way you would know this is if before he distanced himself, just like we did this inquiry earlier, if, before he distanced himself, was there disrespect, was there potential abuse happening, was there potential toxicity between the two of you, or a lot of drama, then that could be a clue. Okay, he might just be stepping back as his way of protecting the relationship or protecting me, or he doesn't know what else to do. So his default will be, I need to be by myself and I need to. I need to figure out what's going on here and what I want and what's best for us and best for the relationship before I come back. So that's a possibility to be aware of. The second thing to do if a man doesn't value you is you can increase your princess vibe by nourishing yourself. So we hear this phrase go around a lot, the princess treatment. Hopefully you're not giving your man the princess treatment. Because if you are, you're his mommy, and you're treating him like a child, you're treating him like a woman, really like a princess, giving him a bubble bath, making him all these nice things, buying him all these gifts, picking out his clothes for him, getting him all help that he needs whenever he needs it, with his job, with his health, with his family, with his mental health, whatever situation he's in, if you're his mommy, you're his therapist, his nurse, his teacher, his coach, his provider, his protector, his hero, you are in masculine energy. We need to reverse that the way we can start reversing that. So he's valuing you and giving you the princess treatment is you should first give yourself the princess treatment. Because now what you're doing is training your system what it feels like to be receiving, which is feminine. The princess treatment. And being a princess, being is feminine. Doing is masculine. So you want to practice being the princess. So take a bubble bath yourself, take yourself out for lunch, go to a massage, get a massage. Take care of all things you want to take care of for yourself. Hair, nails, getting some new clothes, spending time with girlfriends, going out in nature, getting in the water, going to a spa, going to a pool. Whatever it is for you that makes you feel like. Like you're getting the princess treatment, start that way. And it could be something small, like just reading your favorite book while sipping on your favorite cup of tea and having your favorite song, playing your favorite album, or just Spotify playlist. So get that set for yourself first and do it especially when you're not with him, when you're by yourself, rather than being anxious and wondering if he loves you or not. Take care of yourself. Love yourself in that moment. And now what happens, you're receiving that energy. You're training yourself what it feels like to be like that. And then when your man's around you, he's picking up on that vibe and he starts to see you more as the princess. Because now you're also coming to him with a full cup. Your cup is starting to overflow with this feminine juice. And he starts to feel it, and he wants a sip of it. And it feels exciting and delicious to him and he can't handle it. He just wants to give you the princess treatment now. He wants to throw you in the hot tub and cover you with rose petals and give you a chocolate sorbet. And then now you are receiving and he is giving. That's the polarity. Feminine energy is receiving. Masculine energy is giving, giving, giving so reverse it. Stop giving to him. Stop doing those things for him. If you are doing those things, don't beat yourself up about it. Forgive yourself, forgive him, and then stop the madness. Get back on track with receiving. Working your receiving muscles. And we're going to help you. We're going to have a receiving course, receiving 101, and we're going to help you master this because it is such an important aspect of feminine energy. Now, the number one way to get a man to start valuing you, if he doesn't, is to make specific, vulnerable and respectful requests for what you want. So like I said before, if you want to talk to him, ask for a phone call. May I ask for a phone call? It's a simple way. It's a respectful way to communicate to him your desire. That's really all you have to say. You can ask for a hug. Can I ask for a hug? Can I ask for a vacation? So really, you can ask for whatever you want from a man as long as you do so from feminine energy, from feminine communication, which will teach you magnetic feminine communication that inspires him to want to give to you. Because men aren't mind readers. And if a man has any connection to his masculine core and any care for you, then he's going to want to make you happy. In fact, it'll become like a mission to him to want to make you happy. And if he's not making you happy, he's going to feel like a failure as a man in his core. Assuming that you're not making him feel that way by being disrespectful, but that he feels that way on his own, like, shoot, I'm really screwing up here. That's the way he will be inspired when he realizes it for himself, that he's not showing care for your heart, that he's not showing love for your heart, and that you're not as happy as you could be because of him. Potentially, when he owns that for himself, not because you put that on him, then he's going to really shift. And so a man isn't a mind reader. He will want to make you happy, but oftentimes he just needs a specific path to victory. He needs to know, how can he make you happy in that moment? Like, what do you actually want? Just tell me what you want. Sometimes you'll hear guys say this. I've said this a lot myself, when me and my wife have gotten to, like, arguments, you might say, or there's a lot of tension, or we're both overwhelmed and she might be complaining about something, you know, because we all. We all have our moments. And I'll say, like, what do you want? Just tell me what you want. And then she'll tell me, and I'll be like, okay, thank you. Now I know how to fix this. How can I. How can I make you happy? How can I stop the madness? Like, I'll solve the problem from the masculine. Masculine energy is about solving problems. Feminine energy is about sharing problems. But oftentimes he needs a clear problem. He needs to know what the mission