Men Pull Away From A Woman Due To THESE 8 Things
Brody Boyd breaks down eight communication patterns that push men away: controlling, commanding, complaining, criticizing, condescending, coercing, coaxing, and counseling. Men respond to these by withdrawing, fighting back, or leaving. Boyd explains how shifting to feminine communication can restore attraction and commitment.
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Men pull away from women due to these eight things. If you're tired of men pulling away, losing interest. If you have a man you suspect is pulling away, he's not as invested in the relationship as he used to be, he's not as committed and you don't know why and you're wanting to pull him back, you're wanting them to have, have him come back to you and finally feel those deep feelings of love, attraction, commitment that he gives his life to you, he gives his heart to you and wants to pursue and chase you for a loving relationship. Well, then this is the training for you. I'm Brody Boyd with Magnetize youe man. And for over 20 years combined, me and my wife, Auntie have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving, long term and committed relationship fast. So let's go ahead and dive right into this. And today we're going to be talking about specifically what communication drives a man away. We teach in our courses in our training feminine communication and how to actually attract a man. And the subtles of this is the subtle thing to realize is that there are many ways that you may be communicating with a man that you don't actually realize are actual masculine communications. And once you can recognize them, you can avoid using the masculine communication so that you can actually shift into a more feminine communication with a man. So I'm going to go through some of the top eight ways that you may be subtly communicating with a man from your masculine. We call these. These are actually just half of the list we have of the 16 deadly Cs. The Cs, these are going to be eight. I'm going to give you eight of the deadly Cs that may be showing up with a man. We'll start with the first one which is controlling, controlling language. So for example, I'll give you one you may not be aware of, which is, let's plan a date for this Friday. I miss you and I want to see you. So on the surface this statement may sound like something that may be pretty innocent to say to a man, but on the actual, the actuality of it is it's very masculine. I'm going to actually put this on the screen here. So what it's doing here is it's actually leading him. Let's plan a date. The masculine is about leading, it's about directing, it's about making things happen. The feminine is about following, receiving, allowing, just like in a dance, following his lead. So when you say let's plan a date for this Friday, that's clearly leading him. I miss you is actually, it's a subtle statement because when you say I miss you, it is actually coming from a place of trying to get him to do something. Usually, of course, there's a way to say it from purely your feminine expression, but usually that doesn't come out as I miss you. It comes out more as I'm sad or I'm lonely or I'm anxious. But I miss you is typically done as a way to try to get something from a man. It's actually trying to get him to come to you to get him to do something which is masculine. Masculine is trying to get an outcome and is trying to achieve. The feminine is enjoying the experience and enjoying the journey and following and allowing. So when you say I miss you, it's often coming from a masculine place, a masculine energy. So you want to be very careful with that. And then the last statement, I want to see you, it's saying what your desire is, which is actually could be said in a more feminine way, such as, I, I desire to see you, I desire to have closeness. But anyways, it's, it's more important to share your emotions. The feminine piece, the feminine communication. So this is a controlling statement. Other controlling statements could be, let's go. How come you can't? We're actually going to go into the rest of them. I don't want to. I don't want to spoil the rest. So let's just get the next one up here. So the next of the deadly seas is commanding, very similar to the last one. So let me update this here. So commanding would be, let's get going, we're running late. So when you say again, let's get going, we're running late. Come on, let's go. I want to go over here, I want to go over here. Do this. When you're actually telling a man directly what to do, it is commanding him. It's one of the deadly seas. That is masculine energy, masculine language, and it will push a man away. Because a man only has a couple options. When you tell him what to do, when you lead him, when you command him or try to control him, he either has to one, submit to your leadership. So he has to be in his feminine, he has to submit and say, okay, whatever you say, dear. Yes, let's go. And a man, all men have at their core, masculine core. And so for him to submit to your leadership, that's going to feel bad to him at some level. Now, depending on how feminine the man already is will vary how bad he's going to feel about submitting to your leadership. So he might feel fine with it, but a more masculine man is not going to feel great about that. He's going to feel like his masculine power is being given away. And now he has no leadership abilities. He has no meaning in the relationship. He has no ability to use his power. God's given gifts of taking directive and leading and creating a great experience. Instead, you've taken that from him. So it's going to feel bad at a high level. So most men are not just going to purely submit to, to that leadership. A masculine man, the other option he has is he can fight you. So he can argue with you and say, no, I don't want to go right now. No, you, you got to go. And he'll start this kind of conflict with you. Because now it's like two men fighting with each other for who's going to be the leader of the dance. Because in a dance, only one person can lead and one person can follow at any time. If both people are trying to lead, it causes a lot of issues. Same with driving a car. One person can only really drive the car at any one time. If the other person starts trying to, hey, no, let's go over here. I want to go this way. It's probably going to crash. The car's probably going to crash, so watch out for that. And then the last option would be that he just leaves. He just walks away and he leaves the relationship. So that's usually one of the three options that will happen when really any of these masculine languages are used, and especially these, the, the commanding language. So let's get the next one up here, which is the third C, the third of the deadly Cs, which is complaining. And let me open this here. So complaining is another big masculine form of language because generally it is also trying to get somebody to do something. You're complaining to try to get an outcome. You're complaining to try to lead him. So saying, why couldn't you at least wash the dishes while I was gone? Is a form of saying like, you let me down. You failed. You didn't do what I wanted you to do. You didn't do what I led you to do. And therefore I'm upset and I'm mad at you. And again, we teach so many of the more feminine ways to communicate these things because there's nothing wrong in itself from wanting something and wanting to have something in the relationship or wanting him to do something. It's about are you communicating it from a feminine place that inspires him and makes him excited and actually wanting to do the things that you want in the relationship, wanting to commit, wanting to be your protector, provider, hero and serve you in all the beautiful ways that you would love to be served in a relationship and have him give his masculine gifts? Or are you trying to take that leadership and take the, and take the masculine role and guide him and, and not allow him to do that or try to force him to do that? So it's about feminine communication versus masculine. In this video we're teaching primarily the not tos, the masculine. So that's one big one. You kind of understand that the complaining. It's pretty self evident that that's usually not going to go over so well in a relationship. The next one is criticizing the next of this, the sixteen Deadly Seas. We're only going to be teaching eight to here today. So criticizing. You're acting like such a baby right now. So it is telling him what you think is wrong with him or what you think he did wrong and showing him that he's not good enough in some way