Men Miss You More When You Master Magnetic Habits

Your feminine energy triggers his fantasies. What happens when a man meets a feminine woman and when she's in her feminine energy, it creates an imprint within his system of that polar opposite, that polar opposite energy that creates that attraction, that creates that juice and that passion and that chemistry. And what happens is that imprint tends to circulate within his system and within his mind. After he's done interacting with you, he can't help but start to remember and fantasize about that energy. He longs for it again. He wishes to have it back in his life. So here are 10 magnetic habits that make him miss you the moment you're apart. Hi, I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize Your Man, and for over 20 years combined with my wife Antia, we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long-term, and committed relationship with a man they desire. Let's dive in. Number 1, she appreciates him out loud. Now, the fundamental masculine purpose is to be of service, is to be of value. And so when you are appreciating him by saying things like, you're my hero, or that's so sexy when you did that thing for me, or it's so sexy when you open the jar or open the car door, or I just love it when you take charge, or I love it when you plan out the date, it's so attractive, and wow, you're so smart, you're so strong, whatever those things are that you authentically admire about him, especially things that he did for you, that's going to go a long way. Because for one, it's going to make him want to do more of those things and less of the things that, that you don't like. So you always want to reward that which you want to see more of. But in general, when you have an appreciation of men, when you have an appreciation of the masculine in your life, it'll draw that to you. It'll make men want to serve you. It'll bring in those knights in shining armor, those men that want to care for you, that want to be there for you, that want to protect you and provide for you and make sure you're happy, make sure everything's taken care of, make sure you're safe and that you feel safe. That'll happen when you actually share and appreciate and reward those— that which men do for you. And you can use their love language, you can use his love language in various ways to reward him, but make him feel valued and appreciated. That will go a long way to drawing him closer to you. Even faster. Number 2, she gives him her full presence. Now this means that when you're together, ideally, you're also just talking about things that you're both interested in, talking about each other, your relationship. Avoid talking about other people and gossiping, because that's taking the focus away from the two of you and putting it onto other people. And especially if it's negative gossip, of course, you can, you can talk about things occasionally. But In general, you want to try to keep the conversation focused on the two of you and avoid looking at your phone, getting distracted by other things, letting other issues with your kids, family just always pull you away from your connection with him, especially when you're together. You can let people know, hey, I'm on a date. Hey, I'm out. Hey, I'm with Fred or whatever his name is. Let them know so that you're not going to be constantly bothered. And maybe they have a code word they can send you if it's a real emergency. But try to create boundaries and space so that when you're with your guy, it can just be the two of you and you're not getting constantly pulled away and your attention diverted. That's a very powerful thing that can build the connection really strong. Number 3, she makes him feel like a man. She makes him feel like a man, not a project. Okay, this one might sting for you, but I need to say it because I see it constantly. There's a big chance you're actually not looking for a man. You're looking for a project. You're looking for someone to fix. You're looking for someone to improve, to mold into your ideal partner. And let me tell you what goes through a man's head when he feels like you're trying to change him. She doesn't accept me. She doesn't respect me. She thinks I'm not good enough. Why would I commit to someone who I feel like a failure with? Now, I'm not saying you should accept bad behavior from him. I'm not saying you should be with a man who treats you poorly. What I'm saying is there's a massive difference between coaching a man And appreciating a man. Here's the secret: men move mountains for a woman who makes him feel respected. A man's deepest need in a relationship is respect, not love. Women need to be cherished. Men need to be respected. When you understand this, everything can change for you. So what does respect look like? It's appreciating his efforts even when they're imperfect. It's thanking him for things he does. It's not criticizing him in front of other people. It's asking for his opinion and actually considering it. It's letting him lead and following his lead, Even when you might do it differently. It's letting him do it on his own and even make mistakes sometimes. And that's okay because he's learning. I've been married for 11 years, and you know what Antia does that keeps me wanting to give her the world? She makes me feel like I'm winning. When I do something for her, she lights up. She appreciates it. She thanks me. She makes me feel like I'm her hero, and that makes me want to do even more. But I've talked to so many men who feel like nothing they do is good enough. Their woman criticizes them constantly, corrects them, nags them, and then they wonder why he's not romantic anymore. Why he's not pursuing her, why he's watching football or playing video games or scrolling his phone instead of spending time with her. Number 4, she owns her patterns. He wants to know, yes, we're