is, if he so chooses it to accomplish from his masculine core. And sometimes you just need to give that to him somewhat directly, but also respectfully. That's why permissives are so important and asking permission for what you want and. And making it, framing it as a request rather than telling him what to do. So rather than saying, like, give me some food. Say, may I have some food, please? Or can I have some food? Or can you cook me a. Can you cook me a hot dog? Like, asking for exactly what you want. And he'll probably say, sure, yeah, I'll do it for you, babe. I'm already. I'm already cooking. So I'll just throw another one on the. On the pan. And he'll do it for you. And so you oftentimes just need to be specific. Now, sometimes it's not a specific request. You may not even know what you want, but you'll likely have a feeling. So you can ask for help with your feeling and say, hey, babe, it's okay if I share a feeling with you. Can I share something with you? And you'll say, sure. And say, I notice I'm feeling some sadness right now. And then pause. So he feels it. And then let him take the lead. And he'll probably ask you, why are you feeling sad or what's going on or what's wrong? And then he'll talk to you about it. He'll ask you more questions. You'll be able to share with him exactly what's going on as the problem, and then he can fix it. So that's like the deeper, magnetic feminine conversations that we'll teach you how to have with men in your relationships, especially when he's not committing or there's different issues, deeper issues happening. But in between those deeper conversations, you can oftentimes just ask specifically for what you want and say. Say it clearly so that he knows. But a key. The key is, again, respectfully, so ask, don't tell, ask, and even say please. Potentially, you can add A little bit of feminine flair to it. Pretty please. Pretty please. Daddy, Daddy, can you help me with this? Thank you. I'm so amazing or. You're so amazing. You're such my hero. You're. Wow. You're incredible. So letting him know, when he actually does give you that request as well, how it makes you feel, that's going to make him feel really good as well. And be careful, because sometimes this can become very activating, where he can now be feeling such a strong passion for you that he may claim you right then and there, and he can become very turned on, potentially. So you got to be careful with some of these things because you can really activate a man's masculine core on a deep level. So we teach you the most powerful ways to do it. So then you can decide how much you actually want him to want you and how much you want him to crave you and feel attraction to you. Because you may not always want a man who's just deeply, madly passionate about you, but, you know, that's up to you to decide. So hope that was helpful. I'm going to start answering some questions now. So it looks like we had a couple coming in, and so. Hey. Hey, her. Hey, Jer. I'm sorry if I pronounced that wrong. Said hello. I found out he has cheated again. Talked with her and told me everything and sent me screen screenshots how he's insisting all the time she pick up or see him. I got her number from him. This is not the first time I found him writing to a different woman. He takes my hand and said it was a moment of weakness. Not sure about the engagement yet, but from the beginning, there was always someone. He always tells me he doesn't want to lose me, but he knows very well I forgave him because we weren't into a serious relationship from March. Okay, there's a lot here. I'm just going to get to your question because I can't read through the whole thing here, but so she said, I love him and know he loves me so much. I have always respected, trusted, and even after finding out about the messages and people he's trying to talk to, have always asked him his vices. I love and show my love and express it. Okay. Please, Brody, can you tell me what to do? Okay, so if your man has cheated on you and broken trust in that way, that's definitely not showing care for your heart. And so that's a. That's a serious breach of trust of your trust. And so, of course, the first thing is Always to share the impact with him, share how it makes you feel vulnerably, respectfully, using magnetic feminine communication. I mean, of course, you could just walk away from the relationship right there. But if you want to, at least practice what you're using here, keeping your heart open to give a man a chance to potentially fix it, change if he made a mistake, but it still wants to make up for it. And you don't have to do this right away. You may just want to take some space for a couple days, weeks, months. And if he comes back and he really wants to fight for it and you. He understands the impact and he gets to hear the impact from you, then that's up to you if you want to take him back. So in this situation. So your other question here was, what should I do? Show him the messages and told him he slept with her or just leave the relationship right now and never talk to him again? Despite. I'm a person who believes in communicating. Communicating whatever has come up for you. Yeah. So you want to have a magnetic feminine conversation with him if you want to. I mean, you don't have to, but I would recommend it at least as practice to share the feelings that are coming up for you. And so he understands the impact and of course, why those feelings are coming up because of this situation. And then ask him for help and see what he says, see how he offers help. Who wants. He wants to make it better, how he's making it better or not. And you don't want to really trust his words because he's already shown you he's not trustworthy. So all you can do at that point, after you've shared your feelings with him and share the impact and asked for help and had a discussion with him about it, he may fight for you, or he may blow it off, or he may make it on a big deal. Regardless of what happens, if you're going to continue seeing him, you need to see his actions, that he is apologizing, that he is doing whatever it takes to rebuild your trust. And that can involve a lot. And that's up to you, really. Every woman has to make that choice. What