kind of eking at his, at his, at his self, at his self, self image, self esteem, his sense of masculinity. It's kind of the milder version of emasculation. So emasculation would be saying like you're not man enough for me, you can't handle me. Or you're not strong, you're weak, you're. You're such a baby. You're so ineffective. Or you're not as strong as this man. You're not as good of a husband as Sarah's husband. Those are like emascul. Those are emasculation statements and those are even more damaging than this. But criticizing is kind of like the step up to right before emasculation. So. So you kind of can get the idea with criticizing as well. You're acting like such a baby right now. Why can't you be stronger? Why are you always. Why are you always so combative? Why are you always such in a bad mood? Why can't you be more xyz? So that is complaining. And then feel free to leave your comments. We're going to be doing a Q and A at the end of this, so I would love to answer some questions as well. I'm going to get through a couple more of these before I kind of respond to some of those. The next one is condescending. So condescending is the next of the 16 deadly seas. Saying something like, you don't get it. If you've been through what I've been through, then you know why I'm like that. So condescending is basically putting yourself in a superior position and saying, I know so much more than you do. Or I'm. I have so much more ability than you do, or so much more awareness, or I've read so many more books than you have. I've done so much more work on myself than you have. You just don't get it. You don't understand. In fact, you need to get some help, because I am obviously the correct one in this relationship. I'm doing all the correct things. I'm giving, I'm showing up, I'm doing what I need to do. And you just. You just don't. Don't get relationships. You don't know how to handle this. So that's the idea. That's kind of the subtle language behind condescension. Condescension is taking that superior position. And obviously that's a more masculine form of communication because it's basically belittling the other person. And even this can be very subtle. Like those simple statements I gave you like you don't get it or like you don't understand. There's subtle ways of condescending to a man that will make him feel bad at his masculine core. It'll make him feel like, why am I here? Because all these. All these forms of communication, they're subtle. But ultimately, what they end up making a man feel is, like I said before, those three things. He has to either submit to you or fight you or leave oftentimes. And regardless, he'll start to get this first feeling of just, why am I here? Why am I doing this? I don't have a purpose here. I don't have a value here. I'm not feeling like my gifts are being received. My value is being seen and appreciated. And also that I'm not feeling inspired to want to change. I'm feeling like I'm being told what to do, like a mother telling her child. And I'm not feeling inspired to want to actually become better on my own, because ultimately all you can control is yourself. And a man is either going to step up with using feminine communication and sharing your feelings openly and vulnerably, or he's not going to step up. And if he doesn't step up, it's better to just eventually move on rather than continuing to hammer him and trying to get him to change, which ultimately push him further and further into a shell of becoming a shell of a man or leaving ultimately, or just fighting you. So those three ways that men can typically cope with these forms of communication, unless they are a more feminine man, and they'll just kind of submit and not. Not want to step into their leadership ultimately, which will make you more upset at them. And it creates this. All of these tend to create really bad, negative downward spirals in the relationship. The next of the 16 deadly seas, this one would be 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. Number six is coercing. So coercing a man into doing what you want. With the example that we have here, if you don't stop talking to me like that, then there will be no sex tonight. So it's basically trying to use whatever leverage you might have to try to get him to do what you want. So doing things like hold, withholding your affection, withholding words of affirmation and appreciation, not showing a man that you're interested in him until he shows you signs of interest. So there's subtle ways that you may be holding back or trying to coerce him to do what you want him to do, whether that's simply text you back, give you a hug, give you a kiss, have sex with you, commit to you, show you more love and affection, all the various things that you may want him to do for you. If you're coercing that by withholding rewards or implementing punishments, then that's going to ultimately cause some of those three things that we talked about, because it's coming from your masculine. It's coming from trying to manipulate, trying to lead, trying to control him in some way. It's just another form of control. So you want to watch out for coercive language as well. And the next of the 16 deadly seas, the next one that we're going to cover today, because we're going to just cover eight, is coaxing, coaxing, coaxing. I hope I said that right. Coaxing, coaxing. So if you're saying something like, can you please make dinner, make some time for me this weekend. It's basically begging. So coaxing is begging. It's trying to subtly lead him. It may seem more pleasant and it may actually seem more feminine on the. On the surface, like, please, please, please, can we go? Or I really want you to just dress well for the dinner tonight. We're going to see my parents. Like, please, can you just wear something nice this time? Or please can you not speak about politics tonight at the table? Or can we please? Or so usually if you Find yourself using the word please or this energy of like trying to move him, trying to get him to go, like you want to kind of pat him on the back and like, let's get going. Please, please, please. That's coaxing language. And again, it's a subtle form of leadership, but it's still leading him. It's still masculine language. It's still trying to get him to do something or trying to get an outcome. So you want to watch when there's subtle ways of this coaxing language that could be implemented or used that you might not even be aware of. With all of these, again, you may not be aware of. You want to try to observe yourself and see if you've been using any of these deadly seas so far. And then the last one we are going to cover tonight is going to be, I'm going to put it on the screen here so you can see is counseling. So counseling. This one is also a little counterintuitive. So again, the masculine is giving, the feminine is receiving. Just like in sex, the penis is penetrating, the vagina is receiving to give. Like a Sex 101 class here. So if you're giving to a man, if you're doing anything that's trying to give to a man and help him, it is masculine. It's coming from your masculine energy. When a man is giving to you, such as protecting, providing, giving, any kind of provision to you, gifts, financial benefits, help, that is him coming from his masculine and giving to you. And so you would then be receiving from your feminine. Now if you find that you're the one actually giving and, and trying to provide something for him, such as help, then that is you leading from your masculine. Sorry. My, my baby's got. Got a little upset right now. My wife's gonna help her out since we're live the joys of being live, I'm gonna give her a big hug. I'm gonna help her after this. But that would be helping. So helping. If you're trying to help a man, if you're trying to fix a man, that is all coming from your masculine and trying to give to him. So you wanna watch out for that. So counseling would be saying something like, you need to be more confident with your boss and ask for what you want. You may feel like you're trying to help him, but it's actually you trying to lead him. You're trying to actually lead him in that moment and you're giving to him. So both are masculine activities that are going to push him away. And again, make him either feel like he has to submit, he has to fight or he has to flee. This kind of the fight or flight response, but on a subtle level and his masculine core. So you want to watch for that language as well, the counseling and the counseling behavior. So Again, there are eight more. There are eight more of these deadly Cs that are often done in a relationship that are masculine