not perfect. You have issues. I have issues. He has issues. We all have issues in varying degree. But are you aware of your issues? Can you see your issues? Are you— do you know that you have either trust issues or jealousy issues or anxiety issues or insecurity issues or confidence issues? Or self-worth issues, or anger issues. Like being aware of those issues that you may have. It's not that you have them. That's not the problem. The problem is when you have them, are you unaware of them? Are you letting them control you? Are you letting them run the show? Again, one thing my wife did that was very powerful when we were dating right before we got engaged was she called herself out and she said, you know what, part of me wants to manipulate you right now. And I'm like, wow, okay, tell me more. And I was really impressed by that because that showed me that she was able to see that she was having a part inside of her that wanted to manipulate me. Because here's the thing, all those issues inside of you, they're not you. They are the issues. They are a part of you. So seeing that they're a part of you and even talking about them as if they are a part of you, like a part of me has trust issues, a part of me has confidence issues, a part of me gets insecure sometimes. That's okay. Guys love it when you tell them that because it shows you have control over it. You're aware of it. You're working on it. Number 5, she praises him to other people. Now, one of the things you can do with your man is make him look good in front of others. Like, lift him up in front of others. Praise him. It's not just for the others to think better of him, but actually he will be able to see that you're on his team. Not only are you on his team, but you're actually actively promoting him, that you believe in him, that you're his cheerleader. So it could be something very simple, like when you're around friends or just saying like, oh yeah, he's, he's so great at solving problems, or he's always— he's the tech genius. If you need anything, just talk to him. Or yeah, he's amazing at XYZ, whatever his hobby might be or his skill sets that he has. Things that you actually admire about him, things that he actually does well. Try to find those things and praise him whenever those topics come up to others. He doesn't even have to be there. He may find out about it indirectly, but Especially when he's there, if you're lifting him up, it's going to make him feel really good. It's going to make him feel like a better man, that you see his value, and he's going to appreciate that. And that was one of the things my wife did very well, even to this day still does, that I really like, is when we're talking to others, I'll often hear her saying things about how great I am at this certain skill or what things I did that she really admired. So it's a very powerful thing that can make him develop a deep emotional bond. Number 6, she makes him her hero. It's calling him into his hero, calling him into his protector, his provider, his leader, his confident masculine presence. So you can do that in a variety of ways. That can be through how you communicate to him, saying things like calling him your hero, calling him your protector, your provider, telling him you feel safe when you're around him, that it's so sexy when he takes Takes charge, or so sexy when he's looking out for things and getting things handled and planning out the date, or pulling out the chair for you, opening the door. Call him into that because he's going to become addicted to that. Men want to become the best version of themselves. They want to embody their masculine power. For the most part, men want to step into that. And when you help them, when you encourage them, and when you help him feel that and let him know it's okay, let him know that you think it's sexy, attractive, That you love it, he's going to want to do that more. And he's going to become more of a masculine man. He's going to get addicted to being around you because you pull him into a better version of himself. And you help create that masculine-feminine polarity, which is really the only thing that creates long-term attraction, chemistry, and passion. So you pull him into that polarity where the opposites attract, the energies attract, and now you guys are having all these sparks flying off. You're having all this juicy attraction. And it's going to make him start to crave your presence, possibly even become obsessed with you because that energy becomes so addictive. And it'll definitely make him start to fall in love as well. So really powerful with that. Number 7, she lets him feel needed. Let him feel needed. So a masculine man, he needs to feel that he's providing value. If he doesn't feel like he can make you happy, if he doesn't feel like you need him, then he's going to feel in his core, What am I doing here? Why am I with her? She doesn't need me. I don't have any value to give. I'm starting to get depressed because I feel like I'm a, I'm a soldier without a sword. I'm a soldier without a mission. I'm a boat that doesn't have a, a journey to go on. I'm just sitting here in the harbor. I have no purpose here. And so if he doesn't have a purpose, his masculine self-esteem is going to be reduced and he's going to ultimately become a shell of a man. So He needs to have a purpose, which is why you want to give him space to pursue his bigger mission in life, which could be related to his career, could be related to his family or the causes that he believes in. But then you could also become his deeper purpose. You can give him a sense of that heroic instinct being activated where you allow him to help you with different things. You ask for help with things around the house, with your computer, with your phone, with your car. With whatever he specializes in as a man, whatever his unique skill sets are. You