it would take for a man to win her back. But the key here is to value yourself enough to not stay in a relationship with a man who's not showing care for your heart. Because at the end of the day, that's all that matters. Is a man showing care for your heart or is he not showing care for your heart? If he is showing care for your heart, that's Great if he's making those improvements, if it's getting better over time and he's adoring you and loving you more and more, which will happen when you use what we teach you and you've gotten deeper coaching with this in our principles that we teach in our courses in our communities. And a man will start devoting to you, most likely, unless he's a broken man. So that's why I say most likely. If he's a broken man, he's not capable of it. He's not going to be able to likely and you're going to have to walk away. But likely a man's going to get better and better, showing you more and more care and love and then you'll have a great relationship. But you need to look to those actions and you need to give it some time to see, to actually see with his actions that he's changed on his own and have him prove it to you. So you're like now the position of the judge and he's the lawyer and he has to basically prove his case to you and he has to do that with his actions and evidence and not just his words and his arguments. And so you get to see if you want to give him that chance or not. It's up to you. But what I'd recommend regardless is that you take care of yourself in this process. That you continue to self care and you continue nurturing your social life and dating and starting to, to make sure you're meeting other guys as well so that you don't see him as your only possibility. That especially because he broke your trust, there's no reason for you to now just be seeing him exclusively. You should definitely be opening it up, refreshing and polishing up your online dating profiles. Use our magnetic feminine online dating course to help you with that and you'll start to attract new men into your life for the, at the very least for you to know you're living a life of abundance, that there are great men out there who want to show care for your heart, who wanted to have trust with you, who want to be trustworthy. And then you're not seeing this one man as your only possibility, the only man you can be with and that you need to have him in your life and you need to be a doormat and accept bad behavior because there's nobody else that could love you. You don't want to be caught in that situation. So. So that's what I would recommend. And yeah. And it's really up to you. Hey Jer. If you want to give him that other shot and you have to see his, his, his actions after that and detach from the outcome because it can go either way and likely it's not going to continue. Likely you're going to need to walk away because he's a broken man. If he already broke your trust once. Unless there was something on your end that you look at. And you can do a deep inquiry where you were maybe disrespectful in the relationship you were in your masculine energy. Of course, there's never an excuse for a man cheating, but you can look at what might have caused him to pull away. Was there something on your end? Once you're learning everything, you're learning here, how the polarity may have been dropped. So at the very least you can maintain that passion and connection and love for your next relationship moving forward and have a great relationship and never have to worry about a man not. Not loving you deeply and not trusting you or not earning your trust and you being able to trust him. So, yeah, there's a process we teach our women in our courses called the big apology. And the big apology is where you do a self inquiry into all the areas in your relationship you may have been disrespectful, mothering him, trying to control him, trying to lead him, trying to meet his needs, trying to make him happy. And so rather than letting him meet your needs and make you happy. And so if you can do that inquiry and uncover those things, that could be a helpful process for you, for your own growth. Not for the relationship necessarily, but for your own growth and to potentially share some of those things with him and have a conversation with him about it. If you were to ever to get on track, that can help reset the slate, clear the slate so that you can have a great relationship moving forward. So hope that was helpful. And TNT said, daddy, you know, daddy's one of those things. I have mixed feelings around it, but a lot of guys are turned on by it. I like boss. Boss can be good too. This is like more flirty talk. Okay, I'm not saying seriously like you need to talk. Tell your dad your tell your boyfriend, call him daddy all the time or call him boss. But you can call him things like my hero, you're my hero, I respect you, and you're my king. You can say things like this. So now we're talking more like flirty, sexy talk in a way. But it is one of those ways you can build polarity potentially with those pet names and you know, you'll hear, like, in the Latino community, they say. They. They say, poppy, poppy, daddy. You know, these are just some of these terms I like hero. That's a good one. That's a healthy, safe one. You can. You can. You can go to and occasionally call your man my hero or. Or my king or my handsome man, my strong, powerful man, stuff like that. Or you can use some of those other terms, which can be fun as well. Just be careful with them because they can potentially ramp up the polarity and the connection and the passion. And so you don't. You want to use it wisely if you're not ready for a man to really be turned on in that way in your relationship. All right, so the next message was from Lisa. She said, initiating text to a man that has not reached out after a date feels like pursuing. I wouldn't view it as initiating. It's signaling. Masculine initiation is. Is like saying something like, we need to talk or I need to see you again, or how are you? Things like that, where you're like, checking in with him and how's your day going? That I would consider masculine initiation. But if you're signaling that there's a need or desire or a problem that you have, you're like