ways of being. Masculine communication you might not be aware of. So you want to really check. And if you haven't yet, make sure to take our free feminine Polarity quiz, our Magnetic Feminine Polarity quiz by going to magnetic feminine polarity.com or you can click the links that we're going to put below this training or in our bio, you can get that. And I'm going to go ahead and start answering some questions as well. But if you're just watching the video itself, I hope this was helpful. Much love and I'll talk to you again very soon. All right. Now let's go ahead and answer some questions as we continue this journey here tonight on the live stream. So we have a couple people saying hello, Relisha, hello. Actually, let me pull this off. And if you have any questions on what we covered, masculine communication or feminine communication, I'll be happy to answer some of those. And just masculine feminine polarity in general or issues you're having with a man. So Jennifer said, my man is pulling away because he always thinks I'm too busy. Yeah. So if you are actually living in a lot of ways from your masculine busyness could be a form of masculine energy that you are filling up your time with things, with activities, things you need to do rather than allowing yourself also space. Because the masculine prioritizes career, the feminine prioritizes relationships. So part of transitioning in your feminine energy can be spending less time on the career activities and more time on relationship activities with girlfriends or with your man or with your family or with your friends. So just look at is that the case? And also, could there be other things that are bothering him, not just about you being so busy all the time and doing so many other activities, but are you also operating more often from your masculine energy, maybe through leading him, maybe through, through giving to him rather than receiving. And that could be also pushing him away. So you want to watch out for those things as well. Jackie said, I love all your videos. Thank you, Jackie. Glad you like them. Relishes said already. Hello from Memphis. Let's get some more greetings from Borneo. Hello, Mammy. Jennifer says, my man tells me sometimes he misses Me, but then doesn't stop by. So, yes, you need to share your feelings around that. You need to share with him how that makes you feel when he says he misses you, but his actions aren't matching up with that. So you would say something like, may I share with you? May I share something with you? He would say, sure. Say, I feel sad. Why do you feel sad? Because I notice you tell me often that you miss me. And you're telling me that you miss me. And I. But I haven't. You haven't been stopping by my place and I'm telling myself a story that you just want me to feel like you miss me, but not actually show me that you miss me. And that makes me feel sad and I'm not sure what to do. And so that puts the ball that allows him to clearly hear what you feel, which makes him value you more, makes him interested in wanting to now be inspired to help and to actually solve that problem. And it shows you value yourself enough to speak up and share your feelings. You're being open, you're being vulnerable. And now he gets to react to that and step up or not. And he'll probably have a conversation with you about it and he'll probably want to change because now you're not telling him what to do. You're not commanding him to say, hey, why don't you stop by my house today? Why don't you swing by? I know you're in the area, like, we can hang out. That would be leading him and guiding him, but you're sharing more your feelings. And now he actually wants to probably stop by. He wants to do it on his own because now he gets to do it from his masculine leadership rather than from feeling like he's being led and having to submit to your leadership and your masculine energy. So Rosemary said, hello, love to listen to your advices. You're welcome. Glad you like it. Jennifer said, my man is cheating because he thinks I don't have time for him. At least that's what I think now. Another woman. So the thing is, oftentimes you may be ascribing what you think is the problem from what is actually the problem. So you. He may say, or you may think that it's because you don't have time for him when the actual problem is you're in your masculine energy or you're communicating with him from your masculine. With some of the deadly seas that we just covered. And you're not actually being open and available and feminine with him, which is actually causing him to go outside the relationship. There's, there should never be any cheating. Just to clarify that a man should never be cheating. A woman should never be in cheating in a relationship, you should be incongruency with your commitments. And if you're not happy with the relationship, you bring that up to your partner. And if at any time that they're not, it's not working out, you leave the relationship and then you date someone else. But cheating inside a relationship is never okay. So that's what I want to caveat that with. But you also want to look at where are you actually still operating from your masculine, even subtly in the relationship that's causing him to feel like he needs to go outside of the relationship to find other connections. So. But that's a longer conversation. But just want to give you some food for thought with that. Kelly said, geez, ladies, we got to say nothing to make a relationship work. Yeah. So that's why I, I, you know, I have, it's sometimes hard to teach this the masculine language because it can sound like, wow, I can't say anything because, you know, there's so many different things that I would be saying from my masculine. And that's why we have a whole training and whole course that we go through, a whole program and coaching and feedback on feminine communication. So you actually do this correctly with a man because there's so, so many subtle ways that you may be a masculine man, but there's also so many ways you can communicate still from your feminine because I don't believe in you just being quiet and not doing anything, not being proactive. So if you haven't taken that yet, make sure to take our free feminine polarity quiz again@femininepolarity.com or click the link below this training or go to our bio feminine polarity.com where you can take take that free quiz and understand all the ways that you can be in your feminine and we can help you with that potentially based on your answers. So there are many ways to communicate with a man from your feminine. A lot of it involves sharing your feelings. It involves asking for permission, such as, may I share something? May I share a feeling that I'm having? May I ask for a phone call? May ask what your thoughts are about this, what your thoughts are about that. So there's many different things you can say that are actually coming from a feminine receptive place that makes the polarity enlarge and makes him excited to want to engage and want to actually he'll be turned on in a Lot of ways he'll be turned on emotionally, physically, mentally. You can really light him up and you can activate him once you do this communication. Right. So there are many ways to actually do positive things in a relationship and not just how you may be sabotaging it and pushing a man away through masculine behavior. Libby said, my man is pulling away by using excuses for everything. It includes missing me. I don't tell or control him. He just has an excuse for everything we try to do. Yeah. So if he has excuses for things, I was just coaching one of our clients on this today. You definitely want to share how that makes you feel and share your emotions around that in a feminine way that we teach with feminine communication and it includes missing you. So he has an excuse for missing you. I don't tell or control him. He just has an excuse for everything we try to do. So you have to share from your feminine consistently when he is making excuses and keep bringing it up. And if that's why I recommend doing the Magnetic Feminine Polarity challenge, which is the 90 day challenge, which is something we do with our clients. So for 90 days you practice everything that we're teaching you around magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication, and hopefully with us coaching you as well and helping you in our, in our coaching groups. And if you're consistently not getting his response, if he's actually not inspired, if he's not changing his behavior and stepping up, which I would actually be very surprised if he doesn't. But if he's not consistently over 90 days, it doesn't have to be 90 