A man explains why respect and admiration matter more to men than sex. He contrasts what masculine and feminine energy need to stay attracted: he wants to feel valued and respected, she wants to feel cherished. The practical move is to stop controlling him and start telling him you admire him.
Men secretly long for this way more than sex, respect and admiration. Women desire to be loved. Men desire to be respected. Feminine energy is about being cherished, being adored. Masculine energy is about being respected, being admired, and having a sense of value that he's bringing to the relationship. That's one big way how men and women are wired differently. And the beauty of this is because we're wired differently in this sense, we create polarity. Polarity is what creates attraction, chemistry, love, devotion in a relationship, long term, it's those differences in energy opposite energies attract. That's what the law of polarity states. So if you can bring in more of this feminine energy, more of this feminine juice to the relationship, the masculine energy is activated within your man, which will draw him closer to you. How do you do this? By respecting and admiring him. And once you find those things that you respect and admire about him, you can one actually just show him that respect through your actions by not telling him what to do, not treating him like a little child, not trying to lead him, manipulate him, control him or change him, etc. The other thing you could do is actually tell him about those things that you respect about him and the things that you admire about him. Let him know, like, babe, I just respect so much how great of a leader you are for our family and the decisions that you make for us.