the flower opening up its petals so that the honeybee can come to the flower. You're like the metaphorical woman dropping the handkerchief to let the man know she's interested. So when you're asking a man for help with something, when you're asking for his advice or for his tips, or you're asking for a phone call, or you're asking to meet in person, it's a vulnerable request. It's a respectful request. And worst case, he doesn't say anything back or he says no. So you want to detach from the outcome. Because that's another aspect of this. When you're using magnetic feminine communication. It only works when you're detached from the outcome. If you're attached, if you're going to be really upset and sad if he doesn't respond back to you when you asked him for a phone call or when you ask them for help with something or ask him for his opinion on something, then, yeah, you're probably coming from masculine energy. You're trying to lead him, you're trying to control him. But if you're simply signaling and sharing your heart and letting it be known to him that you want help and you're detached from the outcome, that's feminine, and that's keeping your heart open. And if he doesn't respond back, well, okay, now you know, now you know he's not a healthy man or he's broken in some way or he doesn't have any care for you and you can move on. But we still have like our seven word relationship revival text you can still use in those situations that can bring him back. But that's how I would reframe it for yourself, Lisa, because I used to think that way as well. I used to think that that was, that was masculine energy potentially. But then I got the distinction of chasing and initiating versus signaling. So that's how you want to think about it. Feminine energy is about signaling. Just like the egg will signal to the sperm that it's available, that it's ready in the fertilization process. What's another good example of that? You know, there's animals in an animal kingdom that oftentimes will signal to the males when they're fertile or when they're available, quote, unquote. And so I would think of it more that way that you're signaling that you're available. You're signaling that you're, you're open and you're ready to receive his masculine gifts if he chooses to. And that's actually a queen too. A queen. A queen energy. Because a queen is able to ask for what she wants. She's able to communicate her needs in a feminine way without telling a man what to do or just cutting him off and punishing him. But vulnerably, openly sharing what's important to her. Because a fear. A high value woman believes her needs are important, her desires are valuable, her feelings are valuable, they're worth being heard, they're worth being shared and it's worth asking for help with because high value woman believes that she's going to get what she needs. She's going to have men want to help her. So she asks and she puts herself out there in that way. She asks for what she needs. Respectfully, vulnerably. So that's the big distinction there. Karen said. So appreciate what you're sharing here. Welcome, Karen. Ah, there's Matt Coast. Welcome Matt. Glad to have you on. I'm sure some of you know, so know Matt, we've done interviews here before. Said I agree with everything Brody says 100% appreciate that man. Yes, as do I. I agree with everything Matt has ever said. It's all, it's all good stuff. You, you know, because we've been in the game for a while and yeah, we have our own journeys that we've been on and we are men, so we know these perspectives and how they are important and valuable to understand because we've often gone through. Me and Matt have both gone through our own trials and tribulations in our relationships and dating, which is how we learned a lot of these things. But, yeah, so that's great, man. I appreciate that. And Hager. Okay, I see some more. She said okay. I think I might have already answered that. Hey, Jer, some people are giving you advice here. Hey, Jer, you deserve so much better of a man. Things will get worse in time with a relationship if you don't work on it from both of you. This is now, this is how he treats you now. Imagine in 10 years. Yeah, it's true. All right, and so let's get some more questions going here. JJ said, my man always comes to the rescue if I need support. Now, if he'd only be open to marriage. He's working on it. He says, yeah, that's great. I'm working on it. I'm getting closer. I'm almost there. I. I could almost visualize myself buying the ring. It's just, I just need a little more time. So what you can do, jj, is yes, you can have patience with him and it's great that he is coming to your rescue. So make sure you're always appreciating him and letting him know he can be your hero in those smaller ways, if not with the marriage conversation yet, and that he can win with you. And likely when you use everything we're teaching you here, things are going to get better and better. And maybe the marriage isn't there yet, but as, as long as you're moving closer to that, as long as it feels like he's showing more and more love and devotion to your heart over time, then. Then that's great. And. And he likely will get closer to there. Now, of course, you can also have magnetic feminine conversations with him where you share some of your deeper feelings around what's underneath your desire for marriage. Such as perhaps if you're feeling some uncertainty or some fear or some sadness or you're not feeling as safe in the relationship, there may be some things that he said or did like, because ultimately why you want marriage is probably because you want to feel more secure. You want to feel more that he sees it as a long term potential, that he is deeply in love with you, that he's committed to you, and so it can be powerful to talk more about those deeper desires in your heart rather than just the M word, and that you need to do marriage because some women just get attracted to the idea of marriage rather than to the man. And so you don't want your man to feel that way that you're, that you're just want the ring and you just want the wedding dress and that whole experience and to be married rather than the actual man that you want in your life and what you actually want