days. It could also be 60 days or 30 days depending on how long of a history you have with this man. Then you know that you it's he's not capable of stepping up. He doesn't have any care left in his heart for you, or he's not able to be in his masculine because he's a damaged man. He's broken in some way, mentally, emotionally, physically, potentially. He has other deeper issues, immaturity. Or he could be a narcissist or a sociopath. There's many different issues men can have. He's just not capable of giving you what you need. And then you'll know without a shadow of a doubt that you need to move on. And that's why likely you're not going to have to do that because likely he will step up in that process. He will become the man you need him to be. And then. But if he doesn't, for some reason, you can move on guilt free because you know, you gave it your all and you're fully in your feminine communicated, you know, as best as you could from your feminine with us, hopefully helping you with that. And then yeah, that would be the feminine polarity challenge 90 day challenge. So hope that helps. Libby and Michelle said, how do I let him know I am missing him in a feminine way or should I not let him know? Well, really what I want you to look at is why do you want him to know that you miss him? Because like I said before, usually that phrase I miss you is trying to get something from him. It's trying to get an outcome, it's trying to lead from the masculine I miss you. It's really usually used as a way to try to get something from a man. So it's masculine. However, you can still share the emotions behind that feeling. So it's you share how you're feeling, not the I miss you, but what exactly do you feel in your body? Do you feel sad? Do you feel lonely? Do you feel horny? Do you feel needy? Do you feel anxious? Do you feel insecure? Now share the emotion with him. May I share something with you? Sure. I feel anxious. Why do you feel anxious? So now he gets to actually feel your heart, your vulnerable heart that's simply sharing from your feminine open. And then he gets to be inspired by to want to connect with you. He feels that polarity, he feels the attraction, devotion for you. And now he wants to change rather than feeling like he has to change, he has to do something for you because you said I miss you. So now what is he supposed to do with that? Now he's like, okay, I guess now I got to call her, I got to text her. But it's coming more from then a place of obligation. Unless I mean if he feels that those same feelings that he might still say yes, I, you know, I miss you too or I'm excited to see you again. But if in that moment he's not feeling it, he's going to have to then submit to your leadership. And now he's doing it out of obligation, which I'm sure you don't want as well. So it's better to share the emotions because even if he still, he also feels he misses you when he feels your emotions, he's going to be much more excited to connect from that place than even from, you know, just saying I miss you. So it's subtle but it's often very misunderstood. And that's the key I want you to get is saying I miss you is usually Trying to lead a man subtly. And I think if you really feel into yourself, you will see that that's true, that you're trying to get something from him when you share it in that moment. Unless you're very advanced and you've practiced a lot of things we teach and you can simply share something without wanting to get an outcome. But usually the litmus test is if you say something or you text a man something and he doesn't respond and you feel bad, that means that you were sending that thing because you were hoping to get something from him. You're not just simply sharing out of your feminine, open and vulnerable openness and vulnerability detached from the outcome. So that's something very important and valuable to look at as well. Greetings from the Philippines. Maria Jennifer said, I think my man is going to leave me for someone else because I haven't seen him for a while. Yeah, I mean, if he's not contact, if he's not communicating with you and he hasn't seen you in person for a while, which I don't know what that means. Maybe a week, a month, a year, then likely, yeah, he is probably on his way out. But with feminine communication and magnetic feminine polarity, you can turn that around and you can actually have him start coming closer to you. Which is why again, I recommend taking our feminine polarity quiz. If you haven't taken that yet, feminine polarity.com or click the link in our bio and that's going to really help you to start pulling him back to you. And we, we do that all the time with clients. We help them learn how to actually get a man to come back to you and to be excited to come back to you. And, and it's all done through you shifting the energy inside of yourself and shifting how you communicate with him, whether that's through text message, phone call, or in person. By learning what not to do and learning how we teach you to communicate from your feminine, ideally also practicing that you have a man be inspired and excited to commit to you, to devote himself to you, to be in your world and to want to spend time with you. So it's very important. Mami said, he texts me every day, but he said he's relatively busy with his work. He said he misses me. He's a caring person. What should I do? Should I trust him and let this relationship be? I'm a little confused. Please help me with a little advice. Thank you. Yeah. So he texts you every day. He says he's busy with work. He says he misses you. He's a caring person. Ultimately, you have to look to a man's actions rather than his words. So if he's saying he misses you and he's saying he cares about you and he loves you, et cetera, et cetera, but he's not making time to see you, he's not asking you out, he's not calling you, then likely it's just words. He may have several women that he's telling those things to. Who knows? But you can't really rely on that as a true indicator of how much a man actually cares for you. You have to look to his actions. And the best thing you can do in that situation, like I told you before, is you have to share your feelings with him using feminine communication, and then see how he responds. And we're happy you come back. I'm glad to be back. Iram says I unknowingly go into combating mode. He hates it. Yeah. So there's an old saying. Would you rather be right or would you rather be happy? Would you rather be right or would you rather be happy? Sometimes you have to choose, because you might know that you're right, or you may feel like you need to show him how he's not correct in what he said or what he thinks or what he feels. And oftentimes that'll just cause more conflict and more combativeness. And sometimes you just have to let it go and trust that the relationship's health is more important. And men need to do this as well and be willing to let go. It's. It's more of a human issue with this, especially of trying to. Needing to be right. You might have gotten validated by that, by your parents when you were younger, or you were punished for not being right. And so now you always feel like you have to be correct in order to feel like you're worthy of being loved or that you're worthy of being valued. And sometimes you just have to let it go and. And go into appreciation, appreciate him for what he does do right. And what you do love about him. And that is some of the very opposite of masculine communication is using appreciation statements like, I feel so safe when I'm with you. I feel so loved by you. I appreciate you. You're such a. You're such a great leader. You're so. You're so confident. I love when you plan out our dates. It makes me feel so. So great. And I feel so, so attracted to you when you do it. Or it's so sexy when you hold me like that. And when you take charge and make, make sure everything's okay, it's so sexy and I love it. So these kind of statements make him feel great about what he does. Right. And it makes him want to do more and it makes him more attracted to you and he turned on and excited to devote himself to you and to be in the relationship. So using those kind of statements are really powerful. So yeah, we teach so many different. There's a whole list I have of appreciation statements you can use with a man I that we teach in our coaching programs that are really helpful to have a man just fall head over heels for you, you know, over time. It's very great. So Carol said, why will a man communicate almost constantly for a day or two and then suddenly pull away claiming he's too busy? It doesn't take long to send a