ask him for help with those things, ask for his advice, ask for his tips. And the ultimate sin with this, the reverse, the opposite of letting him feel needed, is when you say things like, oh, I can do it myself, or I have this handled, or even worse, saying like, I don't need you, or I don't value you, or saying that in so many different words. Um, That's going to make a man feel terrible, really. If he's a healthy man, he's going to feel, why am I here? What am I doing? This is a mess. I need to fix myself. I need to fix my life. I need to get out of here. Likely because he's not going to feel that sense of purpose. He's going to feel meaninglessness in his life. Number 8, she never attacks who he is. So when you're having conflict and when you're having an argument with him, avoid calling him names and avoid saying like, you are The phrase you are or why are you so these kind of phrases are typically personal attacks that are also generalizations. So saying something like why are you always so so stupid? It could be something like that. Why are you always screwing this up? Or why are you always attacking me? Or why are you such a you know why why are you so passive? It could be anything. So you are attacking him on who he is. And it's a personal attack. You want to avoid that because it's going to really cause sometimes permanent damage in your relationship, and it can cause a rift between you. What you want to actually talk about is the behavior and the specific thing that he did and how it made you feel. You know, when you did this, it made me feel sad. When you ignored my text for three days, it made me feel like you don't really care. See things like that. So it's showing him. How his actions are actually impacting you without saying like, you are an asshole, you are this, you are that. Those personal attacks will cause damage. And this is one of the things that my wife did really well because she had communication training when we were first dating and in our relationship now, is she avoids those personal attacks and we talk about conflict more as a team facing the issue together so we can find a win-win solution. Number 9, she thanks him without words. Another powerful way to show a man your value without saying anything is to express gratitude through your actions. So of course you can share gratitude through your words, which is very important, but it's also powerful to share your gratitude through your body and how a man makes you feel. Through smiling, through eye contact, strong eye contact like we talked about with listening, which that's a big part of listening is just presence. Presence. It's not looking at the phone. It's not being distracted by other people around you. It's like Focused in on the person you're with and really listening to them, what's going on for them, how they're feeling, what they're thinking. But the gratitude piece is something you can share with with that with your body. If a man cooks for you, it's like letting him know through your body how you appreciate his meal that he cooked for you. Assuming it's a good meal, assuming he didn't ruin the spaghetti with some too much ketchup or something. Hopefully, he's not making spaghetti with ketchup. But if he's really trying and he did a good job and you actually enjoy. the meal, or at least part of it, like showing that through your body. Mmm. Wow, so good. I mean, we're talking about not using words here, but mmm. And just like the enjoyment as you're chewing the meal. Or if a man is dancing with you, like showing your joy, your bliss through your body. Number 10, she's his biggest cheerleader. This is about, again, rooting for your man, letting him know you want him to succeed in his goals. You're here for him, you're supporting him, you're there every step of the way. Because for one, through the law of reciprocity, this is going to encourage him to want to do those things for you as well and to be your biggest cheerleader. But it's also a huge thing for masculine-feminine polarity we talked about before, is the feminine. I think it's one, one reason why you have this stereotype of men being so attracted to cheerleaders, right? And all these fantasies. Well, it's because it's not just because of the, the short skirts, it also goes back to Men want a woman who roots for them, who wants them to be— who is there for them and believing in them. You can do it. I know you got this. You're always so great at these presentations at work. Or, you know, I know you have so much talent. You're so talented. Or you're so handsome. Or you're so strong. You know, those little things you can say to him goes a long way because men want to feel like you're in their corner, that you're there together. Again, it also goes back to the partnership thing. And he's going to want to be your cheerleader as well and say, you know, let's do this together. We could both do this. We both got this. We're both awesome. So that's a very important thing, key thing men love and will make him desire you, crave you, fall in love with you, not want to leave your side very quickly as well. At the end of the day, understand we're all learning and growing. Give yourself grace in this process, but also give yourself standards. You're not being too needy because you want someone who's consistent, kind, respectful, and emotionally available. Those are completely valid needs. And if you want personalized guidance on exactly what to do with the specific man you have in mind right now, I invite you to take our free love quiz. In just a few minutes, you'll get your personalized top recommendation for getting the relationship you desire. Just head over to our website, magnetizeyourman.com, or click the link in the description or comments below to get that now. Thank you so much for watching and subscribing. 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