with him which is deeper levels of love and commitment and adoration etc so that can be important to share with him from that deeper place. So I hope that helps. Lauren said a man I had a couple amazing dates with ended our last date expressing concern that he didn't want to waste my time. Financial pressures he's experiencing for next one, one and a half to two years while I want children. Yeah. So if a man. Oh and then you had some other. Another follow up here. He left things in his. I left things in his hand. I trust you'll do what's in both our best interests. Knowing I still have a chance depending on what he says slash does. I missed his call a few days later message shortly after saying we could chat tomorrow if he wanted. However I haven't heard anything back. I was excited to see where things would go up till his sharing his concern which scared me. Should I reach out or leave it up to him to decide what's best? Yeah. So if a man tells you that he basically doesn't want a relationship or he doesn't want to waste your time because he's not capable of giving you what you want, you should believe him. Like men are not really saying that just because they want to make you feel better or because they want to lie. They're not lying typically when they say that because it's not really a nice thing to say. So he's, he's probably being very truthful with you. In fact he might be saying less than how he actually feels which is he really doesn't see it as a long term potential. So what you can do is yeah, I would still give him some space. I would give him some space to process his feelings, processes, thoughts for what he wants to do in the relationship. Now what you can do in these situations, you want to be careful with this but you can continue to engage with him as a form of practice. So seeing the connection with him as simply you practicing some of the skills you're learning with us, a magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication and giving it a timeline. And so you can see you can give it a timeline like let's say a month. You want to Just practice with him for another month or another two months maybe I wouldn't do longer than that because if things don't shift after two months, and that's what our 90 day challenge that we have that we teach our clients, where we walk you through step by step what to do. We have you set a timeline of when you are going to be removing yourself from that situation if it doesn't change. And so we'll walk you through how to do that. But basically you'll give it a period of time, you'll use what we teach you and then see if he shifts, see if things shift, but see it more as practice. It's like friends, it's like a friendship, it's like another person. You can still do feminine principles with him, like ask for his opinion on things, ask for help with things, share your feelings. Potentially you could still have deeper conversations, but you want to be detached from the outcome. And you could also still have fun and hang out with him potentially. I would be careful about like having sex with him. You should never really have sex with a man until you're in a exclusive relationship, at least because you want to be claimed by a man before you open yourself up to a man in that way. But. So I wouldn't do that. But you can still have these conversations and use a lot of the other principles here and then see if things shift things, see if he starts coming closer to you. And you want to be very careful with that because you want to avoid getting more emotionally connected than you already are because that can be unhealthy for you. And so while you're doing that as practice, the only way you can really do that from a healthy place is make sure you're also still dating other people, dating other men, polishing up your online dating profiles, building your social life, going out to events and hobbies and activities with girlfriends or by yourself and go on meetup.com and also increasing your self care. All the ways you're taking care of your health, your, your emotional life, your mental life that you are filling yourself up so that you're not seeing him as your only potential that you can be with, which is just going to continue to your attachment to him. Because you got to start detaching in a lot of ways from him because of what he said to you. And that's where you should be anyways with a man is have a healthy level of detachment from the outcome instead just committing to the process. You still show up, you can still practice, you can still be vulnerable, but you have to let the cards fall where they may. And either way, you'll win when you do that because you're getting to use that practice to grow yourself as a woman to become more magnetically feminine, more high value, more of a queen. And so that we set you up for whatever happens after that, you're going to attract a high value masculine man into your life, whether it's him or somebody else. So that's what you want to do now. And yeah, so if it's, if you choose to, you can still practice and maybe ask him for a phone call or ask him for help with something or ask if you could share a feeling with him and then have a magnetic feminine conversation and, or just simply ask for those things that you're wanting help and advice with and treat it like it is, like a very casual connection. And then just observe if something shifts over time because that's on him. If he's going to decide that or if he's going to clean up his own things to make make space for you in his life so that he can be with you, then that's on him. JJ said Matt, love both Matt and Brody. Hope you heard that, Matt. She loves you and she loves me. So we're both highly loved by jj. Thank you, jj. I appreciate that. All right, Lorraine said Brody, what if a man has be. A man has become so overwhelmed with stuff going on in his life that he becomes confused and filled with uncertainty. It was so unexpected and became a pivotal point and up in the air. So if a man becomes so overwhelmed with stuff going in his life, he's in his feminine energy at that point. And it's just good for you to acknowledge, like a man being overwhelmed. That's a feminine energy man, because masculine energy is about getting the job done no