text. Yeah. So usually there may have been something that happened in the relationships. So if we go back and look at the communication, there may be some instances where you were unknowingly communicating from your masculine or trying to get something from him, trying to get an outcome, trying to lead him in some way subtly. And that might have caused him to pull away because this whole video is about, you know, men pull away from a woman due to these eight things, which is eight of the. The 16 deadly seas. So one of those might have started causing him to pull away subtly. And the other thing is he could have just not been that invested from the beginning. If it's a newer relationship, he. He might have been seeming like he was invested, messaging back and forth a lot. But then he's like something else caught his attention and he found he wasn't actually that. That interested, that committed. And that's why also using feminine communication and being open, being vulnerable with man in the right way can actually help hook him in, so to say, where he is like now feels more connected to you, he feels more invested, he feels your heart. Because masculine men and men in general can generally only feel their emotions fully when they're with a woman who's open hearted and who is feminine and vulnerable. That's how they can feel their own feelings of anxiety, love, fear, joy, happiness, gratitude, which feels great to a man to be able to feel fully like that. So feminine communication can really make him in some ways become addicted to you and just not want to stop communicating with you or leaving you. Now, the other things to be aware of is again, texting isn't always the best form of communication. The best form is in person and then over the phone and then also we have to look to his actions rather than his words. If he's just communicating with you via text, even if he's doing it a lot, that's not necessarily an action. He's not really calling you, he's not asking you out, he's not making plans with you. So it's just kind of words at the end of the day because you have to also watch out. There's a lot of online scammers, online dating scammers, typically, that they will get women to fall in love with them just from their words, just from saying all the right things. You know, every morning they're sending them a good morning text and, hey, beautiful, and I love you and I can't wait for us to see each other. And you're my dream, you're my everything, and I've always wanted a woman like you in my life. So some guys will tell you all the things that you want to hear when they have real, no intention of, you know, committing to you or having a loving relationship or even just meeting on an actual date. They'll just communicate back and forth. And so scammers will do this because they know that they can also be very good with their words and get women to feel strong emotions for them when it's really just. It's just a fantasy they're creating. So you have to be aware of that as well and look to a man's actions. Is he actually asking you out? And when you use feminine communication and you share your feelings around it all as well in the right way, he's much, much more likely to want to actually take action and ask you out and progress the relationship forward because he feels inspired to and he wants to. Mammy said, isn't the word please is a good and kind word to use? It's a magical word. Yes. Please itself can be a good word. However, it can be used as coaxing, like we talked about earlier, when it's used from a place of trying to get a man to do something. Can you please text me back? Can you please just. Can you please just open up to me? Can you please just ask me out? Can you please, please, please? So even the right language, some of the language may actually be right in the way of saying can I or may I? Which is asking for permission, which is typically a more feminine form of language. However, it can be used from a place of trying to get something from him, trying to get him to do something, and trying to control him in some way, rather than a more graceful way of Doing it would say like, may I, May I ask. May I ask a question? Or may I, May I share something with you? May I share a problem that I'm having with you? May I share a feeling that I'm having with you? These are much more feminine ways of communicating. So watch out for that word, please, because sometimes it can be used too much to try to get an outcome and to try to lead. That's the thing. It's mostly the energetics behind it because yes, it, by itself, it can be a good word, but watch the energetics behind it because it could easily turn into coaxing and trying to lead. So. And snooze and said the same thing. Please is a good word. Yes, please is a good word. Just watch the energy behind it because it can. It can be. Yeah, you got to be careful in that way. Just from the sense of, just from energetics, you know, there's nothing wrong. You can communicate with men however you want. It's just if you're finding that men are consistently not being inspired around you, they're not committing, they're not reaching out to you regularly, they're not excited to spend time with you, they're not excited to communicate with you. It could be because there may be some of these deadly seas in your language that's actually subtly trying to control a man and, and causing them to either submit and feel bad, fight you, or pull away. Those are the three, three responses. A man will generally have to fem to masculine communication. So just to be aware of, if you're not getting the results you want that we're trying to start to look at what could be some better ways to. Some things that you can avoid to start getting better results. So let's keep looking here. I'm going to answer a couple more here. How do you know if it's because he feels he can't provide? My husband has shut off. So if a man feels like he can't provide. So ultimately, what I'll say here is a man needs to feel like he's needed and valued in a relationship for him to be happy. So men don't feel happiness the same way that women do. Women will feel happiness from being taken care of by feeling loved, by feeling cherished, by feeling adored. Men typically will feel happiness from feeling like they're respected, that they're admired, that they have a purpose, that they have a meaning for their life and a meaning for the relationship, that they can be of value and that they can serve. That's generally how men will feel A sense of happiness, if you would call it that. So if a man feels like he can't provide for you, then he's not going to feel great about that. And it doesn't mean he's a good man. It just means that that's, that may be the case. He's not capable, he hasn't learned enough, he hasn't become competent enough to really provide for you, you know, emotionally, mentally, financially, spiritually, in different ways in the relationship, that he feels like he's, he's just not able to do it and that he may feel bad and he, that will probably cause him to shut off and he'll leave now if he is actually able to provide. You have to look for the ways that he, he can provide for you, that you can acknowledge so that you can make him see that, that he is able to provide. If, you know, if you really care about this man and you want it to work, look for all the ways that you, you do appreciate him, that you do love him, that you do feel like he is providing value for you. And let him know verbally, with your words, with your body, your body language is very important. Just like being appreciative, giving him a hug, kissing those things as well, that can encourage him to feel like he does have a purpose, that he is a strong man for you, that he is able to be your provider, protector, hero. And he'll feel great about that and he'll feel like, okay, great. I feel like I have a purpose now. I can be in this relationship. I feel like I can win and he's going to feel good and so look for those things. And hopefully he, he will be inspired by that. And if he doesn't, still, you could also share your feelings vulnerably and say, like, I feel sad. Why do you feel sad? Because in the relationship I feel like you feel like I'm telling myself a story that you feel that you can't provide and it's making you feel bad and that's why you're pulling away from the relationship. And I don't know what to do. And then let him respond to that and see how he wants to step up and how he can want to make it better or not. So feminine communication will help you regardless of if he can actually provide or cannot provide. It'll help inspire him to do better and to want to do better from his inspiration. Hope that helps. Katie. Diane says, I have an issue with abiding by these deadly eight Cs. Yeah, you know, if you've been Operating from your masculine. Primarily in the past with men, it's going to be very hard and it's going to be scary actually to want to shift into feminine communication. Because. Because it's going to feel like, oh my gosh, I'm going to lose control. I won't be able to control the relationship. Because often what happens with anxious attachment styles and people who have had trauma or bad experience in the past is it gets. It feels scary to be vulnerable, right? It can feel scary to be vulnerable. So what happens is instead of being vulnerable and open and in your feminine, you'll close off and you'll start to try to control a man. I'm going to just try to control the relationship. I'm going to grab this steering wheel. I'm going to try to take charge and lead him and lead the relationship. Relationship. And I'm going to give to him. And I'm going to be the superior one and I'm going to be the strong one. And what will happen if you even attract a man to be in a relationship is you're going to attract an emasculated man, most likely a man who is more submissive, and he'll follow your leadership and it may not feel as bad to him as a more masculine man. So he'll be okay with it for a while, maybe for a long time. Ultimately, you're probably not going to be satisfied in the relationship because you're not going to. You're always going to have to be the leader then, and you're going to have to take charge. And it's going to feel really scary to be vulnerable. And so you're going to be often doing these deadly seas. You're going to be commanding him, you're going to be controlling him, you're going to be coercing him, you're going to be coaxing him, you're going to be trying to counsel him and some of the others. So it's going to feel. It's going to take courage. What I'm saying here is it's going to take courage to be able to shift. And that's why you have issues with it likely is because it feels scary. And especially if you've been operating through mask in the past, it's going to feel like you're speaking a new language, you're learning a new way of being with a man. It's foreign territory. And that's okay because that means you're growing. That means you're learning something new and you can have completely new results in your Life and in your romantic life. And you can attract a masculine man who wants to be your protector, provider, hero, and make you happy in all the ways that you want to be happy and be the best man, lover, husband he could possibly be for you and create a great life for you both together. But it's going to take a new way of operating from your feminine to be able to attract that kind of behavior and for a man to consistently want to do that. And so that's why it'll feel scary. And you know, it is what it is. You might have to make a choice of, of what you want in your life. You know, if you're okay with operating from that masculine way of being and attracting the kind of men and relationships perhaps you've had in the past, if you're okay with that, then continue. And if you want something different, then you may have to face the fears and you may have to, to bring up the courage within to start to practice being vulnerable and feminine and open and communicating in a feminine, vulnerable, open way. It's going to be a new way of being, which we'll teach you and will gladly help you with to get there so you can be one of our success stories, have a happy marriage, have a happy life, and all the things you've ever wanted in a relationship. But it is going to take facing some of those fears and being willing to try something new and take a leap of faith, and then you'll be encouraged as you start to see things develop from there. But it does take those initial leaps. Okay, a couple more questions here. Let's see. Brooke said. So me helping my man find a job is masculine or helping to set up interviews through my connections, even if it benefits both of us. How? Yes, Brooke, unfortunately, yes, it is very masculine. It's masculine energy, helping, giving, providing, protecting, being the hero. Those are masculine energies. And when you're giving to him and when you're helping him in this way, again, he has to be in the submissive role now. He has to receive your help. He is, he's probably willing to receive it. He's probably gladly receiving it. And most guys will actually, especially more emasculated, more feminine guys, they'll gladly receive you giving to them and helping them with all the things, scheduling their doctor appointments, buying the groceries, washing the car, you know, planning the future, planning social events, taking care of taxes, taking care of the finances, doing all the things. So if you take it to the extreme of what you're, you're saying here, you take it to its logical Conclusion that is what it looks like is you basically doing everything in the relationship. You being the provider, you're providing for him right now. You're giving to him, you're helping him, you're counseling him, you're coaching him. You're in the masculine teacher, provider, leader role with him, which is fine because it may be in that season that he needs a little extra help. It's fine that you want to help him. And however, if you continue on that path, what will happen is you'll destroy the polarity. The polarity will go away because we have so many women come to us every day. And we hear so many stories of women who, you know, have this story. This is a common one we hear about in college, right? A man is going to college, he's going through university. And so in university you have to focus on your studies. And so there's been a couple of relationships that have came to us where this was the case where a woman was being the provider while the man was studying in school, right? Which would seem like a fair exchange. Like, I'm going to just pay the bills for now while he's learning. And then, you know, after he's out, he's going to make more money or he's going to make money, and then we're going to live happily ever after. But then typically what ends up happening is during that phase where you're the provider, where you're providing for him financially and he's a student, the polarity is reversed in a lot of instances. And the attraction goes away. And the man, as soon as he's. Either he waits until he's out or even sometimes during the situation, he. He has no more love or attraction or commitment in the relationship, and he start. He finds another woman or he finds a more feminine situation. And the problem was from the beginning, the way it was set up is the roles were reversed. And especially if the woman led to that situation and made it her suggestion and was doing those things for him voluntarily and giving to him the masculine role. The masculine is giving, the feminine is receiving, just like in sex, just like in a dance, then the polarity goes away, the attraction goes away, and the. And the relationships typically end, and they don't usually end well. And so it's a really unfortunate situation because you may think you have good intentions, I just want to help him. But however what you're doing is you're destroying the polarity and you're putting him into a submissive position in the relationship, and you're the powerful superior Provider, protector, leader in the relationship. And now if he's an emasculated man, he may be okay with that for a while, or if he's a feminine man, he may be okay with him for a while. But eventually the polarity goes away. You're going to feel resentful because you're like, I'm giving so much, I'm helping you so much, and the least you can do is text me back every day. Or the least you can do is marry me. The least you can do is give me some attention. So there'll be subtle ways you'll start to resent him and it causes this downward spiral. It's a really good topic. Actually. I should do more videos about that because I love when women can see this inspiration, this, this awareness. Because this happens so many times in our groups. They, they get this awareness. They see all the ways that they were actually in their masculine, which oftentimes, that's the big shocker is that, wow, giving to a man is masculine. Like, I give so much in a relationship. I do the laundry, I do this, I help him with this, I help him with that. And they then they understand why their. All their past relationships didn't work out. And the beautiful thing is as soon as they shift it, the men start to treat them differently and the men start to be more attracted to them and the men start