matter what, regardless of how much feelings of fear he has or sadness or confusion or overwhelm that he has to show up and he has to fight the dragon, he has to bring home the bacon, he has to protect the family. So that's the masculine role. And so if a man is overwhelmed and filled with uncertainty, you should probably give him some space and pull, pull back a little bit. Lorraine I would say in the sense of don't become his mommy, don't become his therapist, don't try to help him with those problems, trust that he's going to figure that out on his own and simply share your support. You could still be the cheerleader for him without being his coach. So you can still support him and say, I'm here for you, I know this is probably tough. I got you. Or I'm, you know, available if you need me, or if you want to talk, you can still do things like that, but don't try to solve his problems. And in fact, you could actually share some problems with him. So if you really want to inspire him into his masculine, you can share how that makes you feel when he's saying those things to you. You can share. Can I share a feeling that's coming up for me? And you can share how that makes you feel, that you're feeling uncertainty now, you're feeling some confusion and can he. Could you get some help with that? And then now he's realizing the impact of his actions, that when he's in his feminine energy, instead of you becoming masculine and becoming his mommy, you're actually becoming more feminine than him. So through the law of polarity, only one of you, if man is becoming feminine, you just need to become more feminine than he is and you'll inspire him back into his masculine. So you need to ask him for help. Be vulnerable with him. Share with him your feelings. And now he's realizing, oh, shoot, this isn't working. I need to be stronger here. I need to step up. I need to be more of a healthy masculine man because deep inside he has that ability. Unless he's deeply broken. And then you'll get back on track with him, likely. And, yeah, give him some space, too. You might need to give him a little bit of space to figure things out and go into his bear cave and be okay with that. Don't take it personally. He may just need to just, yeah, get some help on his own. Maybe he gets his own therapist or reads a book or studies some videos, but he needs to get himself on track so that he can be strong for you. And. And then you can appreciate him and you can share with him all those ways that you respect him. You can do that anyways right now. Appreciate the things about him that he is doing well for you and the things that do make you happy and the things you do respect and admire about him. And then it'll be great after that. Hopefully he'll start to get back on track into his healthy masculine, and you guys can have a great relationship. And you and Lorraine said as we talked, I was willing to be detached from the outcome, but now I'm just not sure about where we are. Yeah, and you may not be sure about him. Like, if a man, if he stays consistently in that area, like, he may be a broken man potentially, or he's just not capable of showing care for your heart. So you may need to give him space and ultimately you may be willing to walk away. But for now, maybe give him a do a combination of the two. Give him a couple days space, then you can reach out to him and ask him for help with something or ask him for a phone call and then share your feelings with him and ask him for help. So that's what I'd recommend to hopefully get you back on track with that. Arimo said, how could he not see my value? He started pursuing me and when I showed interest, he pulled away. And now after not talking for weeks, I learned he was fired. So I reached out of kindness just to say, hope you're doing okay. And he didn't have the decency to reply. Well, the fact that you mentioned that last piece, Aramiko, when you said he didn't have the decency to reply to me, that shows me that you were attached to the outcome. You were hoping to get a result from you reaching out to him, which isn't feminine, that is masculine. So that's a good litmus test. Whenever you're about to send a text to some guy, would you be okay if he doesn't respond? Yeah, you can still have some sadness, you can still have some frustration or disappointment, but if it's overly triggered, if you're going to be overly upset about it or like deeply upset about it, then you're probably too attached and you should wait, you should go increase your self care, go out on another date. Or if you're, if you're single, go out with some friends, do some activities that you enjoy, practice letting go, releasing, getting into your feminine energy again. And then once you feel more detached from the outcome, then you can send them that message and say I hope you're doing well. But also in that moment when you said you hope you're he's doing okay, it's not really a feminine message. You're trying to provide for him in that moment. You're trying to reassure him, you're trying to make him feel good, which is actually slightly disrespectful because you're. Basically the underlying message is I see you as weak, I see you as helpless and I want to help you, I want to make you feel better potentially. That's the way an unconscious of a man could potentially read a message like that which feels disrespectful, feels like mother to a child, like, oh little dear, I hope you're doing okay. I hope you're Feeling better? I know you're probably going through a tough time right now. You're probably crying a lot, and you're probably sad, and I'm here for you. I want to help you rather than treating him like a hero. He's a strong, capable man. He's going to figure it out. He lost his job, okay? He's going to find a new one. So maybe to say something like, I believe in you, or I wouldn't even say that. I would simply just ask him for what you want, which is probably to talk to him. You want help, you want his attention, you want his. His provision. You want him to. To give to you in some way, likely you want him to love you, probably. So why not ask for that, which is what you really want, rather than saying this other message, which was actually you trying to manipulate him, likely, into giving