to take on that role. Because all it takes with the law of polarity is one person has to be more feminine than the other. So if he's already a feminine man, you have to just simply stop taking the masculine role and doing those masculine things for him and leading him. Instead, you become more feminine than he is and you use feminine, magnetic feminine polarity, magnetic feminine communication like we teach in our coaching groups and here. And if he. And that will often be the thing that will inspire him to then step up into his masculine. And he's like, I can take care of it. I can figure this out on my own. And I want to figure it out. And what can I help you with? And what else? How else can I be of service in the relationship? And how else can I can I be a better man for you? And he'll want to provide, he'll want to step up, he'll want to be in his masculine. He'll want the lead, plan out dates, plan out the future, commit to you, get married, have a family, whatever those things are that you want in the relationship. He's going to now feel excited to provide because he's feeling a purpose in the relationship now he's feeling like his masculine core is being activated in ways that he didn't know was possible. Not because you've told him to do that, but because you've inspired him to do that. Because you're in your feminine. In a relationship, just like in a dance, you can only have one person leading, one person following at any time or like driving a car. And so as soon as you stop doing that, somebody has to do it or nothing's going to happen. If nobody's driving the car, the car's going to crash. So somebody has to drive the car. And so he's going to take the steering wheel, likely, and he's going to start driving the relationship forward and providing and protecting and pursuing you in ways that would probably shock you. But you have to be willing to shift that in order to experience what's on the other side, which is a man now wanting to be your hero and wanting to do all those things for you and help you with things rather than you helping them. And of course, there could be exchanges and different times where you can give and especially if he asks you for help with something and he kind of leads you to help him, you can, of course, have that equal exchange in a relationship. This doesn't. We're just sometimes use extreme examples. So you can get the idea, of course there can be exchanges in relationship, but it'll start shifting the more you practice being in your feminine to where he'll primarily be the leader in the relationship, the provider, the protector, the hero. And you get to receive, relax, enjoy, and share your feelings as they come up and be taking on this amazing ride. That's just this beautiful relationship. And yeah, so it's really also, at the end of the day, it's kind of a choice of which kind of relationship do you want and which one is also going to cause you both to be the most attracted to each other and the most passionate and have the most love in the relationship and devotion. Okay, that was a great question, Brooke. Thanks for answering. Thanks for asking that. Let's see. It's a good question. This question says, my man told me that I'm a perfect person for him and it is hard to find a woman like me. And until now, I don't know what does he mean? What does that mean? That what he said? Because I am looking. I was looking for his actions. Yeah, we kind of covered this already. You know, look to a man's actions versus the words. It does. It doesn't matter if he says you're the perfect woman. You're everything a man would want. You're incredible. But if he's not backing that up with actions, it doesn't really matter. So feminine polarity, feminine communication will shift that for you. Again, take our free quiz, feminine polarity.com if you haven't, that'll really help you to get a better sense of some of these things that we're talking about here and actually get some support with it potentially as well. This is so useful in a manipulation way, but not natural or true. I don't know which part you were talking about specifically, but what I'm teaching here with feminine communication and feminine polarity, it's actually the opposite of manipulation. It's the opposite of playing games. It's actually being your most authentic self, opening your heart and sharing vulnerably how you feel with a man, rather than keeping your heart closed and instead trying to subtly try to send certain messages, do certain things to try to get him to do what you want him to do. All you really have to do to operate from your feminine is just be. The feminine is being. The masculine is doing so. By just being and sharing your feelings with a man, you inspire, you allow him to connect with your heart, to feel your heart, and that inspires him, if he's a good man, to want to take care of your heart and to actually make you happy. And of course, there's bad. That's why I said good men, because there are some bad men out there that are emotionally damaged, mentally damaged, they're sociopaths, they're narcissists, they're broken in some way. Those men, even if you're the most perfect feminine woman in the world, best feminine communicator, those men are not going to be able to give you what you want. They're just not capable of it. So there are a certain percentage of those men, maybe 10, 15% of the population. I don't know. We would have to try to do a nationwide study to figure that out because there's so many different characteristics that can go into being a bad man. It generally boils down to he's broken or damaged in some way and he's not able to be in his healthy masculine. But you'll inspire often a lot of those men, even the bad ones, will often be inspired to change and to want to become better. Now you have to protect yourself and be willing to walk away at any moment. If you feel unsafe or if you feel like it's not a good situation, you have to be willing to walk away ultimately. But it's definitely the opposite of manipulation. Because as soon as you start manipulating a man that's masculine, that's actually trying to control him, so it's actually the least manipulative thing you can do is to simply just be and to share authentically and openly and vulnerably. That's the least manipulative thing you can do. And that's why it's so effective with men, because they can feel your authentic heart. How to make a relationship work with having an argument. We argue every day how to make it work. Polarity. Usually the arguments in a relationship is because there's not enough polarity. Either both people are trying to be in their masculine energy, or both are trying to be in their feminine energy. And nobody wants to take the leadership role. So because the polarity is off, you're arguing all the time. Because there's. There's no real. Like. Like I said, if they're. You're arguing all the time because both of you are trying to lead. Just like in a dance. Use that analogy. You're trying to dance together, but one person's trying to lead and the other person's saying, I want to lead too. I want to lead too. I want to lead. Let's go this way. Let's do this. Why aren't you doing this? Why don't you do it this way? And so that causes this argument, right? Or both people are being in their feminine and waiting for the other person to lead. And like, why aren't you doing anything? Well, why don't you do anything? Well, why don't you take the lead? Well, why don't you handle the bills? Well, why don't you fix it? Well, why don't you make more money? Or why don't you make more money? So that causes a lot of issues as well. But when there's a healthy polarity where there's a beautiful dance happening, where the man is in his masculine energy leading and providing and protecting for your pleasure and for his pleasure, and you're being able to receive and relax and enjoy and share your feelings and be open and vulnerable and appreciate him for when he's dancing well, then you have healthy polarity and the relationship just works. It's much healthier. It doesn't mean you're never going to have arguments. Of course, disagreements can come up. And even just things about, you know, where should. What kind of car should we buy? You might have different opinions on that. So disagreements can still come up, but the big stuff is going to be Handled when you have the polarity handled and you have healthy polarity, which is going to also take doing some inner work and working on your own hang ups that you might have. Around receiving, around being seen, around being open, around being vulnerable, around sharing appreciation with a man, around appreciating men in general around femininity and seeing what you think about femininity, around vulnerability, what you think about vulnerability. Remember, vulnerability is not a weakness. Vulnerability is your greatest strength in a relationship. While leading from the feminine, while being in your feminine, vulnerability is your greatest strength. Vulnerability is your power. Because that is what connects people to you. This is what makes people cherish you. This is what makes people admire you. From the feminine, being vulnerable, open and available. And so it's going to take some courage to do that. And it's also going to take some mindset shifts to do that. So I hope that helps. Ashanti. Diane says it feels like women have to act submissive to these guys or else. So it's not really about submission. So yeah, it is. So submission is actually the idea here is like in a dance. So I want to go back to a dance. If you're in a dance, if you're enjoying the dance, then you want to dance. You want to follow a man's leadership in the dance, correct? You're following. You can call it following, you can call it submission, you can call it enjoying, relaxing, whatever you want, whatever words you want to put on it. But you're enjoying his leadership. You're enjoying him taking action, texting you, calling you, moving the relationship forward, planning out the dates, planning out your future, getting married, handling all the things, fixing things, all the things that would go involved into that are involved in him being in his healthy, masculine. And if he's not doing those things, if he's not leading you, well, it doesn't mean you just sit down and take it. It doesn't mean that you just, you know, let him walk over you because that would actually be the being the doormat. So we teach in our programs, there's actually three archetypes here. There's the doormat on one side, which is a woman who doesn't ever speak up. She lets a man do whatever he wants. She doesn't value herself a lot. She's probably pretty anxious, low self esteem. Men just walk over her, tell her what to do. They dominate her in an unhealthy way where she doesn't even enjoy it. She does what they tell him what, what he tells her to do. And she doesn't even enjoy it, but she does it anyways because she wants him to like her and to love her. And then we have, on the other side, we have what's called the technical term the. And the is a woman who speaks up gladly and is actually telling men what to do using a lot of the. The eight Cs that we're talking here, the eight deadly seas or the 16 deadly seas that are the full list. And she's bossy, she tells man what to do. She's operating in her masculine. And. Yeah. And leading in a lot of ways. But then we have in the middle, which is the queen. And the queen actually integrates the best of both of the. And the doormat. So she's able to speak up. She shares when she's unhappy, she shares when she has emotions that are. Or there's a problem in the relationship or there's something she doesn't like or she doesn't feel good about something, but she's doing it in a feminine way. She's sharing her emotions openly and vulnerably without trying to control him or lead him, which is what the does. She, she commands and controls and criticizes and leads the man. And so the man actually now with a queen, he feels her worth, he feels her value, and he feels her heart. And so now he respects her, but he's also highly attracted to her and he admires her. So it's very important to realize that you can. So that's the key, is that, yes, you want to be in your feminine. You're following a man's leadership, but it's for your pleasure. And as soon as it's not for your pleasure, as soon as you're not enjoying it, you need to speak up and you need to share your emotions vulnerably and you need to do it often. That's how you have a man also respect you so that he's not just walking over you and treating you like a doormat. So you have to share. You have to speak up and share your emotions just like you would do in a dance. At a dance. And ultimately you have to be willing to walk away as well if he's consistently not leading you well, if he's not showing care for your heart, you have to be willing to walk away and detach and move on because he's not capable. Either he's a broken man or he just has no care left for your heart. In that case, you do need to move on. Okay, we have a lot of questions here, and unfortunately we need to start wrapping this Up. I'm just going to skim through some of these last ones here. Right, let's see. Yeah, there's a lot of good questions here. I wish I could, I could go over all these. What is feminine communication? Is first date sex feminine? That's a great question. Is he going to make me feel like I have a purpose too? Great question. If you have a. You have a list of the 8Cs. Yeah. So we have actually the full. We go in depth with the. There's actually 16 Cs and we teach that in our feminine polarity courses that we have our coaching group. So again also we teach some of this in our feminine polarity quiz. So again, if you haven't yet take our feminine polarity quiz by going to feminine polarity.com or you can click on the link probably below this training there will be one or in our bio to get that free quiz. Highly recommend it. Tina said I like to be submissive. Is that wrong? I love to be submissive to my own. He is the most amazing hard working man ever. I've never been with such an amazing man before. Yeah. So when you find the right man, you will happily submit or happily follow his leadership. So it's more like you're in the dance. Remember you're in the dance, you're receiving. I like. That's a great way to see. It is as it is the feminine receiving. Just like in sex. That's the visceral metaphor. Right. You're receiving, you're enjoying and that's the ideal. You have a happy, healthy relationship where he's able to give to you his gifts and you're able to receive and share your gifts which would be your openness, your vulnerability, your heart. And you have this beautiful dynamic where it's a fully polarized relationship where the attraction is through the roof, your chemistry for each other is through the roof. And you're both happy because you're both living from your, your essence, your natural core, your feminine core or him from his masculine core. So yeah, it's very beautiful. No games. Be authentic. Thank you. It's the greatest truth. Yes, totally being authentic in the right way. Some people will also use their authenticity as a weapon and say like I feel sad. Do something about it. Fix it. Really. It's being vulnerable. This I feel sad. It's a beautiful emotion. It's a beautiful way to steer your heart. A man can feel you without trying to make him do something from that. So it's a very subtle shift here. Yes. Someone said faith over fear. Yes. Exactly. Takes courage. It takes courage to be vulnerable and it takes courage to also operate from your core and from your femininity. The more you do it, the easier it will get. So continue on this beautiful journey and it was so great to help everyone here tonight and to answer some questions go through the the eight Deadly Seas. And I look forward to helping you moving forward with this. And again, if you haven't yet, highly recommend taking our free feminine polarity quiz to get a loving, long term and committed relationship with the man that you crave and desire which you'll be able to get right after this come ending the training. You'll be able to get it under the video. We'll put the link and also in our bio or you can go to femininepolarity.com we also have some coaching groups. One is very affordable. We'd love to help coach you in actually mastering this in your life and answering your questions regularly like I did here around it because we also would be very valuable to practice this and we, I also do bring women on through zoom and actually we coach and we practice around these things so you can get exactly what you want with a specific man and communicate in a way where he's inspired to give it to you. And you can operate from your feminine and enjoy and be able to relax and have fun and be all that you all the radiant colors that are you in the relationship where you're not having to hold anything back or walk on eggshells but you can actually be fully open and natural and enjoying and he'll be loving it and inspired and taking the lead and wanting to be your protector provider hero that we talk so much about so you can have an incredible lifelong enjoyable relationship with a man that you're crazy about. So much love. Hope this was helpful and I'll talk to you again very soon. Take care. Bye bye.