you some attention. So that's a. That's a slight distinction, but it's a very powerful distinction between feminine and masculine energy. And. And of course, it's. It's not. You didn't do horrible here. That's not like, horrible thing that you sent him. It's fine. I'm just giving you these little distinctions because it can be powerful for you moving forward. I want to help you moving forward so that you can actually draw a man closer to you. And that's one of the big keys, is detaching from the outcome and then making requests rather than trying to give to him, trying to make him feel better. Ask him for help. Ask him for a phone call. Ask him if you can share a feeling that's coming up for you. And of course, when you have a phone call with him, you can say, you know, I heard what happened, and I was having some concern about that. Can I ask if everything's okay? You can still say something like that. And then that gives him a chance to say, yeah, I'm doing great, and then he can move on. And then he doesn't have to address it if he doesn't want to. Or he can address it more with you and maybe ask for your opinion on something. And if it feels good to you, yes, you can give them some opinions and some tips and some help, but you got to be careful with that as well, because that can, again, move into the mommy and the son dynamic, where now you're giving and helping him, and he's like this problem child who can't even hold a job, who's having all these issues, and you have to be the strong one, helping him get through all these Things and get him a new job, resume and an application and some references to some other places to work. You don't want to move into that role, so you got to be careful with that, too. JJ said, thank you, Brody. You're welcome, jj. Glad it's helping. Someone else said, thank you for your information. I was with a male friend, and I crossed the barrier by giving him advice. I understood immediately by his reaction what I had done. I would never have known otherwise. Yeah, it's great, because now what you're learning through this work here, you're learning to become more aware, which is feminine energy. You're becoming more aware of the impact of some of your actions and words and the dynamics between masculine, feminine energy. So you can shift that behavior. Sometimes you need to actually witness it. You need to actually witness it. When you give advice to a man, especially unsolicited advice, you're probably going to get a negative response. You're probably going to get him either shutting down, pulling away, arguing with you, potentially, probably not the response that you're looking for, which is his love and care and adoration for you. So just to know those things, rather than if you were to ask him for advice and he gives you advice, and then you appreciate him for that, now he feels great because he's lived from his masculine core, and now you feel great because you received from your feminine core, and now you're having a beautiful dance together where he's leading, you're following, he's giving, you're receiving, and your relationship gets onto his powerful upward spiral, just like the love and respect spiral spiral we showed earlier. These ones, I have two of them. I haven't decided which one I like better, but yeah. So you get into that healthy cycle with him, the polarized cycle, where things get better and better rather than getting worse and worse. And so, yeah, I'm really glad to hear that you. You were able to witness that, and now you start to be able to witness the other side of it when you do the opposite, which is asking a man for help, him giving to you, you appreciating him, him feeling really great about it, you feeling really great about it. Upward spiral, assuming he's not a broken man. Because if he's a broken man, he may respond poorly regardless of what happens. And if he's a broken man, he may even respond really well when you criticize him. So that's where it gets really screwy sometimes. It can mess with your head. If you've dated broken men in the past who have deep traumas and wounds, sometimes they will respond the opposite of what I'm telling you here, but that's a sign to you that he's broken. So sometimes men like it when women tell them what to do. Sometimes, you know, that's why some men are hiring dominatrixes to, like, whip them, things like that, because they're broken. They, they don't. They, they're depolarized. And, and so they, they're looking for those outlets because they, they. And so that's where it's very confusing. But yet likely, when you're dealing with a healthy masculine man, you will get these positive responses. You will see it and then you will know, and then you're on a great trajectory with a man who actually can show care for your heart over time. You know, some women who are broken as well, they get, they feel happier in their life when they're the ones telling men what to do when they are the dominatrix or when they are being the therapist to men or being the mommy to men. And they, they have, they date little boys and peter pants and, you know, players and whatnot. So some women are also deeply broken because of their childhood, and they're more drawn to men who are probably also deeply broken. And then you have these toxic cycles that happen and toxic relationships after the other, and they ultimately don't end up being happy because even a deeply broken woman or a deeply broken man deep down inside, they still have a feminine core or a masculine core. So even the most broken man, he still has a masculine core deep inside. It's just he's not able to access it, or he's very disconnected from it because he's repressed it or he shut it off or his wounds won't allow him to. And same with women. There are some women that they've become very masculine, and it's because they've shut off their feminine energy because they were told oftentimes, you know, that's, that's bad, that's weak. Vulnerability is weakness. And you got to be a strong woman. You should never rely on a man. You got to be a bit, you know, bitch is one way, but boss, babe, you know, a strong, independent woman, I don't need no man. And so women have their own wounds that will cause them to disconnect from their feminine core. But even those women deep down inside, they still have a feminine core that can be reactivated. And a lot of the things we teach you will help you to reactivate yours so that if said, ultimately, you're no longer like driving a car with a bunch of sand in it. You, you're driving a car with, without sand in the engine. You're driving a car that's like clean, that can just move. You're operating on all cylinders because you are now who you really are at your core. You're who you were when you were born. And not having to pretend or be operating from a bunch of trauma and bunch of wounds, you can actually live a happy life now, a fully connected life, embodied life as a woman, because you're no longer resisting your natural essence. And so same same journey for men too. I had to go on this journey myself to reconnect with my own masculine core because I had a lot of wounds from, from my, my upbringing. So it's a powerful journey for both men and women. Diane said, I call him Superman. Yeah, that's a good one too. Yeah, that, that was the other term I really like is Superman is good one. If you don't like daddy, if you don't like boss, if you don't like hero or my king. Superman is another good, like sexy pet name you can use that can increase polarity in different moments. And so I'm just going to answer one more question here and then I gotta get going. So Ms. Snoopy said, what about if I am the one and he is the one for me, but he feels like if he takes the step to be with me, everything that he knows would be destroyed. How can I process myself, process this myself? Thank you. Oh, that's a deep question. I don't think I can answer that for you today, Ms. Snoopy, but hopefully a lot of the trainings that we have are going to help you on that. And I would definitely recommend joining our coaching membership if you can, because we can go really deep with that because sounds like your man has a lot of stuff that he needs to work through on his own. And also you can clear some things so that you can both get on the track, get on the right track, because he'll be inspired to want to, to make it work because we have to go deeper into that whole conversation of everything he knows would be destroyed. He has a lot of fear, likely a lot of reservations. Maybe he had, he was cheated on by an ex partner or he had a bad marriage or a bad breakup or some other bad things happen in his life. So we need to navigate that. We need to have some deep conversations. But I would say if you really love this man, I would give it some time and I would use our 90 day challenge to, to See if we can shift him and shift your relationship into a positive way by shifting yourself and how you approach him and how you approach the relationship, which is ultimately the only thing you can do is control yourself. So, yeah, I hope that helps. For now, Ms. Snoopy, like your name, Lauren said, excellent, Brody. That's exactly what I did. Giving him time and asked for his help on a few things I wanted to talk about. We will talk in a week. Should I share some feelings before then? A week? If so, if you're talking to him next Saturday, it might be a ways out, but maybe he needs that time. I don't know. I would trust your feminine intuition if you want to ask for a phone call before then to share those feelings or if you want to wait until you next see him. Um, that's kind of something I think you will have to trust your instincts on of what you want to do. And if it's a really strong emotion you're feeling right now, then I would say probably reach out sooner rather than later to share that with him. But if it's just some things you're like, it's kind of something I. I should address with him. But I'm okay waiting till next Saturday, then I would do that. Snazzio said, thank you, coach. You're welcome. And I'm just seeing if there's anything else. Hey, Joe. I said thank you so much, Brody. I really appreciate you. You're welcome. And your grave great advice is you're helping many of us. Thanks, Brody. And yeah, Lorraine said Thursday. Yeah. So I'd wait a little bit, Lorraine, for then. All right. It's up to you. It's still up to you. I say if you want to wait till then or have that conversation now and then. Okay, last question, because this is a good one. Amanda said, so if men want to open to you and tell you their problems, is that a bad thing? No, it's not necessarily a bad thing. But if it's consistent thing, then likely you're in a dynamic where it's depolarized, where you're in the masculine role and he's more in the feminine role. You're more in the mommy role. You might say he's more in the childlike role. And you want to reverse that because he's coming to you with his problems, asking you for help, rather than what it should be is the reverse. You, as the feminine, you share problems, which can be desires that can be needs, that can be questions that you have. And then it's a masculine. Is Solving the problems, the masculine is figuring it out and providing those solutions. So you want to look at the overall dynamic in your relationship and if you're giving to him more than he's giving to you overall, then that's likely going to be a big problem moving forward because now you're losing polarity and that's going to cause attraction to go away. That's going to cause devotion and love to go away. And so we want to reverse that to where overall, yes, of course he can ask you for help occasionally and he can come to you with problems, but overall he's giving to you and you're receiving more than you're giving to him and then he's receiving from you. So that's what we want to shift so you can get that powerful dynamic coming back and get the devotion and love back in your life and relationship. So much love. Hope this was helpful. Take care. Have a great rest of the week and I will talk to you again, hopefully very soon. Again, if you haven't yet, I'd highly recommend taking our free love quiz. You can get our 90 day challenge. You can get access to our coaching communities where we go really deep and I can personally coach you as well as our top recommendations and learn the principles of magnetic feminine polarity. Magnetic feminine communication on a really deep way. 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